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Barbara Perez
November 3, 2008
Carlos, not a day goes by without thinking of you. I miss you so much. I know we will see each other again one day. Save a spot for me at Heaven's dinner table so we can celebrate Thanksgiving again. I love you.
Barbie
Sara Rosado
June 1, 2008
Reading all the expressions of remembrance by others made me think that few people evoke so many genuine feelings of sympathy with their passing. Carlos deserves every beautiful word written about him. We miss you Carlos. We miss your humor.. your wisdom.. your professionalism. All of us who worked alongside with you for so many years feel the pain of losing a great friend much too soon. I share your strong faith knowing that you have "gone home" to be received by our Lord. My deepest sympathies to Joe, your mother, sisters, and to all who grieve this loss. Rest in peace Carlos.

Carlos loved doggies
May 19, 2008

Ahhhh....it's nice to relax
May 19, 2008

Joe & Carlos - 40th b-day
May 19, 2008

bottom's up!
May 19, 2008

this is how you do it
May 19, 2008

hula time
May 19, 2008
Linda Leong
March 30, 2008
Joe,
Words cannot express how I feel. Carlos was such a wonderful person. He will be missed by all. You my friend have truly shown everyone what love is all about. I am sure Carlos is looking down from heaven with a smile on his face and is blessing you. You have so many wonderful memories to hold close to your heart. With much love...
Art DeLaurier
March 30, 2008
Carlos,
Although almost 30 years have passed since I last saw you, I have never forgotten you, my childhood friend, or your wonderful family--your mom and dad, your sisters Maria and Martica, and yes, even Abuelo and Abuela. Oh, the times we shared growing up together in Hialeah!
You were two years older than my brother Bobby and I, and light-years ahead of us in grace and sophistication. And yet you befriended us, a couple of ragamuffin gringos, and taught us a little something about Cuban culture and the importance the small good things in life.
I remember what a fine dancer you were, doing the Hustle and the Spanish Hustle with your sisters on the tile floor of your living room; how Bobby and I envied your smooth moves and admired the bevvy of beautiful girlfriends you paled around with as you got older.
We taught you several profane expressions in English, and you taught us a few in Spanish; the funny thing is, I can still cuss like a Cuban sailor but can hardly recall the more proper expressions we learned in Spanish class. Such is the nature, I suppose, of young boys--how the most important, the most colorful things stick to them like pollen on the legs of bees.
I remember your love of everything Elvis back then--his moves, his movies, and his music. We wore the grooves off Elvis records at your house, and watched all the reruns of his movies on your console TV. Ditto with James Bond, Star Trek, and I Love Lucy. And then there were all the movies we watched together--Jaws, Animal House, and Holloween being three that stand out most.
We got into mischief, too, like the time you helped us convince my mom that the movie Flesh Gordon was the Big Screen equivalent of the old 1950s TV show Flash Gordon that she grew up watching. She didn't understand why the newer version was rated R, until the bawdiness of it filled the screen and she marched us out of the theatre before we even had the chance to finish our buttered popcorn.
I can't tell you how saddened I am to stumble upon your obituary in the Miami Herald. I will always remember your smile, your kindness, and your wonderful sense of humor. I never had a better childhood friend, except for my brother Bobby, who also passed away far too soon, almost nine years ago.
If you see him in heaven, I'm sure you'll pick up where you left off so many years ago. Tell him we miss him, as we do you, old friend.
My heartfelt condolences to your partner, Joe, and to your mom and sisters.
Bojana Bhardwaj
March 28, 2008
Dear Joe, I was very sorry to hear of your loss. Carlos was the nicest and most loving person I have ever known. Heaven is a better place for Carlos. My deepest condolences to you and Carlos's family.
March 27, 2008
Joe I just want to take this time to let you know. I could only imagine your pain but I am praying for the comfort you need at this time in your life. May Gods riches blessings continue to fall on you and as time goes on may the pain get lighter. Gods word says "Cast your cares on me for my yolk is easy and my burden is light". That also mean your hurt and pain. Remember you are loved. Cheryl Russell (Bellsouth)
Dave and Anabelle Satterfield
March 26, 2008
You could not find a warmer, nicer person than Carlos. We missed him when we left Miami, and loved hearing his voice when we called back east for some bit of information. He was a very good man.

Carlos, Ranger Laurie and Joe exploring the Everglades at Shark Valley
March 25, 2008

Carlos, Joe, Laurent and Laurie
March 25, 2008

Carlos, Joe, Laurent and Jeanne
March 25, 2008

Joe and Carlos at one of our many brunches
March 25, 2008

Mieryl Epps and Carlos
March 25, 2008

What did Carlos wish for?
March 25, 2008

I am surprised!! Carlos and his mom at his surprise 40th B-Day party
March 25, 2008

Rolando and Carlos
March 25, 2008

What a ham!
March 25, 2008

Loved to sing praises
March 25, 2008

Carlos sure could make some funny faces
March 25, 2008
marline alfonso
March 24, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with your family ,mr.mielgo is now at a better place close to our lord and from there he will be seeing that everyones prayers go out to him am his family he will be missed.
Brian Allen
March 24, 2008
Joe, our thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you and your family.
Paige Riveron
March 24, 2008
Joe and the Mielgo Family: I am visiting family in Miami this week and was saddened to see Carlos' obituary. Carlos touched many people in so many different ways. He will truly be remembered by many! My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Esther Gomez
March 23, 2008
Our sympathys are with u at this time, keep the faith.
Yoleise Salomon
March 22, 2008
Joe, my Brother so sorry. Carlos will be in our memory with to much love. You and he will be in our prayed Carlitos Ibá é layén t'orún
Josephine Martinez
March 21, 2008
To Mari,
My sincerest heartfelt condolence to you and your family.
"Perhaps they are not stars in the sky, but rather openings where our loved ones shine down to let us know they are happy".
Chin up kid.
Greg & Ken
March 20, 2008
Joe, our deepest sympathies for your loss. We will always remember Carlos for his wonderful sense of humor and spirit.
Joyce & Barbara Schweitzer-Sussman
March 20, 2008
Carlos was our dearest and closest friend along with Joe for the past 12 years. We have many fond memories of our times spent together which we will cherish forever. Carlos was one of a kind and the most generous and loving man we have ever met. He has been our inspiration for the last two years as we shared in his courageous battle. We loved bringing him his matzo soup and whitefish salad. He always said he was a Cuban Jew at heart. We will miss him and will love him forever. We will be taking care of Joe always.
Myrta & Felix Martinez
March 20, 2008
I was so sorry to hear about the sad news. Our prayers and sympathy goes out to Carlos Mielgo's family and friends.
Ralph Kanaan
March 20, 2008
Joe,
I am so sorry for your loss. I will never forget Carlos. He was such a Loving and Caring Human Being.
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends. I am very sorry that I did not see him during his final days. I hope to see you soon Joe.
Love,
M Ponder
March 20, 2008
You have touched many lives. My prayers are with you and your family.
Ponder

Ernie & Cris
Ernest Sanchez & Cristobal Wainwright
March 19, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Ernie & Cris
Ernest Sanchez & Cristobal Wainwright
March 19, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life’s routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Angela Arista
March 19, 2008
Carlos,
Now that you are in Heaven, Heaven will be a better place. I will always remember the energy that your presence left. After any encounter with you one just felt good. Even if you were upset. I don’t know, but you just had that great way of getting upset that made people feel energized to find a solution.
The words that keep ringing in my head when I think of you are "Oye corazón". I use to love all your budget variance explanations. They were very colorfull. You were so passionate about everything that you did and always expected perfection. This type A personality of yours inspired all those who worked with you to be a better person. Carlos, since you got sick, I've been very impressed with your prater Joe and have thought to myself just how lucky you were to have such caring person by your side but the truth is that you were both lucky to have each other. Under the same circumstances you would have done the same thing for him. I send you all my love and best wishes in your new journey! You will always be remembered and missed!
Lou Cabrera
March 19, 2008
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.
John Haggerty
March 19, 2008
My sympathies and prayers are offered up for you and your family.
Patricia Andrews
March 19, 2008
Joe, Carlos was such a wonderful friend, firm when we screwed up our expenses, but very understanding even then. He was a joy to see in the newsroom. My memories will be his big smile, a pat on the back as he passed by, a hug, and always, always a quick but sincere "how are you doing?" Those are the times I will cherish.
Carlos and Ileana Orta
March 19, 2008
Carlito we will never forget your special smile and spirit for life and the blessing of having you as a friend.
Risa McGrew
March 18, 2008
Joe, Carlos was so truly special. He was always willing to give his two cents in a loving yet practical way. We are so much better having known him. My heart goes out to you and wish you strength in the days and months ahead.
T'Shai Bey
March 18, 2008
Joe, Carlos was blessed to have such a caring, compassionate and loving partner. You are one of the finest men that I know...much love
Ileana Holman
March 18, 2008
Joe, my thoughts and prayers are with you. Carlos was an incredible man, a friend to everyone he came in contact with. He will be missed and always remembered.
Richard Pachter
March 18, 2008
Carlos was a kind man and a beautiful spirit. It was a pleasure to know him.
Korin Taddei
March 18, 2008
There are not many like Carlos in this world, who wake up with sunshine, even when it's cloudy outside! His constant enthusiasm was such a wonderful trait and I admired him so much for that. May we all look for the "positive" in his honor.
God has called for him, and the physical pain is gone.
Joe, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the Mielgo family.
March 18, 2008
Joe,
My prayers are with you and Carlos's family. Love, Carmen Casado.
Orlando Aloma
March 18, 2008
Carlos was really nice to work with. After I retired early from The Herald in 2004, I faced a glitch with my medical benefits transition and I asked him for help. The glitch was fixed quickly. Thank you again, Carlos.
Daisy McCoy
March 18, 2008
Carlos you will truly be missed RIP.
Thank you for being who you were a truly special person.
Laurie Humphrey and Jeanne Adler
March 18, 2008
We will always remember Carlos for his beautiful personalilty. His friendship meant a lot to us and he will be forever in our hearts.
Joe and Carlos' family, you are in our prayers during this time of sorrow. Time will heal your heart with the wonderful memories that you hold dear.
We love you.
Joyce Walker
March 18, 2008
Joe,
With deepest sympathy my thoughts and prayers are with you. We are going to remember Carlos as a fun loving person with a great personality. We know that he is in a better place now no more suffering. If there is anything that you need please do not hesitate to contact me
Love always
Joyce
Kathleen Barry
March 18, 2008
My heart and prayers are with you Joe, the Mielgo family and friends. I enjoyed working with Carlos while at Knight Ridder and know that he is watching over all from above.
Toni Torok
March 18, 2008
Joe,
I find it hard to say what I feel. I know that no words can truely express the love that we all have for you both. Just remember That our memories connect Heaven and earth... They keeps our dear ones near us, through the love we feel and share. I know that both you are Carlos are loved by many and are remembered greatly. I love you both.
Toni
Blanca Elena Delgado
March 18, 2008
Maria Elena and family, my deepest sympathy on the passing of you beloved brother Carlos.
Carolee Carter
March 17, 2008
Carlos – I can’t believe you’re gone. Your courage and upbeat humor through this whole traumatic experience has been so inspirational to all of us who have witnessed your pain and suffering. Joe, your steadfast support has been a remarkable testament of your love. No one could have been more dedicated than you have been. To both of your families, Clive and I send our heartfelt sympathy. Though your suffering on earth has ended, Carlos, the mark you have left in this world will not soon be forgotten. Your humor, compassion and joie de vivre with that effervescent smile will be remembered by all who were fortunate enough to know you. Rest peacefully, my friend.
Sharyn Zimmerman
March 17, 2008
Deepest sympathies on the loss of such a happy force in everyone's lives. I don't ever remember seeing Carlos without a smile on his face. His friendship at Knight Ridder made it a great place to work.
Candy lucente
March 17, 2008
I only met Carlos a few times but he made you feel like he had known you forever.I can honestly say I have never met a more high spirited positive person before and probably never will again.Our loss is heavens gain.
Becky Tuell
March 17, 2008
My life was enriched being friends with Carlos. Great memories will see you thru the loss of Carlos.
Joanne Onuschak
March 17, 2008
Dear Joe, Although we have never met in person I feel so very close to you. You were one of the best caregivers I have known. Carlos was truly blessed to have you in his life. Thank you for allowing me to share this time with you.
Joanne (your Aetna nurse)
Lori Durham
March 17, 2008
My sympathy to Carlos' family, Joe and his beloved Brandy--his dog. Carlos was a great co-worker, friend, and storyteller. He had some great stories. Those that knew him know what I mean!!!! Heaven is a better place to have him.
Amy Deen
March 17, 2008
Carlos was truly one in a million, I'll never forget his kind words and sympathetic ear whenever it was needed. I'll miss you my friend!
Linda Chambers
March 17, 2008
Carlos was such a happy person full of life and a true inspiration. I am really blessed to have worked with Carlos. My heart goes out with deepest sympathy to Joe, the Mielgo Family, close Friends and to all who were fortunate enough to know him. Stay strong in prayer, Carlos is now and Angel watching over us all.
CALIXTO RODRIGUEZ
March 17, 2008
TO MY GODFATHER. THANKS TO BE LIKE A MEMBER OF OUR FAMILY IN THE WORST AND BEST TIME.
JOE, MARTA, MARTICA, MARY AND FAMILY OUR HEARTS THOUGHTS ARE WITH YOU.
OUR SPECIAL CONDOLENCE TO MY BROTHER JOE TO BE HAD PRESENT WITH CARLOS ALL THE TIME.
Teresa Randolph
March 17, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the family and many friends of Carlos Mielgo. I worked with Carlos at Knight Ridder and found him to be one of the nicest, kindest persons I have ever met. I fondly remember his bright smile, positive attitude and encouraging words. Carlos definitely made this world a better place.
Gilnella Hester
March 17, 2008
To Joe and Carlors family you have my deepest sympathy and my prayer. God have call anothe Angel home.
Bob Diamond
March 17, 2008
Carlos,
God must have looked at all the joy and happiness you brought others throughout your much too short life and knew he needed you by his side to help with his work. You are one of the finest men I have met in my life. Much, much more than my boss, you always listened when I needed you to. You stood up for our department when any of our folks were disrespected or bullied and you were always fair. Your door was always open. I pray we can work together again. May you be at peace eternally. I will cherish our short time together for the rest of my life.
Idy Fernandez
March 17, 2008
As a freelancer, you're at the bottom of the totem pole in the newsroom, but to Carlos there were no corporate levels. To him we were all equally important and if we needed him, he was there. Though I'm not at the Downtown mothership anymore, his laugh, smile and vibrant personality are some of my fondest memories of the place. To Joe and Carlos' family, my prayers are with you and I am so very sorry for your loss. However, Heaven has definitely gained an amazing angel.
Fiorella Sarmiento
March 17, 2008
Carlitos was just this extraordinary human being who would befriend anyone he met, no matter his or her station. We were his little family, especially us girls who work in the admin. department. On occasions, he would take us to lunch to celebrate our birthday or because we did such a great job. We would talk about everything. He loved to give us advise on matters of the heart, but more so, talking about Joe and how they met. He said he knew right away Joe was his soul mate... Yes, Carlitos, I too believe you have “been the luckiest man in the world”. You have a wonderful family, friends who love you, a soul mate who adores you and have given back to us more than you can image, with just being you, our Carlitos.
Martha Sternberg
March 17, 2008
During my 3 years in the Herald newsroom not a day went by without a kind word and a smile from Carlos. I never once heard him say, "No, it can't be done." His kindness continues to have a vast effect on those who knew him. He personified love in the truest sense of the word.
Nancy San Martin
March 17, 2008
Dear Joe,
Words cannot express the sense of loss so many of us in the newsroom feel. Carlos helped keep us sane. His bright smile and witty character brought a special zest to our work environment. I think of him often and miss him dearly. His memory will remain alive for those of us who had the honor of knowing him.
Ahmad & Rosemary Begg
March 17, 2008
Marta, Mari, Marty, Joe, ever since we can remember Carlitos was always a wonderful and loving son, brother and friend. We only have fun memories of him. We will always remember him with joy. Our love and prayers are with all of you.
fernando De Guzman
March 17, 2008
My deepest sympathy wishes go to you, Joe. Whenever you feel sad try to remember all the good things that Carlos brought to your lives and let his spirit return to the Glory of God where he surely will embrace you whenever it is your time to join him.
Sincerely,
Fernando
Elaine Walker
March 17, 2008
Carlos was a one of a kind individual, always there to help anyone with a smile on his face. The newsroom has lost one of its greatest assets. We will always miss you. Our thoughts and prayers to Joe and the rest of your family.
Aida Rodriguez
March 17, 2008
Carlos was such a loving, special person. It was such a pleasure having worked with him at Knight-Ridder. He will be missed tremendously. May God bless him, Joe and their families.
Marta Barroso
March 17, 2008
God must of needed another angel by his side and so he called Carlos, our lost is his gain. We miss miss you very much, and may all the memories of you help comfort us in our great lost.
Lucy Miccio
March 17, 2008
My dear friend, I'll always remember our KR/Herald days with such joy and laughter! You were so strong. May you rest in peace. Joe, you are Carlos' angel here on earth! We are so sad for this tremendous loss. All our love and prayers go out to you and your family. Lucy & Ray Miccio
Phil Latzman
March 17, 2008
In tribute to the nicest guy in the newsroom. This place will never be the same without Carlos smiling
through a stressful day.
Barbara Gutierrez
March 17, 2008
Dear Carlos, You were like a brother to me. May God wait for you with wide open arms. We will remember you always. Cuidanos desde el cielo, mi rey.
Barbara Gutierrez
Mirian Novoa
March 17, 2008
Carlos, I loved visiting my mom at the office because it meant getting to see you. I will always remember your GREAT laugh and your love of sharing the latest chisme and shopping deals. You were so wonderful to my mom when I was sick and I know she will always remember that. You've been in my prayers for months now and I know that the good Lord has finally brought you home with Him to be in peace.
Joe and the rest of the Mielgo and Vazquez families, May you find comfort in knowing that he loved you all with every bit of his soul. He lit up the world around him like no other. My prayers are with you.
Lissette Elguezabal
March 16, 2008
Carlos, God blessed me with your friendship, and now with wonderful memories to treasure. I miss you. Joe, you are an angel in disguise. How lucky for both of you to have been blessed with eachother and shared such unconditional love. You are truly as special as Carlos always described you. My love and prayers are with you.
Marti Alvarez
March 16, 2008
Dear Joe:
I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved partner. Please know that my heart aches for you, his and your families. I am so very sorry.
You both have been on such a bittersweet journey filled with so much true love,loyalty, and dedication. I followed your story in the newspaper.
May God bless him and hold him in comfort and peace. May God bless you and help you so very kindly,gently on your grief journey until in God's time you are reunited in joy, free of infirmities and suffering.
This may not make any sense or bring any comfort right now, but although he is physically absent, he is spiritually present with you and will always be. You will see that it is true. You will know because he will let you know.
Feel free at any time in the future when and if you are ready or inspired to contact me. If not, it's ok. Anything you feel is ok. Don't let anyone tell you what you should and shouldn't feel.
God bless you my friend. I always cared and held you in very high regard and still do.
Marti Alvarez(from BellSouth,remember me?)
Barry Marder
March 16, 2008
Don't know this gentleman. Never met him. But after reading that story - he sounds like a great guy. A real winner with a terrific personality. The kind of person that people just like. Sorry for this loss to his friends and family.
Anthony Corsello
March 16, 2008
Carlos was such a beautiful person on many levels and a true inspiration. My heart goes out with deepest sympathy to Joe, the Mielgo Family, close Friends and to all who were fortunate enough to know him.
Marji Hendel
March 16, 2008
Dear Joe,
You are an angel that has shown such love. Carlos set an example for all of us to strive for. He will always be in our hearts.
Sharon Bello
March 16, 2008
Rest in peace my dear Carlos, you will always be in my heart. Joe, you are an angel. May the peace of the Lord be with you always.
Rey Dorta
March 16, 2008
He taught me the meaning of true courage everyday he lived and fought after his diagnosis. He was the luckiest man in the world, but we were the lucky ones that got to be part of his life. My family and I will truly miss you.
Dave Oliver
March 16, 2008
For Joe Vazquez, Family and Friends of Carlos Mielgo. I was greatly saddened to read in today's Herald about Carlos' passing. It was a pleasure to have worked with Carlos while he was with Knight Ridder. He was always very affable, helpful and professional. Carlos, you will always be fondly remembered. You have truly left your positive mark on South Florida.
Chris Novoa
March 16, 2008
Joe, my thoughts and prayers are with you and the rest of the Mielgo family in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort. It was an honor to be part of his life, be considered his friend. He trully was a great person.
Frenchie Robles
March 16, 2008
I will miss Carlos so much, and will always remember how many times he was so willing to help me through any problem. A true treasure.
Gene & Ramon
March 16, 2008
Joe,
Our sincere sorrow at your loss. Your love, respect, and care for each other has been a model for us.
Maria and Kurt Conrad
March 16, 2008
Marta, Marty, Mari and Joe, our hearts and prayers are with you. Carlos was not only a great son and brother he was a wonderful person who will be greatly missed.
Beverly Cech
March 16, 2008
My deepest sympathies to Joe and to the family at this time. Carlos is now that special person in a different place.
Randy Wiscombe
March 16, 2008
I have known Carlos and Joe for many years and remember when they met. Carlos was one of the kindest and finest persons I have ever known. He lit up not just a room but everyone in his presence. Joe, my deepest sympathy and my thoughts are with you at this time.
Liz Balmaseda
March 16, 2008
Dear Joe, I will always remember Carlos for his humanity, for the way he made us all feel like part of his family. My prayers are with you and all the Mielgo family. Much love.
Barbie
March 16, 2008
My beautiful cousin Carlos, I will miss you so much. I know one day we will see each other again. I thank God for giving me the privilege in being part of your life. To Joe, Marta, Maria, Martica, and Javier, we love you and we will stay by your side.
Alex Kolyer
March 16, 2008
Carlos was a true asset to everyone who knew him. A real heartful and caring person, he always treated everyone with respect and a general can-do attitude. He will continue to warm our hearts with our thoughts of him.
Maria Conrad
March 15, 2008
Marta, Marty,Mari, and Joe our hearts and thoughts are with you. I will always cherish the times Carlos made me laugh and the conversations we had during our many car pool days. He was not only a wonderful brother and son but also a great person who will be greatly missed. Our Deepest Sympathy, Kurt and Maria Elena
Penny McCrea
March 15, 2008
Carlos: Your bright and joyful spirit will be greatly missed. You were such a pleasure to know and work with.
Tim Johnson
March 15, 2008
Carlos was an utter joy to work with, a real bright light in the newsroom. It's been years since I've seen him and now am saddened by word of his passing.
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