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MON GOY, EUGENE (GENE), Gene Mon Goy, a native Miamian, passed away October 5, 2007, after lapsing into a coma caused by a heart attack on August 17, 2007. He was 83. Gene was born on August 20, 1924, the eldest son of Joe and Myrtle Mon Goy, Chinese immigrants from Hingong, China. The Mon Goys were one of the first Chinese American families to settle in Miami. Gene had the distinction of being the first Chinese baby born here. Gene was married to his beloved wife Mazie for 57 years. In addition to his wife, he is survived by his daughter Janet Powell and her husband Jim; his son Michael Mon Goy; and his son Steven Mon Goy and his wife Kristen. He also leaves three grandchildren -- Townshend Powell, and Hayley and Hannah Mon Goy -- as well as numerous nieces and nephews. Gene is also survived by his, sister Margaret Mason and her longtime companion Bernhard Lukoschek; his brother Christopher Mon Goy and his longtime companion Jacqueline DeBreau; and his sister Jessie Gee and her husband Tom. He was preceded in death by his sister Cella Wong. Gene attended Central Elementary School, Ada Merritt Junior High, and Miami Senior High School. At the age of 14, he attended school in China for two years, returning to Miami to complete high school. Gene served his country during World War II in the Army Air Corp., 14th Army Signal Corps in Kumming, China, maintaining aircraft flying supplies over the Himalayas. As a young man, Gene built free-flight powered model airplanes. He later became an avid fisherman, winning many fishing trophies and awards as one of the charter members of the Tropical Anglers Fishing Club. Following WWII he worked in the family grocery business at Joe's MG Market in Coconut Grove and later worked as a route salesman for Holsum Bakery in South Miami. Gene also owned and operated the Burger Castle on West Bird Road. After 13 years in the fast food business, he formed Quality Snaks Distributors, serving customers throughout Miami- Dade and Broward Counties. In 1999, at age 75, Gene finally retired and began devoting all of his time to his grandchildren, traveling with Mazie and his siblings, managing his investments, and researching and writing his family history. The family will receive visitors on Saturday, October 13, 2007 at Stanfill Funeral Home, 10545 South Dixie Highway, Miami, FL, from 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m.. A Celebration of Life service will be held at 2:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, the family requests any contributions be made to the Vitas Hospice Unit at Aventura Hospital, or a charity of your choice. Stanfill Funeral Home 10545 S Dixie (305)667-2518 Family Owned/Operated To visit this Guest Book Online, go to www.MiamiHerald.com/obituaries.

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Published by the Miami Herald from Oct. 6 to Oct. 12, 2007.

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Chris Wong

December 18, 2007

I only recently heard of Gene's passing though I knew he was ill. I will greatly miss him. He was a good man. My sympathies to those that adored him.

Tom Gee

October 31, 2007

Jess and I are extremely grateful that we had time to spend together this summer touring Texas as a family. I am also grateful of the labor devoted to redoing the railing of my deck. It is one that I will always remember. I recall one time that Gene, Johnny Lee and I went fishing in Galveston many years ago. We had no boat so we walked on the Galveston Jetty. I can remember Gene saying how we must love to fish since we work so hard in getting there and encountering such hardship. We fished for hours without any luck and Gene went to sleep on the Jetty rocks. Johnny and I fished without catching anything. Gene finally got up and started to fish again. He caught a 3 lb trout which was the only one caught all day. Johnny and I were amazed and figured it was time to go home. Gene got his nap in and caught the only fish all day long. I knew he was an excellent fisherman from that day on.

We will always have fond memories of Gene and his family. God had taken him from us but there remain many pleasant memories. Our sympathy to Mazie and the family.

Tom and Jessie Gee

Betty Raasch

October 29, 2007

Gene was the BEST Best Man Wally and I could have ever had. We enjoyed going on Gene & Mazie's honeymoon with them even though Mazie wasn't too happy....we all had a good time. I will always remember the good times we had together.

Kimberly Gaona

October 13, 2007

Dear Mazie, Janet, Michael, Steve and family: I am truly greatful for knowing a man of such honor, dignity and grace. Whose spirit was and is full of so much love for Mazie, his children and grandchildren. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this time. With love Kim

Barbara Lloyd

October 12, 2007

Dear Mazie,Janet. Steve, Michael, Kristen, Cuna and Bernhard.

I just want all of you to know I am thinking of you at this sad time. You were all so loving and caring towards your husband, father, brother and friend. Gene was such a great guy and always so
pleasant to be around for our family gatherings, as was mazie.and the reset of his family. If there is anything that I can do to help ease your pain at this time, please let me know. I am sure he knew that we were at the hospital with him. That is probably why he was so restless, he wanted to join us. But, he is in a much better place and at peace. He will be looking down on us for sure. Maybe he will see Chuck up there and they can talk fish stories. They can see which one will tell the tallest tale.
Love to you all,
Barb

Kai and Jackie Ohrstrom

October 12, 2007

To all of the MonGoy extended family,

You have all been, and remain, in our thoughts and prayers. Of course you know how fortunate you are to have had such a wonderful husband, father. grandfather, brother, "gentleman" in your lives. From the time we first met Gene and Mazie, we knew that they were "good folk". We are saddened that Gene is no longer physically with us, but each of us can carry his spirit in our hearts..and that is the gift that he leaves behind to all of his dear family and friends. He was what used to be referred to as "salt of the earth"...sadly, not easy to find anymore. He will be greatly missed.

Kathleen Collins/Viger

October 12, 2007

Remembering the man who took me out on his boat for fishing trips, and showed me my first hammerhead shark at 22 feet long. His home was always a safe haven for me growing up. I will never forget his constant grin, and genuine kindness.

From the skinny curly haired girl who lived across the street.

Love Kathy Collins-Viger

Richard Parcell

October 12, 2007

When I met Judy and joined the "Raasch" family, Gene was part of that family. In my life I have met a lot of people and I feel I was fortunate in meeting Gene because he was so special.

Judy (Raasch) Parcell

October 12, 2007

I've known Gene all my life and can remember Sunday night card parties at their house and Janet and I would play while the "big people" played cards. I remember the Holsum truck and the house down near town. We always considered Gene and Maxie part of the family. Gene will be missed. Perhaps Gene and Big Wally are up there fishing together again.

Janet Powell

October 12, 2007

Dad -- I guess I have to say something so as not to be outdone by Steven. Although we didn't always agree (read that: politics in the 60's and 70's), you finally came around to my way of thinking in your later years although you always said it was me who had mellowed and not you. Ha! I am sorry you won't get to see Hayley and Hannah grow up as you always said how much you wanted to see how they would turn out. (Don't worry: Hayley will be fine but we're going to have to keep a close eye on Hannah.) I'm grateful that you had 19 years with Townshend and that he'll always remember his Granddaddy, especially those Go card games. It won't be the same without you. Thanks for being such a great Dad, grandfather, father-in-law, brother, and husband. We will always miss you, but we will never forget you. I love you.

Lisa Hardison

October 11, 2007

It has been so very many years but I have never forgotten your family. We were all the best of friends as kids, playing outside till the streetlights came on. I can still picture perfectly your dad in the garage messing with his fishing rods and such and your grandmother doing her gardening. Those were the days. My dad called me to tell me the sad news. Kathy, Libby and I all send to your family our deepest sympathy for your loss.

Steve Mon Goy

October 11, 2007

Dad...fishing at sunrise on a glass smooth bay, fixing whatever needs fixing, driving vacations, these things I love because of you. I will miss those honest conversations and regret that Hayley and Hannah couldn't spend more time with you. Thank you for allowing me to find my own path in life and never judging me. You are a truely remarkable person and I will miss you greatly. The "Go" tournaments won't be the same without you. Your loving son.

Pat Smith

October 11, 2007

Dear MonGoy Family and Friends, I am so sorry to hear of Gene's passing, but, knowing him and if he couldn't be a whole person as he was, then it was time to go. I will miss the family gatherings at Steve and Kristens! Gene and I would talk about the world situation and how important family is and he was a dear, dear man. I love you, Gene and will miss you.

Kristen Mongoy

October 11, 2007

My father-in-law, Gene, Geno, Dandy, friend... I feel so fortunate to have had the time I spent with you. We had many good times in the past 13 years. Hayley and Hannah will miss their Dandy so very much. But they have so many great memories to carry them through the rest of their lives. Your legacy lives on in your children, grandchildren, and everyone whose life you touched. I will miss the quiet moments we would have when we talked about every topic under the sun. I will miss watching you with the girls and how your face would light up when you were around them. Steve has taken on all of your best qualities (and some not so good, LOL). He is a great father, teacher and person because of your influence. Good-bye for now Geno! And remember to pass us some deuces.

Kris Powell

October 10, 2007

Aunt Janet and family, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your entire family are in our prayers.
Kris and Phil Powell

Jackie DeBreau

October 10, 2007

My heart goes out to Gene's family and loved ones. You are all the kindest and most wonderful loving people I have ever known. With all of you, family comes first - as it should. I fondly remember the various trips taken in the last 19 years all over the world with Gene, Mazie, Chris, Cuna, Bernhardt, Cella, Jessie and Tom. Each trip was unforgetable and the times are greatly missed. Mazie, if there is anything at all that it is in my power to help you with, I will be there for you. Just let me know.

Keith & Kathy Ohrstrom

October 10, 2007

Our condolences go out to the entire family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Keith & Kathy Ohrstrom

Susan Gee

October 10, 2007

May beautiful memories give all of you strength at this difficult time.

Dear Aunt Cuna, Aunt Jessie and Mon goy Family. Just wanted you to know that we are thinking of you all. How wonderful that you guys were able to spend some time together this spring. Those memories will always be special. All eight of you crammed in a suburban, waltzing across texas. Remember the good times.
Love, Susie, Susan and Lou

Jim Powell

October 9, 2007

Gene was a man of many qualities.

But in the end he was a 'uniter' - in the truest form. He brought us all together in a gathering of sorrow and loving humor (funny jokes). He wouldn't have had it any other way.

Grammy, we love you and share in your grief. Thank you for being Gene's partner for so long and spreading the love.

Thanks to all family and friends everywhere for your thoughts, prayers and condolences. To those of you who were with him in the final days and hours, as you know, Gene's presence, as injurred as he was, brought us all close in a very special way. That would have made him very happy.

And a great big tip of the hat and a hug goes out to Mr. Bernhard Lukoschek for his exemplary behavior, loving care for Gene, sense of duty - and the pies. He is family.

Gene, you will be greatly missed, especially at the card table, except, maybe, by that person sitting to your left.

I love you, Gene. Farewell. You were the best father-in-law I ever had.

Jeff Williams

October 8, 2007

To the Mon Goy family,

I am so sorry for the passing of Mr. Mon Goy. He was truly one of the kindest and gentlest souls that ever graced the earth. Growing up with his youngest son Steve some of my most vivid memories are his love of his family and his friends. His front door was never locked and he always welcomed you into his home, day or night. He always took time to talk to you and had a genuine interest in what you were doing. I will always remember his sense of humor and his wry grin. He was a real gentleman and will be missed by all who knew him.

Barbara (Japp) Atwood

October 7, 2007

Janet and Jim, I am sorry to hear about your father and my deepest sympathy and prayers go out to you. Please pass my thoughts on to the rest of the family and if there is anything I can do please contact me. Love to all. Barb

Charles and Faye Wakeman

October 7, 2007

Dear Janet,
Faye and I were very saddened to learn of your dear Father's passing.
We wish to extend our most heartfelt and deepest sympathies to you and your family. Please know that you are in all of our thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Charles, Faye Wakeman and Family

Jesse Kelley

October 7, 2007

To the family of Mr. Mon Goy, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your husband and father.I worked for Mr and Mrs Mon Goy at Burger Castle when I was 16 years old. I have never forgot the work ethics and family values that I learned from them. My best friend Howard Johnston is a friend of their daughter. My prayers and thoughts are with each of you through this most difficult time.

Bernhard Lukoschek

October 7, 2007

My dear friend Geno.
From the day you got sick I was hoping and praying that you would beat your sickness,but as weeks went by I realized that a higher power had more to do with that then my wish for you to get well.
I consider myself blessed to have had a chance to with you in the last weeks of your life and my friendship and love for you grew bigger by the day until the end.
I will always keep you in my heart and will remember the good times we had with you.
I know you will keep an eye from heaven on all of us, as you did when you where here with us on earth.
My deepest sympathy to the Mon Goy Family and all the people who lost a great person and friend in Gene.

Kay, David, Allyson & Amanda Ayers

October 6, 2007

We will miss Uncle Gene and always remember his kindness, his humor, his love for his family, and all of those Go card games. Our deepest sympathy to Aunt Mazie, Janet & Jim, Townshend, Steven, Kristen, Hayley & Hannah, Michael, and Aunt Cuna.

Margaret Mason

October 6, 2007

My Dearest Brother,
I was not ready to let you go, but under the circumstances it was the right thing to do for I now know that you are in a better place where you can fish all you want and see all the new movies of your own selection. Till we meet again, I love you and cherish all the years we had together..Though too short !!!With loving memories, your sister, Cuna

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