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Harlis Wayne Merryman

1931 - 2015

Harlis Wayne Merryman obituary, 1931-2015, Talihina, OK

Harlis Merryman Obituary

Harlis Wayne Merryman, passed from this life October 8, 2015 in Talihina, Oklahoma. He was born to Gabe Harlis and Eva Jane (McGee) Merryman on August 15, 1931 in Bengal, OK. Wayne was their fourth child, after, Denver, Oleta, and Jimmy. Wayne was 11 months old when his mother passed away. When Wayne was four years old his dad married Zoa Jane (Pat) Justice, she was the only mother Wayne ever knew and they loved each very much. Gabe and Pat had five children, Charlie, Harold, Myron, Harlis and Mary.

Wayne graduated from Leflore High School in 1949. He enlisted in the Army in 1951 and served in Korea, earning numerous medals and an honorable discharge in 1953. Using the GI Bill he enrolled at Eastern Oklahoma College and graduated from the University of Central Oklahoma with Bachelor's and Master's Degrees, doing post graduate studies at the University of Oklahoma.

On January 29, 1954 Wayne married Edith Kathryn Gregory in McAlester, Oklahoma. Three boys were born to them, Mitchell Wayne, Mark Gabe, and Matthew Gregory.

Wayne was preceded in death by his parents, his second mother Pat, son Mark Gabe, sister Oleta, and brothers Denver, Jimmy, Charlie, Harold, Myron, and his grandson Gabe Levi, and numerous other uncles, aunts, nieces, nephews and cousins.

He is survived by sons Mitchell Wayne and Matthew Gregory; grandchildren Rachel Jane Kasper (Charles), Jessica Rose, Meghan Leigh, Kathryn Tess, Gabe Colahan, Milo Gabe, and Echo Marie. Great-grandchildren, Makayla Merryman, Jaegan Levi and Dexton Liam Kasper; and numerous aunts, uncles, nieces and nephews, and adopted family member Charlie James.

Wayne was a legendary high school basketball coach, coaching both boys and girls teams. He was National Coach of the year in 1984 and Oklahoma Coach of the Year for both girls and boys high school basketball. He was inducted into the Oklahoma Basketball Hall of Fame for both boys and girls and the National Basketball Hall of Fame. When he retired in 1990 Wayne had the most victories of any high school basketball coach in the nation.

Wayne served as High School Principal and basketball coach for 34 years; 1 year at Panola, Ok, 3 years at Whitesboro, OK, and 30 years at Colbert, OK. He was always an educator first, and a coach second.

His service will be at 10 a.m. Tuesday October 13th, 2015 at the Old Colbert High School gym in Colbert, Oklahoma. His private interment will be at the family cemetery on their farm in Bengal, Oklahoma under the direction of Burkhart Funeral Service of Talihina.

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Published by The Herald Democrat on Oct. 13, 2015.

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James Onstott

October 7, 2022

Legendary coach, his teams in the 70's and 80's were some of the best teams that Oklahoma Basketball has ever seen!

James Onstott

October 20, 2015

Often imitated, never duplicated! Rest in peace coach.

Very Respectfully,

James Onstott

ellis pittman

October 18, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Bill Morgan

October 15, 2015

So sorry to hear of the family's loss. Had conversations with Wayne when I came from California. My Father and Mother were next door neighbors, John and Evelyn Morgan. God bless all.

October 13, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. He is no longer suffering so that in itself is a blessing. Linda Walden

wyvette dawson Wiley

October 13, 2015

Love and Prayers to all of You - He was a Wonderful Coach Class of 1960-61 graduate

debra mattingly

October 13, 2015

I love the Merryman family so much. You all accepted me and my boys (Dalton and Dylan) right into the family. Some of our best memories are of poppa wayne and the many family gatherings during the holidays and other times. He truly left his print on my heart as a father-in-law. We love you all and pray for your comfort during this sad time. Debra Japhet(Merryman) Mattingly

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