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Jimmy Comer Obituary
Jimmy Comer
Foremost a devoted family man, he also enjoyed hunting, fishing, camping, boating, and playing softball. He grew up in Lake Stevens, and worked alongside his dad in the family business, Puget Heating.
He leaves behind his soul mate and wife of 15 and ½ years, Stefanie; daughter, Jordan, age 15; sons, Dakota, age 13, and Isaiah, age 9; parents, Robert and Geraldine Comer, of Lake Stevens; sisters, Lisa (Brad) Wahlberg, and their children, Montana, Wyatt, and Maquinna, of Granite Falls, Washington, and Kristina (Ron) Kesti, and their daughter, Natalie, of Lake Stevens, Washington; also numerous family and a wide circle of friends.
Jimmy was generous, mischievous, and full of life. He was always putting everyone's needs before his own. It brought him great joy gathering people together and having fun. Nobody was ever a stranger in his eyes. Jimmy's passing leaves a huge void in many lives.
Viewing will be held from 9 a.m. to 5 p.m., Wednesday and Thursday, January 4 and 5, at Bauer Funeral Chapel, Snohomish. A celebration of his life will be held 12:00 p.m.. Friday, January 6, at Christ The King Lutheran Church, Snohomish, with viewing from 11 a.m. to service time.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to "The Jimmy Comer Fund" for his children's college at any Washington Mutual Bank.
A heartfelt thanks to friends Brandon, Jerry, Tim, and Mitch for their help. Also to all of our friends and family for their thoughts, prayers, and support - we love you.
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Stefanie (sweetpea)
December 29, 2024
Sweetpea
December 29, 2023
Today marks 18 years since you left us. It still hurts. It stills feels fresh and unfair. So many things you have missed out on. Grateful for the love shared and family created. Forever in our hearts and on our minds and forever many memories of you shared and bringing us laughter! Love you Jimmy
Stefanie Iblings
December 24, 2014
Merry Christmas Jimmy! Unbelievable we are at 9 years since you left us. Still think of you every day, and know we will meet up again on the other side! Much love to you.
Stefanie
November 9, 2014
Hi Punkin!
We are so excited for Wednesday to get here....and find out if baby Ammons is a little he or little she! Missing you just as much as ever. I can picture your reaction to having a grandbaby, but it would be amazing to see you hold them. Xoxo
Stefanie Iblings
September 15, 2013
It's been awhile since I was on here. Of course you know I'm still talking to you and sharing with you. Jordan's wedding was so amazing, and it ached in my chest that you had to watch from above. Your presence was felt by many, our love for you known and expressed, and the love of our baby girl celebrated.
Never a day will pass that you're not on our minds. As the kids move into these next seasons, each a big one, I think and pray of you watching over them in a way I cannot, and helping guide them towards positive and fulfilling choices!
Jordan married such an awesome guy! They will make a wonderful life together. Dakota has founded a passion and is pursuing college, and managing to do it well his own!! Isaiah grows in his confidence and has plans and ideas for his future.
Life is good. You are loved. Xoxoxo
Jordan Comer
September 12, 2011
Miss you so much, where are you when we need you??
Jordan Comer
July 12, 2011
I wish you could meet my boyfriend, I think you would like him. I miss you, and love you. All my heart.
June 23, 2011
Happy Happy Birthday Punkin!
love, Sweetpea! <3
June 16, 2011
Headed to my graduation. I wouldn't be here if it weren't for you. Hugs
Jordan Comer
June 5, 2011
Thanks for the sunshine this weekend, you rock <3
Stefanie Iblings
June 1, 2011
This would have been our 21st wedding anniversary!Love you Punkin <3
Stefanie Iblings
May 5, 2011
missing you.....
Jordan Comer
March 20, 2011
I wish you were home and could hug me. I miss you.
Jordan Comer
March 5, 2011
I miss you more today than yesterday.
Jordan Comer
January 7, 2011
"'You'll get over it...' It's the clichés that cause the trouble. To lose someone you love is to alter your life for ever. You don't get over it because 'it' is the person you loved. The pain stops, there are new people, but the gap never closes. How could it? The particularness of someone who mattered enough to grieve over is not erased by anyone but death. This hole in my heart is in the shape of you and no one else can fit. Why would I want them to?"
-This reminds me of you. Love you
Jordan Comer
December 29, 2010
Five years later, and I still miss you the most and will love you ALWAYS. Until we meet again, daddy. <3
Stefanie Iblings
December 29, 2010
I can't believe you have been gone for 5 years. Every day I think of you, and hope you are proud of our kids. They are so amazing! Rest in Paradise Punkin, and I will see you again one day.
Jordan Comer
December 25, 2010
Merry Christmas daddy. Missed you like always.
Jordan Comer
November 3, 2010
How cool would it have been to get tattoos together? I would have loved that
Jordan Comer
November 1, 2010
I love you and miss you. What should we do this year on the 29th? We're almost to five years, and it still feels like yesterday. <3
Stefanie Iblings
September 10, 2010
Babe..we have an 18 year old son!!! Can you believe 2 adults? And the third is not far behind. I am so thankful for all you have been in my life, and continue to mean to me! These beautiful people we created together are the most amazing thing to ever happen to my life, and I am sure yours too! Happy Birthday to our oldest son, Dakota and hoping he has a year full of many positive blessings!
Stefanie Iblings
August 29, 2010
hahaha..yes I did point that out to her! Can you believe how grown she is? A birthday tomorrow! And your oldest son almost an adult. Wow! Miss you tons!!
Jordan Comer
August 27, 2010
Mom was making fun of me today, because I got my fourth tattoo and I'm only twenty. And at thirty six you had four tattoos too. Now we're tied, love you.
Jordan Comer
July 26, 2010
I love you the mostest, and I always will.
Jordan Comer
July 18, 2010
I miss you. I got to watch Krissy's wedding video this weekend, and I cried when I saw you and Andy came up to me and goes "Crying?" I love him. I wish you could meet him. Love you, the most.
Stefanie Iblings
June 23, 2010
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JIMMY!!!
It was a great day for me with the kids. Not the same as it has been, but good to spend time with them! Loved the heat and the sun, and dinner with your mom was wonderful! I love her sooo much :D
I am trying my best with the kiddos, hope you are still helping them too, they really still need us both!
Big Hugs!
Stefanie
Stefanie iblings
June 20, 2010
Happy Father's Day Jimmy. Big hugs and love to you!! Keep helping me with the kids!!! I need it :)
Miss you bunches and bunches
Jordan Comer
June 20, 2010
Happy father's day, I miss you more on days like this. Love you!
Jordan Comer
June 11, 2010
"I’m gonna wrap my arms around my daddy’s neck
And tell him that I’ve missed him.
And tell him all about the woman that I became
And hope that it pleased him
There’s so much I want to say
There’s so much I want you to know"
Your birthday's coming up, miss you most. I graduate in a week, I know you'll be there but don't trip me or anything. Can you come down and like, talk to Zay and Coda? Thanks. Love you.
Jordan Comer
April 8, 2010
I still can't believe after four years, I can walk upstairs and look in that little chest of yours and start crying. Some days are easier than others, but I just hope you look down and are proud of me... I love you.
Jordan Comer
March 3, 2010
Got my first "real" job today :) Hopefully in June I can come live with Krissy for a while (as long as she's not too sick of me now) to save up money then move out, how cool would that be? Take care of Jimmy, and Gloria for us. I miss you, and love you.
February 13, 2010
Thanks for the penny today-I smiled the rest of the day knowing we still have a connection....our amazing kids to raise together. It means more to me than I can say that you continue to show them your love! Love you Jimmy :)
February 6, 2010
Jordy goes to Krissy's tomorrow! I am sooo excited for her to get the experience! Need your help with Dakota...you know what's up! And can you believe Isaiah? He is getting so big and smelly!
Jordan Comer
February 3, 2010
Hey dad. Life lately is SO weird. Today is my last day of school, and I start my extern, and I'm gonna go live with Krissy for about a month. I can't believe how fast this past year has gone! I'm growing up too fast, I don't like it. But I love you, and I miss you as always.
Jordan Comer
January 22, 2010
Hi daddy. I miss you so much, I just wish you were here to hug right now... I don't know how some people do it.. Because I have the hardest time moving on. I cannot wait until I get to see you again. Until then, love you.
Stefanie Iblings
January 21, 2010
Jimmy~
Where are you? How are you? Do you know how much we miss you? How we wish for one more hug, one more moment to spend with you?
What do you think of the kids? What do you wish I were doing different? Please tell me...
Sweetpea
Lisa Morrissey
December 31, 2009
Happy New Year Jimmy! I can't believe you have been gone four years! You will forever be in my heart my dear friend! Each time I think of you(often) I remember the day You, Curt and I went to get your drivers license...I was so scared riding in that little white honda! I will cherish every childhood memory that you are in forever! My thoughts and prayers are with your family at this sad time of the year! Your friend forever and always, Lisa (Alexander) Morrissey
December 31, 2009
Happy New Year Jimmy!
Jordan Comer
December 29, 2009
Hey daddy, missed you today. Hanging out was fun but it would have been way better had you been there but, well you know. Love you always.
December 29, 2009
miss u more thsn u know +i promise u i'll make u proud (isaiah)
Jon Heisel
December 29, 2009
Hey Jimmy, wow, can't believe its been 4 years, miss you man!
- Dakota (lil buddy) Comer
December 29, 2009
herrow mr a harrray chin lol i miss you dad its never been the same without you but your in a better place so as long as you keep laughin up there we know well all see you when our time comes i llove you dad i miss you morer every day but knowing your with me makes it all worth every second im alive i love you dad
December 29, 2009
Hey Punkin!
the 4 of us are heading out today to be together and remember you. I don't know where the past four years have gone, and I miss you just as much today as then.
all my heart...
December 25, 2009
Merry Christmas my punkin, jimmy!!!
Jordan Comer
December 24, 2009
Hey daddy, Merry Christmas! This is our fourth year without you and it's not getting any easier. I miss your laugh, your smile, your jokes.. When you'd slap your face when you laughed hard. I miss everything about you, and I so wish we could go back and just bring you home with us... How it was supposed to be. Love you.
December 24, 2009
Merry Christmas Jimmy!!!!
4 years and I still hear your laughter, feel your love, see your spirit in our children, know you are ever present in our lives. The Lord blesses us and gives us hope knowing we will one day be reunited with our loved ones in our eternal home.
Stefanie
November 28, 2009
Missed you at Thanksgiving. Miss you always. Praying for Jordan's healing. Love you Jimmy.
Jordan Comer
November 27, 2009
Ryan's funeral today, I see you two having the times of your lives.. Wakeboarding, snowmobiling, being so carefree. Take care of each other.. Until we meet again, love you.
Jordan Comer
November 22, 2009
Never does a day go by that I miss you less, or that I don't wish to have said goodbye to you. I miss you daddy, and I will for the rest of my life. I love you, with all my heart.
November 21, 2009
Hey you!
I'm sure you know Ryan has joined you. Please watch over him and his family. Bet you two are snowmobiling and wakeboarding like crazy right now!! Miss you tons Jimmy, never gets easier or less painful. I hope you are proud of the kids. I am trying so hard!
*hugs*
Jordan Comer
October 10, 2009
Hiii daddy. I haven't been on here in a long time, I was thinking about it today. Me and momma did get tattoos :) Thanks for pushing her haha. You'd be so proud, she was such a trooper. Next will be Cody's turn, haha. Can't wait to see that.. Well, I love you and I always will. Byeee.
Stefanie Iblings
August 27, 2009
Our baby girl is almost 19, can you believe it? She wants me to get a tattoo with her, what do you think? Let me know!
Jordan Comer
August 25, 2009
My birthday's in five days! I'm so excited, but I wish you were here to celebrate with us.. I'll be looking extra hard for pennies this weekend. It's strange how happy a small, copper circle can make someone so happy. Love you.
Jordan Comer
August 17, 2009
I miss you daddio.
Jordan Comer
July 14, 2009
Life's hard. I'm not happy, and everyone knows it. I'm not sure where to turn to, what to do... It's still getting harder, you would think by now it would be better right? Well, wrong we all were.
Jordan Comer
July 8, 2009
I miss you daddio.
Jordan Comer
June 26, 2009
I know you watched the movie with us, mom has nothing to worry about. It was awesome, huh?
Jordan Comer
June 23, 2009
Happy birthday, I love you.
stefanie iblings
June 23, 2009
Happy Birthday Punkin!
Miss you and Love you always :D
Stefanie Iblings
June 21, 2009
Happy Father's Day Jimmy!!!
Miss you and love you!
Jordan Comer
June 21, 2009
Happy Father's day! I would honestly give anything, to have you here to spend it with us. I love you, always and forever.
-George
Jordan Comer
June 10, 2009
blah blah blah, I am sick of it all. I want to go away from here and never come back!
jordan comer
June 7, 2009
I like dreaming about you, but not when I wake up crying....
Jordan Comer
June 3, 2009
I love you James Robert Comer, my only daddy.
Jordan Comer
May 27, 2009
We went to the cabin this weekend for Memorial day, and yet again it was nothing without you. There wasn't to many people there this year, but I got to spend A LOT of time with Andy. I love him and wish you got to meet him, you'd love him. He's full of energy and just makes life seem so much better. Miss you lots, forever and always.
Jordan Comer
May 18, 2009
I think I'm about to go crazy...
Jordan Comer
May 7, 2009
Life is hard and I don't think it's ever fair. I miss you a lot, and I cry a lot. I just wish I could go back to that day and save you and make everything okay. I imagine life with you in it and I get so upset because I just know I would be so much happier. I just don't think it's fair. I guess my time will come when it all falls into place and I understand it all. I miss you, and love you. Always and forever you're my daddy.
Jordan Comer
May 2, 2009
I miss you
Jordan Comer
April 20, 2009
School is awesome. The sunshine is awesome. I miss you though, it sucks summer's coming up and everyone's gonna want to go camping or wakeboarding. None of it's fun without you. You were the fun in everything.
April 7, 2009
Your little girl is taking her first really big step into adulthood. Isn't she funny to watch? The house was so quiet while she was gone...now her huge personality is brightening the home!
I hope she finds joy in her life, and puts her heart into school. She will be a great dental assistant!
Jordan Comer
April 6, 2009
I miss you.
Jordan Comer
March 18, 2009
Help mom out. She be unhappy.
Love you daddy.
Jordan Comer
March 10, 2009
California in 12 days :]
I need this. I'm not doing okay. Just getting out of this crappy town is good enough for me, but knowing I'm going to be in sunny 80 degree weather is icing on the cake for me!
I love you dad, and I always will. Please keep me safe on the plane like you do when I drive in the snow.
I miss you, hope I talk to you soon.
Bye daddy.
love you, always.
Jordan Comer
March 1, 2009
I feel like, things are different and I know change happens but I don't know how to approach it... I'm scared, confused and unsure of what I'm doing and if I'm doing what's right. How do I know what's right? This is scary, I'm not ready for this kind of responsibility. I just want to be 6 again and pushing Cody on his bike in the road or playing with Isaiah and watching him roll over for the first time.
Stefanie Iblings
February 27, 2009
Well, yesterday was not fun! How awesome was Jordan? Such a trooper through all the icky tests and so hungry, stuck fasting. Thanks for helping her stay calm, watching over the allergic reaction, soothing her. We make a good team parenting, huh? xoxo
Jordan Comer
February 27, 2009
Geeez, it took you long enough to say something to me last night! Thanks for having my back, even when I can't see you I know you're there. I love you, ya know? I hope you do.
Stefanie Iblings
February 14, 2009
Happy Valentine's Day Jimmy...
Into the hearts of our babies I know you still whisper your love, support, and encouragement.
Thanks for teaching them so many good things! Keep loving on the kids, they so very much love you and miss you, as do we all!!!
xoxo
Jordan Comer
February 12, 2009
I'm going to school to become a Dental Assistant! Ah, I am so excited!!! I know I'm going to love it, but school is like 8am-5pm, Monday-Friday! Goodbye little girl, hello old woman! =[
Miss you, love you.
Always and forever.
Jordan Comer
February 1, 2009
Daddy,
It's just one of those days... I'm not sure how people do it, move on when they lose the ones that mean the most to them. I miss you. and I know I say it once, twice, three times a day but I do. Right now I'm lost and not sure what to do. It just hurts to much sometimes.
I wish I could have a few extra minutes with you, just to get it all off my chest. Everything I never told you that I should have, or the things I said that I didn't mean. You were my best friend, my guiding light. I wanted to be exactly like you when I was little, I remember it so clear. I just need a dad. I need a guy to be there for me when my heart's broken, to lend me gas money, to walk me down the aisle, to teach my babies to make 'the lip' and it just sucks because I don't get that...
Right now nothing makes sense, and it all seems pointless. I'll just wait for a sign that says "Hey Jordan, you're doing just fine. You'll be okay."
I love you.
Jordan Comer
January 20, 2009
I miss you.
Jon Heisel
January 12, 2009
Miss you Jimmy! Hunting in Montana and at the cabin, just isn't the same, alot of things aren't the same, it sucks! Bob, Cody and I were talking about my mom passing away and being up there with you now, when we came around a corner and saw a big buck that I ended up getting, my mom and you must have helped me with that one, thanks! Keep good care of my mom, I know you will!
Jordan Comer
January 9, 2009
It's harder for me to remember the little things about you. I think it's because it hurts to bad to want them knowing I can't have them. I love you.
Jordan Comer
December 29, 2008
Three years is a long time, ya hear me? I can't believe you've been gone this long... I can still remember that day so clearly, but it's getting harder for me to remember you and the things you did. I miss you.... I always have and always will. I wish I could tell you what I never got a chance to say. I guess my time will come.
I can't wait to see you, I love you.
Stefanie Iblings
December 29, 2008
Hello Jimmy!
Three years ago I watched you drive away to go snowmobiling. I remember I was laughing, jumping up and down clapping with excitement for you. I had no idea I wouldn't see you alive again. If so, I would've held on longer, hugged you tighter, piled the kids up in our bed for a Funniest Home videos marathon, with tart-n-tinys, pepsi, and funyons for you. Told you a million more times I love you.
Life is a never ending journey of change, unforseen situations, and growth. It is not always easy or fun, more often sad and difficult.
I look forward to a day when I will see your twinkling eyes and smile again.
I miss you.
Jordan Comer
December 25, 2008
Hi hi hi, Merry Christmas!!!!
Wellll, this is what I've got so far; plenty of gift cards (Victoria's Secret, Fred Meyer, iTunes, Target), a cute shirt, Juno, body scrub, bath/lotion stuff, annnd Mom's gonna pay for me to go snowboarding one time!!! (Besides going up on the 29th!)
Oh and Mekenzie's parents bought her Britney Spears tickets, two of them, and I get to use the other!!!! Yesssssss!!!
Well I love and miss you!
Jordan Comer
December 19, 2008
Thanks for the snow, keep it coming!
Jordan Comer
December 6, 2008
Hey, I haven't written you a real entry in a long time, and I figure I should.
We're rounding the corners to three years. I believe it's in twenty three days? Yes, twenty three. It's bizarre that I remember that night so clear but it's getting harder for me to remember little things about you... Like your voice, how you walked, the way your hands felt.... I miss everything about you. I miss your hugs, they were bear hugs. I miss laying in bed watching AFV and The Simpson's every Sunday after Ixtapa. We don't do anything like that anymore... It scares me that I won't remember this things to tell my kids when they're older, God forbid they don't know who their grandpa is! Isaiah said someone layed on his pillow last night, and I'm sure it was you. I miss you, and now I'm crying. I haven't cried in like two weeks! I've been doing really good!... I want to go snowboarding on the day, the twenty ninth. I'd prefer to snowmobile but who's gonna drive me to the cabin? It's still hard to go over there. The first time back, it was like a nightmare. This is a nightmare.... But I'm waking up everyday and living my life. I know you'd kick me everyday, maybe yell, and tell me to get up. God I hated your early wake up calls on the weekend! Hahaha, well... I love you. Always have and always will.
I'll probably talk to you later, Bye.
Jordan Comer
December 3, 2008
Today sucked. I'm in a bad mood, and I miss you.
Jordan Comer
November 27, 2008
HAPPY THANKSGIVING! I LOVE YOU!
Always & forever man.
Jordan Comer
November 20, 2008
I love you, and miss you so much.
jordan comer
November 16, 2008
I have a date tomorrow night, I wish you could be there.
(Most likely you will be anyways!)
Jordan Comer
November 10, 2008
Eye, luv, chu.
Jordan Comer
November 3, 2008
I want to move to Bellingham, do you think I'm ready?
Jordan Comer
October 28, 2008
I love you
jordan comer
October 22, 2008
i have nothing new to say. you're always in the back of my head interjecting, saying what you'd like.
is this a sign i'm going crazy...?
your daughter
October 16, 2008
missyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyoumissyou,
in case you weren't sure.
Jordan Comer
October 13, 2008
I know you were talking to me just now, and it scared me....
I miss you so much. I didn't deserve this.
Help me.
Jordan Comer
October 12, 2008
Hiii, I miss you.
I'm having a hard time right now.
I love you.
And I'll never forget you, ever.
Jordan Comer
October 10, 2008
Homework's kicking my butt this week, ugh.
Me and mom had a nice talk last night, but it made me cry when she was talking about how my babies will never get to physically crawl up into their grandpa's (you!) lap...
I miss you.
J C
October 5, 2008
God I miss you. How's anyone supposed to make it here without a dad?
I'm not sure how much more I can handle.
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