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Robert Rule Obituary

1940-2015 We lost our beloved husband, father, grandfather, and friend on Feb 7, 2015. He died at Providence Everett Medical Cent. Robert played Santa Claus at the Everett Mall for many years; he was also a part of the Merry Maker Clowns. Robert was loved by so many and according to doctors was joking and very happy til his last breath. He was a very sweet, kind, loving and generous man. He is survived by his wife Linda Rule, Step-daughter Gayle Baker, her Fiancé Charles Brantner all of Everett, WA, his Step-son George Selvy, Jr. of Eugene, OR, his grandkids Tyler Selvy of Arlington, WA, Cassie and Jacob Baker of Marysville, WA and last but not least his long time friends Tom Harp and Frank Schilliger of Everett, WA. He is now an angel with his daughter Janie Rule who was murdered at the age of 16, whom he forgave her killer which depicts the kind Christian man Mr. Rule was. He will forever be in our hearts.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) from Feb. 12 to Feb. 13, 2015.

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Sponsored by Your forgiving heart still inspires us all to be better people. God bless you, Mr. Rule. Rest easy, .

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Brian Wingate

March 10, 2025

Your name lives on through the hearts of the genuine because your true character was testified in a time of vulnerability. You are a giant clothed in humility.

renee

January 25, 2025

Mr. Rule I looked you up after seeing you forgave that man and I´m sitting here crying because you´re gone. I didn´t even know you, but I can rest assured that you are with God with your daughter. I wish I knew somebody like you because you were such a good person, and so few of you left!

Patty

December 24, 2024

Mr. Rule, you show what the power of Christ looks like in human form. Love and forgiveness. You are now with our living father for eternity.

Florentino Soto

August 16, 2024

May God have you in his grace.

Sebastiaan

June 17, 2024

I would have love to meet you sir. I know you're in heaven. Rest in Peace.

Angelo Palmieri

June 11, 2024

As someone who has traveled around the states a lot I would have been absolutely honored to have come across someone such as yourself. I´ve seen your story plenty of times over, you were an exceptional human being Mr. Rule. Your love and compassion for others even in the face of adversity is absolutely admirable. You very much remind me of my grandfather. May both you and him rest easy in the arms of angels, you´ve both more than earned your place in Gods kingdom. My condolences and best wishes go out to your family as well. May they go about in peace, love, and solace knowing you are back home with our Father in heaven.

Almir

March 17, 2024

Um grande homem de Deus, certamente está com o Senhor Jesus no céu, deixou um legado que será lembrado por décadas, minhas condolências!!!

Linda

March 5, 2024

RIP, Mr Robert Rule your one extraordinary beautiful soul condolences to your family , Linda, Australia

Josh

January 25, 2024

The example of forgiveness that Mr. Rule demonstrated that day in the court room is so powerful... I've never seen anything like it. After seeing that video, I wanted to search him out and meet him. I was saddened to hear of his passing. My sympathies to his family. It takes a great man with a great faith to forgive the way he did. I wish I could have known him and thanked him for his example. What an awesome, awesome example.

Bernard Biceri

December 7, 2023

Who loves Me keeps my commandments says the Lord, and you did it.
Hope on day to see you in heaven.

Argentina

May 17, 2023

Un verdadero Norteamericano
Y muy Humano ser q resuena en la eternidad lo logrado en esta pasajera vida .año 2023 lomas de zamora

María mendoza

April 5, 2023

En mi caso ví su vídeo perdonando al asesino d su hija y wow cuando le admiro. El valor q tiene.

Ann

January 16, 2023

I'm So sorry to you all for your loss. I am quite sure it was a tremendous loss. Mr. Rule was the most pure example of forgiveness I have EVER witnessed and my inspiration in that regard.... when I try to share the precept that we must forgive to be forgiven when we face Messiah with others, I will OFTEN share his testimony. May he rest in peace.

Susane Espinel Oliveira

September 23, 2022

Meu querido irmão que agora descansa aguardando a ressurreição dos justos, seu exemplo de perdão inspira muitos cristãos. Impossível não chorar .

Lacy Rule

June 29, 2022

Lacy Rule

June 29, 2022

Lacy Rule

June 29, 2022

I miss you uncle, I wish you was here to meet your great great niece, I just know she would love you and the amazing man you are. Thank you for sending me an angel. I love you.

Fabián González Reyes

January 27, 2022

Thank God for your life and the example you gave to all of us. A true christian.

Kim Legarth

January 22, 2021

Each year I teach young people from different backgrunds about the christian faith in our church, where I work as a pastor. And of course I also teach about forgiveness.
And every year I show them the little movie on Youtube where Mr. Rule shows his faith and give his forgivness.
The young people are just stunned and even the young boys who are making fun of everuthing else are just sillent.
Its so powerfull and I hope that I will not only learn others to be like Mr. Rule but I hope I myself will learn to forgive as Mr. Rule showed us.
Thank you God, for Mr. Rule!

Ray Keates

December 30, 2020

John 14:1 Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. 2In my Father’s house are many mansions: if it were not so, I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. ❤❤❤

Muhammad waleed Tariq

December 26, 2020

I am a muslim and saw your forgiveness video. U r a true christian that is mentioned in quran .i wouldve loved to meet u but sad u passed away so soon .rest in peace mr robert

Jack Richards

July 18, 2020

I'll add an endorsement to Joe. At a time when polarizing forces fueled by bitterness and anger have too great a hold on this nation, the life, memory and witness of Robert Rule needs to be remembered and encouraged. One of my sons worked as a Santa Claus photographer a quarter century ago. He remembers how even the most fearful child seemed to resonate and respond favorably to this true son of St. Nicholas+

Joe

July 16, 2020

I hope this page is kept up. I think that, for many years, people will see the video of Mr. Rule forgiving his daughter's killer. They will look him up. They will want to tell him that he committed an amazing act. And they will find this obituary. They will be sad that they can't tell him in person or over the phone or in an email. So they will leave notes like this one.

Mr. Rule, the part of this world that knows you is in awe of you.
Joe

Anna Buckland

April 16, 2020

I didn't know you unfortunately. But your example of forgiveness was heartwarming and inspirational - even to an atheist. Rest In Peace.

Jack Richards

February 6, 2020

Everett Mall's best Santa ever remains in my heart as a true witness to the Gospel and in the same tradition as the real St. Nicholas. Thanks be to God for him and to him.

Erica Gomez

January 22, 2020

Mr. Rule, I just saw the video about how you forgave a person who did so much harm to you and other people. I saw a loving, kind person with a heart of gold. I cried so much and I want to be just like you. I'm still a new Christian and I know for a fact that you're with our Lord Jesus Christ. God bless you!

Ron Howard

December 30, 2019

Thank you Mr. Rule for a life's lesson on forgiveness. May you rest in peace Sir. To all of us who have lost loved ones. Life goes "that fast" and we will see them again "that soon"!

Cathy Calcagno

December 21, 2019

Sorry I missed you I shall always remember your LOL Santa HOHOHO and you and Linda coming in to Hervy's for eats.... Thank you for the joy and laughters though you cried.... Rest in Peace my friend and neighbor....

Coleen Saylor

August 6, 2019

I saw Mr. Rule forgive a man who did not deserve it, and I was so inspired by it. If he can forgive the murderer of his young daughter, I know we all can forgive those that have hurt us. Mr. Rule was definitely Christ-like.

Rest In Peace Mr. Rule. I know you're with our Savior.

Stephen Dubois

January 17, 2019

I will never forget how this man showed forgiveness, as Christ teaches to do in His word!! See you in heaven!!

Mariano Arellano

September 21, 2018

I really thank God for your life and example to me. Rest in peace. (Pastor Mariano Arellano, Spain)

Fr Lazarus Yassa

July 14, 2018

Please remember us before the Lord, St. Robert.

Father Lazarus Yassa

July 14, 2018

May the Lord repose the soul of this blessed man. He taught the world what Christianity means and the power of forgiveness. May God bless and comfort the family and may He give us the strength to be like this blessed saint! The Lord Jesus Christ is the answer to all our problems.

M M

July 10, 2018

Sweet Sir, thank you for showing us what Love is. Thank you for moving our hearts with your example to accept nothing less than love. Thank you for mashing a difference. Thank you. God bless you. Give your little one a hug from us.

S. Christopher

July 10, 2018

Thank you for touching my life with your wonderful, forgiving heart. You continue to inspire and uplift so many. May God hold you forever close.

Amy Hopkins

February 18, 2018

This man is still touching strangers hearts in a way he never realized I am sure. I wanted to say how terrible sorry I am to his loved ones for their loss and how he is still impacting people in such a positive way after his death. He has been an inspiration to me.

Jack Richards

March 6, 2015

Our son worked with Bob at the Everett Mall twenty years ago and remembered the great soul that warmed many a heart then...little knowing is own broken heart that he chose to mend with a huge portion of the forgiving love of God. What a great soul!

george

February 28, 2015

robert you were a great man i miss you so much. i learned alot from you over the years. hope you and janie are enjoying being together after all these years mom is doing well ill make sure shes happy wish i would have been able to say goodbye love you so much you will always be missed.

corinne Brock

February 16, 2015

I remember Robert as a kind sole he was always positive and a joy to be around. I enjoy the times I had with him and his family As a young girl. Love and miss you. Rest in peace Robert

Rebecca Bissett

February 15, 2015

We will miss you robert. I alway loved coming over to your house when I was younger and hanging out. RIP

Nana (from Ghana)

February 13, 2015

Rest in peace Mr Rule. You are my role model. You touched my life from all the way across the world in Africa. May I be half as forgiving as you. My sympathies to family and loved ones xxx

joanne and juanita tuff

February 13, 2015

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Maureen Harp

February 13, 2015

rip Robert we will miss you our dear friend

"Mike" Jefferson

February 12, 2015

Heaven is rejoicing for another soul has finally reached his true home. Santa has made it to heaven! My deepest sympathy to you and yours.

February 12, 2015

Robert
We miss you already I am a better person for knowing you rest in peace
your friend
Charlie

February 12, 2015

Love you!

gayle baker

February 12, 2015

Rest in peace Robert, its not the same without you here, you are surely missed!

Leslie & Ed Kaeufer

February 12, 2015

so very sorry about the loss of such a wonderful, kind, caring man. he was well loved and will my always be in our hearts. love to all affected by this terrible loss.

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