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Dec. 8, 2025
4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m.
Wagner Family Funerals - Pobocik Chapel - Three Oaks
Send FlowersTammy Wilder Obituary
Tammy Lynn Wilder, 61, of Three Oaks died peacefully Tuesday, Nov. 18, 2025, in the comfort of her family's presence. Her life began April 22, 1964 in Watervliet, the middle of five children raised by Earl Keith and Lorraine Merit.
Tammy's whole life was her family. She never met a stranger: always looking for laughter and community. Her favorite hobby was spending time with her grandchildren; teaching them, cherishing them, and loving them with her whole being. Tammy will be greatly missed by family and friends.
She is survived by her significant other, Tom McReynolds of Three Oaks; two daughters: Crystal (Johnson) Curry of Benton Harbor, Victoria Scott of South Bend, Ind.; seven grandchildren: Danielle, James, Kielyn, Madison, Natalie, Kinslie, Kayden; one sister, Liz Wilder of Arkansas; two brothers: David Wilder, Earl Keith Jr., both of Arkansas; best friends: Bandit, Goldie; and a host of nieces, nephews and cousins.
She was preceded in death by her parents and one brother, Chuck Wilder.
Family and friends will gather from 4 p.m. until the time of service at 5 p.m. on Monday, Dec. 8. In Wagner Family Funerals, 106 E. Ash St., Three Oaks, MI 49128.
Arrangements have been entrusted to Wagner Family Funerals Pobocik Chapel, Three Oaks. Please share a memory or a message online: wagnercares.com.
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