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Debra Hesser Obituary

Hesser, Debra Rose
July 16, 1954 - Dec. 9, 2007

Debra Rose Hesser, 53, Bradenton, died Dec. 9, 2007.
A celebration of her life will be at 1 p.m. today at The Glenridge Performing Arts Center.
Survivors include her husband of 32 years, Karl; a daughter, Alexandra; a son, Mark; her father and stepmother, William and Mary Honeycutt; a sister, Ellen Harris; and a brother, Dennis Honeycutt.
She is also survived by son-in-law Alexander Wilder; brother-in-law Wayne Harris; sisters-in-law Kay Honeycutt, Karen Hesser and Beth Hesser-Nichols and her husband, Jack Nichols; and 12 nieces, nephews and grandnephews.
Deb and Karl met in Worms-am-Rhein, Germany, where they were married. While in Germany, she began her career in photography, teaching U.S. Army soldiers and photographing plays and musicals. After their return to the U.S., Deb began shooting professional productions, as well as head shots for actors and models. When Karl joined the staff of Florida Grand Opera in Miami, she became official company photographer, as well as shooting productions for Miami, Fort Lauderdale and Palm Beach theater companies and university theater departments. She became production photographer for the Sarasota Opera in 2001 and relocated to Sarasota two years later, when Karl joined the staff as director of education. Her work is prized for her ability to capture the essence of the world's greatest operatic performers and has been featured in major newspapers and magazines throughout the world.
Deb's hospitality and cooking became well-known by actors, singers, directors, conductors and designers. Returning artists were never denied their favorite recipes, and Deb's warmth and generosity provided a home away from home for dozens of traveling artists. She loved them in return, first as individuals and then as artists.

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Published by Herald Tribune on Dec. 14, 2007.

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Tom Barrett

December 20, 2011

Karl,
I just learned tonight of Debra's passing. I am truly heartbroken for you and your children, and sorry I haven't been in better touch. Please know that you and yours are in my and Angela's thoughts and prayers during this holiday season and beyond...

Jan Olsen

January 2, 2009

Karl, dear.

I was so happy to meet your dear wife - and now I'm so sad for your loss. My prayers are with you.

Love,

Julia and Brendan Cooke

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our prayers every day.

With love,

Sarah Lambert

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

I was so saddened to receive your email. My thoughts are with you now and always. Deb was such a beautiful person; it's hard to believe how quickly something can happen that can completely change your world. I am proud to count myself among your friends, upon whom you can rely at such a time.

Much love,

Charles, Hamlen, Janice Mayer and Chris Kenney

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

Thinking of you at this difficult time and sending our condolences to you and your family on Deb's passing.

Her photography and spirit will be missed in the opera field.

With deepest sympathy,

Aunt Milly & Uncle Walt

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

In times of tears, may you remember laughter.
In times of sadness, may you remember smiles.
In times of loneliness, may you think of all you shared -
and may it comfort you to know you'll have those warm, loving memories forever.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love you,

Shiela Better

January 2, 2009

To let you know that thoughts of deepest sympathy are with you.

Joan Wood

January 2, 2009

"In your sorrow, may there be peace."

With deepest sympathy,

Richard and Cynthia Russell

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl and family,

For as long as your heart is feeling the sadness of loss, may it also feel the warmth and caring that surround you.

Love,

Susan Tannenbaum

January 2, 2009

To the Hesser family,

I am so sorry for your loss, from what I got from the memorial service she was a magnificent woman. I hope you find comfort in each other and in sharing the memories you have in your heart.

Much love and support,

Jeanne Hartman

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

I was so sorry to hear of your terrible loss. Deb was such a joy. I always enjoyed the times spent with you two with Steve and Nora.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Roxanna Ross

January 2, 2009

Karl -

The unbelievable has happened, and my heart goes out to you. I lost my Oliver in 1980, so I can imagine your sorrow.

My card says everything that matters:

May time heal your sorrow;
May peace replace your heartache.

Kindly and with understanding,

Tom and LouAnn Graf

January 2, 2009

Karl,

We were so sorry to hear about your tragic accident and the death of Deb. Please accept our deepest sympathy and know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

We hope that your children and their presence was some support for you at this very difficult time.

May God, in His infinite love and compassion, give you peace and strength to carry you through this difficult time.

Kurt, Raelynn and Serena Hesser

January 2, 2009

Men of Malvern
Laymen's Retreat League

Debra R. Hesser has been enrolled in the Men of Malvern Remembrance Association and will share in all the Masses, prayers and good works of all Retreatants while at St. Joseph's - in - the - Hills for the life of the Association.

Enrolled by:

Dr Richard Duckworth and staff

January 2, 2009

Words are never enough at a time like this, but know that caring thoughts are with you.

Our condolences,

Stuart Holt

January 2, 2009

Karl and Family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. Deb was an amazing woman and I am blessed to have known her. I can only hope that you all will be able to celebrate all of her talents and love of life!

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Much love,

Dr. Robert Snyder and staff

January 2, 2009

Extending our Sincerest Sympathy to you and your family at this time of sorrow.

Coleman Lassen

January 2, 2009

To Karl,

Even in sadness, you must feel pride in the legacy left by someone so special. That spirit will continue to shine, lighting the way for others, leaving all of us an example to follow and a remarkable life to remember with grateful hearts.

With sympathy,

Jeffrey and Dana Springer

January 2, 2009

Karl,

We are so saddened to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Phyllis Payton

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

Sharing your sorrow and offering deepest sympathy.

With love,

Diane Pospyhalla

January 2, 2009

Sacred Heart Memorial

In memory of Debra Hesser

The Priests of the Sacred Heart have received a Memorial Gift, together with the request hat the soul of your loved one be remembered daily in their Masses and Prayers as long as the Grace of God is needed. May this thoughtful tribute bring Solace and Consolation to you, as it likewise helps to spread the kingdom of God on earth.

Requested by:

Jeffrey Tucker

January 2, 2009

"I have this feeling there's one more star up in the sky tonight. And even though it's far away, its brightness and warmth still reach us here to make the night a little less dark."

Karl:

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I look forward to seeing you soon.

Much love,

Diane and Rob Haltigan

January 2, 2009

Karl and Family,

May you find comfort in memories and strength in each others love throughout this very difficult time.

I am so sorry for our loss. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Fondly,

Bonnie Koestner

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

I was so saddened to learn of Deb's death and your injury. Such a dreadful loss leaves me without adequate words to express the depth of my sympathy, but I wanted you to know that I am a caring and concerned friend. Knowing you and Deb was a part of my brief stay in Miami that I'll always treasure. I could never have survived the job at FGO without all your kind hep and support, and I remember with great pleasure the time spent with both you and Deb. It was a great gift to meet such wonderful people.

I hope that you are making a rapid recovery from your physical injuries, though I'm sure the emotional recovery will be a much more difficult process. There must be people close to you in Sarasota who are anxious to offer their loving support but I'm one of your many distant friends that form a network of affection and sympathy.

With great fondness and concern,

Bernard & Suzy McDonald

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

Suzy and I are very much thinking about you, Alexandra and Mark at this time. We know it will be a very different Christmas, a sad time but also one of many good memories. I was glad to have the chance to talk last week and was very inspired by some of your thoughts on life and marriage, and so sorry that it was under these circumstances that we should be talking.

We send you our condolences and prayers at this time and hope that in the months and years to come you will be sustained by so many fond memories of Deb.

Jan Hatfield

January 2, 2009

I am so sorry for your loss. Your wife sounded like a very special person.

Debra Jacobs

January 2, 2009

Karl -

As you face each day without Debra at your side, know that she is with you through your memories - to be treasured, bringing comfort.

Fran Gaston

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

I was so saddened to hear of the tragic death of your wife. This must be a terrible time for you. May the love and support of friends and family sustain you now and for a long time to come.

Dawn Wiley, Stephania Feltz, and everyone at Girl Inc.

January 2, 2009

Thinking of you and wishing you peace and comfort.

Jeff Mytinger

January 2, 2009

I am very sorry to hear what happened. Although I did not know her personally, everything I have heard makes her sound like an amazing person and definitely showed through her work. She will be greatly missed. Please take care.

Sincerely,

Mercedes Kratz

January 2, 2009

Extending sincere sympathy to you in your sorrow.

Donna Casella

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

May these words of sympathy ease the sorrow that you bear, and may it bring you comfort just to know that others care.

I was so shocked to hear of your dear wife's passing. Please take care of yourself.

Sincerely,

Lisa Hasson & Brian Robertson

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

May memories comfort you and bring you peace.

With sympathy,

Dr. Sherry Lawrence

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. While I never had the opportunity to meet Debra, I know she must have been a truly remarkable woman. You are in my thoughts.

Fondly,

Bill and Jane Hesser and Family

January 2, 2009

May the memories of the wonderful times you shared with your loved one comfort you and your family today and always.

Linda and Dave Hayward

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

Dave and I are so saddened to learn of your loss. Our hearts go out to you and to your family at the sudden tragic loss of your dear wife, Deb.

We send you our love.

Jackie Shaffer & Family

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl and family,

So sorry to hear about Debbie... Please know you all will be in our thoughts and prayers.

Claire Taplin

January 2, 2009

"Hearts go out to you."

Your friends and colleagues share in your grief at this very difficult time.

In sympathy -

Elaine and Steve Graham

January 2, 2009

"May all your warm memories ease the sorrow that you feel."

Thinking of you at this difficult time - you're in our thoughts.

John & Betsi Powers

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl, Alyx and Mark,

There are just no words to express how we can comfort you at this sad time. Deb touched so many folks with her love and her talents, her caring and generous ways.

One of my favorite memories is of her coming to our apartment in Germany - just before we moved back to the States - and she was SO excited and happy! Karl had proposed!!

The love between you was apparent long before then, and confirmed for over 30 years. You both supported each others' interests in theatre and opera and photography and the new home.

We're so glad we saw you two a few years ago in Sarasota, and regret that out schedule didn't allow for more visits. We never met your children, but know from emails and letters how proud Deb was of them.

Again, Karl our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family, and we trust your friends and all the great memories will comfort you.

The Marano's

January 2, 2009

Karl:

We are here for you.

Love,

Georgi Eberhard

January 2, 2009

"With gentle strength and patience, love wraps us in its care, and in our time, we'll find the peace that's waiting softly there."

Dear Karl,

May you find comfort in the love that surrounds you and be warmed by the love that lives on in your heart.

With a full heart, and with prayers -

The Pekarek Family

January 2, 2009

Mr. Hesser,

Thinking of you at this difficult time. You are in our prayers.

The Pinellas Opera League Board and Membership

January 2, 2009

"Thinking of you and your family and extending deepest sympathy."

Dave Braun

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

"May time and cherished memories help to gently ease your sorrow, giving you hope and strength with each new day."

I was saddend to learn of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you as always.

Sincerely,

Eden

January 2, 2009

"As you remember you loved one,
May the memory of her smile warm you like the sun.
May the memory of her laughter echo in your heart.
May the light of your best memories enrich all of your days."

With caring thoughts and sympathy,
Your friend,

Connie and Dennis

January 2, 2009

Karl and Family,

We met you and Deb a few years ago during the Opera Season. We create the advertising pieces for Sarasota Opera and work with Susan & Amy & Rich.

We can't begin to imagine what you are experiencing. Deb's spirit always shone through her photography! May friends and family bring you some comfort, and her life and times with you remain as a beacon of hope and love for your relationship.

Take care.

Jocelyne Favorite

January 2, 2009

Dear Karl,

It was with great sadness that I heard of the death of your lovely wife Debra. What a tragedy - Please accept my condolences in this great loss. I am so sorry for you and your family. I want you to know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and understand your sorrow. I know that your grief is unbearable and I hope that knowing that I care; along with many people who care about you and your family, will help alleviate your pain.

Fondly,

Willie Waters

December 9, 2008

Karl, Alexandra and Mark - it is still unbelievable that our dear Deb is no longer with us. The times we all spent together were very, very special. Christmas eve will never be the same. Our lives will always have a void. Yet, we are filled with such wonderful memories of such a wonderful person - your wife, your mother, my friend. May you be forever comforted by the outpouring of love from friends around the world. And know that there will always be a place in my heart that will keep her memory alive.

"How small a part of time we share
that are SO wondrous, sweet and fair."

(Go, lovely ROSE)

Love to you all -
Willie
Willie Anthony Waters

Kevin & Sally Langan

December 8, 2008

Dear Karl & Family,

The tragic news of your terrible accident and Deb's passing away was almost unbearable when we first heard of it. Our thoughts and prayers have been with your family ever since. Deb was a person full of life and such a talented photographer, mother, and a joy to spend time with. Her photo montage she made for me of all my roles at Florida Grand Opera that was presented to me as a gift, on the occasion of my 1000th career performance in 2002, is something I shall treasure always. It hangs very prominently in our home.
May your memories of Debra be always a comfort to you as they are to us. May God grant her soul everlasting joy and peace.
We miss you Deb!

Michael Foden

December 8, 2008

Now is the only time we own, and I know that Deb made the most of her time with all of us. She will be deeply missed and so very fondly remembered.

Teresa Lientz

December 8, 2008

I miss you Deb. I think about you everyday and I think about all of the times that I look to you for motherly advise, the fun we had working together and the support we gave each other through the bad times. Your friendship meant the world to me. You'll be forever loved and missed.

Lisa Harer de Calvo

December 8, 2008

Dear Karl:
Thank you for sending this to me. José and I share many memories of Deb. We were so grateful to have known her and experienced her wonderful hospitality. We have often spoken of the evening we spent with you both and Bonnie Koestner in your home in Miami. I am also so glad that I have the wonderful photograph that you and Deb generously gifted to me, of me playing the Prologue of "The Turn of the Screw". It has always been on display on my piano and will always remain there. Her legacy will live on in her artistry. We miss you and we miss her.
Much love,
Lisa Harer de Calvo
and
José Calvo

Stuart Holt

December 8, 2008

Karl and Family,

You are in my thoughts and prayers. The love, laughter and talent that Deb shared, touched me in so many ways. The picture of Diana in my office is a constant memory of her love and gift for capturing so much beauty.

Rick & Peg Hughes

December 8, 2008

We fondly remember Deb's laugh and the great stories of our favorite super hero "Consumer Deb" and her endless fight against consumer injustice.

Kristine Masta

December 8, 2008

Dear Karl-

Not often do you get to see a real life love story....How wonderful that you found each other. I keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Angie Daffert

December 5, 2008

Karl & Family,

"Remember her smile, her kindness and her generosity, remember her laughter and her beauty...keep all those memories close to you and her spirit will live in your heart and be with you forever."

Claire, Sarah, David & all of the Wallace family

December 5, 2008

Dear Karl, Alyx and Mark,

"Words seem so empty when hearts are so full of caring. May you somehow feel the many loving thoughts that are with you."

With deepest sympathy,

Clair & Sandy

December 5, 2008

"Please know you have the support and caring of so many who keep you close in thought and wish you comfort and peace."

Karl,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Barbara Johnson

December 5, 2008

12/14/07

Dear Karl,

News of your car accident was a great shock. I am so glad you are all right and deeply sorry about the death of your wife. As the survivor of a bad car accident in July, I can relate in part to your experience. If there is anyway I can be of help, I hope you would call on me.

Warmly,

Liane Piehl

December 5, 2008

"To express deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved one, and to let you know that many thoughts are with you."

Betty York

December 5, 2008

12/15/07

Dear Karl,

There are not words enough to convey how sad I am for you and your devastating loss.

Thank heavens you have meaningful and all-consuming work to do these next few months. I hope that helps to ease the pain.

I am truly sorry.

Affectionately,

Lydia & Patrick McKenzie

December 5, 2008

Dear Karl,

Patrick and I are heartbroken for your loss. Having seen the outpouring of love and heard the many stories about her loving spirit, her generous ear, her terrific cooking and sense of grace and balance as she traveled through this world, I wish I had known her better. I can't imagine how you must be feeling, and I wish I could speak even a single word of comfort. I'm so glad you are surrounded by your wonderful family and so many dear friends. They - and you - are wonderful tributes to Deb.

Love,

Jim & Joyce Hesson

December 5, 2008

"Hold fast to memories...for in remembering is the soul renewed."

With our love at this difficult time -

Barbara & Frank O'Conner

December 5, 2008

Karl,

We were so sorry to hear of your loss. We truly hope you're going to get through this.

We're also sorry we couldn't attend the concert - as we didn't know about it! (Until afterwards)

Finally, we regret we cannot attend the memorial service. But I hope you know we will be there in spirit - and you're in our thoughts and prayers.

Mort Jonas

November 27, 2008

Dear Karl,

I am joining the countless friends around the world who care about you (despite many years and miles of seperation) to say I was shocked to hear your news, and my heart goes out to you. You are in my prayers.

Fondly,

Dana Rahning

November 27, 2008

"A place on earth is empty.
A voice you loved is gone.
Yet in the memories of your heart,
the love you knew lives on.
In God's redeeming purpose,
we cannot always know the reason for the sad times that we must undergo.
And yet our faith assures us God's love and strength will be sufficient for our days on earth - and all eternity."

Love,

Robert Gilder

November 27, 2008

Dear Karl, Alexandra and Mark,

Words cannot express my profound sadness at this time - you are all in my thoughts.

Love,

Joy Johns

November 27, 2008

A Gaelic Blessing

Deep peace of the running wave to you,
Deep peace of the flowing air to you,
Deep peace of the quiet earth to you,
Deep peace of the shining stars to you,
Deep peace of the gentle night to you,
Moon and Stars pour their healing light on you,
Deep peace of Christ the Light of the world to you.

Dear Karl,

All week I've been having strong memories of Debbie - just breaking into my thoughts often at unexpected times. Going back to when we first met in Worms and she was helping at the theater center - I believe she was helping with a children's play. I have a good photo of her with a distinct patterned sweater. Her laugh and chuckle was quite distinct - and also her "crush" / love for you.

I can see so much of that time at Spier St. & the cats! Remember when she and I did our typing tests together (she came along to keep my company and to get out of being a babysitter). She scored 40 wpm! With no practice and I scored 28 and had been practicing for weeks. She was always - so competent! (I was just grateful to get a job - but also a bit envious.)

So many memories - of your getting enganged and us all being surprised - but how well it all worked out for you. A real partnership.

Who would have thought that when it all started - what an amazingly rich journey you have been on together. Like you said - not always easy - like any relationship - but a true pairing.

It seems that you really gave each other a chance to grow. I remember first seeing Deb's photos after she had the job in the photo lab in San Diego (I believe). So talented - so strong. And of course - being amazed when I saw her portfolio after she had been shooting operas. If she hadn't been with you and part of the theatrical/opera world - who knows if that side of her talent would have blossomed.

And, of course, she supported you when you took that big big step to pursue the scholarship/fellowship. How brave that was of both of you - and how well it turned out.

I feel so sad and devastated at her loss - but so glad to have known her (and you). Just a myriad of memories and connections. Quite amazingly - that after the wedding - saying goodbye - we all meet at the Edinburgh Festival - that we saw Measure for Measure?

Then all those years later in California - a whole new chapter. Good memories and also more difficult. Sharing the appartment with us and with the floor! You playing the entire Ring Cycle and Deb and I saying enough - too many voices! (But thanks to you introducing me to Sutherland and Pavarotti/La Traviata - I enjoy opera - although not too many opportunities at the moment.)

I remember being at the hospital when Alyx was born - being part of your lives. So many Thanksgivings and Christmas celebrations. So many wonderful turkey dinners and Deb's fabulous gravy! Always great hospitality, laughter and interesting people. So valuable by me - my chosen family in the U.S.

So thank you for all those memories - Deb was a larger than life person - in talent, genorosity and wisdom. I am SO glad to have known her. I almost feel like she was a sister to me - and I want to honor and celebrate her memory - but also keep feeling so sad that she won't be calling me or will be meeting in the future. I am so please we had that call in September.

My beliefs are pretty strong that this life is not the end. I'm not sure what you think but I hope you have some comfort from knowing that the unique spirit of Deb must be continuing somehow / somewhere. That love is stronger than death.

It's all just such a shock - and I really, really feel for you Karl, and send you love and comfort and support. Also to Alyx and Mark who must be devastated too. Be kind to yourself and look after yourself.

Hope that the funeral/cremation is able to be a celebration of her life in some way too. Hard though it all is - I will have some ceremony for her here too - I have lit candles in my church and am having your names read out on our prayer list. Please take care of yourself and love to Curtis. My special love to Mark and Alyx. Hope you can read this - it could go on for ages - I can remember so much so vividly - bless her and keep you all safe.

With all my love,

Shawn Wilder

November 27, 2008

Enough cannot be said about how wonderful she was. She always mede me feel welcomed and cared for.

Sincerely,

Anita Martichuski

November 26, 2008

Karl, Mark and Alexandra,

We are so sorry for your loss. our prayers and love are with you.

"Day by day, may the light of your memories dimish the shadow of sorrow."

Cindy and Lenny Balistreri

November 26, 2008

Dear Karl,

We are dismayed and saddened by this traumatic accident. Please know that you are in our thoughts. We hope for peave for you and your family.

(Aunt) Betty Honeycutt

November 26, 2008

12/31/07

"We look at hte night sky in the quiet of darkness, and they are never far. Those we have loved and cherished, those who have changed our lives in some small or profound way are closer than we know, because it is their light that shines on our world. It is the brilliance of their sould that makes our night sky glow.

May peace shine down upon you and bring you comfort."

Pat & Warren Carlson

November 26, 2008

12/28/07

Karl,

I know Warren has visited and has expressed our condolences but I would like to add that I have been thinking of your loss and have had more or less some of the same experience many years ago with the loss of my husband.

The shock is very deep and always there but thank goodness for friends and family and time!

Finding Warren after thirty years or so - and trusting our lives would be better by connecting then was a very positive step for me.

I'm happy I was able to meet Deb a few years back and am pretty sure we would have been good friends had we lived closer.

Sincerely,

Bill and Chris Marks

November 26, 2008

12/28/07

Dear Karl:

Please accept our most sincere condolences at the passing of Debra. After so many years, words simply fail me (us).

Just know you are in our thoughts. May the coming years bring you and your family success.

Fondly-

Joy Adams

November 26, 2008

"In times of sorrow, when words of comfort are needed most, it seems they are most difficult to say. But may you find comfort in knowing that warm thoughts and sympathy are with you."

Karl-

The card says it all. I prefer to be there and speak in person. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I know Deb was your beacon - your support and that you will miss her dearly.

Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

With my deepest regards,

Michell, Ruben, Nick, Amanda & Alicia Martinez

November 26, 2008

Karl & Mark -

"While we don't know the perfect words to say or the exact thing to do to comfort you, we want you to know how sorry we are to hear of your loss. Our warmest thoughts are with you."

Your Neighbors,

(Aunt) Virginia Smith

November 26, 2008

12/27/07

Dear Karl & Family,

"May you find comfort in memories and strength in each other's love throughout this very difficult time."

Love,

John Hancock

November 26, 2008

12/2007

Dear Karl,

I was so pleased to get your note and hear of your plans for the summer. What a wonderful idea, and I hope very much to be a part of it.

I am so sorry that you are feeling such grief at this time of year in particular. Your passage through this first year will surely be very hard.

Oh, Karl, I just wish I knew what to say to make this feel better. Just know that I, along with many others, are praying for you.

I send love,

Herb & Ginger Johns

November 26, 2008

"I can't imagine what you must be feeling and I'm not really sure what to say...but I want you to know you're in my thoughts and, more importantly, my prayers during this difficult time."

We are sincerely sorry for your loss, Karl.

Margaret Romanes

November 26, 2008

12/12/07

Dear Karl,

I was really shocked to hear of your terrible accident and the death of your wife Deb. It is awful, both for you and your children. My husband died suddenly in his sleep just before Christmas in 1984. I was totally devastated, finding it difficult to do the simplest of tasks.

I do hope that you start to pick up faily soon and that you will be back in your "home" again soon. The Sarasota Opera needs you.

In sympathy,

The Von Wood Family

November 26, 2008

Dearest Karl,

"At a time when words fall short, may God answer each prayer spoken for you with strength of heart, peace of mind, and comfort in the midst of sorrow."

With sympathy, prayer and love,

Cynthia, Sarah and Joshua Collins

November 26, 2008

Alyx & Family,

"May every memory shared bring you comfort in your time of loss."

Grace, comfort, and love for you and your family -

Love,

Leann Overton

September 18, 2008

1/10/08

Mark Graf told me of the news. I was so sorry to hear about the accident and the death of your wife. I can't imagine the suddeness of it all. My strongest thoughts for healing of body and spirit I sent out to you and your family.

Please treat yourself especially well as you find your way through this huge transition.

Marion Pratnicki & Mohammad Aslam

September 18, 2008

1/22/08

Sacred Heart Memorial

In Memory of Debra Hesser

The Priests of the Sacred Heart have received a Memorial Gift, together with the request that the soul of your loved one be remembered daily in their Masses and Prayers as long as the Grace of God is needed. May this thoughtful tribute bring Solace and Consolation to you, as it likewise helps to spread the kingdom of God on earth.

Melissa Parce Danberg, Jesse & Tony Parce

September 18, 2008

1/15/08

Dear Karl, Alexandra and Mark,

We were so sorry to hear about the loss of Debra. Your wife, and mom, was a wonderful person - filled with such a great spirit for life, showing others how to care with grace. We will always miss her, but know that she was lucky to have you, too.

A favorite memory was when you came to the northwest, headed for your great trip to Alaska. It was fun to have you here for that short while, as well as when Erich brought you up to see Kettle Falls. The picture Debra sent me, looking over Lake Roosevelt area, is on my wall. I treasure it.

Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

With love,

Jeanine & Allan Glassman

September 18, 2008

Dear Karl -

Our thoughts and our love are with you at this difficult time. We will continue to think of you and your family, and we wish you all the best for a speedy recovery -

Elizabeth Gonye

September 18, 2008

Dear Karl,

Sorry to be so late with my note, but being away, only recently did I hear of the tragic death of your dear wife.

She was such an unusually talented person and a dear one. I know that the joy she brought to the world around her will live forever.

My thoughts and prayers are with you dear Karl; please accpet my deepest and most heartfelt sympathy.

With warm regards,

Kristina Rogers & Victoria Baltulis

September 18, 2008

Dear Karl and Family,

"There are times
when the right words
just don't exist...
times when feelings
are too deep to be expressed,
but at this sad time
may it bring you
some peace and comfort
to know that caring
thoughts are with you
ever day."

You are in our prayers,

John & Olga Olenick

September 18, 2008

1/15/08

Dear friend Karl and Family,

"Please take time to heal,
take time to recover,
and let your friends take time
to help you through this sadness."

Our love

Ken Benson

September 18, 2008

1/5/08

Dear Karl,

I was sincerely sorry to hear of Deb's passing.

My thoughts are with you at this very difficult time,

From the Swalm Family

September 18, 2008

"Flowers Recieved"

To the Hesser family

Blessings

Steve Peterson, Nora Feldman & Price

September 18, 2008

There are no words sufficient at this time, but there will always be memories. We hold them, Deb and you in our hearts.

"A Gift in the Name of Mrs. Debra R. Hesser has been made to the American Diabetes Association by

Sue Endsley

September 18, 2008

Karl,

Just wanted to send a few words of sympathy in writing although we have already spoken on the phone.

So, so sorry that such a catastrophe had to befall your life, too, and so very sad for Debbie to have her life cut short. It was no surprise to read how many people attended the service to celebrate her life and wish her goodbye. I always enjoyed her company so, her hospitality, and valued her for her sense of self, her respect and acceptance of others, not to mention her sense of humor.

I'm sure you know you are in my thoughts and i wish you the strength to deal with your sorrow in your own way.

I realize you are fortunate to be surrounded by lots of good friends and family and their support will keep you going in the coming months, but if you ever feel like a word, please just pick up the phone. Sometimes it's easier to talk with someone not in your immediate circle, and also someone who has been through the same thing.

Once again, my condolences.

Love,

John F. Kennedy Council #4153 Knights of Columbus

September 18, 2008

1/3/08

Karl,

Please accept the condolences of the Knights at John F. Kennedy Council.
- Frank

Men of Malvern
Laymen's Retreat League

Debra Hesser has been enrolled in the Men of Malvern Remembrance Association and will share in the Masses, prayers and goodworks of our Retreatants while at St. Joseph's-in-the-Hills for the life of the Association.

Nancy Roucher

September 18, 2008

1/7/08

Dear Karl,

I just wanted to tell you how much I regret not knowing your Deb. She sounds like a memorable person. I did meet her once, but obviously not enough. The only compensation is that hearning about your life together helped me know you even better. For that, I am grateful.

The celebration of her life was simply beautiful. Your presence and dignity were inspiring to all of us. Please know we are all here for you. I hope you find comfort in the memories and good times you had together.

With sympathy and friendship -

Jennifer Smith

September 18, 2008

Karl -

I was so saddened to hear the news. Please know that I am thinking of you.

Diana Hossack & Debra Harrison

September 18, 2008

1/3/08

We weere devestated to learn of Debra's passing. We can not imagine what you and your family must be going through. We hope your physical injuries are healing. Please know we are available if we can support your emotional healing process. Hold on to your wonderful memories. You time with her was a gift to be treasured!

You and the family are in our thoughts and prayers -

Myrna & Kavel Labberton

September 18, 2008

12/10/07

Dear Karl,

We are so shocked to learn about your accident and that your wife Deb died during this ordeal. What a terrible shock and thing to happen for you both!!

We had just gotten word from our friends last night that they were not coming next weekend so we were free to finally meet your wife in person. That is why we had not yet replied to your kind invitation.

We wish you a lot of strength to go through these coming months! If there is anything we can do for you, please do not hesitate to call on us.

We are with you in thought and will send a lot of white light around you. That should help somewhat.

Bon courage! and do not forget that we are there to do anything we can to help.

Betty Jo and Michael Blaumer & the Pinellas Opera League

September 18, 2008

May the memory of good times be with you always, to put a smile upon your face. But remember your close friends are there beside you to shed a tear put in it's place.

Fondly,

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