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Gary Cruzan Obituary

TAYLORSVILLE - Lt. Gary Lee Edward Cruzan, U.S. Navy retired, 67, of the Bethlehem community, went to be with the Lord on Tuesday evening, July 20, 2010. He was born in Jacksonville, Ill., Oct. 25, 1942, to the late Edward Merrill Cruzan of Jacksonville, Ill., and Margaret Cruzan Meyer of Hickory. Gary was a member of Bethlehem Baptist Church, where he served the Lord as a deacon, Sunday school teacher, usher, personnel committee and member of the pastoral search committee. Mr. Cruzan was retired from the United States Navy, following 20 years service as a nuclear power submariner. He achieved the rank of lieutenant. His civilian career spanned 23 years with Duke Power in Charlotte as a nuclear engineer. In addition to his father, who also retired as a naval hospital corpsman, he was preceded in death by one brother-in-law and sister-in-law, Fred and Ann Brackett. In addition to his mother, he is survived by his loving wife of 45 years, Sharon Brackett Cruzan, as well as three loving and adoring children, Sherry and husband, Ashley Rhoney, of Lafayette, La., Senior Chief Cindy Cruzan of Washington, D.C., and one son, Garrett Edward Cruzan and wife, Debbie, of Talladega. Ala. He was also blessed with two grandchildren, Kaylan Marie and Chase Rhoney of Lafayette, La. He has one sister, Mary Dufour and husband, Fred, of Indiana. He is also survived by sisters-in-law, Delene, and husband, Robert Bills, of Ballston Spa, N.Y. and Colleen and John Barron of Birmingham, N.Y; brothers-in-law, Lynn Brackett and wife, Linda, Ronald Brackett and wife, Polly, and John Brackett and wife, Bernadette, all of Connecticut; nieces and nephews, Terry and Daniel Dufour of Texas and Fred Dufour and wife, Molly, of Texas; great-nephews and nieces, Henry and Emily Dufour of Indiana and David Dufour of Texas. He has several nieces and nephews and great-nieces and nephews, Rick and Ronnie Cruzan of Jacksonville, Ill., and Jeannine of Illinois; as well as a cousin, Gary Joe Cruzan of New Jersey. There is a very special family friend, Hannah Fox Hefner. Mr. Cruzan was a member of the Bethlehem Ruritan Club for 25 years, where he served as president, vice president and secretary. Visitation will be held Saturday, July 24, 2010, at Bethlehem Baptist Church from noon until 1:45 p.m. Services will be conducted at 2 p.m. at the church. Burial will follow in the church cemetery, with full military honors by the U.S. Navy Honor Guard. The ship's bell will be tolled by the submarine veterans of Charlotte. Pallbearers will be Brent Fox, Chase Rhoney and members of the Bethlehem Ruritan Club. Pastors, Kenneth Little, Kenneth Lambert and Chris Meade will officiate. Brian Johnson will offer the graveside prayer. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Wounded Warriors Project, P.O. Box 758516, Topeka Kan., 66675-8516. Condolences may be sent to www.alexfuneralservice.com. Alexander Funeral and Cremation Service in Taylorsville is serving the Cruzan family.
Published by Hickory Daily Record on Jul. 23, 2010.

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September 3, 2011

Gary was my best friend through the grammar school and junior high years at various Navy duty stations. I will remember his smile, kindness, and wonderful sense of humor. I am greatly saddened to learn of his passing, and send my prayers and thoughts to his family.
-Carol Towner Garner

Candy Waldrop

August 4, 2010

Sharon, our thoughts and prayers are with
you and your family. I still get the
Ballston Journal and was so sorry for your loss. Candy (Jurcsak) and Chuck
Waldrop

Tim Deaton

July 26, 2010

Sharon & family, our prayers are with you all. I cherish the years we shared with you at Bethlehem. May God bless you, hold you, and comfort you throughout this time of your loss.

July 25, 2010

Sharon and Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you now. I am sorry for you loss.
Doris (Carver) Mitchell & Family

July 24, 2010

Deaf Cruzans Family, We all offer our sympathy and I know for sure that He is greatly missed. (Bucky Carver and the Family in Oak Ridge, Tennessee)

Chris Richardson

July 24, 2010

Sherry I was saddened to hear of the passing of your father. My prayers are with you and your familly. Chris Richardson "Class of 83"

Catherine Brittain

July 24, 2010

Sharon and family,
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We remember fondly the shared times at Bethlehem Baptist with your family. We pray that God would give you strength, courage, and comfort as you go through this difficult time. Even though we are no longer close in distance, we will keep you close in our hearts.
Charlie and Catherine

Wanda Teague

July 23, 2010

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010

July 23, 2010

Hello Sharon so sorry for your loss.Only met you one time but as I told you we are here for you any time day or night.May GOD be with you in your time of need. your neighbors Wanda and Dale Teague

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