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James Wotring Obituary

James Wotring III HICKORY James "Jay" William Wotring III, 47, of Hickory, passed away Friday, June 7, 2013 at Catawba Valley Medical Center. Born Dec. 11, 1965 in Richmond, Va., he was the son of Dr. James "Bill" William Wotring Jr. and Vivian Sawyer Wotring. In addition to his parents, he is survived by his daughters, Anne Hudson Wotring and Lila James Wotring, of Charlotte; sister, Alison Krenshaw and husband, Scott, of Richmond, Va.; nieces, Tatem Krenshaw, Isabel Krenshaw and Hastings Krenshaw, of Richmond, Va. A private family memorial service will be held at a later date. Memorials may be made in Jay's honor to Catawba Medical Foundation, 810 Fairgrove Church Rd., Hickory, NC 28602. Online condolences may be left for the family at www.bass-smith funeralhome.com. Bass-Smith Funeral Home is serving the family of James "Jay" William Wotring III.

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Published by Hickory Daily Record on Jun. 9, 2013.

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Lila Wotring

March 1, 2021

I am his daughter and not one person has said “I am sorry for your lose Anne Wotring, Jennifer Wotring, and me Lila Wotring. We went through the pain and I still am every night knowing my dad had past away to reasons I know but that I have no father figure and not dad to come to softball games and cheer me on when I hit a home run. We have the pain to and no one even knows.

Lila Wortring

March 1, 2021

James is my dad, he had past away when I was 6 and I never got to say goodbye, I just wish I could say I love you one more time. I don’t remember much about him because I was so young but the story’s my mom tell me make him sound like the best person. All I ask is to always love and be kind to your parents because I never want anyone to feel the pain that I never knew my dad.

Sherry Lund

July 4, 2013

I was so sorry to hear about Jay. We had so much fun growing up on the "circle". He was such a darling. I have many fond memories of the fun Jay, Scott, Patrick and I had.

Sara Mawyer-Deal

June 20, 2013

My dearest, most beloved Dr. Wotring and wife, there are no words in any vocabulary to describe the immeasurable loss you and your family must be feeling upon the loss of your son. From personal experience I can only say that the good Lord calls us up not one moment sooner than is meant to be. I wish you, your wife and your family strength and peace to get through the days and the darkest of nights ahead.
With utmost respect and prayers,
Sara Mawyer Deal

Robbie Sherrill

June 14, 2013

Dr. Wotring, I was so sorry to read about your son. I can only imagine the loss and heartbreak you and your family are going through. I pray that you all can take comfort knowing he is with our Lord and those family members that have gone before him. May God bless you all and hold you close during such a sad time in your lives. Amen.

Susan Sharon

June 13, 2013

Dr. Wotring I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I lost my only child Troy when he was 40 and I truly can say I know what it feels like to lose a child. I pray for strength for you and your family in this difficult time. I am so very sorry.

June 12, 2013

Dear Dr Wotring and Vivian,
I was so sorry to read of your son's passing. May God comfort you and give you peace and also to Alison..
Sincerely, Pat Fritz

Michelle Steffens-Favaro

June 12, 2013

Bill, Vivian & Alison,
I am so sorry to hear about Jay's passing. He was a wonderful kid growing up and came from a wonderful family. My thoughts are with you all.

Laura Bunton

June 12, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. I remember what a funny and sweet boy Jay was growing up. Your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Tanya Steffens-Roarke

June 12, 2013

Dr. Wotring, Vivian & Alison,
I am very sorry for your loss. Jay was awesome to grow up with on the circle as your whole family was. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lots of love being sent your way.

June 11, 2013

Dr. Wotring and family, I amd so sorry to hear about the loss of Jay! I will keep you all in my prayers.

Love, Jennifer Crump

Ruth Apelt

June 11, 2013

Bill, Vivan and Allison, My heartis borken and I pray for strength and comfort for you in the coming days. Love to you all, Ruthie (Butler) Apelt

June 11, 2013

Dear Aunt Vivian, Uncle Bill, Allison and family. There are no words...I am so sorry. I love you. Cindy

Bobby Wotring

June 11, 2013

Uncle Bill, Aunt Vivian, Allison and family - I'm so sorry to hear about Jay. I know that you loved him very much. I'll be praying for all of you.

Cherl Honeycutt

June 10, 2013

Dr. Wotring and Vivian,
My heart goes out to you both. You and your famiy are in my thoughts and prayers. If there is anything I can do Please call.
With deepest sympathy,
RandallMy God comfort each of you

Buck Calloway

June 10, 2013

Dr. Wotring and Vivian, I wish to express our deepest sympathy for you at this time and pray for strength to see you through your loss.

Terra Wales

June 10, 2013

Dearest Uncle Bill, Vivian, Allison & Family,
There are no words to express the loss you feel. Please know that I am thinking about you all & remembering you in my prayers. Love to you all, Terra & Family.

June 10, 2013

Dear Dr. Wotring and Vivian, I am so so sorry to hear about your loss!! I am heart broken for you!! Your family will be in my thoughts and prayers!!!

Love you, Trish Townsend

June 10, 2013

Dr. Wotring & Family,
We are so sorry to hear about your son and would like to express our deepest sympathies for your loss.
Linda & Glenda Patterson

Cissy Foster

June 9, 2013

Jay was one of my best freinds in college with my sister, Margaret jonas Harman. I have the best stories of the times we spent together. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..He will be missed

June 9, 2013

Vivian, Bill, and Allison I am so sorry for your loss.
Wesley Johnson (Chapel Hill NC)

June 9, 2013

Dear Dr. and Mrs. Wotring,
We are so very sorry to learn of your loss. Words can't adequately express our sadness for you and your family. Please accept our sincere condolences.
Peggy and Paul Swing

Dawn Shave

June 9, 2013

Dr. Wotring and Vivian,

I am so sorry to hear of Jay's passing. Words cannot express my sympathy. Your entire family is in my prayers. May God wrap His loving arms around you all.

June 9, 2013

I am sad to read about the loss of your son in the HDR. Rosella Pawtucket, R.I.

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