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3 Entries
Yuhong
April 4, 2022
Dear Lila, it's been so long! The world has changed totally and many things happened. But I always remember you and tell my son, who is 8 years old now about you. I lost my dearest mother and mother in law last year. I understand that death is not the end and I do believe all of you, are very happy in heaven. Miss you, Lila!
Yuhong LI
April 8, 2019
Dear Lila, Rest in Peace! I miss you! I talked about you with my five year old son sometimes. I still visit New Haven once a year although I have been based in Hong Kong for almost nine years. Every time when I pass by Whitney Center, I can always see you in my mind. I don't know a lot about your life (also because I was so poor in English when I met you) but I would always remember you as my English teacher! Love you and miss you!
Yuhong Li
April 28, 2011
I cannot believe Lila passed away. How I wish she would always be there and smile at me.
"Oh,boy!" Lila said when I told her something interesting about China. After that, she added: "boy" here doesn't mean that "boy." She was teaching me English.
I came to New Haven in 2004 from Beijing, China. Lila was my first English teacher in the U.S.
I still remember the day we met for the first time. It was a sunny afternoon. Lila sat at a desk and she prepared a pen and a notebook for me to study. She was a strict teacher. Whenever I made mistakes on pronunciation, she would stop me and say "I don't know what you are talking about." I was very frustrated at the beginning, especially when Lila told me she could not understand me when I said "I LOVE my husband."--" You have to place your top front teeth against your bottom lip when you pronounce V." Lila told me and bit her bottom lip with her front teeth tightly. I can never forget this in my whole life.
I laughed and--cried when I though of this. I miss you so much, Lila.
I visited Lila once a week since 2004 until I moved to NYC and studied at Columbia University in 2007. Lila taught me English and corrected my English writings. She recommended me many good English novels. We became very good friends and she told me her stories as well. We kept in touch even after I moved to NYC until she was sick and could not remember who I was.
I moved to Hong Kong for good last April and I went to see her at the Whitney Center before I left. She could not speak clearly and I don't know if she knew me then, but we both cried when I left. It was the last time I saw her.
I am so grateful for having a great teacher and friend like Lila. Rest in peace, Lila, and I LOVE you.
Yuhong Li
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