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David Winder Obituary

DAVID WINDER died peacefully at home with his family at his side after a sudden illness. He was Pat and Dennis Winder's miracle baby and was born in Chester, England the 7th of November 1957. Dave was so pleased to be able to spend his last night at home and spent the time giving out instructions including what should be written here. The following are his words. "I love Everton FC, my job, my family and good beer. Maybe not in that order! I have had a great life, traveled all over the world and made lots of friends. My mum and dad spoiled me and, until I met Karen, I was a typical only child. Luckily for me, she turned out to be the great person she is, amazing luck for me as my criteria for meeting women 22 years ago was that they be available and hopefully have had a couple of cocktails! We met and were married in 9 months, had 3 years of European vacations and generally wasting money, and then Claire came along. That's when I grew up, as 21 months later Steven arrived. Talking of children, if you haven't got any get some. Borrow someone else's if you have to, they put everything into perspective. My kids are perfect and I take all the credit for that, Karen staying home with them had no influence whatsoever! I am so proud that Claire is at Loughborough University, which is the best University in the world in my opinion! Steven has turned out to be a strong man, and I am proud that he would not let me push him into going to Loughborough, he knows what he wants and gets it without arguments or aggression. He will do a great job of being the "man of the house" I wish I could have more time with them. I am sorry that Karen and I won't get to go to India for my 50th, or Key West for our 25th anniversary. Houston has been good to us, giving us great friends and neighbors - I want to say sorry to all my friends for not seeing them, I really thought I would get better now I know that none of you care if I am purple with yellow spots lots of love to all of you. If anyone wants to do something in my honor, be a football coach (the English kind!), or volunteer with Scouts, just make your family your priority. If you must send flowers make them Goodison blue and no crying allowed." Dave is survived by his wife Karen, daughter Claire, son Steven all of Copperfield, Houston; M-in-L and F-in-L, Roy and Janet Poole of Arley, England, brothers-in-law Mark, wife Lesley and daughter Nikki of Okehampton, England; Philip, wife Angela and children Olivia, James, Kate and Ellie of Stockton Heath, England, sister-in-law Alison and children Ross, Sam and Rowanne of London, England. The other two musketeers from Blacon Junior School, Pete Cross wife Marina and children Jenny and Michael, and Phil Downes wife Anne and children Emma and Matthew. He was preceded in death by his parents Pat and Dennis, Aunty Bess, Aunty Ede and Uncle Ralph. A memorial service for close friends, neighbors and colleagues will be held on Monday 16th April at 6.30pm at Brookside Funeral Home Cypress Creek. There will be a private cremation and Karen, Claire and Steven will take Dave home to the Rose Garden at Chester crematorium to be with his mum and dad. At Dave's request, some time in late June there will be a celebration of his life at his favorite place in Houston to spend a Saturday afternoon. Details will be sent out soon. Thanks to all the doctors and nurses who tried so hard to help us at St Luke's Episcopal Hospital, and Karen would personally like to thank everyone at St Cuthbert's Episcopal pre-school and church, especially the Rainbow class for being so lovely.

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Published by Houston Chronicle from Apr. 15 to Apr. 16, 2007.

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Kathy McCarthy

April 9, 2020

Karen, hope you're doing well! So long ago since we lived in Houston, I still remember the shock of hearing about Dave's passing, just such a lovely man. Kathy McCarthy Vancouver

Jill Hudson-Kerr

February 15, 2009

Still thinking about you Karen, Jill

Karen Winder

February 14, 2009

Valentines Day again. Wish you were here. xxx

Janet Weeden

April 5, 2008

Dear Karen
Phillipa Thornton has passed on your sad news. Our sincere condolences to you, Claire and Steven.
Janet, Rob. Tom and Clare Weeden

JILL HUDSON-KERR

April 2, 2008

Dear Karen I think of you, even just for a moment, every day. I know it must still hurt, even with the passing of time. Please take care. Jill

Philip Downes

April 1, 2008

No one can put into words how sad we all feel at Dave's sudden departure.Time however will not take away any of the great memories we have,including the wild times spent as bachelors around Chester (Dave,Phil and Pete the three musketeers)and then the time spent as familes together once all of our children came along.We didn't see as much of one another as we would have liked but when we all got together (Winder's,Downes's and Cross's).We always had a great time with plenty to laugh and talk about with the odd gallon of amber nectar to help the night along.
Fond memories and we will always miss you Dave, from Phil,Anne,Emma and Matthew.

Karen Winder

February 14, 2008

I can't help but think of this time last year, when we still had no idea any of this was going to happen.....

All my love, Karen

Philippa Thornton

January 13, 2008

Dear Karen, Claire & Steven,
We were all devastated to hear your very sad news. My heartfelt feelings of sympathy go out to all of you. It seems like yesterdy we were sharing happy times together in Houston with you all. I was very moved by Dave's tribute to you ..........I am sure his memory will live on in his two beautiful children. I can't see Everton FC now without picturing Dave. Karen,you are in our thoughts,
With love from Philippa, Kate, Juliet, James & Jonathan

Caroline Winter

December 23, 2007

Dear Karen, Stephen and claire

I have just received the beautiful christmas card and this allowed me to hopefully make contact with you. After speaking with Roy here in Australia, we were all devestated to hear of your loss. As a family you were always a great support to Olivia and I and we did have some great times. I still have the Glamour Shots to prove it! Hopefully both Steven and claire still remember Olivia. I promise to send photographs soon. Life can be extremely unkind but knowing you and David as I did, you are one person who will have the stength to ensure that the legacy of Dave lives on through his children. Still not sure about Everton being the best Football team however we are allowed one error of judgement. If you or you kids fancy a trip down under there will always be a room available.

Love Caroline, Olivia, Andrew, Daisy and Mia.

kathy Mccarthy

November 10, 2007

Hi Karen,

I know Jamie has had a chance to see you since Dave passed away, but I just want to you to know what a sweet man I thought he was.

One of our last night's in Houston was spent with you both,life is so very fragile,I do hope thing are getting easier.

Kathy Mccarthy

Karen, Claire and Steven

November 7, 2007

Happy 50th, we love you and miss you loads and loads, more and more each day.

New Years Day - Bear Creek Park

October 5, 2007

New Years Eve - Battleship Texas

October 5, 2007

Offshore BB

October 5, 2007

Chester City football ground

October 5, 2007

The Purple Onion

October 5, 2007

Visit to Loughborough with Jon and Alison

October 5, 2007

Dave and Aunty Ede

October 5, 2007

Athens Restaurant

October 5, 2007

Athens Restaurant BB teambuilding

October 5, 2007

Eleanor Bremner

September 13, 2007

Dear Karen, Claire & Stephen,
I'm not sure if you remember me, I was in the TBPA in Houston, Rachel is my daughter and I was friends with Margaret Hayward and Jill. I just heard this week about Dave's death, and I just wanted to say how very sorry I am. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Eleanor Bremner

Margaret Hayward

September 13, 2007

Dear Karen,Claire & Steven,
We have only just found out about Dave's passing. Laurence and I are so sorry. Dave was a wonderful man and we will miss him very much.
I'am trying to follow Dave's orders of no crying allowed,but find it very difficult. Love to you all,
Margaret & Laurence, Christine & Alex Hayward

Malcolm Sayer

September 2, 2007

All self-confidence in my decisions died along with you.

It's rather difficult to be the man of the house a thousand miles away.

Tony Winder

June 12, 2007

Karen, Claire & Stephen

First of all may I pass my sympathy to the family on the recent death of David.

I was doing a search of the Web for information on the Winder family...I am not to sure if David's father was my fathers brother.

My father had a brother called Dennis who wife was called Pat, they lived in Blacon, Chester.

I used to visit the family during the 50s...I think Dennis passed away around this time. I also remember the family were keen Everton supporters

I do remember going to dads sister Sally's funeral, Sally lived in Southport...I met David at the funeral. I do remember he said he may be off the America...That is the last time I had any contact with David and Pat....my father passed way 1998, he did not keep in touch with the family.

When I looked at the photo of David he looks just like my brother Michaels son (I have two daughters).

My father was from Bury, Lancashire. I live in Rossendale, which is just down the road. It is sad that Davids death and the information on this site is the way I eventually contacted Davids family

Peter Cross

May 8, 2007

Karen, Claire & Steven

Sorry we have not paid a tribute till now, but Dave’s death was such a shock to us, even now we still can’t believe it.

I’ve known Dave since junior school and Marina and I have known Dave & Karen for over 23 yrs, we even had our children around the same time.

We’ve had a few family holidays together, spending time with them in London, Germany and when we were in Florida they came over from Houston to spend a week with us and the Downes’s. These are all memories we will cherish and are so glad we had this time together.
Our only regret now is that we never got to go out to Houston, although Dave & Karen did invite us many times.

We are really glad that when Dave came over in January 2007, he was able to come over and have a meal with us and Phil & Anne Downes. He nearly didn’t make it as that was the day of strong winds which caused chaos on the roads and in the in the air.

Dave was a good friend and he will always be in our thoughts and in our hearts and he will never be forgotten.

Our love and thoughts are with Karen, Claire & Steven.

Love always Pete, Marina, Jenny & Michael Cross (Chester UK)

David Roche

April 30, 2007

Karen Claire and Steven

Viv and I can only imagine the pain Dave’s sudden departure has caused.

As you know, Dave and I were very close mates while we were at Loughborough together. He didn’t take an industrial training year , I did, so we went our separate ways. Or so we thought. Our paths crossed again in London a year later, to our mutual delight and also that of many Central London pub owners (Marquis of Angelsey, Lamb and Flag, The Lamb) to name a few that we frequented at that time. I am lucky enough to work in the immediate area in London where these pubs are and each one has a list of memories associated with it. Football, of course, was a shared passion. We went to Goodison together, FA Cup 5th round, can’t remember which year, Tottenham lost, Everton were lucky. Never mind, Chester city centre beckoned. I will not forget that weekend. Soon after, Karen and Dave were very much a serious item, and then they were going to be married. Dave asked me to his best man. What an honour! What a weekend! What a lucky couple, we all thought.
This was, of course, the beginning of the next phase. Claire arrived in 1987 and attended our wedding although only a few weeks old. It was obvious soon afterwards that Dave and Karen were about to embark on some extended foreign adventures. This meant that there was less opportunity for our paths to cross although we were invited to Houston but never made it. Regrets, regrets. But then in January 2005, an opportunity arose for me to go to South Korea, to Geoje City. Isn’t that where Dave and Karen are, I thought? Their house was 5 minutes walk from the hotel I was staying in. It was unbelievable luck. I spent two magical (except for the work) weeks there. Meeting Dave and Karen again, and Claire and Steven for the first time, was truly a tear jerking experience.

Little was I to know that two years on Dave would no longer be with us. How lucky I feel to have had even that short time, not just with Dave, but with his family too.

Life is full of cross-roads and intersections. Some we pass through quickly. Some we dwell at, and then follow a new route. I am glad to be able to say that when my path crossed Dave Winder’s, I dwelled, and my life was much richer for that.

Thanks, Dave, for altering the path of our life.

Dave and Vivien Roche

Bernie Meehan

April 29, 2007

Just heard this terrible news this morning, my heart goes out to Dave's family. I haven't seen Dave for probably 20+ years, but used to knock around together when we were 'youths behaving badly', along with Pete Cross & Phil Downes. His passions then were Everton (unlucky), Elton John plus music in general, and his yellow mini, which was tough to get me and him in, both being over 6ft,never mind Pete & Phil!! Reading his comments all I can now say is he seemed to have really enjoyed his life and everyone he had in it. Good on ya Dave.....

Bernie

Ralph and Charmaine McBee

April 25, 2007

We have known Dave for almost 15 yrs. He was a very dear friend to us. We enjoyed his company at parties, concerts and family outings.We will miss all of that; and especially will miss seeing him come home after work and later go on his run or walk with Foxie. Its so hard to say good-bye to someone you have known and loved for that amount of time; so we won't say good-bye Dave, but see you later some day. We love and miss you terribly. We will try our best to give a helping hand when needed to Karen, Claire and Steven, so you don't need to worry; just rest in peace now.
Ralph and Charmaine

Alex Poole

April 24, 2007

Well what do i say, i didnt know him very much living over in america, but it was a pleasure being part of his family. My thoughts go out to karen claire and steven.
alex poole

GD Kwon

April 22, 2007

I had been met him at off shore at Ayang ship for BB commissioing stage. As my memory, he was kindly, always smile at all world people. I belive he lives enteranlly at our mind and Haven.

Neil Farmer

April 20, 2007

Karen, Clare, Steven,

I am very sorry for you loss. Dave was a great guy and I enjoyed working with him.

I have only just found out about your bad news. If I'd know earlier, there would have been 301 and his service.

I trust you are coping in this difficult time.

Kind regards

Neil Farmer

John Molloy

April 20, 2007

Karen, Claire & Steven
I first met Dave in 1995 and I think that was the last time I met all of you too - you had a house with a hot tub - but I very much doubt that will remember me - but I remember you all. I met Dave again a couple of years ago here in Houston and quickly remembered what a special guy he is - Everton supporter notwithstanding. We are all very saddened by his passing and send our thoughts and prayers to you, his family and his friends around the world at this very sad time. He was a special guy and we will all miss him
John, Pui Mun, Elisabeth & Juliette Molloy

Martha and Philip Heiner

April 20, 2007

Karen, Claire and Steve
Dave's words of love and strength are scribed in his special gift of humour and understanding as we will remember him.

Carol Blackburn

April 19, 2007

Karen, Claire and Steven,
I am so sorry to hear about Dave's death. His eulogy was great and sounded so much like him. Remember the fun times you had with him and he will always be with you. Please be sure to let us know about his celebration of life so hopefully we can attend. Love to all of you!

Wilfred Menget

April 19, 2007

I am really sad to hear of Daves passing. I worked with him in Houston, Okpo & Angola on BBLT Project. My deepest condolence to Karen, Claire & Steven. Our prayers are with you.

Derek, Alison, Justin & Chris Massey

April 19, 2007

To Karen, Claire and Stephen
We were all devasted to hear of David's death and extremely moved by his eulogy. A great family man who touched many lives - he will be missed so much by all who knew him.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.

Laurence & Elenor Jones

April 19, 2007

We have just been looking at a picture of Dave stuffing confetti in my pocket at our wedding. It's one of the few pictures we have of him. Things haven't been the same since we heard of his passing, and I suppose they never quite will be.
Our thoughts are with Karen, Claire and Steven and we wish we could lend them some strength, to help them to get through this.
I loved reading Dave's words - I could almost hear his voice saying them.
He will be terribly missed.

Lydia Coronado

April 18, 2007

Dear Miss Karen ,Claire and Steven,
I am very sad to hear about Mr. Dave's death. You all been in my thoughts. Steven told me he was in the hospital but I didn't think it was bad. I am very sorry for your loss. He will be missed, He was a great man,friend and client. I will miss his stories of soccer,trips he went or were he was going. Mrs Karen,Claire and Steven may god bless you always. I'll keep you all in my prayers.

Tammy Kling

April 18, 2007

I am so sorry to hear about Dave's passing. I, too, worked with him at Worley (Houston). Every day he had a smile (and joke). He was such a caring and sweet man. He's an amazing man and it shows in his beautiful words about his family. He will be missed.

Pat Martin

April 18, 2007

I worked with Dave when we were at ABB in the early 90's. I saw him again this year at Chevron. My sincere condolences to his family for their sudden loss. I recently lost a brother suddenly and know how trying a time it can be for the family. Stay strong and come together during this time.

Mark & Sharon Garden

April 18, 2007

Karen, Claire & Steven.
What a fitting tribute to a truly great man. Our thoughts are with you.

Samory Abdul-Raheem

April 18, 2007

I am sorry to hear about the passing of David Winder (Mr.Winder is how I knew him. I will pray, and heart goes out to the Winder family. Mr. Winder was a man I could alwys talk to. I wish I could have gone to the memorial service, but leaving USAFA would be hard.

Sheila Andersen

April 18, 2007

I am so sad to hear of Dave's passing. I worked with him for 5 years at Worley & he was always so cheerful & charming. He was a pleasure to work with & will be sorley missed. My heart goes out to his family.

Hazel and Paul Hewitt

April 18, 2007

Dear Karen, Claire, and Steven
We only met Dave a couple of times a year at Simon's parties but always enjoyed his company - especially as he was a "northern lad". His words in the obituary show what a likeable, honest, and courageous person he was and the tributes written by his friends around the world give us an insight into his very well-lived life. Our thoughts are with you.

Jaspreet & Karim Virani

April 17, 2007

Dear Karen, Claire, and Steven,

Our deepest condolences to you for the loss of your husband and father.

Your father was a great man, one of the very few people I know that was so intelligent, so positive, and caring, both at work and outside. He taught me a lot! It was our greatest honor to know Dave. We will always remember him.

Paul Thompson

April 17, 2007

Hello Karen, Claire and Steven,
Pete Cross has just informed me of your sad loss. It really shocked me to say the least, I can only imagine what you are all going through and what the last few weeks have been like.
I spent virtually every day of my childhood playing football with Dave - we were so close for so many years but over recent years, despite Dave and yourself Karen writing to me regularly I didn't respond - how I regret that now.
I have often thought about Dave and wondered how life was in Houston and with me now living on the other side of the world if we would meet again.
I really do have such fond memories of Dave and his mum and dad, his Aunty and Gran - really lovely people.
His dad took me to my first Everton game and if we weren't playing football we would be playing Subbuteo!
We also drank lots of beer together! We did enjoy each other's company enormously.
A great guy, funny with it - I can imagine him leaving a huge gap in lots of people's lives.
He and his family helped give me so many happy childhood memories - he will forever be my thoughts.
Deb and I are thinking of you all at this time . . .

Paul x

Joyce and David Laws

April 17, 2007

Dear Karen,

We met you and Dave at various gatherings at Simon and Janet Phillips' home. We were so sorry to hear of his sudden passing and our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. His final words are a testament to the special bond he had with his family and friends.
May your memories carry you through.

Masoud Deidehban & Family

April 17, 2007

Karen and family we are deeply saddened to hear about the passing of my favorite English man, and I am hurt that I happen to be out of the country and cannot attend the ceremony. Please accept our condolences. I got to know Dave very well as we work together from the time he was at ABB. I always new he was very proud of his family and I hope that you can take comfort in the fact that he was a great person. May god bless you and make you strong for the rest of the family and life’s challenges.

Steven Crake

April 17, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you. I only had the privelage of meeting David's family once prior to your trip to Korea. I know how close you were and the love you have for each other. I shared some time working with David and respected him greatly as a professional and a person. We spent a lot of time in our private conversations discussing Everton FC and my club Sunderland AFC, as you might guess David could talk with real passion about football. We also talked about his family and children, so I know how special everybody was to David. David is a great loss and has a special place in all of our hearts.

John Russum

April 17, 2007

Karen, Claire and Stephen;
It was an honor for me to have known and worked side by side with Dave in Houston, Okpo and Angola. His sharp recall of details and equally as sharp wit was an amazing thing to experience. He truly was a awesome man and we will all miss him.

Julian and Terry Gonzalez

April 17, 2007

My deepest condolonces to the Winder family. I worked with David in Okpo and Angola. I am glad that he had his sense humor with him to the last minute. He will be greatly missed. God Bless him and the Family

Christine and Soyi

April 16, 2007

May God bless Dave and your family.
Please accept my deepest condolences.
Our Okpo family sobbed when we heard
We still remember we just met him several months ago, when he just visited Okpo shortly and was so please to meet him again.
We ladies loved him and your beautiful family while your were staying in Korea.
He was so generous, hard working and such a great guy in the office.
Your family is always in our prayers.
He will be in Heaven with Jesus peacefully.

Stephane & Mylene Drouaud

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire and Steven
We are so sorry about Dave's loss. Our thoughts are with you at this time of sorrow.
We will miss his kindness and british sense of humor. He was a great man that we will always remember.
Mylene and Stephane Drouaud

Dana Avery

April 16, 2007

Our prayers are with your family during this time of mourning. Ms. Karen, Annamarie, Thomas, and Andrew all send their love.

Enny Lee

April 16, 2007

I'm so saddened to hear about David's passing...
David was such great person and friend.
May god bless you and your family...

I miss all of you much...

April 16, 2007

To The Family,
I don't know you all but read of your love one. What a happy and proud person this was. May God Bless you and comfort you during your grief.

Fiona Hopkins

April 16, 2007

Dave's last message is very poignant. No words are good enough at a time like this, but our sympathy and thoughts are with you.
Hopkins family

Margi Jordan

April 16, 2007

Dear Winder Family,
Glynn came home from school today and let me know that his dear YMCA soccer coach had passed away. We have the greatest memories of those days. Dave was a very patient, caring coach with such a wonderful British sense of humor (Remember when he would tell the boys that this wasn't a tea party?). I'm so sorry to hear of your great loss and send my heartfelt condolences.
Margi Jordan

rickelle kennedy

April 16, 2007

may god bless you and your family, our prayers are with you. from brandon, rickelle and sahriya.

John Reed

April 16, 2007

I knew Dave in Okpo and in Angola. He was a pleasure to work with and just a great person. I am so sorry for your loss. May God Bless you'll and Dave. He is with Jesus now.

Joyce, Wally, Beth and Matt Harberson

April 16, 2007

We are all saddened to hear of Dave's passing. He will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

The Abercrombie Family

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire, and Steven,

We were deeply sorry to hear the news of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Erin and Griffin send a special hug and prayer for Ms. Karen.

Georgina Boardley

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire and Steven,
We are so sorry for your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Georgina and Daniel Boardley

Kevin & Monica Nance

April 16, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Melita Fincher

April 16, 2007

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Billy Leal

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire,Steven
So sorry to hear about Dave. We hadn't heard of his illness. What a shock when we got your email. Our condolences to you and pray for comfort in this difficult time. Keeping you in our prayers, Billy & Nancy Leal
Leah and Jana

Martha Pierson

April 16, 2007

Steven,
I read with sadness about the death of your Dad. My own father passed away when I was 18 and never a day goes by that I don't think of him. You were such a positive influence in our Comm Appl class and I always enjoyed running into you at the tournaments. Take care of yourself, your Mom and sister. Know that you are in my prayers.
Mrs. M. (Howard) Pierson

Rosa Williams

April 16, 2007

Dear Karen, Claire and Steven,

I'm so saddened to hear about your loss. My prayers go out to you and the family.

Tom Barrett

April 16, 2007

It's still very much a shock to me to hear that everything happened so suddenly. I know he's going to be sorely missed, but it certainly sounded just like him to remain composed and make jokes until the end.

I'm just glad I had the chance to meet him, as an engineer, the father of one of my closest friends, and as a light-hearted rival. I suppose Cayley beats Rutherford after all, hey?

LaShelle Borders

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire, & Steven --
I'm so sorry for your loss. We only met Dave a few times but he was such a warm and wonderful person. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Love, LaShelle & Jeremy

Mrs. H.

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire and Steven:
No words can express my true feelings for you guys at this time. I will continue to lift you up in prayer and pray for a smooth crossing for your Dave. Blessings on all of you.

The Oliver family

April 16, 2007

Karen, Steven and Claire, inspite of Dave's misguided support for Everton!, he was always a great friend of ours and will be deeply missed by everyone. He was a fantastic husband, father, work colleague with Phil at ABB, neighbour in Westcreek, someone you could completely trust and much much more. He was always very proud of his family and your achievements and know he will continue to be proud as your lives continue without his daily support and love. We are always just a moment away and please call upon us and your friends for anything at this sad and difficult time.

Amanda Vincent

April 16, 2007

Dearest Keran, Claire and Steven,

I am sorry to hear for your loss.
You are in our prayer and thought.

Vincent Family (Francis, Amanda and Clarissa)

Paul Volpe

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire & Steven, I met you all briefly in Okpo in late 2004 but have worked with Dave since 2003. He was a great lad and will be deeply missed - in particular I'll miss his Monday morning 'taunting' of my beloved Newcastle United (although I used to give his 'Toffees' the same in return !). Thinking of you all at this difficult time, The Volpe family.

The Barbarians Soccer team

April 16, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers go out to all that were close to Dave and especially his family at this time.You will always be remembered as great team mate!

CONCERN HOUSTONIAN

April 16, 2007

TO THE WINDER FAMILY;
WHAT A GREAT SPIRIT AND A LOVE FOR HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS. I DON'T KNOW YOUR FAMILY BUT I'M PRAYING FOR YOUR STRENGTH IN SORROW. I JUST HOPE SOMEONE ELSE WILL BE ENCOURAGED LIKE I AM WITH MR. WINDER'S WORDS. I CAN TELL HE WAS A GREAT MAN. GOD BLESS

Jim Zukowski

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire and Stephen, Please accept our condolences. We will always have fond memories of our times in Okpo, including our team parties at Holligan's. We last saw Dave at the "Swift" Christmas party. It was so nice to see and talk with him. If there is anything we can do, please let me know. Jim & Mary Ann Zukowski

Angela Solomon

April 16, 2007

I am so very sorry to hear of Dave's passing. I am glad I had a chance to catch up with him while hoisting a few at the Red Lion sometime ago. He was a pleasure to work with and he will definitely be missed.

Joe & Carole Toner

April 16, 2007

Dave,s last words were very special, our thoughts are with Karen, Claire & Steven.
We shall say pray for you.

Hyeoungsoon Son

April 16, 2007

Dear Karen, Claire and Steven,

I am so sorry to hear that the loss. I am sure he will survive every single moment with you. You are in my prayer and thought.
Love. Son & Dayeon

andy bain

April 16, 2007

Karen, Claire and Steven
you're in all our thoughts in England and we know words can't comfort you at a time like this - just remember Dave for the great man he was. see you soon Love Andy and Irene

Zainul Hasanali

April 15, 2007

Claire and Family,

My condolences. May the good Lord help you through these trying times. I have a very specific memory of Mr. Winder, of when he came to show us soccer one time at Banff. It really saddens me to hear of his passing.

The Schiro Family

April 15, 2007

Please accept our condolences for your loss. As Miss Karen has been a guiding angel watching over our children in the Rainbow class, may the angels be with her and her family during such a difficult time.

Jill Hudson-Kerr

April 15, 2007

Dear Karen, Claire and Steven,
I am so very sorry to hear of this sudden loss. I was always known in the Brits. group as having the gift of the gab, but I have no words. What can I say except you are in my every prayer and thought.
Love Jill (Fulshear)

Neville, Gillian & Martin Boakes

April 15, 2007

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jody Manichia

April 15, 2007

His words were so loving and touching.May God wrap his loving arms around you during your times of sorrow. Jody and Johnny

Gary Bridier

April 15, 2007

Karen, Claire and Steven, I only knew your Dad for a short while (we first met in Korea) and I worked with him in Angola. I was surprised to hear of his passing last week since I was not even aware that he was sick. He was a good man (but you already know that)and a good co-worker. From his last words, I can tell that Dave was thinking of all of you until the last. Please accept my condolences on your lost but if Claire and Steven are anything like their Dad, then he has left a lasting legacy that he can be proud of.

James McCarthy

April 15, 2007

Dear Karen, Claire and Stephen

We saddened to hear of Dave's death. Please accept our condolences. He was a great man, a great father, a great co-worker, and great friend.

A Caring Houstonian

April 15, 2007

That was beautiful....what else can I say? I don't know David, but something in his final words hit me in my heart. Rest in peace.

John, Debbie and Bryan Cobbs

April 15, 2007

Dear Karen, Steven and Claire,
We are praying that our merciful heavenly Father would wrap His loving arms around your beautiful family and bless you with the peace and comfort that only He can give as you go through this difficult journey through a season of grief.
John, Debbie and Bryan Cobbs

LArry MUse

April 15, 2007

WHAT A GREAT MAN! I KNOW THE FAMILY FEELS COMFORT IN HIS PASSING TO HIS REWARD!!!

Cielo Topper

April 15, 2007

Dearest Karen, Claire and Steven,please receive our condolences as we were saddened to hear of the news of your husband/father's passing away; May he rest peacefully in God's heavenly kingdom. He will be missed. Dave left a beautiful legacy with Claire and Steven and shared this mission most lovingly with you my dear Karen.
We are here for you, anything you need, please let us know.
Blessings of Peace, Comfort, and Strength, Cielo Topper and family.

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