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Judy darden
December 25, 2020
I still miss Gerry and especially this time of year. My beautiful, dynamic friend.
Judy Darden
December 24, 2019
I miss Gerry so much. I think of her very often and she visits me in my dreams. I know every year this is a sad time for the family missing their two sisters. It was such a tragedy but I am so thankful for God's loving plan for us when we leave this world. I look forward to the day of seeing them again!! I hope you all can enjoy your holidays and know that Gerry, Lisa, your mom and dad are with you in spirit forever!
Stephanie Garrett
January 21, 2010
I want to give my condolences to Gerry's family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers, especially her children Danielle and Jackson. I carpooled with Gerry for over a year and we were becoming very close friends. She was so much fun. We began a circle of scrapbooking girls and had many fun evenings together laughing. I will never forget Gerry and her wonderful spirit. She was a beautiful woman both inside and out. She will truly be missed. She was one of a kind and I can't wait to see her again in heaven.
David
January 2, 2010
To Geralyn Clare – RIP
And so, Geralyn Clare,
the funeral rites are finished.
The swirling incense has long since faded,
The candles have burned out,
And no longer are heard
the echoes of the Alleluia.
The Alleluia! I’ll never forget it.
For the first time ever it stuck in my throat –
I could not sing the Alleluia on the day they buried my Gerry Clare!
Forgive me, Lord, I know the Alleluia belongs to you and I believe,
But I just could not sing the Alleluia on the day they buried my Gerry Clare.
What now is left for us?
Beautiful words of eulogy.
Ah! This time your daughter made you very proud!
A beautiful tribute to you and your saintly sister from your brother,
and Fr. John’s homily with its comforting words to the children.
I’m sure all this pleased you;
it made us cry.
What is left?
Memories of you,
beautiful memories of you,
And tears, tears, tears,
Tears of regret, tears of sadness,
and even tears of joy.
At Angie’s house we talked of you,
Even Fallon and I,
we both felt an unexpected yet unawkward kinship for something we both shared –
Two fortunate men, both who were blessed to love and be loved by you.
Stories from your youth from Sharon, Laura, and cousin Tom;
It seems that early on you already had that something special
that was uniquely you.
I remembered when I told you that I had tried but not been able
to fall in love since losing you,
And you replied with laughter
“I told you this would happen! What were you thinking?”
Everyone laughed,
recognizing you in your words.
So what is left for us besides the memories?
You! You who still live in our hearts,
You who still fill us with life and love.
Pray for us from the other side,
as we pray for you from this our side.
We’ll pray that you will rejoice
in the peace and the love
That you sought from fellowship
with our fragile flesh –
We are sorry for our failures,
and pray the Lord gives you now whatever was lacking in us.
You pray for us,
that we will honor you with our lives,
That we will live lives worthy
of your love and friendship,
That we will become - finally -
what we wanted to be for you.
Rest in peace? No, not for you.
That is not a fitting prayer for you; no, not that for you.
Live on in peace, thrive in peace, flourish in peace, soar in peace, rejoice in peace!
Yes, this is our prayer!
A fierce peace, a ferocious peace
for our Gerry Clare!
And so, let now the red wine of heaven drench your heart in love,
Let now our Gerry Clare make grand her entrance in the world above!
David
Written 31 December 2009
Sue Mazzone
January 2, 2010
My hearfelt sympathy to all of you. Please know they are holding hands together in everlasting peace and are now God's angels in the kingdom of heaven watching over you. They will live in your hearts forever,god bless you and give you peace.Love Sue Mazzone
Tina Gayer
January 1, 2010
Dave & Karen,
I am so sorry to read of your sisters passing. Please accept my sincere condolences. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
May God bless you and comfort you.
Norma Emerson
January 1, 2010
Dan and Dave,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your family has been in my prayers. May God give you strength daily.
Lindy Kirby-Shepherd
January 1, 2010
I have fond memories of growing up on West 95th Street, walking to St. Ignatius Elementary School with Geralyn, Dave and Danny. I remember the day Lisa was born, as we were all roller skating down the street as Mr. & Mrs. Hoven were driving to the hospital. Please accept my deepest sympathy in the loss of your loved ones, and may Our Lord Jesus Christ be with you at this time and always.
December 31, 2009
Dave,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Kathleen Lachapelle, Cleveland, Ohio.
Monica Jaramillo-Lemus
December 31, 2009
We are terribly saddened by the loss of Gerry and Lisa! Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May God comfort you and guide you during this difficult time!
God bless you.
The Jaramillo-Lemus Family
December 31, 2009
To the Hoven Families our deepest sympathies and our prayers are with all of you. The Romero Family in Durango CO. (I worked for Dan & Leann) Lori
Cindy&Graham Lobban
December 31, 2009
Dave,
We were saddened to hear of your loss. Please know we are thinking about you during this most difficult time.
December 31, 2009
We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Although we did not know Gerry, our son Logan, has been friends with Jackson since pre-school. God bless you all.
David, Kathryn & Logan Minkler
Amy Rogers
December 31, 2009
Gerry was not only beautiful on the outside, but gorgeous inside as well. Her genuineness truly made her a unique woman. I will miss seeing Gerry at our Torch Energy reunions, but I know we will once again be reunited with our Heavenly Father. God bless your family during these difficult times.
Patti Shega
December 31, 2009
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I worked with Dave and Karen in Cleveland. My thoughts and prayers are with you. We love both Dave and Karen in Clevleand.
Patti Adams-Shega Continental Airlines
December 31, 2009
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December 30, 2009
My heart is just broken hearing of Gerry's death. I cannot begin to imagine what you all are going through. What a beautiful young lady.....inside and out. It was a privilege to have called her my friend. We will meet again, one day, as I know Gerry and I have the same best friend....Jesus. You are all so covered in prayer as you walk through this sad and difficult time.
Marilyn Harman
Torch Energy
Receptionist (long ago)
Bill and Kristine Bogas
December 30, 2009
Dave, Karen and Hoven Family-
What a terrible lose to everyone. Be strong and know we are thinking and praying for you all.
Suzanne Hill
December 30, 2009
Dan & Lee Ann, our prayers and heartfelt sympathy go to your and your family. May God give your strength and support in this very difficult time.
Gary & Suzanne Hill
(Texas State Optical)
James Rankosky
December 30, 2009
The Hoven family has my deepest sympathy, condolences and prayers. May God help you through this.
December 30, 2009
Dan and Lee Ann you and your family are in our prayers. We are so sorry to hear of your lost.
With love and prayes,
The Mechell's
Gary, Cheryl, Stefanie, Jason, and Justin
Romelia Anderson
December 30, 2009
My deepest condolences for Danielle & Jackson and the rest of the family. I never met Gerry in person, but my grandson, Noe used to play with Jackson since they were kids. I heard great things about her and she is an Angel that the Lord has called to be with him. Rest In Peace. God Bless You All.
Donna Anderson
December 30, 2009
My heartfelt sympathy to Gerry's loved ones. Joanie and I spent many hours with Gerry carpooling to and from work. We joked about how we were "The View on Wheels". Gerry was not just interesting to talk with, and fun to be around, but she also showed a genuine interest and concern for others. Many times Gerry spoke of her faith. I take comfort in knowing that she is with the Lord.
December 30, 2009
We are so sorry to hear about the lost of Gerry and her sister. Our children were classmates and friends. Our deepest condolences to the whole family and may God bless you always.
Roger, Tybe & Cameron Lee
Laura Patterson
December 30, 2009
It was a true blessing to call Gerry a friend for over twenty five years. We have grown, laughed, cried and loved over the years.. I thank God for putting her in my life. She had such a strong faith and loved her family, friends and children so much. I will miss her. My deepest condolences to the family.
Judy Darden
December 30, 2009
I am still in shock in learning of my Gerry and Lisa's passing. There will always be a hole in my heart. I will miss sharing so much with Gerry and her energy and vibrance and support. We went through so many things together over the last 16 years. She was my workout buddy, my sounding board and always an encourager. I love you Gerry and will miss you terribly!
Judy (Vidrine) Darden
Melissa & Reagan Fitzgerald
December 30, 2009
Gerry was a beautiful woman and a wonderful mother. We send our love and support to the entire family.
Mary Rahmes
December 30, 2009
I have known Gerry since the days we were at Torch Energy Advisors and last year we got to know each other a little better thru having lunch a couple of times, including attending a Christian luncheon together in Greenway Plaza. As much as Gerry was a dedicated workout enthusiast, her graceful presence and quiet thoughtfulness of others helped define the very special person she was.
I will miss her and give thanks for one of God's special children.
God's blessings and grace to her family and most especially to her son and daughter.
Richard Lynch
December 30, 2009
Lola and Family,
Sorry to hear about the loss of Geralyn and Lisa. Sorry I couldn't be there. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless you and keep you!!!
Christine Cagle
December 30, 2009
I am so sorry for your loss. Gerry was a beautiful person and will be dearly missed.
Amos Trujillo
December 30, 2009
We would like to send our codolensces to you and your family. We drove by when the accident happened and stopped to help. Kimberly and Tiffany will always stay with us and we will keep your family in our prayers.
Jeanie King
December 30, 2009
Having recently met Gerry, I felt her spirit to be genuine and tender. We had hoped to have our son's meet and start a great new friendship.
I am thankful that God has allowed me to have met such a peaceful soul. We must always remember God is in control. God has promised us he would never give us more than we can handle, though sometimes it seems overwhelming, we must lean on and trust in him.
Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior.
Oh the Joy to be in his Presence!!
My sister in Jesus Christ.
Beth Peresic
December 30, 2009
Dan and Lee Ann you and your family are in my prayers. I love you both and I am so sorry for your loss.
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