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Jacob Barker Obituary

On October 10, 1987 JACOB REED BARKER was given to us as a gift from God. We were blessed to have 19 wonderful years with this extraordinary young man before he returned to be with the Lord on June 8, 2007. Jacob was born in Odessa, Texas and moved to Friendswood at the age of 6. Jacob is survived by his mother and father, Lynda Barker and Mark Barker, sister Casey Austin Barker and Grandparents, Mr. and Mrs. Morris Barker and Mr. and Mrs. Roy Harbin, and many aunts, uncles, and cousins. Jacob was charitable in everything he did. He had the kindest, most generous spirit that knew no limits. Jake had a strong character and outstanding work ethic. He was an adventurer who lived life to the fullest. Jacob's unique combination of strength and vulnerability often directed his path. He was fiercely loyal to those he loved. He loved God, his family and friends, music, playing his drums, and his bike. The magnitude of the loss of Jacob can never be expressed in words. It is an honor and privilege to have spent 19 years with him. Being a part of his journey over the years is one of the greatest gifts we will ever be blessed with and we are forever thankful. The infinite joy and love Jake has brought into our lives is immeasurable. We are devastated by this loss but are comforted we will be reunited for an eternity in heaven. To Jake, We thank the Lord everyday he blessed us with you as a son and a brother. We are so very proud of you. You have taught and inspired us and we love you more than words can say. "Do not follow where the path may lead. Go instead where there is no path and leave a trail." Ralph Waldo Emerson A visitation will be held Tuesday, June 12th, 2007 from 6:00 to 8:00 PM at Jeter Memorial Funeral Home Chapel, 311 N. Friendswood Drive (FM 518), Friendswood, Texas (281) 992-7200, www.jeterfuneralhome.com. The memorial service will be held Wednesday, June 13th at 11:00 AM at Friendswood Community Church, 2821 Parkwood (NASA Parkway) (FM 528), Friendswood, Texas. Condolences can be sent to the Barker Family in care of Jeter Memorial Funeral Home at [email protected].

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Jun. 11, 2007.

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July 14, 2025

Just thinking about you and want to say I MISS YOU!

Raechel Triola

June 27, 2007

My thoughts and prays have been with the whole barker family since the day I heard. I'll always be here for you and your family, I'm just a phone call away. Your son and brother was a wonderful person and touched my heart and soul in more ways then any one can know.
Raechel Triola

Bobby and Alice Jones

June 21, 2007

Deepest sympathy; our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.

Reagan Graffagnino

June 18, 2007

To Casey and the entire Barker family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss and extend my deepest sympathies to the family. I met Jake through my brothers and feel lucky to have shared his friendship. My prayers are with you all. I know he is in Good hands now.

Rickey and Nelda Lindsey

June 17, 2007

Mark,
I am so sorry for your loss and very sorry I was not able to be here for you at this time, know that you and your family were and are in mine and Nelda's prayers and always will be.

Linda Vana Huyear

June 15, 2007

Lynda, Mark and Casey, I just heard today about the death of Jake. We are so very sorry and heartbroken for you. I am thinking back to when we lived in Friendswood and Emily, Jake, Lindsay and Casey were children. I am so incredibly sorry for your family and will pray that you find peace in Christ's promise. Linda Vana Huyear

Noah West

June 15, 2007

I am deeply shaken by your loss.

Krissie Roemer

June 15, 2007

My you be reminded in your times of reflection of the blessings that Jacob bestowed upon you. Whether it be a smile, a tear or a wholehearted chuckle, count these as gifts never truely to be lost, but to be retained in your hearts and minds forever. Be comforted and at peace in knowing that your son/brother/nephew/grandson/friend is in a glorious place and he has you to thank for that.

Sarah Wells

June 14, 2007

The Barker Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in all of our prayers through this time.

Marcus Taliaferro

June 14, 2007

Sharon and I will light a candle this Sunday in memory of Jake.

Megumi Maguchi

June 13, 2007

Lynda I am so sorry for this pain. My deepest condolences and prayers for you and your family.

Trey Garner

June 13, 2007

The Barker family,
I'm very sorry to hear about Jake. I will pray every night for yall. Jake was such an out going character and someone who always did what he wanted, he was a very commited young kid. God bless all of yall.

Lewie williams

June 13, 2007

Mark, my wife and I are so sorry to hear about the death of your son, Jake. Words can not express our sympathies. Our prayers will be with you and your family.

Kevin Wilson

June 13, 2007

Mark, I am so very sorry for your loss. It sounds like your son was a very special person. I wish I could have met him. God Bless You and your family.
I will pray for you.

Jaime Coon

June 13, 2007

Dear family,
On behalf of Chamberlain-Hunt Academy, we are so sorry to hear of your loss. I actually came to the school after Jacob left, but I remember working with his file and even talking to him on the phone. When the teachers heard the news this morning, they were grieved and had nothing but good things to say of him. If CHA can do anything for you, please let us know.

Jaime Coon
MAJ, CHA
Administrative Assistant

Rick and Nita

June 13, 2007

The angels are always near to those who are grieving,to whisper to them that their loved ones are safe in the hands of God.
Mark, Our hearts are hurting with you and your family.

Becky Morris

June 13, 2007

Lynda,
I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Mark, and Casey.
Sincerely,

Tatiana Struss

June 12, 2007

To the Barker's (Mark, Lynda and Casey) my deepest sympathy to all of you. At least he is with God and the angels to look over us.
I am truley sorry this has happened and my prayers are with all of you.

Tracy (Price) Pace

June 12, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.
The Pace Family

Estalynn Liles

June 12, 2007

Caring thoughts are with you and your family at this time of sorrow~May you find comfort in your loving memories.
With deepest sympathy

Estalynn Liles

June 12, 2007

Caring thoughts are with you and your family at this time of sorrow~May you find comfort in your loving memories.

Elizardo Gutierrez

June 12, 2007

I'm sorry for your loss,your family will be in my prayers.He was needed in Heaven.

Grace LaChance and Robby Kiefer

June 12, 2007

The Barker Family-

Please accept our condolences during this very difficult time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Nicole Styles

June 12, 2007

May the Lord bless and keep you, always.

"Moe" and Kylene Madison

June 12, 2007

We were so saddened to read about your son, Jacob. May your faith in God sustain you during these days.

June 12, 2007

Dearest Casey, Mark & Linda We cannot imagine the grief you are going through right now. We know that right now there are no words that can ease this pain and we are so very sorry for your loss. Jake truly was a loyal, loving son, brother and friend. You are all in our hearts and prayers.
Karl & Danna Hancock, Marka & Trevor Considine

Gulzat & Loren Huffman

June 12, 2007

Mark and Family,
Please accept our heart felt condolences. All of you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Karen Breithaupt Stewart

June 12, 2007

Lynda,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family. You have always held a special spot in my heart and know that I will continue to pray for you in the coming months. May God bless and give you comfort. Please know that you are loved.
Love you, Karen

Mary Hale

June 12, 2007

Sometimes there are no words that can reveal the feelings of the heart, but please accept my deepest thoughts of you, Lynda and Casey during this time. May you find comfort in your fondest memories.

Wynell Suitt

June 11, 2007

Dear Lynda,

Terry and I are so very sorry for your loss. Please know that we truly know from first hand experience the depth of your, Casey and Mark's grief. We are here if you need to talk. Never doubt that with each other and God's help you all will get through the difficult time.

Rosalie Liles Willard

June 11, 2007

Losing a child is something one never gets over and never understands but I can attest to the fact the time will come when memories of Jake will be some of your most precious and enjoyable memories. May God hold you all in the palm of His hand. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

a.j. ramirez

June 11, 2007

The Barker Family,

"Even in our sleep,
pain which cannot forget
falls drop by drop
upon the heart.
Until in our own despair,
against our will;
comes wisdom.
Through the awful Grace of God."
(author unkown)
Know our thoughts and gratitude are with you, Jacob's family.
A.J. Ramirez USMC (Ret)

Allen,Vicky, Alli, & Arin Byler

June 11, 2007

Mark and Family,
We am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. May God be with you in your time of need.

Rudy V. & Maureen C. Gonzales

June 11, 2007

Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family in this time of sorrow. My God bless you in your time of grief and bring you comfort. If there are any needs or we can help in any way feel free to call.

Kathy Roe

June 11, 2007

Mark,
My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.

Glenn & Gail Whiteside

June 11, 2007

Mark, Linda, & Casey:
We are so sorry we can't be with you in this time of sorrow. Please know you are in our love and prayers.

David Myslenski

June 11, 2007

Mark and Family,

Words cannot describe your loss, nor can we adequately state our sorrow for your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family.

Dave Myslenski & Family

Tammy Chandler

June 11, 2007

Trust in the Lord with all your heart, an do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your path straight. (Proverbs 3:5-6)

"I am the resurrection and the life; he who believes in Me shall live even if he dies, and everyone who lives and believes in Me shall never die." (John 11:25-26)

Jake is face-to-face with our Lord; right now, in Paradise, with Uncle Kerry, smiling down on us, because of “faith alone in Christ alone”.

And in addition to that monumental promise, salvation, I will continue to pray for you and your family to recall to mind all of God's promises, which will give you comfort and strength. Recall them, claim them, and lean on Him.

In His name,
Tammy

Shane and Becca Bates

June 11, 2007

Our loved ones may leave this world, but never our hearts. Our family is thinking and praying for your family. Wishing you peace.

Cliff & Margie Clements

June 11, 2007

May God's loving presence comfort you, His perfect peace resore you, and His promise of eternal life sustan you during this time of loss.

In sympathy,
Friends of Morris & Mary Barker

Ida Garcia

June 11, 2007

My prayers are with you.

Donnie Holmes

June 11, 2007

I'm sorry to here about the loss of your son. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Chris Lerma

June 11, 2007

Sorry, to hear about your loss. Yall, will be in our prayers.

Lisa Walling

June 11, 2007

Mark,
I'm so Sorry for your loss. Please, accept my deepest sympathies. Yall, will be in my prayers.

Clark Fire Equipment, Inc.

June 11, 2007

We are sorry for your loss. We will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers.

Linda Brown

June 11, 2007

Mark,



My heart goes out to you and your family over Jake’s passing. His obit was quite moving and painted a vivid picture of a young man who loved God and loved life.

I can only imagine the pain you are in right now. I know many are praying for you right now and I hope our prayers lift you up and carry you through this difficult time.

Thinking of you,

Linda Brown

James Long

June 11, 2007

When a child dies, it is particularly hard for the mother.OF course, it is difficult for the bereaved father.because you have confidence in the resurrection,you will not sorrow just as the rest also do who have no hope.(1 Thessalonians 4:13)

Ray Vinson

June 11, 2007

Those we love don't go away,
They walk beside us every day,
Unseen, unheard, but always near,
Still loved, still missed and very dear.

Mark, it isn't supposed to happen like this to anyone, especially you. My deepest sympathy to you and your family for your loss.

Jovita Villarreal

June 11, 2007

To the Barker Family,
No words can express my sympathy for you at this hard time in your lives. I will pray for the family and for the eternal rest of your beloved son.
May god bless you.

Kelly Giglio

June 11, 2007

Mark and Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Jacob is in a wonderful place now and you will be able to be with him again in time. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.


Sincerely,
Kelly Giglio

Michael Donnelly

June 11, 2007

Mark,

All of of us at GE offer your family our condolences during this difficult time.

With Jake in our hearts,

Michael Donnelly

Heather Townsend

June 11, 2007

"May the Lord bless thee and keep thee: May the Lord make his face shine upon thee, and be gracious unto thee: May the Lord lift up His countenance upon thee, and give thee peace." (Numbers 6:24-26)

Mark and Family,
There are no words strong enough to express my deepest sympathies in your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do for your family during this time of greivance. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Michael Klembus

June 11, 2007

Mark - I am so sorry for your loss. You, Lynda and Casey are in my prayers.

Robert G. Guerrero, Sr.

June 11, 2007

May The Lord Be With You And Your Family, I Pray For Strength And Healing..God Bless.

Vicki Boudreaux

June 11, 2007

May God give you and your family the strength to help overcome this tragic time in your lives. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you.

Charlotte Williams

June 11, 2007

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

Ashley Parker

June 11, 2007

I'd like to send my deepest condolences to all family and friends. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Tammy Falany (Barker)

June 11, 2007

Mark, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Michael & Linda Brown

June 11, 2007

Mark,
You are the most caring and loving parent I have ever met (in my whole life). You have a closeness with your children that we all could learn from and I have always admired that in you. This must make the loss very hard although you couldn't of been a better father to a great son. I believe your son is now with Christ and even better off than he was down here. You will see him again! If there is anything I can do I will, please just let me know.
Love Your Brother

Gwen Triola/Collins

June 11, 2007

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, may GOD show you comfort and peace during this time of sorrow..
Jake will always be remembered in our family.

Gina Gonzales

June 11, 2007

You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Kevin Satterwhite

June 11, 2007

I'm so sorry for your loss. May God give you peace and comfort during this difficult time.

MarRieund Chambers

June 11, 2007

My deepest condolences to you & your family. I will keep you all in my prayers.

Cindy Walker

June 11, 2007

I am so sorry for your loss. You will be in my prayers.

Toni Jones

June 11, 2007

Please accept my heart felt and deepest sympathies. My prayers and thoughts go out to you Mark and your family to find some kind of peace and comfort out of all of this sorrow.

Manuel Trevino

June 11, 2007

Barker Family
Please accept my condolences. My Thoughts and Prayers are with you.

Carlos Moreno

June 11, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Idolina Garcia

June 11, 2007

I am very sorry for your lost

Barbara Klembus

June 11, 2007

I am remembering many little league games with our boys. Jacob will be missed. You are all in my thoughts and my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss.

Samantha Eubanks

June 10, 2007

Casey, Lynda and Mark - I am so sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.

Sincerely,

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