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James Randall "Randy" Arnaud

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JAMES RANDALL "RANDY" ARNAUD passed away on Monday, May 11 at his home in Bentwater, in Montgomery, TX. Visitation is set for Wednesday (5/13) from 5-8 PM at Metcalf Funeral Directors, 1801 E. White Oak Terrace at Texas 105 West, in Conroe. Services are set for 1:30 PM on Thursday (5/14) at First Methodist Church 4308 West Davis (Texas 105 west) in Conroe. Born July 25, 1946 in Orange, Arnaud owned and operated a State Farm Insurance Agency in Conroe since 1985. Prior to that he was an educator, serving as an assistant principal at Bridge City High School. Before becoming an administrator he was a teacher and football coach. He served in the U.S. Air Force and then earned a degree in education from Lamar University in Beaumont. He later earned a Masters Degree at McNeese State University in Lake Charles, La. Randy is survived by Carolyn, his loving wife of 41 years, a daughter Amy Arnaud Dishman (husband, Paul) and grand daughters Molly and Claire; a son Josh (wife Jennifer); parents James and Juanita Arnaud, brothers Keith of Katy and David of Nederland and sister Judy of Nederland. Arnaud was a dedicated volunteer for the Houston Golf Association for 18 years where he donated countless hours to help the Shell Houston Open PGA TOUR event generated money for local charity. He received numerous honors from the organization including rookie of the year and member of the year. He also served on the organization's board of governors. He also served as media center chairman for 10 years where his outgoing personality made many friends among local and national media, plus numerous PGA TOUR players. A single digit handicap golfer, Arnaud was a member of Bentwater Country Club and Conroe Country Club. He also bowled professionally. But holes-in-one on the golf course and 300 games on the bowling lanes were not Randy's main focus. Helping others, particularly young people, is where Arnaud directed both time and energy. Upon moving to Conroe in June of 1985 Arnaud made it a point to become in local youth activities, helping to raise funds for numerous worthy causes. Over the years he administered dozens of charity golf tournaments, ranging from the Buckner School orphanage in Beuamont to an event benefiting widows and orphans of slain Department of Public Safety Troopers. Randy was heavily involved with the HGA Junior Golf Program and The First Tee of Houston/Redstone Chapter. He also donated his time to manage a summer Collegiate Golf Tournament for State Farm Insurance. Pallbearers are Mickey Childers, Danny Childers, Steve Law, Dave Figari, Pat Hernandez, Joe Oliver, David Arnaud, Trey Spikes, Barclay Spikes and Brian Hafer. Honorary Pallbearers are: Members of the Houston Golf Association, golf buddies from Conroe Country Club and Bentwater Country Club, and bowling buddies at 300 Bowl. In lieu of flowers, donations to: The First Tee of Houston/Redstone Chapter, 5810 Wilson Road, Suite 112, Humble, TX 77396 or Buckner Child and Family Services, 600 N. Pearl, Dallas, TX 75201.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on May 13, 2009.

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Kandi Landacre

May 11, 2010

It has been a year since we lost a very dear friend. It still hurts today, to not be able to see & talk with him. I can't even begin to express the overwelming lost that we all felt the day he left us. I want to say to those who loved him most: Carolyn, Amy & Josh he will alway be remembered as a man that touuched so many lives while he was here on this earth. He made People Smile and that is something we all need daily!!!
His family is what he loved most and held most dear to his heart I know that losing him was unbearable for you all. I will always remember Randy Arnaud, as many people will, because he grew a special place in my heart!!!! He will never be forgotten!!!!

Celeste Davis

May 28, 2009

To Josh and all the Arnaud family. I recently heard of Randy Arnaud's passing and wanted to express my condolences. I had the pleasure of meeting your Dad on a couple of occasions at Champions and I remember him being friendly and someone you don't easily forget. I know how special he was. My thoughts are with you.

Dawn (Fisette) Arispe

May 19, 2009

Mrs. Arnaud - I was so sorry to hear about Coach Arnaud's passing. He was larger than life and will surely be missed!! Most of the postings are from folks that knew him from Conroe...but know that those of us that knew him in Bridge City miss him as well. I ran into him years ago after he left BC and got the biggest, warmest hug from him at the time! That was so typical of him!! Know that he is up in heaven watching over everything...and making everyone smile

Pamela Hernandez

May 18, 2009

I met Randy Arnaud through my ex husband. I had the opportunity to help him with a golf tournament a few years ago and had a great time. He was a very nice and kind man who always helped others. He is deeply missed.

Karen Gallagher

May 18, 2009

I was very saddened to learn of Mr. Arnaud's death over the weekend. Several years ago I was the tournament director of what was once known as the Golf Digest Collegiate Invitational held at the TPC every March. He was one of many, but certainly the one who stood out the most, who helped us stage a very successful event in Houston each year. From the young volunteers he recruited to so many little details, Mr. Arnaud had a laugh ready for us every morning and made us feel most welcome. He spoke so highly of his family, too, especially his son Josh. My condolences to his entire family. He will be missed.

Cindy Klyng

May 17, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. Mr. Arnaud was always ready with a smile and a hug when we came in for golf tournaments, starting when my brother was in junior high, continuing through college, and on into his professional play. He loved golf and never met a stranger. He was a truly special person that will be missed by many!

Roger Dauzat

May 17, 2009

To Randy's family,
I share in your grief of Randy's death. I knew him through his energy and contributions to The First Tee of Houston/Redstone. I will miss his humor and interactions with the kids during the Champion's Challenge.

Eddie Sefko

May 17, 2009

My heart goes out to all who knew Randy and treasured him as a friend. His selflessness, sense of humor and work ethic were an inspiration to anybody who knew him through golf or in any other capacity.

Margaret Thomas Mazzola

May 16, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you during these difficult times. I pray that the Lord will fill you with peace and surround you with the love of all your family and friends.

Richard Martin

May 15, 2009

The first day we met, he called me "cousin", because of our Louisianna roots. He introduced me as his cousin to everyone. Little did we know that Amy was married to Paul Dishman whose family loved my uncle "T-conch". I will miss him and his friendship every day that I bowl. It is a sad time for "Arnaudville".

May 14, 2009

Carolyn: Andy and I are just sick over Randy's passing. I had just received a wonderful e mail from him not over a month ago. Geri Taylor just contacted us. If we had been aware of his passing we most certainly would have been there. He was a great guy, always thinking of others and especially up beat about everything. We send our love and regards. We have so many fond memories about him. Our love,
Andy and Linda Griffin Troup, Texas

BILL AND ANN MANUEL

May 14, 2009

ANN AND BILL MANUEL FROM ALABAMA HAVE LOOKED FOR RANDY FOR 30 YEARS. HE WAS AN INSPIRATION TO US WHEN WE MOVED FROM ALA TO TEXAS. THE FAMILY WAS SPECIAL AND CAROLYN WE ARE THINKING OF YOU. HE WAS A BUSY MAN AND DID NO MUCH GOOD. GLAD WE KNEW HIM 11 YEARS.

Mike Jackson

May 14, 2009

We were so sorry to hear about Randy's passing. Please know that we send our deepest sympathy and our prayers are with you. Mike and Connie

Andrew Clark

May 14, 2009

Dear Arnaud family:

Being a business neighbor of Randys for the last four years we really got to know and chat with him alot and his son Josh. Our deepest sympathy goes out to your entire family, for our lives will never be the same now that he is gone, we are still deeply enriched that we got to know Randy. He would stop by our office daily and always cheerful with something funny to say. We will sure miss Randy.

May 13, 2009

Dear Arnaud family:

We have a special place in our heart for Randy. It goes back many years when he was working with kids at Bridge City High School. He really inspired our daughter and we have always been grateful to him for all he did to help her through some difficult times. He was kind, understanding and wise. He will be missed by so many people. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this time.

Elizabeth and Bill Hanley

Randy Casteel

May 13, 2009

Randy was a fine person and will be dearly missed by all of us at the SHO. May the peace of the Lord be with the family during this difficult time.

Pete Galvan (Sheriff's Office)

May 13, 2009

To the Arnaud Family
Our deepest sympathy goes out to your family. Randy was a great person to work with at the SHO and a pleasure to know. He will truly be missed and never forgotten

David Foreit

May 13, 2009

My deepest sympathy to the Randy's family and those who worked with him at the agency. Though I never met him in person, he and his son and staff served my insurance needs over the phone on many occasions for the past twenty years. I know by the way he treated me he was a good man and will be deeply missed. May God bless him and you all.

Corey Atkinson

May 13, 2009

Randy will be deeply missed by all of his bowling friends as well. I had the pleasure of watching him bowl his last (sure didn't know it at the time) perfect 300 game earlier in the season. Not too many near scratch golfers out there could also shoot 300 in bowling. Besides that he was a tremendous person and so much fun to be around.

Joe Montalbano

May 13, 2009

Randy will be missed. We always had a great time in the Friday game at Bentwater. I first met Randy at Panorama Country Club and it seemed he always had a story to tell. My deepest symphaties to his family.

Doyle Wofford

May 13, 2009

To the Arnaud Family
I send my deepest sympathy. Randy was a friend who always brightened my life when I had the honor of playing golf in his foursome.

Obie Dixon

May 13, 2009

Randy was always kind & considerate looking out for his "little" next door neighbor. I know he will be missed. My most sincere sympathy to his family.
(formally of West Orange, TX)

May 13, 2009

Randy will never be forgotten by the Collegiate Players Tour. May God bless his family.

The Collegiate Players Tour Staff

Gary O. Collins

May 13, 2009

To all of Randy's Loved Ones and friends,
I'm sorry to hear of his passing. He really was a fine man. One of the highlights, among others, I feel, when volunteering for the SHO is that I was able to spend time with him. The world will be a smaller place because he's no longer with us.
G.O.C.

Mildred Lemoine

May 13, 2009

we send our condolence and deepest sympathy love LOUIS and Mildred Lemoine.

Stephen & Kimberly Wolfford

May 13, 2009

May God bestow upon you the strength to pick up the pieces of a broken life. God Bless your family.

Raymond Hartis

May 13, 2009

To the Arnaud family,
Please accept my families deepest sympathy on your loss. I met Randy soon after you moved here and he has been a friend who can make you forget about any troubles by just talking to him ever since. He touched the lives of many in his short time here but created many wonderful memories for everyone's path he crossed.
Our prayers are with you,

Raymond Hartis & Family

Bob Shane

May 13, 2009

Randy, your friendly smiling face will be missed in our Friday games at Bentwater and on the Interclub Team. It was an honor and pleasure to have played with you these past months.

Jerry Harding

May 13, 2009

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Randy McCollum

May 13, 2009

I am very sorry to learn of Randy's passing. His dedication and work with all the members of the HGA was truly remarkable.

Jerry Sears

May 13, 2009

My condolences. Randy was a special person and our golf group will miss him.

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