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Nancy Burchfield Obituary
Nancy is preceded in death by her father, Perry Lee Rakestraw, and brother, Perry Clyde Rakestraw. She is survived by her husband of 38 years, Randy Burchfield, daughter Dana Gray and husband Scott of McPherson, Kansas, daughter Janie Higgins and husband Seth of Houston, and granddaughter Cami Gray. She is also survived by her mother Cledia Rakestraw of Mustang, OK, brothers Darrell Rakestraw of Oklahoma City, Tony Rakestraw of Yukon, OK, Dan Rakestraw and wife Donna of Norman, OK, sister Sharon Winchester and husband Robbie of Oklahoma City, sister Ima Greenfield and husband Paul of Kyle, TX, brother-in-law Paul Burchfield and wife Yvonne of Houston, TX, sister-in-law Janelle Wagner of Conroe, TX, and many nieces, nephews, and friends.
Nancy had an inexplicable ability to spread hope and joy to those around her. Through adversity, she lived each day in His light, as most of us can only aspire to. She was a true angel amongst us and we are blessed to have called her wife, mom, daughter, friend. Her light will shine within us forever, and we look forward to the day she greets us in heaven.
The family will receive visitors from 5:00 p.m. until 8:00 p.m. Monday, September 30, 2013 in the Hunters Creek Chapel at Earthman Funeral Directors, 8303 Katy Freeway, Houston, TX 77024.The memorial service will be held at Houston's First Baptist Church chapel, 7401 Katy Freeway, Houston, TX 77024 Tuesday, October 1, 2013 at 10:00 a.m., immediately followed by a brief graveside service at Earthman Resthaven Cemetery, Houston, TX.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Nancy Burchfield Memorial fund (Houston's First Baptist Church Mission 1:8 Offering) 7401 Katy Freeway, Houston, TX 77024.
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Memories and Condolences
for Nancy Burchfield
Barbie Domino
October 6, 2014
Randy, I am so sorry to hear of Nancy's passing. I will always remember her beautiful smile. I remember the first time I met her, sitting on my Mom's front porch, and being told "this is Randy's wife". I thought what a blessed man you were to have such a wonderful wife. The two of you created a beautiful family and home together.
Your friend,
Barbie
Jill Rakestraw
October 21, 2013
My life was blessed for being able to call Nancy my Aunt. She was an amazing woman in so many different ways, so much so, that you could honestly say she was the whole package. I don't even need to recap all the wonderful things that made up her package because if you knew Aunt Nancy you know exactly what I mean. I have so many memories of Aunt Nancy; my earliest is when the whole Burchfield family came to visit our family when I was five or six years old and living in Colorado. So many of my memories is of the Burchfield family making a trip to Oklahoma just to visit or for the important things like Graduation, Weddings, Holidays, or Reunions. I never really knew how they could get so much stuff in a suitcase or their car….but they had everything they needed and then some because Aunt Nancy was an expert packer. When we were kids, I remember her calling out for the “girls” to come in for dinner when we were at Grandma's house and usually up to no good. As an adult, she always made the holiday decorations look beautiful. She had the “Grandma touch” when it came to fixing the dressing, mashed potatoes, and macaroni at the holiday events because there wasn't a holiday that I recall her not being in the kitchen helping Grandma prepare the food. I am thankful I was able to see her several times this year and for my son to meet my favorite Aunt Nancy. She was a beautiful person inside and out. I will miss her but I know that I will see her smiling face one day in Heaven.
Glenda Stewart
October 19, 2013
I will always remember you, Nancy, for your beautiful spirit and inspiration. I appreciate the time you and Randy spent with Charles and me at dinner. You put forth an extra effort to include us. That was about a year ago. We were new to the Sunday School Class and neither one of us consider ourselves to be out going people. Somehow you knew we needed friends..
I didn't know you had cancer at that time, although we had been going to Sunday School for a few months. During our dinner conversation, you put on that beautiful smile and said you didn't want people to remember you as a cancer victim. You wanted them to remember you as who you really are, Nancy. I want to be just like you! I now hesitate before I share all my "troubles". I know everyone has their own struggles. Mine are really very tiny compared to some. I want people to remember me, like you, as myself not a victim. Thank you for your life inspiration. God is Good.
Emily Lane
October 18, 2013
Nancy, you believed in me and fought for me when others weren't willing to take the chance. You were always there to listen and celebrate the good news. You handed over the planning reins and I knew I would never be able to be as organized as you. You helped everyone that walked into Bury and never complained about the changes you had to adjust to or your own illness. I admire and respect you and will miss you terribly. Your family honored you with a beautiful service and I hope they will be able to remember all those good times and carry your legacy. I love you, sweet friend
Susan Goncher
October 18, 2013
At Sunday early morning prayer time before Life Bible Study, I recall Nancy's (always) beginning words when she prayed: "Lord, thank you for today." At the time, knowing what Nancy was facing, her words were very poignant and made me aware that today is all any of us have and the importance of choosing how we will live. It was a seed planted in my heart and mind to commit to do whatever work the Lord has for me to do, whether it means volunteering in the church kitchen, at Fall Festival, in Children's Ministry, or helping family and friends by sharing the time, talents and skills the Lord has given me. While I didn't know Nancy for a long time, her sweet spirit had a profound effect on me. I'm thankful our paths crossed.
Sheryll Davis Johnson
October 17, 2013
Dear Randy and Family, no words can truely express or comfort in the begining of such a great loss. The heart hurts and has to. But in time, though the hurt finds a place to reside in the heart, the goodness of wonderful memories will keep it in its place. Allowing to never forget, to always love and live by Nancy's great example. Gone too soon.
Mark, Tammy (cousin), Blake & Cail Williams; Aunt Katy Gosnell
October 17, 2013
Our memories of Nancy was her beautiful smile. She always had a sweet & joyous spirit.
Charlie Brown
October 3, 2013
Randy,
Susanne and I want you to know you and your family are in our prayers. I guess it has been 21 years since we left Houston and The Met. I remember having some great times as a Sunday school class. As someone as already mentioned, Nancy did have that great smile and that sparkle in our eyes. We are so sorry for your loss. God bless you and your family.
Linda Byers
October 3, 2013
Randy and family, I wish I could have known Nancy better as she is a true inspiration. Just know that you're in my thoughts and prayers and my heart goes out to each one of you in your loss. It's such a comfort knowing that you will see her again on that bright day. Linda Byers from The Met.
Vivian Atchinson
October 1, 2013
From our time tromping around Grandmother Fenimore's farm, avoiding the bull, fighting with the boys and enjoying grandmother's delicious home cooking, Nancy has been part of my earliest memories. She had a wonderful smile and eyes that twinkled and I always enjoyed visiting with her and catching up at holiday or reunion gatherings. Although, she will not physically be present at future ones, she will be there in spirit and through the lives of her family.
I have been in awe by her bravery and strength this past 6 1/2 years. She has truly been an inspiration to me. I have been thankful for the love and support of Randy, Dana and Janie during this time period. It seems that your individual love and faith has helped support each other.
I pray that you each find peace and healing in your own way and with the help of your faith and family.
Love and blessings to all of your family.
Court and Vivian Fenimore Atchinson
Debbie Van Bibber
October 1, 2013
Randy, I was so sorry to hear about Nancy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Ed Siders
October 1, 2013
Don't weep for me my friend
As you stand here beside
This cold,grey body I have left
Upon this earthly side.
For now I walk on streets of gold
Beside a crystal sea
And every angel heaven has
Is singing now for me.
Don't weep for me for now at last
My troubles all are o'er
No pain or sorrow enters here
My tears shall fall no more.
So comfort those I've left behind
My friends, my family
But shed no tears for this glad soul
My friend don't weep for me.
- Rev. Donald O. Siders...May, 1982
Randy, This poem is special to me. It was written by my Dad (1924-1998)...in honor of Nancy I share it with you.
October 1, 2013
Nancy, thank you so much for the kindness you showed me and my family over the years. Although we've only known you for 10 years, you will always be remembered as a true and dear friend. Whether it was keeping me focused at work or buying girl scout cookies from our only daughter, your kindness and generosity will always be cherished. Your strength and optimism during these difficult times has been an inspiration. Our family is better for having known you and we are proud to call you a friend.
The Sepulveda Family
Randy and Janet Hunt
October 1, 2013
Randy, Although our childhood began at Emmanuel and we haven't seen much of each other thru the years, it looks like from your guest book photos that you took full advantage of every minute you could to embrace your beautiful bride and live the Godly life He intended. May God give you peace and comfort as you reminisce on memories of the past and the knowing that you will reunite in the presence of your maker.
Ken & Sara Lowrimore
October 1, 2013
Nancy had the gifts of mercy and ministry and through all of this cancer battle had a smile on her face and a sparkle in her eyes. We came to love Nancy and you, Randy through the support group at church - Can-Hope. We have some fond memories of Nancy. You were so supportive of that ministry and pray it ministered to you. One of the main things that stands out to us about Nancy was how she and you too Randy ministered to our daughter and son-in-law and the whole family when he went through cancer and was so sick. Words cannot express how much that meant. We love you and continue to pray God's grace, peace and comfort abide with you and the whole family in the days ahead.. In Him, Ken & Sara
Wanda Sue Guidry
September 30, 2013
The pictures are beautiful and are a beautiful example of the gorgeous lady that Nancy always was. She always had that sweet smile and sparkle in her eyes. My prayers and thoughts are with the family.
Jo Nell Ross
September 30, 2013
Many years ago Pam introduced me to her new best friend, Nancy Rakestraw. Nancy was a year older and went to the same church as we did. We soon felt like she was one of our family. Then my nephew Randy Burchfield came out for a visit from Houston. Pam introduced them and it wasn't long until we could see that she would be one of the family. Randy was coming to see us more often than he ever had before. We were very happy to have her become family. We love her and will miss her very much.
Kevin Polasek
September 30, 2013
Nancy-our paths crossed when I was just out of college starting a job with a new firm. However, the first day, you took away any fears I had. You took me in as a mother. From that day, I got to know your family, and they too became extended family to me. You were the rock that held the office together and an inspiration to me. As our paths departed and I started a new job, you too began your fight with cancer. Your faith and strength just encouraged me more and put my life into perspective. I have had two great friends pass away at a young age and now you. But there is one thing that I have learned from this sorrow, "God only takes the best". There is no doubt in my mind that God has given you his toughest project to manage. And just like here on earth, you will succeed. I will miss you but never forget. Your Dear Friend Kevin Polasek
Terry Sanders
September 30, 2013
Precious Memories how they linger...One of my most favorite memories of Nancy would be when Nancy sang "On the Wings of a Dove" I know it was more than once and her voice was suited for it. Thinking back on this it prompted me to look up the words.
On the wings of a Snow White Dove
He sends his pure sweet love
A sign from above
On the Wings of a Dove.
When troubles surrounds us, When evils come,
The body grows weak
The spirit grows numb
When these things beset us, He doesn't forget us,
He sends down his love
On the wings of a dove.
I was surprised to see the verse because I look at "evil" as cancer. Her body may have grown weak but as she sang God never forgot her and sent his love through Randy, Dana, Janie, her mom and all those who knew Nancy. I believe she always felt that love. After Nancy became sick she claimed the word "Hope" and for 6 1/2 years she battled cancer Hope was ever present. Now I know Nancy would not want this to be the final words said about her so here goes.
Nancy was Pam's best friend growing up so Nancy was over quite a bit. Being the "little sister" that might be a bother at times, Nancy never made me feel unwanted. Then one day my cousin Randy was in town and met Nancy. I started realizing he was coming to OKC more often. It was fun to see them rough house around in the living room. They couldn't keep their hands off each other. LOL. She always had that smile and that ever present soft dimple when she was amused at something.
When my dad passed away Nancy was in Oklahoma and she kept all the food organized and a list of people who brought things over. She kept the kitchen clean and we couldn't have done it without her. Randy and Nancy were a good team. He said, "lets go" and she went.
Even after she became ill she never missed a wedding, Christmas Eve at the Rosses or a Reunion. Nancy will be missed by all.
Steve Blackmon
September 30, 2013
Randy, our prayers are with you. Nancy was a wonderful person. We all had some great times at The Met.
September 30, 2013
Randy, there are no words to express mine and Wade's sorrow for the lost of your precious wife. We know that she is sitting by our Lord's side and we also know that He will give you the comfort and strength that you will need in the days ahead. We love you Randy, Tere and Wade
September 30, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss. Please be comforted in knowing God cares for you and will help you in your time of need. 1 Pet. 5:7
Susan Huckabee
September 30, 2013
Randy,
I am so sorry to learn of the death of your wife, Nancy. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Susan Huckabee
Kansas City, MO
AT&T
David Hyatt
September 30, 2013
Randy, Our prayers of peace and comfort for you and your family.
Dave Calip
September 30, 2013
Randy,
You and your family will be in my prayers.
Jill Phillips
September 30, 2013
Randy, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time. May God give you peace and comfort.
Cheryl Russell
September 30, 2013
Having worked with Nancy for almost 10 years, I have many wonderful memories of her. She loved you, Randy and she loved both of you girls, but she loved her Lord even more. May your hearts be filled with sweet memories of her in the days to come.
Dennis and Linda Vaughn
September 29, 2013
Randy, Linda and I join together with many of your friends over the years to lift you all up in prayer during this time. You were blessed with a loving wife full of grace and love and we will see her again soon. May the Lord lead and carry you all as you walk this valley. All our love to you,the girls and the rest of the family. You know to call when needed. Love you bud!
Dennis and Linda
Paul and Sharon Ragsdale
September 29, 2013
With sweet sorrow and eternal victory, Nancy can now say:
“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. Now there is in store for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to me on that day – and not only to me, but also to all who have longed for his appearing.” II Timothy 4:7-8
We love you Randy.
Art Farias
September 29, 2013
Randy,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Take care,
Art
Manuel & Donna Villarreal
September 29, 2013
Our prayers are with you in this time..
Virginia Holder
September 29, 2013
Randy, Ron and I are so sorry for your loss. May God be with you now and in the days to come.
Bob and Pam Thomas
September 29, 2013
We are so sorry for you loss. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Ima Greenfield
September 29, 2013
I will miss you deeply Nancy as you were my sister, mentor, protector and friend. Randy, Dana and Janie I will always be here if you need me.
Michael Sanders
September 29, 2013
I will always remember Nancy not so much for who she was, but for where she was. I can't really think of Christmas Eve with my mom's family without thinking of Randy and Nancy being there. They were there for our many readings of the Christmas story and the chaos that goes on when we actually open up our presents. They were even there the one year my Aunt Pam made us act out the Christmas story. I couldn't believe that we were actually doing that. I was sure it wouldn't go over so well. Randy and Nancy seemed to enjoy it though. It was always great to have them there and grow up with them and their daughters. When we are doing Christmas this year I will be thinking of Nancy and that constant smile she had on her face and the joy with which she lived life, but I know that even though she is not here with us that she is in a better place.
September 29, 2013
With deepest sympathy to you and your family for the loss of your dear loved one. May the "God of all Comfort" comfort you and your family during this difficult time. (2 Co. 1:3)
Mark Howard
September 29, 2013
Randy,there aren't goodbyes, only see you later. Praying for your family.
Debbie Caldwell
September 28, 2013
So thankful and blessed to be included in Nancy's journey these last years. Seeing Nancy's faith and love for God has been a great blessing and education to me. So pleased to see all the pictures and how happy she was. What a great family! Please accept my sincere sympathy.
EJ and Tonia Ledesma
September 28, 2013
Randy you and your family are in our hearts and our prayers. Nancy was a great lady that will be missed. God Bless
September 28, 2013
Randy, May God be with you and comfort and provide strength to all your family.
Debbie Mitchell (SWBT/Houston)
Nick Ferrantino
September 28, 2013
Please accept my deepest sorrow for your loss and may it give you comfort you and your family do not grieve alone and Nancy will be missed by all those she touched with her wit and wisdom over the years she was with us.
Nick Ferrantino
(at&t retired)
Melissa Rodgers
September 28, 2013
Randy, wishing you and your family comfort and peace in this difficult time.
Fran and Fran Hunt
September 28, 2013
Randy and family,
We express our deepest sympathy at this time. We know you will miss Nancy as we all will, but rejoice because she is free from pain and living with Jesus. Love in Christ,
Fran and Frank Hunt
Donald Hildebrand
September 28, 2013
Nancy is in a place where 911 is not needed. Where we all long to be! The price was paid over 2000 years ago on an old rugged cross.
Priscilla H
September 28, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Wilda Goodwin
September 28, 2013
Randy-
Nancy's name has been written the Lamb's book of life for a long time. Now she has taken her place that Jesus prepared for her. I know that you and the girls will miss her, rejoice in the day when you will see her again.
You and the family are in my prayers.
Dick Hamilton
September 28, 2013
May God bless your family. As past neighbor and friend we will miss you.
September 28, 2013
We send our great sympathy for such a loss Randy and family. You have all been in our prayers over this past year. Know you are loved by us. Doug and Linda Baker
Dena Spaulding
September 27, 2013
Proverbs 31:10-31 Portrait of the Virtuous Woman
A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her. Love, Aunt Dena
Jeremy Vicars
September 27, 2013
Thoughts and prayers to my Sunday School teacher from almost 30 years ago. Mrs. Burchfield, the investments you made in HIS kingdom are being praised as you are embraced in Heaven. As I now raise my own children and serve in my church, I have looked back on your service those many years ago with admiration. You and Mr. Burchfield were a wonderful example to so many.
Carey Holmes
September 27, 2013
Randy and family,
I have been privileged to witness Nancy's courage and faith. She fought valiantly yet with a calm acceptance of God's will for her life. She will be missed.
Thank you for posting the photos, they were a joy to see. My prayer is that the beautiful memories you share will bring you comfort and peace.
Amanda Bird Smith
September 27, 2013
All my thoughts and prayers are with you all
Shirley Newell
September 27, 2013
Condolences from the A. A. Burchfield Family...June Hensley, Gloma Aultman, Sharron Randall, Shirley Newell, Judy Williams and Randy Allen Burchfield. Our love and prayers are with you and the girls at this time. Memories are special gifts ....remember and laugh for Nancy!
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