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Patrick Cunningham Oxford

1942 - 2022

Patrick Cunningham Oxford obituary, 1942-2022, Houston, TX

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Patrick Cunningham Oxford
1942-2022
Patrick Cunningham Oxford, 79, passed away in his home on the morning of the 13th of February 2022, surrounded by love. He was inspired by his Catholic faith to live a life of service to others: service to his country, state and city, to his clients and colleagues, to his friends and family and to his church. He was a happy man. A compassionate man.
Patrick was born in Beaumont, Texas, the son of Hubert Oxford II and Virginia Cunningham Oxford. He attended catholic schools in Beaumont, graduating from St. Anthony's Catholic High School. He grew up playing football and baseball and working for his father's business, Oxford Building Materials. His love of baseball never faded. His friends and family cherished and appreciated his knowledge of the game, its history and his ability to make analogies of many situations in life or business to the game of baseball.
Patrick attended the University of Texas at Austin and received a B.B.A. with honors in 1966 and a J.D. with honors in 1967. He was a member of Phi Delta Theta Fraternity and the Texas Cowboys. At UT law school he was Managing Editor of the Texas Law Review and a member of the Friar Society. Many of Patrick's deepest friendships began at The University of Texas and lasted the rest of his life. After graduating he continued to serve the University and the Law School in various capacities and on many committees. He was honored to serve on the Board of Regents from 1997 to 2003. Patrick also served as Chairman of the Health Affairs Committee that oversaw the operations of six health institutions of the University of Texas System.
Patrick Oxford joined the firm of Bracewell & Patterson (now Bracewell LLP) and became its 13th partner in 1973. There he worked in various practice areas, ultimately specializing in a business transactional practice, focusing on real estate, energy and banking. He served as Managing Partner and lead the firm's opening of the New York City office.
Pat took pride and great interest in recruiting and mentoring young lawyers in their careers and providing steady counsel to clients and colleagues. He cared, genuinely. He was a brilliant lawyer, as a teacher and mentor he was a natural. Mentoring youth of all ages gave him great joy. His influence will live on in all those who learned from him.
Patrick believed that Houston's business leaders had an obligation to further the success of the city. He took an active role in many civic and business organizations. He worked with the Greater Houston Partnership, serving as Chairman and as a Board Member Emeritus. He also served on the boards of various medical and research institutions. He was Vice Chairman of Texas Medical Center, Inc., which later recognized Patrick as Chairman Emeritus in 2020. He served on the Advisory Board of the Kinder institute for Urban Research at Rice University and on the Board of the Kinder Institute for Constitutional Democracy at the University of Missouri.
Patrick believed deeply in the ideals set forth in the founding of our country and in our constitutional system. He twice served as statewide Chairman for Senator Kay Bailey Hutchison's campaigns. He was a leader with the gubernatorial and presidential campaigns of George W. Bush. Also providing counsel for many other statewide and local officeholders in Texas. Beyond his many hours serving candidates that he believed would improve our city, state and country, perhaps his most personal expression of his belief in the United States, its system of government and its values was reflected in the eloquent and thought-provoking email letters he sent annually to the entire Bracewell family on the 4th of July and Thanksgiving.
Pat was a man of deep faith. He believed that faith was a gift. He attended Mass daily at St. Anne's Catholic Church and served as a Eucharistic Minister and CCE teacher. He also participated in educational and service ministries for the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston. His desire to serve others never diminished. He made a genuine connection with people and remembered the stories and dreams of so many. His conversations often ended with one earnest question. Is there anything I can do to help you?
He had an unparalleled sense of humor and was a skilled raconteur with an uncanny ability to deliver the perfect punch line to his stories. He had great intellectual capacity and curiosity, especially regarding political and historical issues. He was truly a man for all seasons. His sense of humor shined through to his last days, as did his grace and elegance. In fact, it grew. His sweetness, palpable.
Patrick is survived by his, "Katie Bell," wife of thirty-two years, his daughters, Elizabeth Pagan and Virginia Fleming, his sons-in-law Greer Pagan and Lee Fleming, his grandson and pride and joy Charlie Pagan, his brothers Hubert Oxford III and Denis Oxford, his sister Virginia Thompson, his sister-in-law Canice Garth and her husband David, his brothers-in-law Kit Herrington and Tommy Herrington, and numerous cousins, nieces and nephews. He is preceded in death by his parents and his sister Mary Englander.
The family is deeply appreciative of the care given by Dr. Gustavo Roman, Dr. Martin Poliak, Olivia Kim and Wayne McPherson.
Sincere thanks to caregivers, Ana Bercian, Ivan De Mesa, Dorca Flores, Jesse Guzman, Janeth Hinojosa, Carlos Linares, Vilma Martinez, Liseth Molina, Jorge Montes, Xenia Morales, Rosie Paz, Johnny Peralta, Andrea Pillar, Evelyn Rojas, Margy Sproule and Mimi Tejada. Most especially, Liliana R. Montes. Thank you for your love and labor.
Heartfelt thanks to Flo Crady, Sally Farley, Scott McCool, Rhonda Sue Walker and Jennifer Weston. Special thanks to Patrick's dear friends Nancy and Rich Kinder.
Friends are cordially invited to gather with the family and share remembrances of Patrick from four o'clock in the afternoon until six o'clock in the evening on Wednesday, the 23rd of February 2022, at Geo. H. Lewis & Sons, 1010 Bering Drive in Houston.
A Memorial Service is to be conducted at half-past one o'clock in the afternoon on Thursday, the 24th of February 2022, at St. Anne Catholic Church, 2140 Westheimer Road in Houston. For those unable to attend the service, virtual attendance may be accessed by visiting Mr. Oxford's online memorial tribute at GeoHLewis.com and selecting the "Join Livestream" icon on the service section.
(Kindly Note: Parking for the memorial service will be located in the St. Anne's Catholic Church parking garage, which may be accessed off Westheimer Road and Kingston Drive, traffic control officers will be positioned so as to direct attendees).
Immediately following, all are invited to greet the family during a reception in the adjacent St. Basil Hall.
Serving as honorary pallbearers are J. P. Bryan, Sam Burford, Dan Connolly, Stephen Crain, Cleland Dade, Rhew Dooley, Lee Fleming, Kelly Frels, Clifford Gunter III, Kit Herrington, Senator Kay Bailey Hutchison, Rich Kinder, Scott McCool, Crady Newton, Denis Oxford, Hubert Oxford III, Charlie Pagan, Greer Pagan and Carlton Wilde.
The family will gather at later date for a private interment at Magnolia Cemetery in Beaumont, Texas.
In lieu of customary remembrances, the family requests with gratitude that memorial contributions in his name be directed to the Cristo Rey Jesuit College Preparatory, Rev. T.J. Martinez, S.J., Education Fund, 6700 Mt. Carmel Drive, Houston, Texas 77087; Greater Houston Community Foundation, 515 Post Oak Boulevard Suite 1000, Houston, Texas 77027; Houston Hospice, 1905 Holcombe Boulevard, Houston, Texas 77030; or the Patrick C. Oxford Scholarship at the University of Texas at Austin, P.O. Box 7458, Austin, Texas 78713.
Please view Mr. Oxford's online memorial tribute at GeoHLewis.com where memories and words of comfort and condolence may be shared electronically with his family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Houston Chronicle on Feb. 20, 2022.

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Jordan Mintz

February 28, 2022

I loved Pat. He was a role model, mentor, and friend. At the lowest moment in my professional career during the Enron Bankruptcy, Pat was there for me--no questions asked. He always made me feel good about myself and spending time with him always made me feel like a better person. I am so disappointed that I was out of town when Pat's life was being celebrated last week. My and Lauren's thoughts and prayers are with Katie and Pat's Family.

MaryLou Swift

February 24, 2022

Dear Elizabeth and Family I am so sorry to learn of your Father's passing. I read the words expressed here and understand he was an amazing man full of intellect and kindness. May God Bless his soul Sincerely MaryLou

Daisy Young

February 23, 2022

May happy memories carry you through this sorrowful time. Always know you're never alone.

Love Daisy

Wilson K Mason

February 23, 2022

Patrick Oxford was a natural leader and good friend to all he met. Our paths go back a long way and crossed often, beginning in Beaumont at Spindletop Little League where Pat showed promise as our stand-out second baseman and double-play threat on our almost-great "Sports" team. Snappy uniforms and creased hats were proud badges for all of us. Early lessons in life, along with great memories and experience built character, team-play, confidence, and a certain amount of playfulness that stayed with Pat. We both relished politics in school, college and after, but Pat took it to a higher, professional level and honed it to a fine and respectable art, admired by everyone, tempered by his honesty and charm. We shall all miss Patrick's chuckle and insight, but will remain grateful for his positive example and imprint on our lives.

Tammy Jenkins

February 22, 2022

I had the great privilege to work with "Mr. O" for several years at Bracewell on the PAC. I enjoyed going into his office and discussing our planned giving. Those meetings always ended with some sort of lesson on politics, talking about Beaumont and with him telling me to let him know what I needed. Mr. O had such an impressive career and while there were a great number of reasons to respect him, the number one reason for me was that he respected me. Mr. O. was a kind and respectful man...a true leader. He was my superior...I worked for him...but he would tease me and call me the boss of the PAC. I will truly miss Mr. O! I am extremely saddened by his passing but I take comfort in knowing that to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord.

To the Oxford family: You are in my prayers.

Janet Padilla-Sanchez

February 21, 2022

My Mother, Rose Gracia, was a classmate to Pat at St. Anthony High School and always spoke very highly of him. My father, Anthony Padilla, went to school with Hubert and I was a classmate with Ginny. Our condolences to all of your family. We will be praying for healing and comfort.

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Olivia H. Kim

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Ken Wynne

February 21, 2022

Pat was my long and dear and unusually thoughtful friend. We were in law school together, started practicing law in the same year with the same law firm. We were partners for many years. At numerous important junctures in my life, Pat showed up, always with support and encouragement. My heart goes out to Katie, to the girls, to Hubert and to all of Pat's family. We have all lost a very fine man.

Kent Hance

February 20, 2022

Pat was a good friend and a man of great character. I first met him in law school and enjoyed being with him on many occasions. He had a great smile and we always enjoyed exchanging stories of Beaumont and Lubbock. Pat Oxford was one of the best men I´ve ever known. RIP

James Edward and Valerie Mullally

February 20, 2022

Pat was our class mate at St Ann´s and St Anthony´s Always saw him smiling, full of energy. His presence will be truly missed.

The Martinez Family

February 20, 2022

On behalf of the Martinez family, we send our deepest condolences. Know that Pat was joyously met by Father TJ welcoming him home and to a place of eternal peace and happiness, both showering all of us with blessings!!!

Linda Downs Bertman

February 18, 2022

I have known Patrick all my life, having grown up across the street in Beaumont. He played basketball in my driveway, not knowing his future wife to be was there visiting my late sister Becky. Patrick was special, he had an aura. He will be missed. So sorry for your loss, Katie...and Hubert.

Michael Huff

February 18, 2022

I adored working with Pat at Bracewell from when I started there September 15, 1971. I worked many, many overtime hours with him for many years and enjoyed seeing his career grow through the years. He always made me laugh a lot for 34 years. He had a great sense of humor and I loved hearing the many stories he had to tell. A great person gone much too soon.

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