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RAY CARGILL Obituary

RAY D. CARGILL of Clear Lake Shores, Texas died on March 7, 2010 in Christus St. John's Hospital after a long struggle with cancer.Ray was born in Baytown, Texas on April 21, 1932. He was preceded in death by his father RD Cargill, and his mother Nettie Bell Cargill. Ray was a superior people person and received his Bachelors degree of Business from Sam Houston State University.Ray was an excellent father and was adorned by his business acquaintances, friends, and family. He enjoyed the outdoors, camping, water sports, Padre Trips, and his numerous front yard animal visitors which really kept him entertained in his later days.Ray is survived by his son Craig Cargill, daughter-in-law Peri Wofford, daughter Tammy Kaufhold, son-in-law Kent Kaufhold, two terrific grandchildren, Cameron and Kellsey Kaufhold, sister Peggy Matthews, nieces Sheri Czekanski and Teri VanHorn. Along with many wonderful dedicated friends, doctors, and nurses.The Memorial Celebration of his life will be given by his family. Please contact family members for details. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the National Cancer Society in memory of Ray Cargill.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Mar. 10, 2010.

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March 27, 2010

Ray was a good friend, and I will miss him greatly. Mary Riley

Nadine Hopper

March 25, 2010

My dear friend Mary had introduced me to Ray several years back and it was an honor to get to meet him. I will always remember how he made me feel so special that first time I was introduced. He will be missed by all!!

Paula Mayo Miller

March 16, 2010

Hello,
So sorry to hear of Ray's passing. I've know the Cargill family for over 40 years. In fact, Ray used to work for my father, Billy Mayo, many years ago. To the Cargill Family.... I send my condolences to Craig, Tammy and all of the family and I am sincerely sorry for your loss. Paula (Mayo) Miller.

Linda Miller

March 12, 2010

Ray was there for everyone.In times of fun,encouragement,work . Ray was the life of the party ,the Rock ,The Daddy.He will greatly missed and live on in all our hearts . We know youL.Miller -

Enquied Fields

March 11, 2010

Daddy Ray was what he wanted us to call him. When he walked in the room, everyone new he was there. I will always love him and will never forget all the laughs, talks and parties he gave.. He was always a joy to be around.. Love you Craig and Tammy.. Meme (Angleton, TX)

Polly Ann Powers

March 11, 2010

What wonderful memories I have of Ray. When the new Student Union Building was built at SAM, I danced many an hour away with him. (Mostly slow jitter-bug to "Glow Worm"). If he was NOT the best dancer at SAM, he was right up there at the top. We will always be missing you, Ray,and that great personality. God Bless your family. Our peace be with you!

March 11, 2010

Tammy & Craig,
Your Dad was a wonderful friend to me and I hold many wonderful memories of our times together.
Love and peace to you both,
T. Mac Hood

Lindsay & Joe Thomeer

March 10, 2010

Neighbor, Teacher & Friend Ray,
You may be away...but rest assured, you will NEVER be gone in our lives! You taught us much about how to really LIVE in this world. We witnessed, firsthand, how you helped so many of your fellow man, never asking for anything in return.
We saw you way back when on the EYES OF TEXAS show, where they featured you taking the wood from junk pallets and making beautiful art. Lesson learned...everything is beautiful!
Thanks for Touching us in your special way!

Dorothy Norman

March 10, 2010

I met Ray in New York City and fell in love with him as all people do.He will always be special,Lots of fond memories.I will always hold him dear to heart.He left behind a beautiful and loving family. And his best friend "Frisky" who he was so proud of!They will always be in my thoughts and prayers.

Dorothy Norman
"Fluffy"

Pamela Jones R

March 10, 2010

Daddy Ray is already missed. I miss my phone calls, the laughter, his smile It was a pleasure to know him, he will all ways be in my heart. Tammy and Craig remember I love you guys.

March 10, 2010

Many people today at our class luncheon had not heard of Ray's passing, and were deeply saddened. Everyone remembered what a fun person he was. I am glad that he and Dorothy were able to come to the past two get-togethers. We shall truely miss him.
John and Ellen Flynt

Peggy Faulk Ellender

March 10, 2010

I am shocked. I was hoping to see Ray Darrell at lunch today. Many of my fondest memories include Ray Darrell, and his entire family.

To know him was to love him.

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