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RAYMOND WEST Obituary

RAYMOND ALLAN WEST08/18/1959 - 03/20/2010Ray passed away at his home in San Francisco on Saturday March 20, 2010 from complications of a chronic illness. He was surrounded by loved ones, his partner Larry Cunniffe, his mother Marie West, and his brother Roger and family Casey, Kyle and Kayla. He is also survived by his long time friend David Schwartz, many other family members and friends.Ray was born in Chelsea Massachusetts, grew up as a Navy brat living around the world before settling in Houston Texas. He eventually joined the Navy himself. After serving eight years, he returned to work in Houston for NASA during the first four shuttle missions. During this time he got his education at San Jacinto Community College and University of Houston. He then moved on to a career in accounting and worked for several large firms. He changed careers and moved into Real Estate, getting his broker's license in Texas and later in North Carolina, eventually opening his own Real Estate firm in Franklin. His final move to San Francisco in 2005 allowed him to pursue vocational opportunities in AIDS advocacy by working with The Ryan White Planning Council, Shanti and the Public Health Foundation Enterprises.Ray always lived his life to the fullest regardless of the obstacles in his way. He filled it with many activities and organizations that enriched his life. While enjoying baseball, cycling, reading and traveling, he volunteered at many organizations. He started his philanthropic endeavors with the AIDS Memorial Quilt as a founding member of the Houston Chapter. He worked for many years with the People With AIDS Coalition of Houston including over 5 years as its president. During this time, he also was a very active member in the Miss Camp America Houston fund raising organization. He also spent his time raising money for many other charities including participating in two separate AIDS/LifeCycle rides and working with the Macon County AIDS Task Force.He was preceded in death by his father Garvin West.In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to one of his favorite charities San Francisco based Aids Emergency Fund, the national organization Project Inform, or the Houston based Legacy Community Health Services.Memorial will be held at the Jasmine room of Baba Yega Saturday April 3, 2010 from 2:00 - 4:00PM.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Mar. 31, 2010.

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April 7, 2010

I remember the first day i met Ray, on the bus waiting to go to school, he made me so mad and then made me laugh so hard in the same breath, from then on we were like peas and carrots in high school, he was a best friend, we went everywhere together, except high school prom, I remembering telling this is one place we were not going together, yea right, there was all 3 of us Ray,Venetia and me, we were always together, life just took us in different directions, and a hi every now and then but always in thoughts. I will miss you very much

Wanda
Goodrich

April 6, 2010

My memories of Ray were from high school, he was a grade behind me. He was always trying to make other people happy, laughing and cutting with everyone. Heck I went to prom with him his senior year. From what I have read Ray had lived a very full life and I am so sorry that it has been cut short, but to all of his friends past and present just know that you have crossed paths with a truly wonderful person. Venetia True Stanley (Mineola, Tx)

vonda browning

April 6, 2010

May your Memory lite up our future,as your past presents in our lifes did

April 4, 2010

Ray was such a good person, full of life and carizma to. I wish his family well, and also what a wonderful
memorial service he had at Baba Yegas on Saturday.
All my best !
Troy Premeaux,
Montrose Patient Advocates of Houston.

Robin Brown

March 28, 2010

Ray you lite up the room when you came in and brought a smile to my face when ever I got to see you. Thank you for being the beautiful human that you were. Snap snap snap to all the girls in heaven

Arnold Arenas

March 28, 2010

My prayers are with you and your family . we will miss you.
Ray
Arnold
Houston Texas

SYLVIA EDWARDS

March 28, 2010

RAY HAD A PURE HEART AND PURE SOUL, HIS EVERY THOUGHT WAS FOR OTHERS. HE WAS SUCH AN INSPIRATION TO ME DURING MY ILLNESS AND LIVER TRANSPLANT....I SHALL, AND ALREADY DO, MISS HIM DEEPLY....HIS PASSING IS SUCH A LOSS TO SO MANY..... WITH LOVE, SYLVIA

Venessa Little

March 24, 2010

I have not seen Ray in years, however, I do remember spending time with him years ago, and he was always very fun to be around. I am praying for his family and friends.

Vonda Browning

March 24, 2010

In My Mind ..Its so hard to believe.In My Heart a Empty Place,that no one will ever fill,My Sweet,Handsome Cousin..we spent your lifetime,together alot as children,just being ourselfs doing as much as we could to have fun without getting into trouble,our life as Adults we were apart,You had Your Life and I mine....But not a moment passed that the LOVE in my heart for you ever ceased .I got to spend time with you back in June when they had Garvins Funeral,which was another Saddest day of my life.and I felt your Love for life and for our Family as we visited..Id give anything to make you well and bring you back ..But since its not possible,,you be happy and be waiting with that Handsome smile and a big hug for me Ill.See You Soon...Love allways Vonda Kay

Bill Aiello

March 24, 2010

I always admired Rays wit and sense of adventure. I still do. I wish him and his family peace.

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