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Jay Harris Pickett

1961 - 2021

Jay Harris Pickett obituary, 1961-2021, California Formerly Of Caldwell, ID

Jay Pickett Obituary

California formerly of Caldwell - It is with deep, immeasurable sadness we announce the unexpected and tragic passing of our father, husband, brother, uncle, and friend, Jay Pickett, on July 30th, 2021. Jay Harris Pickett was born on February 10, 1961 in Spokane, Washington. He was born the third of five children to Dick and Virginia Pickett; he was brother to Dee, Rich, Ginna (Maggard), and Jan (Larison). Jay spent his youth avidly rodeoing, devotedly playing sports, and tending to his treasured horses and many animals on the Pickett family homestead in Caldwell, Idaho. He attended Vallivue High School as an Honor student and multi-sport athlete who, along with his brother Rich, led their football team to a Class 2A state Championship in 1979. He went on to play football at Treasure Valley Community College and Boise State University while pursuing a career in acting.

Jay graduated from Boise State University with a BFA in Acting and went on to get his MFA in Theater Arts at UCLA, appearing in numerous theatrical productions at both schools. He left behind four decades of work on both the large and small screens, notably having originated the role of Frank Scanlon on Port Charles and later joining the cast of General Hospital. He enjoyed his work on Rags to Riches, China Beach, Mr. Belvedere, Days of Our Lives, Rumpelstiltskin, Dexter, Desperate Housewives, Abandoned, The Mentalist, NCIS: Los Angeles, Queen Sugar, The Work Wife, and so many others, along with Catch the Bullet, coming out September 2021. Jay also proudly co-wrote, produced, and starred in Soda Springs. Beyond his many roles, and persistent pursuit of the perfect take, Jay was warm, kind, generous, and charismatic. The relationships in Jay's life were more important than any role he ever played. He was an unmistakably dedicated husband, father, brother, uncle, coach, and friend to so many. Jay's relationships spanned far and wide and it is no question his life was bolstered by each and every one.

Jay's passion for acting went beyond a vocation, it was part of who he was. A consummate artist and creative, he was voraciously devoted to his craft up to his final scene. He left us all while passionately pursuing his dream of bringing his film, Treasure Valley, to life. Jay had written the screenplay and was also producing and starring in what he believed would be his greatest project to date. His family feels truly blessed to have his talent and heart captured in this final project.

Jay was larger-than-life to his wife, Elena, and three children, Maegan, Michaela, and Tyler. He was a fearless leader, tireless mentor, and fierce protector. His endless pride and love for his children poured from his being. Jay married his college sweetheart, Elena Pickett, and together, as best friends and partners, they built a beautiful life in Los Angeles pursuing their dreams for the past 35 years.

Jay is survived by his wife, Elena, his children, Maegan, Ashley (daughter-in-law), Michaela, and Tyler, his four siblings and spouses, Dee Pickett (Brenda), Rich Pickett (Rhonda), Ginna Maggard (John), and Jan Larison (Bob), and 19 nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by his parents, Dick and Virginia. Jay was expecting his first grandchild in December. His legacy is infinite and will be forever proliferated by each soul he loved and touched.

A Celebration of Life Memorial Service will be held at 3:00 P.M. on Friday, August 20th, 2021 at the Nampa Civic Center. Streaming is available through the Nampa Funeral Home Web Site http://www.nampafuneralhome.com at https://my.gather.app/family/jay-pickett A reception will follow in the Ford Idaho Center Rodeo Room, Nampa. Arrangements are under the direction of the Nampa Funeral Home Yraguen Chapel where an online guestbook and full obituary is available at www.nampafuneralhome.com

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Published by Idaho Press Tribune from Aug. 15 to Aug. 16, 2021.

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Ms. Valinda Jones

August 18, 2021

August 18, 2021

Dear Family of Actor Mr. Jay Pickett:

We would like to extend our heartfelt condolences to all of you on your loss. Jay will be missed by all of those people who knew, and loved him. And especially by those people whose lives that he had touch. He did leave a great legacy. And he will not be forgotten. All we can say is, "Rest In Peace, Jay".

MATTHEW 5:4 "BLESSED ARE THOSE WHO MOURN, FOR THEY WILL BE COMFORTED."

PSALM 30:5 "WEEPING MAY ENDURE FOR A NIGHT, BUT REJOICING COMES IN THE MORNING."

WITH OUR CHRISTIAN SYMPATHY, FROM, MS. VALINDA D. JONES, A 44 YEAR MEMBER OF SIXTH GRACE PRESBYTERIAN CHURCH, 600 EAST 35TH STREET, CHICAGO, ILLINOIS 60616, AND ALSO THEIR "PUBLIC RELATIONS PERSON", AND THE FORMER COOP MEMBERS, AND THE FORMER MEMBERS OF CHURCH MUSICIAN SHIP GUILD, INC. (C.M.S. GUILD, INC.).

MS. JONES IS A FORMER MEMBER AS OF 1988-2008. THE LATE DR. MILDRED G. LEWIS WAS THE FOUNDER, AND EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR.

Ms. Valinda Jones

August 18, 2021

August 18, 2021

Dear Family of Actor Mr. Jay Pickett:

I am a 44 year Member of Sixth Grace Presbyterian Church, 600 East 35th Street, Chicago, Illinois 60616. I am also their "Public Relations Person". Reverend Dr. David B. Thornton is the Pastor, and Reverend Donald B. Register is the Pastor Emeritus.

I am also A Former Member of Church Musician Ship Guild, Inc. (1988-2008). The late Dr. Mildred G. Lewis was The Founder, and Executive Director. I was their Assistant Administrative Secretary, Executive Secretary, and Public Relations Director.

I would like to extend my heartfelt condolences to all of you on your loss. Jay will be missed by all of those people who knew, and loved him. He did leave a great legacy. And he will not be forgotten. All I can say is, "Rest In Peace, Jay".

WITH MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY, FROM, MS. VALINDA D. JONES, OF CINCINNATI, OHIO. I USE TO LIVE IN CHICAGO, ILLINOIS.

Lee

August 4, 2021

My condolences go out to the Pickett fam. So sorry for your loss.

Rico Austin

August 2, 2021

Jay Pickett RIP & his brothers grew up across the Snake River from my brothers and me. Spent lots of fun evenings with Jay in the late 70s; Great Friend, Brother, Son, Father, & Human Being; He passed away while doing what he loved, on a horse and acting / directing in the Treasure Valley in Idaho of which he was raised.

Kathy George

August 2, 2021

There are no words...when one loses their best friend, love of their life, father, brother, son... our hearts and prayers go out to Elena and family as they find their footing to move forward broken hearts and deep sadness...we love you and are here for you. Thomas and Kathy

Stephanie D Schell

August 2, 2021

Remember him from the soap operas.

August 2, 2021

Deepest sympathy to the Pickett family in this time of your dear loss , May you find peace from family and friends , may you find comfort from the words of Isaiah 51:12 .

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