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Eugene P. Grace
February 5, 2025
Barbara is still part of my happy memories. I worked with Barbara at PNC where she worked on important projects. My memories of Barbara are all positive. Barbara comes to my mind more than you might expect. Gone far too soon.
Barbara Lightner
February 4, 2025
Dear Barbara,
Still sad and unbelievable that you aren´t with us. My earliest memories of you are your warm smile and laughter. As adults, I was delighted by your joy, your kindness and sad for your underserved losses. Now that I´m back in Pennsylvania, I sure wish you were here. I trust you rest with angels.
Rena Johnson
February 4, 2024
Memories of Barbara still make me smile.
Barbara Lightner
February 8, 2023
If wishes could bring her back, that is what I´d wish. Thinking of Jay and Kathy, Bob and Joy and Jane and her cousins, nephews and those whose lives Barbara touched. It was so nice to rekindle our friendship as adults during my winter in York. It was a delight to see you and very special to talk. I miss those talks. You were very special.
Eugene P. Grace
February 5, 2022
Barbara's light still bright with a gentle warmth. Her kindness, joy, spirit reflected through us. Barbara still spoken of. Her physical being no more; but I was blessed to have seen her smile, heard her laugh, that certain look that remains with me today. May God bless her and her family.
Edwin Thompson
February 4, 2021
I miss Barbara, her ready smile, her earnest energy, her kindness.
February 4, 2020
2/4/2020
I miss Barbara as much as ever.
Ed Thompson
Ruth Colburn
July 18, 2012
Barbara made a booklet for me of my grandmother's words of wisdom. I will always have that to remember her talent in striving for the beauty in life.
Linda Mill
June 8, 2012
Barbara -A new entry prompted me to return to this page. Know that I think of you often as I now work full time fighting the elder abuse we fought together at Wachovia. If you hadn't supported my project I suspect it would never have gotten off the ground and turned into millions saved for older adults. And beyond the money we know we saved lives by making sure those most vulnerable got the help they needed.
Next week I go to the White House as we continue the fight to get all banks working with APS and APS working with all banks. You are a big part of that my friend and I hope you will check in on the event.
Love always
Linda
Eugene Grace
June 5, 2012
Dear Family,
Barbara worked for me at PNC Bank. I am so deeply saddened to learn of her loss, the world has lost a good soul. I remember Barbara's eyes when she was in deep thought and her halting laugh. I consider myself blessed to have known her.
With tears in my eyes.
Eugene P. Grace
Giovanna Adimari
May 20, 2012
It's been over a year dear friend and we miss you. Your gentle nature and love of family will stay in our memory. Your gifts to this world are love, friendship, joy. Barbara you could light up any room. We love and miss you very much. Giovanna and Dan
William Paisley
February 17, 2012
My dearest Barbara (Beej), Writing this message is the most difficult task of my life because it means that you are really gone. It would literally take a novel to express my love and respect for you and your family. The years we shared together will be cherished for the rest of my life. I hope our Chance and Riley (and Kasey) were there to greet you and guide you into God's embrace. My deepest sympathies go out to your entire family and all of our friends. You will always be the greatest love of my life. Good-bye my love, Bill
February 27, 2011
Barbara and I met when she visited Borders in Philadelphia. She was was looking for the new Andrew Hamilton biography. We had a mutual interest in American history. She sponsored me to the Society for the Preservation of Landmarks, quartered in the Physick House in Old City. At her urging I also visited the Physick mansion and museum
in Cape May, NJ, where Barbara summered with her family all her life.
She shared with me the family history she had labored over and I told her it was one of the best non-professional efforts I had seen. B.
also encouraged me with my own writing and she commented upon
some, too.
Barbara was always interesting and interested. Her proud and
determined manner was her hallmark. Her nobility of spirit and her
intellect drew people to her. I was honored when she took me as her
guest to Philadelphia's Cosmopolitan Club, a highly regarded venue
for businesswomen. Although Barbara and I met less frequently once
I left Borders we had lively telephone conversations and emails. I was
pleased when she recently told me that she was a volunteer docent of
Betsy Ross at Winterthur Museum because it made her happy to be
educating vistors about this strong-willed patriot. B. was a remarkable
woman and she deserved to be happy.
Although Barbara's passing threatens the social threads she wove so effectively and tirelessly, I believe the care and respect she bestowed upon her family, friends, and anyone who came within her reach, will not be lost but will endure in our memories of her. Also, I
shall miss Barbara's kind hear heart and warm smile. I am very sorry
that I did not know her all the days of her life. I will always remember
Barbara striding purposefully through Center City Philadelphia on her
way to some meeting, which she was likely chairing.
I offer my heartfelt condolences to Barbara's family and friends for
this terrible loss.
Ed Thompson, Glenside PA
Robert Garrett
February 24, 2011
I cry at the thought of never again seeing her smile or hearing her chuckle. She was an angel who walked this earth and now has gone home. Goodbye Love.
February 17, 2011
There are not many words that help me say what there is to say.
I am very, very sad to hear of Barbara leaving us. She welcomed me so warmly at different points of my life.
Dominic (Switzerland)
Elisabeth&Lienhard&family Roser
February 15, 2011
Dear Davis family
Our hearts hurt and we are deeply saddened. We loved Barbara.
In these days we are with you in thoughts and prayer, our dear Dr.Davis, Jane, Jay and Kathy, Bob and Joy with your sons.
Know, that if anyone of you gets a chance to come to Europe, you are warmly welcome in our home, just as we had hoped to welcome Barbara one day.
Connected, the Roser's from Switzerland
February 15, 2011
We share in the sadness of learning of Barbara's passing. It will take us some time to process this loss - Barbara was a great friend to us. Her many and varied interests and talents are known to all. She undertook each new project with enthusiasm and intense concentration. She loved being challenged by new ideas and jumped into her projects with gusto. She had the gift of being able to relate to all generations - the elderly as well as to those just starting out on their life journey.
The last few years had many personal challenges for Barbara and we were optimistic that her venture into Elder Law would be exactly the right decision and career path for her. She had much to look forward to.
"God gives his beloved sleep and perfect peace through His mercy to us in Jesus. Underneath are the everlasting arms."
MaryAnn and Bruce Anderson
Norfolk, Ct.
Carole Kirkpatrick
February 14, 2011
Barbara it saddens me to write these words. You were kind and caring and such a great influence to others. You will be missed but will always be in my heart. Thanks for being a part of my life.
Marilyn Howard Cox
February 14, 2011
When I heard the news about Barbara my first reaction was that of shock then disbelief. As events continued to unfold I realized that the unfortunate news was indeed true and the sadness of the reality kicked in for me. I worked with Barbara for six years at Wachovia as a Paralegal under her direction and during that tenure we became very friendly. I remember our lunch visits to the Cosmopolitan Club, our daily conversations complete with all the stories about Barbara's exciting weekend & vacation jaunts, the friends and family she visited, the impromptu pool visits and finally, her puppy tales. She had a unique way of telling a story that made you feel you were part of the experience. Professionally, Barbara was a confidant, a friend and a competent team player. Personally, she was kind, caring, humorous and humble all simultaneously. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her. My prayers go out to Jane as well as the rest of the Davis/Logan family. May God keep you and strengthen you during this difficult time.
Kathy Egan
February 14, 2011
Dear Davis Family, my heart and prayers are with you. Barbara had a unique ability to see the good in everyone she met. She was so talented, creative, joyful and most of all, kind. Her whole family meant the world to her. I never met anyone who was as thrilled about having cousins as Barbara was. Her friendship was a gift that I will really miss.
Kyle Whary
February 13, 2011
Dear Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Barbara was a kind, sweet and genuine person. I had the privilege meeting and becoming friends with her after she purchased artwork of mine. We shared many laughs and conversations at Kreutz Creek Winery in West Chester. My heart goes out to you.
Phyllis James
February 13, 2011
Dear Friends. I am so very sorry for your loss. I first met Babara while I was with my dogs. She immediately got down on the floor to pet and play with them, allowing my puppies to cover her face with kisses while she smiled and laughed.. Each time I saw her she would express her love for her family and of animals. She was delightful. She will be so missed.
Alita Logan Thomas
February 13, 2011
I feel Blessed to have worked with Barbara during her Wachovia years. My heart hurts and struggles to imagine a World without Barbara. I was a Paralegal on her Team. What a joy she was to behold! Kind, caring, sharing...She was always the first to back my participation in the annual Breast Cancer Walks...And how excited she was to learn that my maiden name was Logan!
Rest in Peace, Dear Friend. I will never forget you.
Susan MacPherson
February 13, 2011
Dear Davis family, I am saddened beyond words to learn of Barbara's passing. In the short months that I had known her as a Winterthur volunteer, she had become a very special friend. As a new volunteer late last summer, Barbara welcomed me with open arms - enthusiasm and a hug! We shared meals at the cafe, enjoyed long chats, shared information to make our tours special,and made plans to get together in the future. One special Sunday before Christmas, Barbara brought Jane to the Betsy Ross tour that I was doing. It was so good to meet Jane and to share a meal afterwards at Cosi's in Greenville, Delaware. Barbara had a unique gift of bringing enthusiasm, joy, and graciousness to any situation. I cannot imagine how much you are missing her; you have my full sympathy and hope that all the wonderful memories that people are sharing will be of comfort to you all. I will miss her greatly and mourn her loss.
Rena Johnson
February 12, 2011
Dear Davis Family,
I had the good fortune to work with Barb at Mellon Bank about 10 years ago, and I enjoyed coming to work to experience Barb's warmth, openness, sense of humor, funny stories and always being invited to view her latest "project," whether it was a beautiful photograph, a family history, or her compilation of family recipes. She truly enjoyed learning and doing new things and was never afraid to "think out of the box." I remember how thrilled she was to reunite with the Logan side of her family and how excited she was about her trips out West to visit her relatives. She even dreamed about moving West and becoming a pig farmer for a while! The fond way that Barb talked about her family spoke volumes about how much she loved all of you. She was truly a unique and exceptional woman and I am very sorry for your tragic loss.
Deb Reid-Lees
February 12, 2011
"I existed from all eternity and, behold, I am here: and I shall exist till the end of time, for my being has no end." Khalil Gibran
Dear Davis Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Barbara entered my mom's world late in life. As they developed their bond, it became clear that this was very much a relationship where the give and take of friendship was based on a foundation of mutual respect and, most of all, kindness. Thanks to Barbara for her kindness and friendship with Elsie (Logan) Reid.
Eric & Jackie Sandblade
February 12, 2011
Dear Davis family
We are so very sorry about your precious Barbara. It was not long ago that we talked with her on the telephone. Our hearts are so sad for all of your family. We extend our deepest sympathy to all of you.
May God give you strength with this heavy burden. Our love and prayers and best wishes are with you. Eric and Jackie Sandblade
Jonna Lee Eiser
February 12, 2011
BJ,
You have been a special part of my life. I always will remember when we were little and my family traveled to your house for weekends, spending time on vacation in Cape May, and in the past years, helping me to cope with Joyce's illness and death, talking on Thursday nights, enjoying the love of Kenny's wedding, giving me news of my other Logan cousins, introducing me to cousins I had never met. God must have needed you very badly to take you from us, and I know that you are helping him the way you helped me.
Jay, Bob, Jane, Uncle Jim, my prayers will continue for a long time in this so hard to believe time. My love to you all.
Ann Wagner
February 12, 2011
Photography was one of Barbara's many delights and talents. This is her photo of a Cape May Monarch butterfly. She was the first person to reach across the country by phone and welcome me to the legal team at Wachovia. As we worked together we became friends, indeed, I believe everyone who worked with Barbara became her friend. It was a pleasure to hear her talk with warmth and enthusiasm about studying German, taking up the viola again, volunteering at Winterthur, what book she was reading for her history book club, developing her practice in elder law and always her on-going care and love for and delight in her parents. DB, I will miss you so much.
Barbara Lightner
February 12, 2011
My heart breaks to learn of dear Barbara Jean's passing, what a tremendous loss!
I still remember Barbara Jean as the beautiful little girl with long blonde hair. I remember one day in particular when we were saying good-bye to "the Davis kids" in the back of your station wagon and I looked into the back to see Jay and Bob on one side, Barbara and Jane on the other: I remember Barbara's warm smile and her delightful giggle as she and Janie shared something just between them. It was so sweet to watch. Barbara always "sparkled".
We grew up with a few years difference in age and have lived miles apart and lost touch. In the past year, I was so privileged to become re-acquainted with Barbara and get to know the wonderful, warm, compassionate woman she became. Still sweet, gentle, caring and kind. She befriended me and was filled with encouragement, praise and appreciation. Her striking, lovely presence and passionate zest for everything she pursued was noteworthy.
When my parents and I visited Dr. and Mrs Davis and Jane and Barbara about a year ago, Barbara had helped her mother with make-up and Mrs. Davis looked stunning and radiant. Barbara sensitively had my mother and I sit on each side of Mary. We had a lovely visit. The memory never leaves me.
Barbara shared the Davis family history album that she had done with such detail and tenderness, including even her Dad's famous strawberry jelly recipe: 'made on the roof under glass' she reminded me! Barbara had all the details and the album was lovely and could be enjoyed for hours.
My husband, Jim, lost his twin brother 16 years ago and says that there is little anyone can say that lessens the pain of the loss, but having someone there with you brings comfort. So may family and friends surround you with lovingkindness at this time.
God Be with you and be your strength and bring you His peace that is beyond all understanding. Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding and whatever is good and praiseworthy, remember and treasure it always.
With love,
February 11, 2011
Barbara has been my neighbor and friend for the past 8 years. I still cannot believe that she is gone. She was a kind and gracious lady who always had a smile to share, a kind word, and a twinkle in her eye. It impossible to understand how such a wonderful spirit could have been snatched away so soon. She will be deeply missed.
Lorrie McKinley
David Wood
February 11, 2011
Surprise, shock, sadness for a life cut short, and for the great good she could have done in the future for the elderly to whom she directed her considerable talent - these are the thoughts which came to mind when I learned Barbara had passed away suddenly. My sincere condolences to her family.
William Hoffmeyer
February 11, 2011
Dear Barbara:
Bon Voyage!
-Bill
February 11, 2011
"So saddened over the loss of Barbara at such an early age. She was so talented, outgoing, friendly, and always smiling and ready with a hug on meeting. We have known her all of her life, being next-door neighbors."
(Tom Gross & family.)
Barry Rabin
February 11, 2011
I didn't know Barbara for a very long time, but I just had lunch with her a few months ago to discuss our respective law practices. She was a real sweetheart, and I am truly shocked and saddened at her death. My condolences go out to her family and friends.
Benita Sheffield
February 11, 2011
I am truly saddened by Barbara's sudden passing. She was a delightful lady and always had a smile on her face. I, as did others, had the good fortune to work with Barbara and it was always my pleasure to do so. I pray that her family can take comfort and solace in knowing that Barbara touched so very many people in such a positive way. She will be missed by many.
Ian Reid
February 11, 2011
Barbara Jean Davis Paisley...you will be dearly missed. Full of love, compassion, caring, life, intelligence....loss like this is very difficult to accept; to understand. May you rest in peace forever in God's hands, and may He comfort your Family and Friends and help guide them forward from your passing.
Thank you for your compassion towards my mother, Elsie Reid, in her latter years...for coming and visiting with her, befriending her, helping us with her care, and for that being in your heart.
My deepest sympathy goes out to all who knew Barbara, especially her immediate and extended Family...know that I share in your loss.
May each of us try to live our lives with some of Barbara's energy and spirit in her honor....a random act of kindness, helping others, being a good freind...and may each of you comfort each other and help one another through the grieving process...the way Barbara would have done for us.
February 11, 2011
Barbara was our neighbor in West Chester. She was unfailingly friendly and kind to everyone. We will truly miss her genuine compassion for others and her cheerful, undaunted spirit.
Claudia and Jay Clayton
Lisa Logan
February 11, 2011
I am struggling to make sense of the loss of such a loving and vibrant gal as my dear cousin Barbara Jean. I have such fond memories of times I've spent with her, and many long phone conversations. I will always think of BJ with lots of love and laughter, and her presence in my life will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences go out to her sister Jane, father Jim, and brothers Jay and Bob, along with our big clan of cousins, each of whom, I'm sure, had a special place for her in their hearts. Barbara Jean, you will be greatly missed, my dear girl!
Pat Patrick Shutterly
February 11, 2011
Barbara's passing leaves a hole in my heart and life, and the lives of all who knew her. It's tough to express my shock and sadness. I knew her for 10 years, and shared wonderful times with her. I'll always think of Barbara as having a zest for life that was infectious, as a "Renaissance" woman who was interested in everything, and as a loving and warm-hearted person who wrapped her wings around you when you needed it. My heartfelt condolences and prayers for comfort go to Jane and to other family members whom I hadn't yet met.
Dave Drager
February 11, 2011
Over the past few years we had become friends and her passing has both shocked and saddened me. We served together on the Newsletter committee of the Chester County Bar and she was a frequent visitor here at our offices. Barb will be missed immensely.
Tim Brady
February 11, 2011
My deepest heartfelt sympathy goes out to Barbara's family. I was fortunate enough to have worked with Barbara at Wachovia and respected her greatly. My thoughts and prayers are with her family at this time. Remember the good times and know Barbara will always live within your heart.
February 11, 2011
We are so saddened by Barabara's passing. She was so full of energy, creativity, life and intelligence. Our incrediblly fond memories go back to our family gatherings on Easter and Thanksgiving as childre,n when we'd make the trip from NY. She will be missed immensely. Our prayers are with her as well as her dad, sister, brothers, aunt & cousins.
Jody & John Eff
Linda Mill
February 11, 2011
Barbara's work on elder abuse prevention at Wachovia made a difference in many lives. Without her support and legal guidance we never could have launched our program that eventually served as a national model for banks.
On a personal note her love of life and inquisitive nature to immerse herself so thoroughly in learning new things was a joy to share. She truly stopped to smell the roses in this fast paced and hectic world and I learned alot from her. I will miss her smile and laughter.
Claxton Graham
February 11, 2011
Barbara provided valuable legal feedback to me on numerous forms that I worked on over the years for the bank. She was always great to work with and a pleasure to talk to. She will definitely be missed.
Susan McGivern
February 11, 2011
I was shocked and very sad to hear the news of Barbara's death. I worked with her at Mellon and had some contact with her after she left, but no recent contact. I did think of her fondly from time to time, and now I'm sorry I did not get in touch. She had a kind heart, and I hope she is at peace. My thoughts and prayers are with her family.
Paulette Cartledge
February 10, 2011
I was so shocked and sadden to hear Barbara has passed away. While I did not work directly with Barbara, in my position with Wachovia from time to time, I would need to contact her for a legal opinion. She was always so kind and gracious with her time. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time.
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