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Bob Vetrone Obituary
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for Bob Vetrone
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Bob Daday
February 3, 2014
Lost contact with Bob Vetrone since about 2003. He was a guest on my TV show in Allentown Penna. along with Al Meltzer for quite a few years in the 90's. He was a great guy. Sorry he is no longer with us...
Ted Wolff
April 25, 2005
There's not much to add about Bob's character that hasn't been stated. Bob was a friend to all, especially to those who sought knowledge about Philadelphia's sports scene. As a young SID at Villanova in the mid-70s, I admired Bob's generosity of spirit. Though he knew more than most, it was his passion to share his wisdom with everyone. I am most grateful for the guidance he gave me to nominate one of Villanova's finest athletes, Paul Arizin, into the Basketball Hall of Fame. It had never been considered beforehand, and I was tipped off that an athletic administrator could nominate him. Who did I ask for references? It was Bob. He gave one and set me up with an interview with the one and only Eddie Gottlieb. Needless to say, Paul got in, and it was one of my shining moments to see his induction in Springfield, Massachusetts. Couldn't have done it without Bob. But he was like that way for everyone he met. He deserved every free meal he got! And a better and funnier banquet emcee I've never seen. God's Heaven now includes an entire media row in one Bob Vetrone. Bob, we all miss you! Tell Yo-Yo we said hi!
Michael Marks
April 16, 2005
I was privileged to know Bob in my very early career(and life)years. We both worked at The Bulletin. I was in the advertising department but a sports junkie. I hooked up with Bob and we became fast friends. Bob got me into part-time caption writing jobs for the Bulletin's famous 'machine gun camera' used at major sporting events, stat crew and spotter jobs with local sports radio and most importantly, we became pals and hung around a lot. What a guy. Beef knew everybody and everybody knew and loved Beef. I have wonderful memories of our weekend trips to Wildwood and Avalon with mandatory stops at Cozy Morley's and Ed Zaberer's. Bob never needed money. He was fed and housed everywhere he went! Amazing! Bob introduced me to the early wonderful Big 5 days at The Palestra. Bob would always say 'don't worry, I'll get you a ticket' and he would and after the games, he'd file his story for the Bulletin and we'd hang out. What a wonderful time of my life. I'll miss you Beef. You were a class act and a wonderful contribution to this earth. God bless you.
Michael Marks, Philadelphia Bulletin 1962-1968
Jason Klotkowski
April 2, 2005
My pal Buck... I'm still upset and I know I won't do your passing justice in this brief message. I'm just like the countless others who could say it was an honor to be considered a friend of Bob Vetrone. Whether Buck was spending time with a Hall of Famer or with a guy like me, a simple volleyball coach, his amazing personality was always on display. I can't envision meeting a more genuine person than Buck. Bob was more than a Philadelphia sports legend, he was a wonderful man.
Thanks Buck for the guidance, the laughter, the amazing stories and the friendship. I miss my dinner buddy, but I'll always cherish the memories you left me.
Mark Heisler
April 2, 2005
I want to speak for a large group of Bob's friends, the former roommates. Beef bunked in with Teddy Beitchman and me in the Plaza around 1971 in one of those times when he was between permanent domiciles. That was, of course, before the Big Five opened its office at the Palestra and he moved in.
Beef stayed with us a few weeks. It might have been longer but it was only a one-bedroom apartment. One day I came home to find the living room dark because Bob was sleeping on the couch. I went into the bedroom but the lights were out there, too, because Teddy was asleep. I went into the bathroom, turned on the light and said, "This ____ has got to stop."
No matter what was or wasn't going on with Bob, it was always so much fun being around him, even in the middle of the night in the office when I would rip 25 leads out of my typewriter and throw them across the room, to the amusement of Beef and Herman.
Of course, anyone who worked at the Bulletin who didn't have a high tolerance for eccentricity was in trouble, as all you eccentrics who have signed this book know.
Living out of the area, I didn't see Bob much. The last time I was back, a year ago for a Laker-Sixer game, Jackie Scheuer put me on the phone with him, for which I'm grateful to Jackie. It was just like always. That was the thing about Beef, you just picked up right where you left off. You didn't talk to him for 10 years and you were still as close as when you saw each other every day.
He was truly one of a kind and the proof is the joy we took from knowing him and the sadness we feel now. When I told George Kiseda, who lives out here, he said, "The world just doesn't seem right without Bob Vetrone in it."
I'm not sad because there's anything more I would have wished for Bob. He was one of the happiest people I ever knew. Like everyone here, I just miss him.
Jim McMonagle
April 1, 2005
Bob was an integral part of the Philly basketball family, loved and respected by all. We will miss him.
Starting with my years on the Villanova basketball team, I gradually got to know Bob. We never could be certain how he was going to capture the essence of the game you just played, but you knew it would be interesting. He had a knack for presenting the facts about the game in an intelligent and usually funny way.
Over the years, our paths crossed many times. Bob never lost his wit. His love for all aspects of Philly basketball was quite evident. No matter how his career path progressed, he always maintained a warm attachment to all of us whose lives he touched.
His memory will remain with all of us. May God rest his soul.
Jim Mc Monagle (Villanova 62-63)
Melissa Gleason
April 1, 2005
Mr. Vetrone was one of the nicest people I have ever met. I have not known him as long as most people who have written in this guestbook, but he has touched my life in the short time I've known him. I met him around 7 years ago going to LaSalle games, that turned into dates at Liberties, Phillies games, and St. Joe Prep games. I enjoyed all the time I spent with "My Boyfriend." My dad teased me often that I was not alone in thinking Mr. Vetrone was "My Boyfriend." I moved to Orlando last July and we still chatted on the phone often. And since I was not able to go to the Catholic League Playoff games this year, Mr. Vetrone made sure he called me with the scores (quarterly during the final game). I guess it's fitting that we spoke last about basketball. I, like everyone else, will miss him greatly.
My condolences to Denice, Boop and their families.
Melissa
Rick Troncelliti
April 1, 2005
It was with a great deal of sadness that I learned of the passing of Bob Vetrone. No one did more to promote, enhance, encourage and make possible the enjoyment of the unique brand of college basketball that emanates from Philadelphia. Having had the pleasure of working on statistics crews for hundreds of games at the Palestra and then at the Philadelphia Civic Center(Convention Hall) when LaSalle played their home games there, Bob brought a unique blend of knowledge, humor, understanding, warmth and good cheer to all of those who came into contact with him. A couple of memories stand out. One was a bustrip to Atlantic City that he organized for no reason other than to get a lot of basketball types together for an evening together to catch up during the offseason. What a night we had! More important was the friendship he brought to all who worked with him. I had the distinct pleasure of being the official play-by-play typist at the Palestra for several years. Bob was one important person who promoted my efforts, counseled me on how to get better, and kept me informed of all that was going on during this time in the Big 5. He was a unique source of information, and it is a measure of what a person he was, that no one ever said anything but nice things about him. Peace, my friend!
sandy grady
March 30, 2005
When I was a sportswriter on the Charlotte News in, I think, 1956, Bob Vetrone came to town to cover a St. Joseph's-Wake Forest tournament came for the Bulletin.
Sitting beside Vetrone at the press table that night, I carefully noticed his cool detachment as the game ebbed and flowed. A real big-time pro at work.
Then the red made a call at the buzzer that cost St. Joe's the game.
"They can't do that top us!" screamed Vetrone. He leaped over the press table, brushed aside players, ran across the court, down a hallway and began hammering on the refs' metal door. "Come outta there!"
I thought, "Wow, Philadelphia sportswriters are really intense."
They were. And are. Later (1957-72) as a Daily News then Bulletin sports columnist, I got to know Vetrone as the warmest, funniest, saltiest, most knowledgeable prince of the Philly turf.
Thank you, Beef, for the lore, the legend and the laughs.
Sandy Grady (Reston, Va.)
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Phil Jasner
March 30, 2005
One story I like to tell is: I was on Bob's honeymoon.
Really.
He was working for the 76ers, who were in the playoffs against the Milwaukee Bucks. But the arena in Milwaukee had been booked for other events, so their home games in this series were in Madison, Wisconsin.
I was working at The Trentonian, and this was all new to me. We stayed in a motel on the watter (frozen, of course) that was probably Longport, circa 1950.
The Vetrones had the honeymoon suite. If the reporters needed anything from the public relations department, we had to leave a note under the door.
(As an aside, I also remember the Wisconsin coach--the games were in the college's fieldhouse--asking us why the Sixers drafted Al Hentry in the first round.)
I'll always be grateful that people like Bob, the late Frank Brady, Frank Bilovsky and lots of others were always willing to help the next generation of people in the profession.
Somewhere at home, I have an audio cassette of Bob emceeing a roast for Billy Cunningham. I've played it several times over the years, and laughed every time.
It will be my honor to someday play it for Boop.
j russell peltz
March 30, 2005
I met Bob in 1963 when I was a junior at Lower Merion High School. A friend of a friend had gotten me an interview--through Bob--to get a job as a copy boy at the Evening Bulletin. So I went there one afternoon and looked up Bob in the sports department so he could take me to the personnel dept. for the interview. He was so warm and friendly and he asked me what I wanted to do if I got the job and I told him that I wanted HIS job, covering college basketball. He gave me that big smile, patted me on the back and took me to the interview. I didn't get the job at that time, but during my junior year at Temple University I finally landed a full-time job in the Bulletin sports dept. and got to work with Bob. What a wonderful man! I had not seen Bob for years until we ran into each other last December at the Jackie Mason show at the Academy of Music. Same old Bob, same old smile. This site is just another tribute to Bob and I recognize so many names of people I remember from those wonderful times. I don't think I can ever recall not seeing Bob with a smile on his face.
Doug Verb
March 30, 2005
Watching the St. Joe Hawk never die again, Bill Raftery's words hit harder than his usual 'kiss.' Bob Vetrone... Beef... had died.
But the sadness quickly turned to a warm smile in my heart. How could anyone who ever met Beef not smile?
As a scared, young pup (intern they call them now) I was there with Bob Savett and Julius Thompson and my wanna-be idol, Herm Rogul, but it was Bob who gave me the understanding wink and a smile everytime Sisak yelled and bellowed.
When my career turned to PR, of course it was Beef who always made me feel welcome to offer a story idea or a stat on Drexel, the Mexican Atoms, or the MISL. And it was Bob -- with a giggle -- who made me accept the absolute ridiculousness of my latest promotional product -- the Hot Dog Launcher.
I'm blessed to have known & learned life lessons from my alltime Philly Big 5: Shrier, Jasner, Litwack, Pollack, and Vetrone.
I'll bet the Chief -- cigar firmly implanted -- is chuckling. Beef has arrived.
Bill McClain
March 30, 2005
I was a young teenager living on Schiller St. in Kensington in the early 50's. I remember Bob coming to visit his nephew, Butch, who lived across the street. I was a little older than Butch but in those days all the kids on the block played together at times. Bob would play ball in the street with us. One of the most pleasant memories I have is the time he took Butch and me to an A's/Red Sox weekday day game. Bob was filling in for the Bulletin's regular A's writer. We sat on the side of the press box, and Bob brought us sandwiches and soda. I was (and am ) a die-hard baseball fan. After the game, he got me the autographs of two A's that I was missing - Alex Kellner and Bobo Newsom.
Also that summer-1952- when I was refused permission to buy tickets to the All Star game since I was "too young", my father talked to Bob who got us two tickets to the game and saved the day. So thanks to Bob I was able to see Bobby Shantz strike out the side in the fifth inning.
Last fall, I saw Bob at the Philadelphia A's Historical Society Breakfast. I reintroduced myself to him and told him how much I appreciated what he had done for me as a kid. We had a nice conversation. Now, I'm very glad I did so.
When I read Butch's entry it brought back all these wonderful memories. My condolences to all Bob's family.
Paul Smith
March 30, 2005
The human life is precious and as one goes through its daunting twists and turns, certain people leave lasting impressions. For me, Bob Vetrone was one. As a transplanted Pittsburgher living in New Jersey, I knew Bob from his byline and from his common touch, listening to him interview people during Villanova basketball games on the old WCAU. I had grown up in the Ohio State culture and for 3 years in high school, I was ticketed for Pitt, Penn State, Ohio
State or Notre Dame. But it was Bill Campbell, then Les Keiter, and Bob Vetrone who hooked me on Villanova as an educational destination. I first met Bob in Morgantown, W.Va., in 1962 as a early teen, and his welcoming personality and kind words made a permanent impression. His writing, whether it was "Buck the Bartender" or his Big Five basketball coverage, had a common ability to take the reader courtside and served as a verbal highlight reel. "The way to start the story of Saturday night's Villanova-Xavier game is at the very end..." read one of his ledes in 1964. Within 800 concise, crisply written words, we were taken through an electrifying last-second Villanova upset of the Musketeers in X.U.'s forbidding Schmidt Field House. That was sooooo Bob Vetrone. To many of us, he was the conscience of Big Five college basketball. To out-of-towners, he was the earlier-day Dick Weiss, a basketball maven with a thousand stories. To promising, great young journalists like Frank Brady, Frank Bilovsky and Mike Sisak of The Evening Bulletin, he was far more. Bob Vetrone lived life to the fullest. You hear this often about lost loved ones, but never did this time-worn phrase ring truer. When I last saw him at what is now the Allstate Arena in Rosemont, Ill., as LaSalle's sports information director, he asked me how my sister and mother were doing, how my career was going. My jaw dropped as far as the human framework allows. But this, too, was Bob Vetrone, a man who never forgot his friends or their lives. Truly this IS a man who will entertain the Great Scorekeeper and those whose lives he touched with a litany of tales of late-night snow-swilled flights from Pierre to triple-overtime Palestra games that had him pounding out stories after midnight. It is an old expression, but I think this is particularly a pro pos for Bob Vetrone: Well done, good and faithful servant. Rest well, my friend.
Lee Schwartz
March 29, 2005
When I first saw Bob Vetrone, Sr., he was at his typewriter at his desk in the corner of the sports dept. That is probably how my mind will always remember him. Having just been hired as a copyboy at the Bulletin, I had heard and seen some of the gruff and demanding reporters. But this man was as opposite from that description than a person could be. And it remained like that for the 8 yearts i had the privlidge to work with him. Along with his good friend Jim Heffernan (who later went on to assist Pete Rozell as the NFL became the monster it is today) and Ray Kelly, Sr.,who died much too young , those three men treated the new employees like people instead of just kids to get them coffee. (In fact when Ray passed away Rich Ashburn did a story on him as he was a parttime columnist for the Daily
News).
During all the years i was at the paper, never once did i hear a bad word about "Beef"Except if you tried to take his food. He could cover any sport as well as his favorite (college basketball) and many days Bob and Heff stayed until the last edition at 5PM was put to bed,while the other so called primidonas caught the train across 30th Street at an earlier hour. He truly loved his job and the people he worked with and i noticed many times when people from the outside went to the sports dept., it was straight to Bob's desk. He just had so many friends and was gracious to everyone.
I also remember the times we used to go to Cavanaughs at 32nd and Market, and had dinner between shifts on Saturday nights. I didn't know back then how lucky i was to know this man, who was indeed a friend to everyone and an enemy to none. When i sat behind him at the Palestra i don't know how he had time to get his copy done with everyone stioping by and hanging around. And for all the old timers who knew Yo-Yo, Bob always took special care of him. I could go on and on telling people what a great human being Bob was, but everyone who knew him a;ready knows that. I had a secret desire to be a sports writer but that was not to be. In all the time i was there I think they only hired 2 or 3 new writers., one of which was Bill Conlin, who in my humble opinion is the bestcolumnist since Red Smith. So i really cant be too disappointed. Just knowing Bob Vetrone Sr. was good enough.
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Respectfully Lee Schwartz
BUTCH BECK
March 29, 2005
DENISE AND BOB JR. PLEASE ACCEPT MY SINCERE CONDOLANCES ON THE PASSING TO HOOP HEAVEN OF OUR LOVING FRIEND AND FATHER YOUR COUSIN BUTCH.I HAVE MET MANY OF BOB'S FRIENDS AND COLLEAGUES DURING MY YEARS AS HIS NEPHEW. MY FIRST REAL DAY AT HIS SIDE WAS ON MY FIFTH BIRTHDAY. WE WERE IN THE ELEVATOR AT CONNIE MACK STADIUM ON OUR WAY UP TO THE PRESSBOX . IN THE CAR WAS AN A COUPLE OF DISTINGUSHED QUALITY. THE GENTLEMEN ASKED WHO WAS THIS YOUNG LAD. BOB'S REPLY WAS THIS IS MY NEPHEW BUTCH AND TODAY IS HIS BIRTHDAY. THE MAN WITH THE STRAW BOATER SAID WHEN YOU SHOW HIM AROUND THE PRESSBOX BRING HIM TO MY BOX FOR A FEW INNINGS. THAT WAS MY FIRST CONTACT WITH CONNIE MACK HIMSELF. MY MOTHER RELALYED TO ME YEARS LATER THAT MR MACK GAVE ME A A'S HAT. ACCORDING TO HER I NEVER TOOK THAT HAT OFF FOR A PERIOD OF TWO YEARS SHE FINNALLY HAD TO HIDE IT ON ME AS IT WAS PRETTY RATTY AND FALLING APART SIMILAR TO A BABYS BLANKET. SOMEHOW I HAVE BEEN WEARING HATS EVER SINCE. THAT MEETING ON MY BIRTHDAY WAS THE FIRST OF MANY PRESTIGIOUS SPORTS FIGURES IN THE AREA THAT I HAD SPENT SOME TIME WITH. WHEN I WAS A TEENAGER MY FRIENDS AND MYSELF HAD THE OPURTUNITY TO ENTER THE PRESS GATES AT THE PHILLIES AND RAMBLERS GAMES JUST BY SAYING HI IM BOB VETRONES NEPHEW. ONE DAY AT CONNIE MACK STADIUM THE ACCESS TO THE PHILLIE GAME WAS DENIED. I QUESTIONED WHAT HAPPENED MR. MC DERMOTT TOLD ME I DID NOT HAVE ENOUGH KIDS TO ENTER TODAY. HE STATED THAT I SHOULD GO BACK OUTSIDE AND FIND SOME MORE OF THE KIDS FROM THE AREA AND I'LL LET YOU ALL INTO THE GAME. WITH BOB'S NAME THERE WAS NEVER ANY SNEAKING INTOE THE GAMES. I SAT BY HIS SIDE FROM 1958 TO 1966 AT THE PALESTRA READING HIS STORIES OVER THE TELEPOHONE BACK TO BULLETIN PRESSROOM FOR THIS THAY PAID ME 5.00 DOLLARS. I KNOW MANY OF MY FRIENDS WHO WOULD DO IT FOR FREE. DURING THIS PERIOD I ALSO HAD THE GOOD FORTUNE TO ATTEND THE NCAA TOURNEMENT IF SUCH LOCALS AS CHARLOTTE, RALEIGH, NEW YORK,COLLEGE PARK,AND LANDOVER. SOME OF THE MANY NON ATHELETS I MET RANGED FOR THE PREIST HOOD TO JUST PLAIN STUDENTS. FR.BREEN, WORM MILLER, JOE MC DERMOTT, ACE COPY BOY AT THE BULLETIN , JOE PHALEN, HERB GOOD, AL SHIRE, BILL CONLIN, THE 14TH ST BRIDGE IN WASHINGTON D.C FOR THAT REFERENCE YOU HAD TO BE IN THE CAR ON THAT LONG DRIVE FROM PHILLY TO CHARLOTTE. THE TIMES THAT I WAS WITH MY UNCLE WERE VERY DEAR TO ME AS HE WAS A FATHER TO ME IN EVERY RESPECT A SON COULD EVER WANT. HE WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR ME WHEN I HAD ANY PROBLEMS. HIS REASSURANCE AND GUIDENCE HELP ME GROW AS A YOUNG ADULT AND TO THIS DAY STILL HERE HIS LAUGH AND KIND WORDS TO ALL HE MET. HE NEVER FORGOT A NAME. I WILL NEVER FORGET HIS NAME AND WHAT HE DID WITH ME AND FOR ME. I LOVE BOB VETRONE. HIS NEPHEW BUTCH.
BO HAUGHEY
March 29, 2005
I FIRST MET BEEF IN 1966, WHEN I STARTED AT THE BULLETIN'S COMPOSING ROOM. I GOT OFF THE ELEVATOR AT THE 4TH FLOOR BY MISTAKE. BOB WAS GETTING ON AND KNEW I WAS LOST, SO HE TOOK ME IN HAND AND GAVE ME A TOUR. HE THEN INTRODUCED ME TO HIS PAL'S IN COMPOSING, BILL BERG & OKIE O'CONNER AND SAID THEY'LL TEACH YOU THE ROPES. AND DID THEY!!!!. I WAS THERE UNTIL THE END IN '82, BUT I CAN SAY TO PEOPLE "I RODE THE SAME ELEVATOR WITH RICHIE ASHBURN, BILL CAMPBELL & BUCK THE BARTENDER".
I STILL HAD 5 BUCK THE BARTENDER SHIRTS UNTIL 2000, WHEN I MOVED FROM MAYFAIR TO NORTH WALES, THEY GOT LOST IN THE MOVE.
IT WAS A SAD DAY FOR EVERYONE WHO HAS EVER KNOWN & WORKED WITH BOB. MY HEART GOES OUT TO HIS FAMILY. I CAN PICTURE GOD & ST. PETER, WITH BOB IN THE MIDDLE, WEARING THE "BUCK THE BARTENDER" SHIRTS.
BO HAUGHEY
Terry Brennan
March 29, 2005
I just logged on to Philly.com to see what was going on in my favorite city, saw the notice for Bob Vetrone's services, and read Ted Silary's column.
Funny how a whole segment of life can come flooding back.
What a great guy Bob was. He treated everybody the same. I remember when I came on board to The Bulletin in 1975, the rookie among all these legends I had been reading all my life. I was insecure, in awe ... and terrified of Pete Cafone.
And Beef just treated me with respect, like one of the guys, part of the team. Sometimes it's hard to dispassionately evaluate memories, particularly those from nearly 30 years ago, but I have this vague recollection of one night when I made some pretty significant goof. (Could have been the time I wrote a headline that said "Flyers Win in Third Quarter"). Sitting at the sports desk, head hanging low, and Bob coming alongside. Quietly, not to draw attention to himself, or to me, he just put his hand on my shoulder. "Don't worry about it. We all make mistakes. That's why there's tomorrow."
If Pete would go off on a 3 a.m. tirade about something, it was Beef who would step in to take the brunt, blunt the anger from the rest of us and throw out some off the wall comment that would get everyone laughing and clear the air.
Bob treated everyone with the same respect - whether it was Craig Ammerman or the guy who lived in the men's room at The Bulletin. He was a great man.
Ted, thank you for your column. Not only because it was such a fitting tribute to Bob - although, how could any few words ever adequately define a man's life - but also because it brought back so many wonderful memories. Jackie Scheur ... geez, I haven't thought of him in 20 years. Another genuinely nice man. Anyway, it was touching to read. I'm grateful.
And I'm grateful that Boop got married and had kids. I feel like some kind of uncle, twice removed.
I don't know if I'll ever be able to eat a meatball sandwhich without thinking of one of the sweetest men I've ever known. My only regret is that I didn't know about this soon enough to attend Bob's funeral service and pay my respects to his family. If you can, please pass along my deepest sympathy and fondest regards to Boop.
Thanks again,
Terry
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Julius Thompson
March 28, 2005
When I first entered the Philadelphia Bulletin building as a young sportswriter from New York City in the early seventies, Bob Vetrone flashed that friendly smile and made my welcome to Philadelphia a success. He taught me the spirit of Philadelphia and how much sports was a major part of the fabric of life. Buck you will be missed! May you find peace.
Julius Thompson
Jeff Moeller
March 28, 2005
It was a fun ride and there aren't enough words to describe this Philadelphia legend, I was fortunate to work with him in the Big 5 Office for one year, but a friendship and trust developed that lasted many years. Buck was a man who always made me laugh and could keep me spellbound with stories for hours. I'll never forgot our rides around town, dinners at restaurants throughout the city, getting me into the Phillies an Sixers press boxes for the first time, numerous celebrities, sports figures and professionals I met through him, and those rides down to Atlantic City. The one thing that always sticks in my mind about Buck was he telling me that I should follow his footsteps in "Doing what he always liked in life." I believe that I have followed that blueprint, and I know Buck certainly did. I didn't see him that often in recent years, but those memories are some of the ebst in my life. In fact, he was the emcee at the wedding. Buck was a gracious, caring man who always gave of himself. He introduced me to Jack Scheuer, who I consider my mentor. I could go on for quite some time. Buck was one person who you never will forget because there are some many things that remind me of him. I may be one of a few people who still have a "Buck" t-shirt stored away.
Rest well my friend, and I hope to see you someday in the great Palestra in the sky.
Bob Kane
March 28, 2005
Peace dear friend, you're in my prayers.
Kevin Spiegel
March 28, 2005
After moving from Massachusetts some 22 years ago, I became friends with Boop and his family. I met his father several times, most notably at the Palestra, where he "lessoned" me on the aspects of playing at the storied building. Needless to say, the conversation went on forever and I was definitely hooked on the Palestra's history. Now, Buck has moved on and undoubtedly, his storytelling will continue for a whole other audience. My deepest sympathy for Boop and Marianne and the entire Vetrone family.
Michael Sisak
March 28, 2005
My all Big Five team is Billy Penn, Ben Franklin, Frank Rizzo, Tom Fox and Bob Vetrone. Bob Vetrone is and was Mr. Basketball in Philadelphia. He is a Hall of Famer, one of a kind. He did more to communicate basketball than anyone in the city's history. His charm and expertise lured me to The Philadelphia Bulletin as a teenager. Back in the late 50's, when I was still in Upper Dublin High School and working at The Ambler Gazette, I listened to Bob's vivid analysis of the Saturday night Big Five games on WCAU and marveled a few hours later how the next morning his preciseand flawless narratives would appear in The Sunday Bulletin. His writing was as clear as his penmanship. He was multitasking before the word was born. He was peripetetic with energy, drive and communications, his eyes and fingers moving constantly and a mind racing like a constant fastbreak. He knew everybody and everybody knew him. I sought him out in 1960, when I had a summer job at The Bulletin, and we were friends since. At one time I lent him a few bucks to help him buy a car and was proud to own a fender on his Mustang. That he died during Holy Week and is being laid to eternal rest during the week of the Final Four is God's way of honoring Bob Vetrone for the sacrifices he made for his family and friends. (God previously placed Bob near a hospital, where Bob had life-saving heart surgery.) I last saw Bob in the press box at the Vet during a Phillies' game a few years ago, and he had the same energy and bubbly laughter and crisp comments. I learned a lifelong habit from him to read and clip articles and maintain clip files as references. At Newsday someone nicknamed me "The Yankee Clipper" and I still clip because Bob Vetrone taught me to research and know your subject. Bob Vetrone did more for young Philadelphia news media people than all the schools of journalism combined. He taught us to care and to network and to follow through, and no one in our profession had a bigger heart, more generosity and humor. In the early 80's, when our son Michael was 4, my wife and I and Michael all went to Franklin Field to see where daddy used to run 6-minute miles with George Kiseda in 1968 during our Bulletin lunch hours. On the way back, our family waited for a bus outside the Palestra and Bob Vetrone joined us for a ride into town. My son had a small tricycle. As we departed for our hotel, Bob quipped: "It was nice riding with your furniture!" We all had a hearty laugh. Bob, it was nice riding all these years with you.
Bruce Lefkowitz
March 28, 2005
How appropriate it was that I was 'down the shore' when I read of Beef's passing. I was privaleged to be a part of the Big 5 family during my 4 years as a player at Penn. At that time, the Big 5 offices were located in the Palestra between the arena and Gimbel gym. Each and every day on my way to the locker room I passed the office where Dan Baker and Bob resided. Nary a day went by when I did not stop in. In fact, over my four years, I would allocate an extra half hour on the way to practice to insure that I received my daily dose of Bob.
Bob was Philadelphia Sports. The accent, the stories, the friends, he captured the spirit of what the Big Five was all about and there never was, and never will be, a better representative or advocate for that special affiliation.
What I'll remember most was his uncanny ability to make everyone feel like a celebrity. He never took himself that seriously, but to many, to be recognized by Buck the Bartender was a treat. I remember doing my first ever radio interview with him at the old Pagano's 1000 point lounge. Off to a decent start to my career, he dubbed me the mayor of "West Philadelphia" and told me that " you're pretty articulate, with that Ivy edcuation, you might even have a career in TV when you graduate except for the fact that you have a face for radio !"
Bob, thanks for teaching me about the Big Five but more importantly for allowing me to become your friend. You will be missed and never forgotten.
John Kincade
March 28, 2005
In my final two years at Temple University in the 80's, I had the pleasure of interning with the Big 5. Bob was the best boss a young man looking to break into the sports industry could ever have had! Was there anyone in the local sports industry, media, etc... that was not in his rolodex? He taught me a lot about dealing with people and having fun while you work! I know that I would not be in the sports broadcasting business without having known great guys like Bob Vetrone! We even shared a birthday! Bob, I will always remember you fondly! My family will remember you in our prayers.
Vincent Lofink
March 27, 2005
I first met Bob when he emcee'd the 1978 Salesianun Sports Banquet in Wilmington, DE. He did his usual masterful job. That night Salesianum was honoring St. Joe's and Salesianum basketball player Michael Thomas. Bob loved Michael but he gave me many quality minutes when I informed him I was a '71 La Salle grad. He loved the Big 5 but I could tell that Gola and La Salle had a special place in his heart.
Twenty years later I remade Bob's acquaintance at a La Salle-Delaware baseball game. The game ended up getting rained out and I spent about an hour talking to Bob at the Student Center.
I re-connected with the La Salle and the basketball program in 2001 and had a couple of fascinating conversations with Bob. What a wonderful man. I extend my condolences to his family and friends. I think we lost the St. Francis of Assisi of College Hoops.
Bob Savett
March 27, 2005
It was 1973. Bob (Beef) Vetrone, back at The Bulletin after doing PR for the Sixers, was the copy editor, putting his a gentle touch (not a hatchet!) on all of our reporters’ stories. Sitting nearby was Herm Rogul, who taught journalism at Temple. Herm and Jake Lambing handled the national sports news. The trio added up to 105 years of seniority at The Bulletin! I was supposed to be their boss. I was 25. I knew how to do layout. Working midnight-to-8 AM might not be your idea of fun, but alongside Beef, the “graveyard shift” was a treat. We developed our routine. “Yo, Beef, what’s the No. 1 story? What’s No. 2? What’s…” With wit and warmth, Beef would concisely dissect each story – what was unique, unusual, special. Some guys remember playing basketball on the playgrounds with an Arizin, a Gola, a Chamberlain. Hey, in the wee hours of the morning, a couple times a week, for several years, I got to talk sportswriting with Bob Vetrone. For good sports and good company, it doesn’t get any better than that!”
Peter D'Orazio
March 27, 2005
For the past 15 years, Bob not only has been a great friend, but he also acted as a second father to me. Bob has had a strong influence in my life and my professional developmentment at La Salle. I am extremely proud of having the opportunity recently to work on an organizing committee for Bob's retirement. It was a great affair. The best part was that I also surved as Bob's chauffer as we made the trip to Boston during the summer to catch the Phillies/Sox series.
Making trips with Buck had become tradition. What I will always remember is keeping him up well past midnight as he told stories. I could listen to them all night long. In fact, on many trips he repeated the same stories. I never interrupted cause they always were entertaining, no matter how many times I heard them.
I am happy to have spent time with Buck recently at the A10 basketball tournament in Cincinnati. Whether it was sharing a meal, sitting at the media table, Buck was always entertaining. One easy way to meet people was to be with Buck. He had countless friends, and when he was spotted, every one of them made a point to say hello. And Buck would always be sure to make the introduce to all around.
My last memory will be of Buck and Lou Cap sitting at the entrance of the ballroom at the CYO Hall of Fame Banquent. Greeting everyone as they entered the room.
Buck, you are simply the best.
Denice and Boop, my deepest condolences. During all the time I spent with Buck on the road, he talked about you two all the time. He cheerished family, he cheerished friends, he cheerished relationships.
I am proud to have been a friend. And Bob, I hope you will continue to look over me as you have been doing.
John Guiniven
March 27, 2005
A friend from home (NE Philly) called me with the sad news. Like so many others who have signed this guest book, it hit me hard. I met Bob when I was a copy boy at the Bulletin and saw him at various points over the years. No one was nicer and more helpful to young people than Bob. I don't think I ever met a person who was more genuine and generous than Bob Vetrone. My sympathy to his family and to all of us who have someone so special.
John Guiniven
[email protected]
John Ferraro
March 27, 2005
Meeting Bob during my years covering La Salle basketball as a student made it worthwhile to come to La Salle, especially coming from Central Jersey (South River). Bob and Dan Baker for the 1986-87 season allowed me to write an article for the Big 5 Game Program on PA Announcer John McAdams. The pay was a season pass for Palestra games for the next few seasons.
At Explorer Club Basketball Meetings, Bob would always make the meetings lively between his mix of humorous and hilarious comments. I will always have Bob's voice to listen to thanks to a radio interview I conducted at The Palestra in Jan 1986. Classic Vetrone--Informative and funny. Bob, you will be missed. My sympathy to the Vetrone family.
John Ferraro
La Salle Class of 1986
March 27, 2005
Buck was interesting to learn from, about how things came about in the Philly sports world. Great man to many, will be missed by all. My Hall Of Famer!
Andy White
March 26, 2005
I first wrote to Buck in the late 70's when I first started wearing a basketball on my head and became known as "Ballhead". He sent me two complimentary tickets to the Palestra for U of P vs. Wake Forest. I met him that night and he was one of the nicest people I have ever met in any forum.
I saw him a few times after that, sometimes years in between ,and each time he remembered both my name and whre I lived(Malvern at the time).
Buck was always smiling and truly seemed to enjoy what he was doing. I did not know Buck well, but I did know him well enough to know that he will be missed by everyone who knew him.
Thanks, Buck. You'll always be remembered fondly.
Andy White
George Metzger
March 26, 2005
I first met Beef in my first week as a 17-year-old copy boy at the "old" Bulletin Building at Juniper and Filbert. As he did with so many others, he took me under his wing and became a mentor to me. I would go to Convention Hall with him on Saturday nights when they played college basketball there and read his copy over a direct wire back to the Sports Department. Although I had not seen Beef for many years, I always felt like he was still a close friend and if we bumped into each other, we would talk like it had only been a couple of days. That's the kind of guy he was. So long, Beefy.
March 26, 2005
I knew Mr. Vetrone in the early and mid 80s when I was attempting to start a career in broadcasting. He was very helpful and friendly. Knowing him just a little has made me a better person.
Jim Phelan
March 26, 2005
What memories! Me,just out of 4th grade, trying to learn Latin from Bob, just out of 8th grade. As always he made it great fun. I finally learned enough to get by as an Altar boy at St.Monica's.
Sneaking into Army/Navy and Eagle games at the Stadium, Penn games at Franklin Field and the Palestra, A's and Phillies at Shibe Park. What a wonderful time we had.
Through LaSalle High school & College he offered tremendous support to me. He did much the same for Paul Arizin as his great career started at Villanova.
It's hard to believe that he and I have been close friends for almost 70 years.
Rest assured he is making someone smile somewhere.
Wendy Contos
March 25, 2005
I was so sad to hear of Bob's passing. I see Boop every so often in the building where we both work (I've known Boop since he was a copy boy, as we used to call them, at The Bulletin! Now he's all grown up!!), and I think I saw him last week. "How's your dad," I always would ask. I never thought that would be the last time. Buck is immortal!! Boop, your dad was one of the sweetest guys I ever met and I just loved him, starting from our Bulletin days. I have two "original" Buck shirts from The Bulletin (my 13-year-old son wears them now, they don't fit me anymore!!), and I'll always treasure them and memories of Bob.
Sincerely
Clare McCarthy
March 25, 2005
Dear Denise, Frank, Boop and Marianne,
My heart is so sad . I have been thinking of so many great times that I had with your Dad. I was so lucky to know him pretty well. Our time at La Salle was a real gift. He was loved by so many. I just loved your Dad and I know he loved me and my family. He got to know my two youngest, Tommy & Eileen while they went to La Salle and he was so good to them. I know we each have our special stories about our friend Bob. I was so very honored that he came to my 'art show' in September and stayed and really enjoyed himself. And Boop, for you to call me Wednesday, just made me feel so very special to your Dad. It just said how much you knew he meant to me. Thank you.
Denise, I know I've told you so many times what a great Dad you have - I had a great one also and my Dad passed away at age 79 also. We both were only daughters and had super Dads who loved us so much. Isn't it wonderful to have a Dad that is loved by so many? but he was our Dad!
Your Dad touched so many and he was so loved and I am so honored to have loved him and to have the joy of knowing him. I will be praying for you and your family. But he is in you and Boop and the kids - you will just see it more clearly in the years to come. I just love it when my kids say to me "Mom, you ARE Pop-Pop". I know I could feel and see your Dad in you and Boop just being around you both. He is such a part of you two and through you all, will never really be gone.
I remember how I got up and read my story of your Dad with all the "B's" at his birthday party. I never, in a million years, could have done that for anyone else but your Dad. I just don't do that kind of public speaking. I am still honored that you ask me to do that Denise. That sure was a great day, wasn't it?
I just read your beautiful letter on the "guest book" page Denise that just brought the tears flowing from me.
I will see you Tuesday at your Dad's Mass and you all will continue to be in my prayers. God bless you, Denise, Frank & Boop & Marianne, and may He give you the strength and courage you need right now.
With Love and Prayers,
Clare McCarthy
Andy Greth
March 25, 2005
I met Bob in 1998 as a freshman at La Salle University and part of my personal ciriculum for the next four years was to take in every sports story he could tell and every memory he could recall through his vast array of experiences. I barely scratched the surface. He was gracious with his time and could brighten up your worst day. Thank you Bob for linking me to the past in ways no one else could. I know you've connected with a lot of people and touched a lot of lives - mine included.
Kim
March 25, 2005
It was an honor and a joy to be one of Bob's "girls", from the time I met him at La Salle until just a week ago at the Markwood Club luncheon, Bob always brought a smile to my face and amazed me with his stories. We had an upcoming "date" to meet at the Ugly Moose...I intend to keep the "date" Bob...and know your spirit will be there!
Fran Zimniuch
March 25, 2005
There has not been a week in the last 25 years when I have failed to have something I've written published, be it a news story, feature article, or opinion column. And next month my third sports book will be published. It began for me with none other than Bob Vetrone Sr., who was the first person to publish me in "Buck the Bartender."
He was kind, helpful and encouraging to me and it's something I still apprecitate all these years later.
Bob was always cheerful, funny and friendly. He had a joke or funny line for every situation and was never at a loss for a trivia question that no one in their right mind would know the answer to.
He was a great man who will be missed. Thanks for getting me started.
Tom Ficara
March 25, 2005
From my days as a paper boy for the Philadelphia Bulletin through my days as anovice in the Temple Athletic Department and then throughout my career, Bob Vetrone could always be counted on for his wit and Philly style wisdom as we crossed paths from time to time. What a wonderful man!
John Castellani
March 25, 2005
My favorite Buck the Bartender column was when he wrote a very nice piece on Philadelphia Textile forward, Ed Mostak, a neighbor of mine. Ed battled cancer but he returned to to the Textile lineup. Mr Vetrone's words were genuine and heartwarming and somewhere in my basement here in New England I still have that article. Thanks Bob and May You Rest in Peace.
Denice Vetrone Bright
March 25, 2005
Dear Friends of Dad: I am Bob's daughter, Denice. It is 2 a.m. on Good Friday morning and I couldn't sleep. So I headed to the computer to take a glance at this beautiful website. (I will have to "proof" my message several times for errors because I've been taught by the best and can't disappoint him now).
You have to understand that Dad was just that - Dad. Of course, I knew he was well liked, popular in the sports world, had many wonderful, wonderful friends, which made for many wonderful stories at the breakfast (lunch and dinner) table, but I was not prepared for the outpouring of love from so many whose lives he touched. Of course we begged him to write a book, as many did, but his response was always humbly "no one would want to read about my life."
There is a member of our family you might not know, our cat, Stubsie. Believe it or not, Stubsie and Buck were quite a sight to behold. Buck even shared some of his occasional crab cake with her. (yes, of course it's a girl). I wish I had a picture of Stubsie in bed next to Dad, watching, what else, sports, or as most men, anything he "flicked" upon. Talk about being worth a thousand words... which brings us to Stubsie's daddy, Frank, Dad's buddy here at home and my companion. Couldn't have gotten through this without Frank. Frank is quietly sad and getting great comfort from all the public accolades and support. So thank you for that.
And thank you all for the incredible love and support my family has gotten in just the last 2 days; it's been quite an unbelievable response, and quite honestly, we feel WE should be comforting YOU. My brother, Bobby "Boop" made most of the sad phone calls, but by the time we called the third or fourth person, the sad news had spread. We apologize to those of you we couldn't reach by phone in time. KYW was remarkably quick in picking up the news which lead to a few who heard it on their car radio which I'm sure was difficult.
I can't put into words the gratitude the family has for the Daily News and Inquirer staff, too many to name, who put their time and effort into the articles in those papers. You guys nailed it and I know Buck is proud to be a part of your family as well. The patience, support and help you gave my brother Boop in getting the news out there, not to mention your loving words for Dad, helped him and us get through this with much less pain.
Thank you all for sharing your love of our Dad, Grandpop Buck and friend. I am now hooked on this site and will visit it daily.
Don't be sad. I know he'd want to think he left you laughing.
With love, Denice
Bob Lyons
March 25, 2005
Thanks for your warm friendship and the great memories, Bob. You were there as my mentor early in my career. You counseled me during my days at La Salle and always highlighted the year for my students whenever you visited my journalism class. And later, your lifelong passion and enthusiasm for the Big 5 helped inspire me to write Palestra Pandemonium. Rest in peace, good friend!
Alex Simon
March 24, 2005
I was driving home from work on Wednesday, when I heard on the radio that Buck had passed away. I am extremely privileged that I had the opportunity to work with Buck for over a year in the sports information office at La Salle. I learned so much from him, and his stories were priceless. I am definitely lucky that I had a chance to know such an amazing person, who touched the lives of so many. Thank you for your guidance. I will miss you.
Jim DeLorenzo
March 24, 2005
From the time I first met him as a Villanova freshman in 1980, to just recently, Bob Vetrone was a gentleman, a friend, and a mentor. He always made me laugh, and he always had great advice. I will miss him, as will all Philly sports people past and present.
Eric H.
March 24, 2005
You could never meet a nicer person than Bob. I was lucky to have met him during my days at La Salle. He will be sorely missed by the La Salle community and in Philadelphia sports as a whole.
La Salle University Class of 2001
Joe Owens
March 24, 2005
It will be difficult, if not impossible, to do this story justice.
I see Teddy Silary's byline on the story about Beef and I'm certain if anyone can pull off this most difficult of assignments, Teddy can. I haven't read it yet because I still can't believe it. I don't want to.
I'm sure many of the right people were called upon to remember Bob. I'm also sure that it's only an itty-bitty fraction of all the people who thought so highly of him.
Bob Vetrone is a Philadelphia story like none other. There will never be another.
At some point, I'll get around to reading Teddy's story and others and all the wonderful posts that I'm sure are in front of me on this guest book. I just can't do it yet. Many are surely former colleagues at the Bulletin. And Big 5 people. And Sixers people. And LaSalle people. Basketball people. Baseball people. Newspaper people. Radio, TV, athletic directors, bus drivers, parking attendants, hot dog vendors (especially hot dog vendors), ballboys, ballgirls, referees, readers, listeners ... you get the idea. People who met Bob Vetrone liked him. And he genuinely liked them. Some people loved him. I loved him.
I've been around newspapers more than 25 years and I've known Beef since the beginning.
I don't know what else to say, except I'll miss ya pal.
Kathy Reynolds
March 24, 2005
As an athlete at LaSalle, Bob was my cheerleader. As a Grad Assistant there, he was my witty co-worker. And all too often, my lunch and dinner dates.
Now, as a Reporter, he is my mentor. Bob has taught me so much about people, respect, dedication, and kindness.
I know the waitresses on the Jersey Shore will miss him. And he will forever be in my heart.
Lou Monaco
March 24, 2005
Bob was my first boss (along with Dan Baker) at the Philadelphia Big Five office at the famed Palestra, where I had interned while at Cabrini College back in the late 80's.
When a friend called me about his passing, tears began to well.
You will never meet a more kinder person. The stories came flooding back of his eating habits, the drives I used to take with him to pick up his dry cleaning, a hoagie and just the stories that he would tell about the city and about Philly hoops. He will be forever cherished in my heart. God Bless Bob! and Thank You!
stephen kendall
March 24, 2005
i spent many years sitting next to bob at warrior games, he was a super guy he will be missed
Joe Stuhl
March 24, 2005
As a kid growing up with Boop, Mr. Vetrone took us to countless Big 5, Sixers and Phillies games. He always let us hang out in the Sports section of the Bulletin, which I thought was pretty cool. He was a great guy and had to be the unofficial Mayor of Philly. Boop and Denise, your dad is in my prayers.
Keith D'Oria
March 24, 2005
I can't even begin to tell you all about my sadness about our beloved Buck's passing. I was fortunate enough to work under his guidance for a year and a half as an intern/grad assistant at La Salle, and to this day I use not only his lessons in writing, but also his life lessons. He was such a beautiful person and someone I aspire to be. I remember vividly being with him as he ordered meatball parm sandwiches and vanilla milkshakes a few days a week, sitting back and just listening to his stories. I swear, I plan on raising my future kids to be just like him. I feel honored and blessed for having known him and for everything he's done for me. I miss him a ton already. I know you all realize what a wonderful man he was, and hope you try to live the rest of your lives with the same appreciation and respect for life and all it's beauty. I know I certainly will.
Paul McManus
March 24, 2005
I had the pleasure of spending 4 spectacular years at La Salle University with "Beef". I was a basketball manager and I had interaction with hinm every single day. I am privleged to call "Beef" a friend. The stories and jokes he told are priceless. I had the pleasure of traveling with the basketball team and "Beef" was on the majority of those trips which always created some excitement. Beff always had time to talk no matter what he was doing. In the past few years when we would run into each other he would always take the time to talk and ask how my family was doing. He was a genuine human being who will sorely be missed.
RIP Buck
Bob and Jack McCormick
March 24, 2005
My dad got me into reading Buck in the Daily and we first met him when he decided to give a fellow Southeast Catholic/Neumann alum a job with him at La Salle.
And so, for the next four years, I got paid to hang out in his office, bum rides to games and sit right beside him in the press box at the Spectrum, watching the Big 5 and talking sports, writing and South Philly with Buck the Bartender.
Best job ever.
We'll miss you, Buck. You were always a reminder of what makes this city the best sports town in the world. It was an honor to sit in your chair.
Bob McCormick
La Salle '99
St. John Neumann '95
Richard Pawlak
March 24, 2005
As a young PR person for the Adam's Mark, Bob was very helpful when we decided to become a Lasalle basketball sponsor, guding me through everything --I--needed to do to get the most bang for our buck. He'd phone regularly from the Sports Information office, check to see how --I--was doing and was quick with ideas and suggestions for promotions, ads, all sorts of things. What a Renaissance man. I will forever treasure his friendship, and the many people skills i learned from him.
Richard Pawlak
Food & Drink Editor
Philadelphia STYLE magazine
Washington DC STYLE magazine
Steve Majewski
March 24, 2005
I worked with Bob Vetrone for about six months at La Salle University. I’ll never forget his sharp humor and intellect. One of my proudest accomplishments is making it into his rolodex, the one with Wilt Chamberlain, Tommy McDonald, and countless other legends.
I am lucky to have worked with him, if only for a short time.
My deepest sympathy to Buck’s family,
Kyle Engelbert
March 24, 2005
My mom just called to tell me Bob passed away, a great man who was always so nice and had many kind words to say in print and in person about my dad Kurt Engelbert who played at St. Joe's from '55-57 and the countless others who have played college hoops in this town. The reason the Big 5 exists today, he will be missed.
LOU TILLEY
March 24, 2005
Sitting here now, tears in my eyes, reading your wonderful story. Please extend my personal
thanks to Ted, Kevin , Phil and Ed .
This was a marvelous tribute. So deserved.
The nice thing about Bob's end, was that most of us were able to make some contact with him beforehand.
Just a month ago, I mc'd the Lasalle Hall of Fame inductions for the 8th year. Who hooked me in? Who else.
Bob had not attended in the years since Speedy was let go. But as I started out this year, I caught a familiar eye in the
audience, and for some reason, dropped my notes, and my plan, and went into a wonderful 3-4:00 routine with Bob, who
I noted, could no longer be called "beef".
It was a wonderful day, with Buddy Donnely, and Jim Phelan there.
Can't tell you how important a guide and source he was for me when I first came back home (1986), and just 28 years old.
That - never stopped.
An era is kind of coming to an end. Guess who becomes the keepers of the flame?
Good job.
Lou Tilley
CN8 Sports
Larry Rubin
March 24, 2005
Bob Vetrone was the epitome of a first-class sportswriter when I met him in 1959 on my first day of work as a copyboy at the Bulletin. He knew everyone and everything about college basketball in Philadelphia. I'd love to be there when St. Peter welcomes "Beef" to the Pearly Gates of heaven and Bob says, "How the hell are ya, Pete." And the keyholder to the gates says, "I couldn't wait for you to get here, Bob, now let's talk about basketball." We'll miss him.
DAVID PAULEY
March 24, 2005
...A MAN OF MANY GIFTS...ALL OF WHICH HE SHARED WITH OTHERS...VERY GENEROUS WITH HIS TIME AND WISDOM...HE SET A HIGH STANDARD FOR ALL OF US TO FOLLOW...
Jim Hoban
March 24, 2005
It was commonplace for athletes and coaches to be mentioned in Bob's "Buck the Bartender" column. However, for an enthusiastic sports fan/college student it was a thrill to be mentioned in his column twice, while I worked summers at the Jersey Shore.
I first met Bob while I was a student at LaSalle University and I enjoyed our conversations and the subsequent talks we had while I worked at a Stone Harbor bar. With all the celebs that Bob covered, he had the gift to make everyone feel as important as the big stars that he knew.
I still remember my dad calling my shore house to ask why Buck the Bartender mentioned me in his column.
Ken Avallon
March 24, 2005
Sadly, it was my 8-year old son who told me about Bob's passing. After seeing it on TV he said, "Dad, they said that the guy who started the Big 5 died."
We're going to miss you, Buck. Though we never met I want to thank you for your advice and input as we were getting the Philadelphia Sports Hall of Fame off the ground these past two years. I'll miss the lively phone conversations.
Thank-you for writing for our program book this year...you talked me into the free dinner and I was looking forward to meeting you on April 8.
With sincere sadness,
Ken Avallon
president, Philadelphia Sports Hall of Fame
ted bronson '54
March 23, 2005
thank you for your lead of this very young sports 'pup' from salesianum, wilmington delaware, to la salle in fall of 1950. your attention to me over all these ensuning years was so, so appreciated. ted
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