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LIDA SERWISKI
June 17, 2014
Hi Brother,
I don't write much, but I think of you all the time. I was going thru some old photos and can't believe how many I have of you and Ant....thinking about getting them all together for your kids - as soon as I find some time. Love you, miss you...
June 15, 2014
Happy Father's Day Chal!! I miss you and love you more!!
Kelly Ann
May 1, 2014
Love and miss you terribly!
January 7, 2014
Hi Chal, Happy New Year, 2014. Really missing you, love you more
October 25, 2013
Just thinking of you today - still
June 24, 2013
Hi Chal, Still missing you a lot!!! Some reason tonight is a tough one. Thinking of you, Dad and Debbie. Don't know why! I love you, and miss you more!
June 16, 2013
Hi Chal, Happy Father's Day!! Your kids are getting older. the grandkids are getting bigger, And I'm still missing you everyday. Love you
Candice Mercer
May 27, 2013
Hey Uncle Chal,
It's been a long time. I bet you and Pop are looking down on us, keeping our memories alive. I look at your picture every day thinking about how much you have missed but then again I bet you haven't missed a thing. Well, just wanted to say Hi, love you and miss you.
Candice
May 25, 2013
Hi Charlie, This is Memorial Day weekend, and the Kowalski Post is honoring Dad On Monday. Everybody is comming, these are the times I miss you most. You kids are going to be there, that's nice. I wish you were here to see your grandkids, they're great kids. Miss you, love you more!! Susie
April 21, 2013
Hi Chal, Happy Birthday!!! I'm still missing you and love you more. Susie
February 27, 2013
Hi Chal, thinking of you today, just want to say, I really miss you. Please help Casey next week, she's going for her driving test, again! So whatever you can do would be great! I'll let you know, I love you
Susan
susan
February 3, 2013
hi chal its been a long time. casey just got us the computer. i never stop thinking of you. everytime i see your kids, i think of all you were cheated of. your grandkids are just wonderful. i wish you were here to hold them and watch them grow up.you and ant would have been great grandparents. your kids are great parents,you would be so proud of them. charlie is just like you,he loves playing with all the kids. i miss you so much. now that dad is with you, i hope you guys are both watching over all of us. i love you so much and miss you dearly.
Kelly Howe
January 25, 2013
Uncle Chal, We're missing you even more now with everything that is going on. The only comfort I have is knowing that Pop is coming home to you. Please take care of him and show him the ropes. We love you both tremendouslyIIII xoxo
December 1, 2012
Hey Uncle Chal! I don't know exactly what to say, I'm actually at a lost for words right now. I'm sure you see whats going on. We wish you were here with us to help us all through this. But we know your watching down and your helping in your own special way. Please look over everyone, we really need you. Love you! XOXOXOXO
July 18, 2012
It's been six years already. They talk about the seven phases of grief. It starts with shock & pain and ends with acceptance. I think that's all true. July 18th was a tough day the first few years but now it helps remind me of the times when you were around. It also reminds me that life is short and I shouldn't take it for granted. So thanks for that. Until we meet again...
Casey
May 24, 2012
Well Uncle Chal, today is a bitter sweet day for the family. We are all excited and happy for Little Chalie and Lauren, they just had their 2nd child. His name is Charles David Clothier IV. Of course your son said they are going to call him C4. LOL. I am sure you are smiling. It is awesome, but of course EVERYONE is wishing you were here to see him. I will post a picture as soon as I get one. I miss you like crazy. Love you.

damian and ryan.
March 5, 2012

damian charles
March 5, 2012
July 6, 2011
Chal,
We could use a little help right now.I'm sure your watching and you see what we're up against. If there's any way you can help us out I'd appreciate it.We need The Miracle at the Meadowlands or The Miracle On Ice. We need the biggest upset in Little League History.We're bringing butter knives to a gunfight. It's us against the Dreaded Tigers.First place versus last Place. David versus Goliath. Good versus Evil.Every underdog story ever written, cannot compare to what we're up against. At this point my kids have been playing there hearts out and we just can't seem to win a game. If there's any kind of mystic MOJO you can give us from the other side , we could use it. Thanks.
Kelly Howe
April 23, 2011
Hey Uncle Chal! I know I'm a little late, but Happy Birthday. Definetly didn't forget about you, just haven't really been on the computer much. I'm sure you know by now that Mike and I are expecting a little one in a few weeks. I could really use everyone's help. A little nervous!!! and scared, LOL!! Miss you as always, and Love you forever!!!!
Linda Serwinsi
April 22, 2011
Thought about you all day yesterday...Still finding it hard to believe.
Love ya,
April 21, 2011
Happy Birday Old Man! You know I was totally cool today, woke up, I had to get Tyler, Jacob and Chris up and moving, then I got to work and realized what today was. You would think after all this time I would be okay, it would just be a happy memory of you on your birthday, but its not. I am still mad, why did you have to go, why did god decide you. I don't mean to bum you out it is just how I feel. I still feel so guilty wishing there was more I could do, I would have moved the world for you, just like you would have for me. Well listen enough crying for today, help mom-mom she always takes it the hardest today. Enjoy what you have now. Love you.
Candice
April 7, 2011
Uncle Chalie...what can I say? It's been forever since I wrote but there is not a day that goes by where I don't think about you. Our family will always be missing a part but I know that you will always be watching over us. Miss you lots..Love you.
February 25, 2011
Chal,
We could usue a little more help on your end.Thanks
February 8, 2011
Chal,
Thanks Again
February 4, 2011
hey Chal,
Thanks.
April 22, 2010
Hey Chalie... been thinking about lately (I guess because Dad's anniversary is near your birthday). Anyway, still see that smile every once in a while on someone else. Hope you are all behaving or at least having fun while NOT behaving. Miss you. ME
SUSAN BARBER
April 22, 2010
HI CHAL
HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I REALLY MISS YOU!!! SORRY YOU HAVEN'T HEARD FROM ME FOR AWHILE, BUT WE DON'T HAVE A COMPUTER ANYMORE.
ITS NOT GETTING EASIER, WITHOUT YOU, THINGS ARE JUST NOT RIGHT.
GOT TO GO, I LOVE YOU! MISS YOU
SUSIE

Your Grand Daughter is getter bigger
April 22, 2010

Ryan and Jacob
April 22, 2010

Ryan and Tyler
April 22, 2010

Tyler and Jacob
April 22, 2010
April 22, 2010
Hey Happy Birthday Bro!!! I be over to see you today and I'm bringing Zach with me. He always surprises me he makes sure your grave is nice and clean and he always wants to bring something that he thinks you might like. Being the proud mom Zach got into Central High school and if you have the time to keep an eye on him from up there and try to keep him out of trouble I would really appreciate it. I hope you Nanny and Mom Mom and the Grand dads to are all getting to see and talk to each other. I would love to be a fly on the wall for those chats.LOL Hey We're taking Steven to Vega's for his 21st Birthday. i wish you were here to come with us. i know we will all be thinking about you while were there. I bet you that you and Liberace comes up more than once.LOL. I hope you have a Happy birthday and I hope you know how much we all miss you here. Love you Hannie
Kelly Howe
April 21, 2010
Happy Birthday Old Man!! HAHA J/K Still missing you every day! It will never change. Love ya!
LINDA SERWINSKI
April 21, 2010
Hi brother,
Happy Birthday doesn't sound right but I just can't stop thinking about you today. Wish you were here.
Love ya,
Miss ya,
Linda
Casey Kolodziejski
April 21, 2010
Happy Birthday! I love you and miss you very, very, much. There a lot of help needed down here right now. So talk to the big guy okay. I hope you have a wonderful day.
Hannie Pownall
April 20, 2010
Hey Chal i know it has been a real long long time and I have no excuse. I think about you every day. i just don't always find the time to go on the computer to let you know. I think i miss you around for Dad the most. I know in my heart that he misses you every single day. i think he thinks about when he goes he might be able to see you again. I miss having you around all the time. For absolutely no reason i'll just start thinking about you. Easter was really hard for me. Your Grand daughter is sooooo cute I think I got me a new little friend. You know how I am not the huggy kissy type. well Ryan walked right up to me and grabbed my chin and gave me a kiss for no reason, I was blown away. When she was leaving I tied to give her a high five and she TOLD me come here and give me a kiss. Elwood told me i better do what she says she means business. it wass the cutest thing ever. i wish you could be here to see how beautiful she really is and what good parents Lauren and Chalie really are. I got to go I miss you lots and really wish you were here. love Hannie
Casey
January 18, 2010
Sorry for not writing in a LONG time. But is seems the longer it is the harder it is, and I am sorry for that. I am sorry for a lot of things. You have missed so much lately and there are just times (like now) that I miss you so much. There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you or things we should have said to each other or pictures that I should have taken. Things are okay right now, but I think if you could try to help and make things better that would be great. Your kids need you and even if you aren't here in person try to send them signs, make them grow up, make them realize that they aren't alone.
What I really want to say to you is that I am sorry. People said I did a lot for you, but I just can't help to think it wasn't enough. I really wish this family would have changed a little and talk more about their feelings and what they want, and just be forward with want they need, but we can't we are all so scared to hurt someone or lose them, that is has been like walking on egg shells. So your job for 2010 is for you and everyone else up there is to give us all the strenght that we need. I love you, always remember that. See you soon.
Love Casey.
laura
June 21, 2009
heyy daddy i miss you more than anything right now. happy birthday i wish you were here so much to see damian!!!!! i think about you every single night I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCHi love you more than anything and i wish you could be here now
candice mercer
April 23, 2009
Hi Uncle Chal,
Sorry that I didn't write to you on your birthday, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! Can't believe that we are still not here. I am just waiting for that moment for you to walk through that door during one of our family events but when you don't its not the same. well, miss you so much and love ya.
LINDA SERWINSKI
April 21, 2009
Today is your birthday....and I can't stop thinking about it. I can't stop thinking about all the wonderful things you are missing out on...Damien's birthday party was Sunday, you would have been so proud of the kids, Laura was our hostess and Charlie was the muscle - carrying all the gifts back to the house for his sister. It's amazing how well they are getting along.
Love ya,
Miss ya,
Kelly Ann Barber
April 21, 2009
Hey Uncle Chal!
I know its been a while since I wrote last. I just wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday. I hope your enjoying it with everyone up there. I still can't believe your gone. Its really hard for everyone. There isn't a party or holiday that goes by without you being mentioned. Love You!
SUSAN
March 15, 2009
HI CHAL
I MISS YOU! CASEY'S BABY IS DUE MARCH 30TH, THEY FINALLY NAMED THE LITTLE GUY. HIS NAME WILL BE JAKE, WHAT DO YOU THHINK? I HOPE EVERYTHING GOES SMOOTHLY. CANDICE AND THE BOYS ARE IN THEIR NEW HOME, THINGS ARE GOOD. GOT TO GO. I WISH YOU WERE HERE.
LOVE YOU ALWAYS
MISS YOU
SUSIE
SUSAN
February 14, 2009
HI CHAL
IT'S VALENTINE'S DAY, I LOVE YOU!! ALOT IS CHANGING AROUND HERE, BUT ONE THING STILL REMAINS THE SAME, I REALLY MISS YOU!
LOVE YOU
SUSIE
LINDA SERWINSKI
January 7, 2009
Missing you...Dave leaves for Iraq next week, I need you and the rest of the gang to keep an eye on him and get him home safe.
Love ya,
Linda
SUSAN
January 6, 2009
HI CHAL,
HAPPY NEW YEAR!! MY KELLY AND MIKE ARE ENGAGED NOW, AND GUESS WHAT, YOUR LITTLE RYAN IS GOING TO BE THE FLOWER GIRL. YOU SHOULD BE HERE TO SEE THAT!! NOW IF YOU CAN HELP OUT WITH RYAN, YOU KNOW, HELP GET HER DOWN THE AISLE WITHOUT ANY PROMBLEMS THAT WOULD BE GREAT! WISH US LUCK!! RYAN IS VERY MUCH LIKE HER DAD, SHE DOESN'T DO ANYTHING SHE DOESN'T WANT TO (HA HA). LOGAN IS THE SAME WAY. HE HER RING BEARER. WE'LL SEE. ANOTHER WEDDING WITHOUT YOU, ITS NOT RIGHT! I MISS YOU DEARLY
LOVE YOU
SUSIE
SUSAN
December 7, 2008
HI CHAL,
THE HOLIDAYS ARE HERE AGAIN,AND YOU'RE NOT! I REALLY WISH I COULD CHANGE THAT. I'M MISSING YOU ALOT!!
LOVE YOU
SUSIE
HANNAH POWNALL
October 9, 2008
HEY WHAT UP BRO I WROTE TO YOU LAAST WEEK I GUESS THEY DIDNT WANT TO PRINT IT. i MISS YOU SO MUCH I HOPE YOU HAVE SOME PULL UP THERE IF YOU DO SEND YOUR PARENTS SOME GOOD LUCK THEY COULD SURE USE IT. yOUR GRAND BABIES ARE REALLY CUTE I KNOW YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN A GREAT POP POP I WISH YOU WERE HERE SO I COULD TEASE YOU ABOUT IT. I HAVE SO MUCH FUN TEASING YOUR BROTHER AND SISTERS ABOUT BEING OLD ENOUGH TO BE GRAND PARENTS. i GOTTA GO IMISS YOU ALOT I WISH YOU WERE HERE LOVE HANNIE
linda s
July 21, 2008
It's hard to believe it's been two years, It seems like a nightmare that just won't end. I'm doing seating arrangements for Paul's wedding and you are supposed to be at the family table...How can you miss ANOTHER wedding...Love ya, miss ya,
Candice
July 21, 2008
Hey Uncle Chal,
I can't believe it is two years since you left us. People say it gets easier to deal with it but honestly it doesn't. Yes we put on brave faces but at the end of the day you know we still miss you. We are still saying the eight kids then when we realize there are only seven our hearts break. Uncle Chal, it is just not the same without you. You should be here watching your grandchildren grow and your children being parents. Well, I miss you more and more each day. I will always love you.
Susan
July 20, 2008
Hi Chal,
Well it's been two years now, I still don't understand WHY!! I still miss you and love you very much!!!!!
Susie
July 18, 2008
hugs to you... still see your smile when I least expect it... miss you - say 'hi' to everyone... me
Susan
June 12, 2008
Hi Chal,
I've been thinking of you alot lately. As always, the family's so busy. You're missed so much!! Things aren't the same without you!! I had hoped things would get easier, but that's not happening. I'm missing you more than ever
Love you
Susie
Susan
May 2, 2008
Hi Chal,
Your 50 years old!!! And a Pop Pop twice now!! I really want you here with us!!! I keep thinking about how you would be with the babies. Nobody can take your place, EVER!!!
I wonder if you would of made a difference with nameing your gradkids. What do you think? This would of been "the best years of your life", remember? I get to see Ryan alot lately, she's just like her dad, and she looks like her mom! Talk soon.
missing you,
Love You
Susie
April 24, 2008
Hi Uncle Chal,
Sorry that I am late but HAPPY BIRTHDAY! I didn't go see you on monday but i am not ready too. I don't think I ever will. I do think about you and when I am all alone I go see you but I that is my time with you. I miss you so much and wish you were here with us. I will always love you.
Missing YOU
Kelly Barber
April 22, 2008
I know I am a day late, but I went to see you yesterday anyways. But I wanted to say Happy Birthday again! I miss you and wish you were still here with us. Keep an eye on the family, please. Love you!
Linda S
April 21, 2008
Hi Chal,
HAPPY BIRTHDAY!! and CONGRATS on grandkid #2...This is tough, you weren't here when we hit the big 50 and now that's it's your turn.....Missing you more each day, Love ya,
Linda

You 1st Grand Son Damian Charles
April 21, 2008

Your 1st Grand Daughter Ryan Marie
April 21, 2008
Casey Lee
April 21, 2008
HAPPY 50th Birthday old man!!!! I love you and miss you.
Casey
April 20, 2008
Congrats! You are a pop-pop for the 2nd time. Laura had a little boy, 8lbs, 9 ounces. His name is Damian Charles. They are both doing great. We actually just helped them leave the hospital! Boy, moments like this makes me miss you more and more. I love you, you are never far from my thoughts. Talk to you soon.
Susan
March 13, 2008
Hi Chal,
I don't know what happened, I wrote you 2 days ago, its not here. I wanted you to know about Laura's baby shower. I think she got everything she needed, it won't be long now!! Your grandson is almost ready to meet the family! I just hope they can wait until I get back in town. I'm going to South Carolina at the end of the month, she's due the beginning of April. We're cutting it a little close. Don't worry too much about her, I'm still watching over both the kids, just like I promised. They're doing pretty good!! I was at the house last week, we were putting the crib together, boy we needed you! But we got it. Ty did most of it, he's a pretty good kid,(so far) ha ha. I'll let you know if he screws up, they seem happy, thats all that really counts, right?
Got to go, I'm still really missing you alot!!!! I love you
Susie
Linda s
January 7, 2008
OK Chal I need some help...Please keep an eye on my David, he started phase 1 of 3 this morning and is leaving for South Carolina on Thursday (phase 2) for the Army Reserves. You KNOW MY DAVID, help keep him safe and out of trouble. I can only imagine your take on this..
Always thinking of you, and missing you,
Susan
January 5, 2008
Hi Chal,
The holidays are over! It's just not the same, without you!! I am glad to tell you, your kids were there for Mom's birthday and Christmas day at Casey's. Your grand daughter is getting big! Everytime I see her, I think how great of a pop pop you would have been. The poor kid really got ripped off! By next year she'll be giving the boys a run for thier money (ha ha.)
I still think of you every day, I really miss you!!!!
Love always,
Susie
Candice Mercer
December 19, 2007
Well, another year, another holiday and another family gathering without you. I still get can't get over you not being here especially this time of year. If only we had more time, if only you could come back for one more day, if only! Uncle Chal, I will always miss you and love you.
Linda Serwinski
November 19, 2007
Another holiday is here and you're not. People say it gets easier, BUT it's not getting easier for us. MISSING YOU
Love ya
Linda
Susan
November 17, 2007
Hi Chal,
Well its another late sleepless night, I think thats when I think of you the most. I guess by now you know about Jack? It's so hard to believe, he was really only sick twenty days, then he was gone. It was so fast. I feel for Karen. I wish there was something I could do for her. I'm hoping you and Jack are up there in heaven watching out for everyone here.
I know one thing, I really need your help now, you and Ant. I'm really trying to keep an eye on the kids, but they don't make it easy, but I guess you know that. Charlie's doing ok, in fact I was at the house helping Lauren paint a couple of weeks ago. We did the down stairs, it wasn't finished when I left, But I'm pretty sure they got everything done. I'll find out this week when I see Charlie, Lauren and little Ryan for Thanksgiving. I'm so glad they are comming to Tom's for dinner. Your granddaughter is wonderful!! A little doll baby!! Now Laura, I'm not sure of, I've been trying to get her by phone, but that's not working, I have messages in to her to call me. But I haven't heard from her yet. Please keep an eye on her, she needs you.
This is the second Thanksgiving without you, it's not getting any easier. We all miss you so much!
I guess I better try to get some sleep, I have Logan tomorrow, its going to be a busy day.
Still missing you alot
Still loving you more
Susie
Susan
November 2, 2007
Hi Chal,
Last week our little brother was married. You were greatly missed. Your son was in the bridal party, he looked so handsom, he walked with Linda. All of us were in the wedding. Jamie had your captain and gingerale on the head table, just like he said he would. The weather was the only thing that didn't cooperate. They were talking about that song, "Holes in the floor of Heaven". Was that you guys up there letting us know you were watching? I hope so.
Love You
Miss You
Susie
Susan
October 5, 2007
Hi Chal,
Yesterday was me and Len's 26th anniversary. We went out for a nice dinner. It was also Casey's 30th birthday the other day. Of course we had a big surprise party for her, last week. We really missed you there!!Do you believe she's 30?!!!
I saw Charlie and Lauren last Saturday. They joined us at a miniature golf outting, then back to the club. It was a nice time. Your granddaughter is beautiful, I've been trying to see her as much as I can. Laura's been babysitting for Candice, so I see her too.
I guess by now you know all about Jack. We lost him so fast, it's still hard to believe. I feel so bad for Karen. Your son was there, and I know it was hard for him, but he still was there. That was one of the times Laura was watching the boys for Candice.
Well next week we're leaving for Disney, with the kids, everybody but Logan. He's to young to enjoy it. He'll have to wait a few years.
I better get to bed, I have another busy day tomorrow. I'm still missing you!!
Love you
Susie
Susan
September 24, 2007
Hi Chal,
This year is sure having its ups and downs! The UPS are great, the Downs are NOT! I feel like I'm on a roller coaster. For some reason I feel like if you were here, things would be better. I'm really missing you!
Love Always,
Susie
Hannie pownall
August 31, 2007
Yo Chal Hannie here, I wanted to ask you to keep on eye on Linda and her family this week coming up, Linda is getting on a plane where she cant smoke, help her out with her anxiety and let her have a safe and fun trip. Thanks! Remember when we went to vegas we had so much fun I still cant believe you went to see the Liberace Meuseum with Mom and Linda and the rest of the girls, that was so funny. Remember you said you thought we were all going and when you got back you were like the cars were cool. I thought that was so funny. That whole trip was great. I wish you were still here so when we do the next vacation with the family. it wont be the same without you. I miss you so much it sucks your not here with us. your family is growing and they miss you and your pop pop-ness you would have been great. Got to go love you lots Hannie
hannie pownall
August 28, 2007
Yo chal what up my brother(ha ha) Hannie here just checking in labor day weekend is coming up and I was wondering if you could keep an eye on the family Steven is starting school right after the holiday and Heather already started kepp an eye on my kida up there and I'll try to kepp an eye on your guys down here, sound fair to me gotta go just wanted to say hi I have been thinking about you lately and I don't have anything important to say i just feel better talking to you about nothing P.S. Linda is going to vegas throw some good luck her way maybe she'll throw it my way love ya hannie
Linda Serwinski
August 24, 2007
Chal,
Welcome to the Grandparents Club!! I tried to see the baby last week, but my timing is really bad, I hear she's just adorable. My Alyssa was the only girl for 3 years, I can't wait to see how she handles the competition with Ryan and Natalie.
I'm leaving for Vegas next week, and everytime I think about Vegas I remember you delivering the coffee every morning and it makes me smile. I am so grateful that we had that trip..we talk about like it was yesterday. Missing you, Love ya,
Linda
hannah pownall
August 21, 2007
Yo I dont know whats going on chal but i've been writing to you and these people won't print it for whatever reason, if i'm doing something wrong somebody needs to let me know.... Congrats on the whole pop pop thing I wish you were here so I could hug you and say congrats in person but just know I'm thinking of you in this time of joy in your sons life I know he will be one hell of a dad after all the apple doent fall far from the tree. Got to go love ya and miss you terribly hannie
August 16, 2007
Uncle Chal,
As you already know Ryan Marie Clothier is here. She is the perfect baby. She has the dark hair just like Ant wanted. Everytime I see Chalie and Laura I just wish you were next to them wishing him luck with the baby and congratulating laura on her graduation. You are missed so much by everyone and i don't think any of us will get over your passing. I love you and miss you so much.
Love,
Candice
Kelly Barber
August 16, 2007
Okay, so I have tried a few times now to post something to you and it hasn't come up. I hope this one does! Well, I still can't believe its been a whole year already. I really miss you and I wish you were still here with us. Yesterday I was hanging out with Ryan and all I could think about, is how I wished you could be here to see her. I know in a way this is good, because you can watch over her all the time, but it would still be better to have you here. I love you Uncle Chal, and miss you VERY much!
Susan
August 15, 2007
Hi Chal,
Me Mom and Louise went to see your grand-daughter, Ryan Marie, today. She is beautiful!!! Everyone is just fine. I wish you could see your son, he is the PROUD DADDY!!!! They look so happy, it was great to see the new little family together. I can't help thinking what you and Ant would say if you were here.
Me and Mom went to see the house today too. You would be so proud of Charlie and what he has done to the house. The nursery is beautiful!! He did the bathroom and the bedroom too. The new rugs will be installed tomorrow. He has really worked hard getting things fixed up for his family.I think they'll all be very happy there. You have great kids, they just seem to be getting better every day. I'm so proud of both of them. And don't you worry about the baby, she has everything she needs. Everyone has seen to that!!
Kristy had her baby girl last week. We went to see them too. She's beautiful! Now we're waiting for Jessy, she due in a few weeks. This family is growing fast.
I wish you were here to enjoy all of it. I know you and Ant would have been the best grandparents ever!! You guys are really missed, alot!! I love you!!
oxox
Susie
Casey
August 13, 2007
CONGRATS! POP-POP, She is finally here. Two weeks late but she is here. Her name is Ryan Marie and she is 7lbs. and 15 oz. I really wish you were here. Everyone will be thinking about you today. Well we love, and watch out for your you grand daughter.
Linda
July 20, 2007
It's been a full year, still can't believe it, don't want to I guess. All week I've been saying to myself "This day last year I was...." Not a good week...
Love ya, miss you
Linda

30th Birthday
July 19, 2007

Laura's Graduation
July 19, 2007
July 19, 2007
Hey Chal, for someone who was always kinda quiet you sure have lots of people talking to you. I can't believe it's been a year. It seems like yesterday I was saying how unfair it was... too young, way too young and with so much to look forward to. I still don't understand why. Then I remember how painful it was and I think that it's really better for you (not that it makes it any easier). Not only aren't you in pain but you're with Antoinette and you get a really clear view of EVERYTHING. Young Charles and Laura are doing well. I'm proud of Laura for her accomplishments and I try to make it a point to seek them out at parties; after all, just cause you were bigger than us didn't make you one of the older cuzzes (you know what I mean). I miss you and think about you alot. It's almost two years for Mom and ... well, you know. Give hugs to all and watch over everyone and keep us close. love ya...
SUSAN
July 18, 2007
HI CHAL,
WE (ME, LINDA, HANNIE, MOM, AND CASEY) WENT TO THE CEMETERY ON SATURDAY, WE PLANTED SOME BULBS, WE WANT IT TO LOOK VERY NICE. YOU AND ANT MUST GET ALOT OF VISITORS, THERE'S ALWAYS SOMETHING NEW OVER THERE FROM ALL YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS. YOU KNOW, DONNIE'S NOT THERE ANY MORE, SO WE HAVE TO MAKE SURE IT LOOKS GOOD, LIKE YOU USE TO DO.
WELL, IT'S BEEN A WHOLE YEAR ALREADY, AND IT STILL HURTS. I WAS UP ALL NIGHT LAST NIGHT, THINKING OF A YEAR AGO. WE THOUGHT WE WERE TAKING YOU HOME THAT DAY, BUT GOD HAD OTHER PLANS FOR YOU. I'LL NEVER UNDERSTAND, WHY??? THE KIDS LOSING THIER MOTHER AT SUCH AN EARLY AGE, THEN YOU, WHY??? I THINK ABOUT THAT EVERY DAY. I WENT TO VISIT YOU TODAY, MAYBE I KNOW THE ANSWER NOW, OR MAYBE I DON'T. THE ONLY THING I CAN COME UP WITH, IS, GOD MUST OF HAD A REALLY GOOD REASON TO TAKE BOTH OF YOU AWAY FROM ALL OF US. WHO KNOWS, MAYBE SOMEDAY I'LL UNDERSTAND WHY. BUT FOR NOW,I'M STILL MISSING YOU ALOT,I LOVE YOU
SUSIE
Elizabeth
July 18, 2007
Hi Uncle Chal,
I know it has only been a year but, it feels so much longer. I miss you more now then ever. There has been so much going on that your in my thoughts all the time because, it feels like someone is missing, then I realize that you are. I wish you were home with all of us but, I know your new home is better and now you can watch over all of us. I know you know we all miss you but it is still nice to be heard. MISS YOU LOTS.
Love
Candice Mercer
July 18, 2007
Uncle Chalie,
I can't get over that it has been a whole year since you were taken from us. I know you are no longer in pain or suffering but I just wish you were still here.
Well, Chris still talks about you and I hope that he has some stories to tell Logan when he gets bigger. I just wanted to say I love you and miss you so much.
Love you.
laura clothier
July 13, 2007
DAD,
its been damn near a year now and i finnaly got myself to write to you. i dont really want to write everything i have to say but i love you so much and misss you more than anything!! this has to be one of the hardest things right now for me to do but im doing it to make sure you know i love you and to tell you that i graduated on june 8th, the ONE thing you made sure you asked me to do and i did it just for YOU! i really wanted you to be there more than everything! i just want you to know that i have grown up alot in the past year and im tryin my best now o do something goood with myself just like you said you wanted me to i love you and miss you with all my heart i love you!!
oxoxoxoxoxxoxoxoxxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
July 11, 2007
HI CHAL,
JUST MISSING YOU ALOT!!! LOVE YOU
SUSAN
July 7, 2007
HI CHAL,
TODAY WAS CHRIS'S BIRTHDAY PARTY. THIS YEAR IT WAS AT THE MINI GOLF COURSE. THE WHOLE TIME I WAS THERE I THOUGHT ABOUT YOU AT CHRIS'S BIRTHDAY LAST YEAR. I REMEMBER HOW HARD IT WAS FOR YOU, BUT YOU WOULDN'T DISSAPOINT HIM. YOU WERE EVEN IN THE POOL!! AND ATE CAKE!! I REMEMBER IT LIKE IT WAS YESTERDAY, BUT IT'S BEEN ALMOST A YEAR AGO!! YOUR SON AND LAUREN WERE THERE TODAY, THEY HAD A BET. THE WINNER WILL NAME THE BABY. CHARLIE MUST OF THOUGHT HE WAS GOING TO WIN, BUT HE DIDN'T. I WONDER IF HE'LL KEEP THE BET! THEY TOLD ME THE BABY'S ROOM WAS DONE, I TOLD THEM THE FIRST TIME I CAN FIND A PARKING SPOT ON SILVERWOOD STREET, I HAVE TO STOP IN AND SEE IT. THEY SEEM VERY HAPPY! I WANT YOU HERE SO BAD, I REALLY MISS YOU!!WE'LL TALK SOON, I LOVE YOU
SUSIE
SUSAN
June 26, 2007
HI CHAL,
IT'S ME AGAIN!! I'M THINKING OF YOU ALOT! SATURDAY WAS THE SHOWER FOR LAUREN, I THINK THE KIDS GOT EVERYTHING THEY NEED. IT WAS A VERY NICE DAY. WE JUST NEED TO GET THE BABY'S ROOM FINISH, THEN WAIT FOR THE BIG DAY.I'M PRETTY SURE CHARLIE HAS EVERYTHING UNDER CONTROL. HE'S SO EXCITED ABOUT BEING A DADDY, YOU SHOULD BE HERE TO SEE IT!! IF ONLY WISHES COULD COME TRUE!!! I MISS YOU SO MUCH!! I CAN'T STOP THINKING OF THE THINGS YOU WOULD BE DOING, AND SAYING RIGHT NOW, IF YOU WERE HERE! YOU WOULD OF BEEN THE BEST POP POP ANYONE EVER SAW! BUT DON'T WORRY, WE'RE ALL HERE, TO HELP ANYWAY WE CAN, I PROMISE YOU THAT!!
WE'LL TALK SOON, I LOVE YOU
SUSIE
June 19, 2007
Hi Ant & Chal,
Well soon you will be Grandmom & Grandpop. It's a little girl or maybe a big girl.I'm still waiting!!
Lauren is getting pretty big and she still has, june 7 July left. Hopefully on my birthday Aug 1st. I will be so thrilled if she does have it then. I can't wait to spoil her rotten, just as the two of you would, sorry you have to miss this, but I know you'll be around to watch over her.
Oh, and you would be so proud of Laura, she graduated on June 8th. I know the two of you were there and wouldn't miss it for the world. Please watch over her.
Well now that i got that off my mind. I'll say good-bye for now. Talk to you soon.
Linda M.
Kelly Barber
June 13, 2007
Hey! So, did you think she wouldn't make it????????? Well, she did! Thank God! No more driving up to hickville! LOL J/K It was a little hard being there and knowing how much you wanted to be there with us. But like Mom said, we know you were there in spirit. Keep an eye on us up there. I love you and miss you dearly.
Linda
June 13, 2007
Hi Chal,
I was going to tell you about Laura's graduation, but I see Susie already updated you.
Casey and Ray are buying a new house and Casey asked me for this ice maker for a housewarming gift (just kidding, I think), the first thing I did was go for the phone, I thought you and I could go halfers, as usual, but guess what...so needless to say, Casey's not getting the ice maker. MISS YOU,
Linda

Dad and his boys in Vegas
June 12, 2007
SUSAN
June 11, 2007
HI CHAL,
YOU AND ANT WERE GREATLY MISSED ON FRIDAY!!! SHE DID IT!!! LAURA GRADUATED WITH HER CLASS, AND WE WERE ALL THERE, ME, LINDA, MOM, KELLY, CHARLIE, LAUREN,LOUISE, TONY,LINDA,PETE, SHERLY,AND AUNT KELLY. I KNOW YOU GUYS WERE WATCHING, WHAT DID YOU THINK? WASN'T IT LIKE THE 70'S HIPPIE MOVEMENT? I NEVER SEEN A GRADUATION LIKE THAT IN MY LIFE, EVEN IN THE 70'S. I THOUGHT IT WAS GREAT, EVEN DOWN TO THE POT LUCK DINNER THEY SERVED. THE ONLY THING WAS THE HEAT!! COULDN'T YOU HAVE DONE SOMETHING ABOUT THAT??? YOUR DAUGHTER EVEN WORE THE CAP AND GOWN FOR PICTURES. CHARLIE WANTED TO BUY HER A YEAR BOOK, BUT LAURA SAID SHE WASN'T IN IT, SO THEY DIDN'T GET ONE. IT WAS A GREAT DAY!!
CHIS GRADUATED FROM PRE SCHOOL IN THE MORNING, THEN LAURA, AND LITTLE DAVID AT NIGHT FROM ROMAN. AND IT WAS ALSO STEVEN'S SR. PROM. WHAT A BUSY DAY!!!
I'M SO PROUD OF YOUR KIDS!!! YOU WOULD OF BEEN SO HAPPY! YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN THERE, I KNOW YOUR SPIRIT WAS THERE.
LIFE NOT FAIR, BUT YOUR KIDS ARE DOING THE BEST THEY CAN! THATS ALL WE CAN ASK OF THEM NOW!!
WELL I GOT TO GO, TALK TO YOU SOON, I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU MORE!
SUSIE
Candice
June 1, 2007
Hi Uncle Chalie,
It's been a long time since I wrote to you but I think about you everyday. I know things should be easier by now but it still feels like you left us yesterday. I just wish you were still with us but I know that you will always be a part of this family. I bet you and Ant are very proud of Laura. Well, I just wanted to say I miss you and love you so much.
Love,
Candice
SUSAN
May 30, 2007
HI CHAL,
WELL IT'S OFFICIAL!!! I SEEN HER NAME IN THE SCHOOL NEWS LETTER!
LAURA CLOTHIER GRADUATING CLASS OF 2007!!!! I'M SO PROUD OF HER! AND SO HAPPY I KEPT THE PROMISE TO YOU, WE KNEW SHE HAD IT IN HER, DIDN'T WE? I REALLY WANT YOU HERE ON GRADUATION DAY!! BELIEVE ME, I KNOW YOU'LL BE THERE IN SPIRIT. I'LL BE THINKING OF YOU AND ANT UP THERE TOGETHER WATCHING. OH YEA, THERE WILL BE A PARTY!!!! SHE EARNED IT.
I MISS YOU SO MUCH!! LOVE YOU, SEND ME A SIGN YOU'RE WATCHING OVER US, OK? TALK SOON
SUSIE
hannah Pownall
May 29, 2007
hey chal, hannie here I dont have much time zachary has a ballgame tonight. i wanted to ask you if you could keep an eye out on General Bobble head? Bobbles left us over the mememorial day weekend. It happened so fast and I dont know how he died, but he was just a baby and I need you to look out for him. Tell Otis I miss him so much and I'm sure he'll help you with Mr. Bobble head. nanny and Mom MOm can help you to everypne loves Mr. Bobbles. I hope you doing well and can see your daughter and all that she is accomplishing down here with graduation. You bettter be ready to party when this happens because your sister Susie and Casey and Kelly Ann have worked so hard to make this happen You better make it a perfect day (if you have any pull up there with Mother Nature) haha I hope your seeing all the good things and I hope you really proud. I gotta go Love Hannie
SUSAN
May 24, 2007
HI CHAL,
TOMORROW IS THE BIG DAY!!! SAY A PRAYER. LAURA HAS BEEN WORKING VERY HARD WITH HER SCHOOL WORK. I'M ON PINS AND NEEDLES, WAITING TO HEAR THE NEWS. BY THIS TIME TOMORROW, WE'LL KNOW IF WE HAVE A GRADUATION PARTY TO ARRANGE. I'M SO PROUD OF YOUR DAUGHTER. I'LL LET YOU KNOW TOMORROW, AS SOON AS I KNOW!!! I WISH YOU WERE HERE!!!!
MISS YOU, LOVE YOU
SUSIE
SUSAN
May 8, 2007
HI CHAL,
JUST MISSING YOU, ALOT!!! LOVE YOU
SUSIE
April 24, 2007
Hey... I always had trouble remembering the day of your birthday - knew it was in April but that was it. So last week when you and Mom "visited" me, I checked your card. It's a little scary to know you guys have that power up there but I'm glad and wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday (it would have been sooner but my computer is down at home). In the dream it was me and Susie (of course) and Mom and you so I knew something was up. I hope you're watching everyone up there; you really have to watch the 'ladies', they'll gang up on your and Uncle Walt that's for sure. Miss your crooked smile at parties; always quietly sitting there and enjoying the 'show'. Love you and miss you.
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