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MATTHEW DAVID ADLER

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MATTHEW ADLER Obituary

MATTHEW DAVID ADLER
June 15, 1970 - Feb. 18, 2011
On this, the third anniversary of your passing, we pause to reflect on the positive influence you had on our lives and the lives of others. Your spirit lives on with us.
In Seattle, Jenn, Jake, & Zoe continue to honor your memory. And we all still look for you in rainbows.
Mom and Dad in Bryn Mawr, PA. Marc and Varusha in Penn Valley, PA
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Published by Philadelphia Inquirer/Philadelphia Daily News on Feb. 16, 2014.

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Eileen CHU

March 7, 2021

Hi Matt, wish you are doing well in heaven.

Stephen C

March 5, 2019

I miss Matt's sincere & genuine friendship to this day! I often think of his laugh and smile. I hope to one day be able to express to his children what a wonderful professional and friend Matt was.

Steven Cohen

March 5, 2019

Well I remember Matthew fondly, he was always the best of cousins and was kind and generous always. I remember admiring his electric football game as a kid and then him buying me dinner when I was older and him saying "Don't be ridiculous" when I offered to pay. Warmest Memories, Steven Cohen & Family

March 5, 2012

"Dear Family; Please accept my condolence. Keep close to your heart loving memories and cherished moments. May the Hearer of prayer comfort you. Psalms 65:2

Debra Ambrose

December 5, 2011

My Dearest Phyllis and Gary,
Oh I cannot begin to tell you how saddened I am to come across the news of Matts passing .. please accept my deepest sympathies and know my heart breaks for you .. I did not know! .. Phyllis I love you, and you have been on my mind .. I lost your number and I have been wanting to call you .. I am sorry to have found out this way .. Sending love n prayer n hugs ... Love You

April 27, 2011

Matthew, you were so loved, and you will always be. God created you with Love, and you were a gift to all those who were touched by your life. I will always remember you with respect, love, and great admiration for your accomplishments. I will remember your handsome & caring smile always. May God grant you peace, and I truly hope we will meet you again in the presence of our blessed Messiah. May your family feel God's peace, comfort and strength. And may they go forward being blessed by knowing and loving you. With Love, Your Cousin, Caralee

April 7, 2011

Dear Gary & Phyllis, our deepest sympathies on the loss of your son. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Fran & Ray Cahill

Zeph Grunschlag

April 3, 2011

I will always be grateful to Matt for welcoming me as his friend when no one else did. My formative years up to the age of nine were spent in Israel. Then my mother Sareva decided to return the U.S. and be closer to most of her family. When I started going to Solomon Schechter Day School, my English was halting and my social skills were lacking. While others teased me for my body shape or my unusual background, Matt was accepting. We became friends and he was my only friend at school during fourth and fifth grades. We remained close friends throughout elementary school and later at Akiba Hebrew Academy. Matt’s gentle spirit and acceptance of differences is a credo I try to live my life by and teach my children to strive for. I was glad to learn that he maintained his gentle approach even while achieving tremendous success in the harsh world of international corporate law. I am sure he touched others as he did me.

I mourn his loss and give my deepest condolences to Jenn, Jake and Zoe and to Phyllis, Gary, and Marc.

y.a.

March 23, 2011

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

March 23, 2011

Dear friends, We were neighbors on Morefield Road and I had the privilege of being a babysitter for Matthew and Marc. I always felt your home was filled with love, respect and humor. Matthew was especially creative and brilliant. I am so sorry for your great loss. May the days soon grow longer and may more light flood the darkness. Grace Hammernick-DeBellis

March 23, 2011

To the Adler family,

Although, I never got the chance to meet Matt, I certainly know Marc and what a gift he is. I am so sorry to all of you and will pray for you. You are such a warm, loving family and I reflect on that at such a sad time.

My prayers are with you,

Gayle M. Polin-Ferreira

Alex KINSELLA

March 23, 2011

When I graduated university, I headed up to DC to job hunt. Matt picked me up from the airport, took me out to an amazing dinner, and put me up for four days as I hit the streets with resumes in hand.

Over those four days, I had the chance to get to know Matt better and learn an amazing amount about work and life and balance. He also taught me what LLP stands for - something I had made it through life without learning. Everytime I see LLP, I think of Matt and that DC trip and it brings a smile to my face.

I even had the chance to cook a meal for Matt - and I remember him thanking me because he hadn't had a home cooked meal in some time. It was the least I could do!

Matt - I'll miss you, and will always keep smiling when I see "something, something LLP".

Your cousin, Alex

Alex KINSELLA

March 23, 2011

When I graduated university, I headed up to DC to job hunt. Matt picked me up from the airport, took me out to an amazing dinner, and put me up for four days as I hit the streets with resumes in hand.

Over those four days, I had the chance to get to know Matt better and learn an amazing amount about work and life and balance. He also taught me what LLP stands for - something I had made it through life without learning. Everytime I see LLP, I think of Matt and that DC trip and it brings a smile to my face.

I even had the chance to cook a meal for Matt - and I remember him thanking me because he hadn't had a home cooked meal in some time. It was the least I could do!

Matt - I'll miss you, and will always keep smiling when I see "something, something LLP".

Your cousin, Alex

March 23, 2011

MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES GO OUT TO GARY &PHYLLIS ON YOUR LOSS. AL &ESTHER FOX (WEST PHILLY,JAN. 56)

Betsy & Michael Cancelliere

March 23, 2011

Dear Phyllis, Gary and Marc:
Please accept our deepest sympathies on the loss of your beloved son and brother, Matthew. May he rest in peace and you always be surrounded by loving memories and those memories sustain you in the days ahead.

Janet and Barry Kinsella

March 19, 2011

We will never forget Matt's quiet and thoughtful kindness and generosity. In the late 1990's he came to Florida to meet up with his parents and Marc who were vacationing here. He was in our home for only a brief time but that was long enough for him to observe that Barry was a collector of Communist memorabilia. Shortly thereafter he returned to China and we were surprised only weeks later with a package from him. Inside, very security wrapped, were two iconic representations of Communism in China - a statuette of a young revolutionary guard proudly displaying the "little red book" and a plaque of Chairman Mao on a pedestal. These treasured possessions are on permanent display in our guest room - better known as the "Lenin Suite". We know there are many others around the world who were likewise recipients of Matt's unassuming but very genuine caring nature. Thank you Matt. Rest in peace.

Janet and Barry Kinsella

March 19, 2011

Dear Matt -We will never forget your quiet and thoughtful kindness and generosity. In the late 1990's you came to Florida to meet up with your parents and Marc who were vacationing here. You were in our home for only a brief time but that was long enough for you to observe that Barry was a collector of Communist memorabilia. Shortly thereafter you returned to China and we were surprised only weeks later with a package from you. Inside, very carefully wrapped, were two iconic representations of Communism in China - a statuette of a young revolutionary guard proudly displaying the "little red book" and a plaque of Chairman Mao on a pedestal. These treasured possessions are on permanent display in our guest room - better known as the "Lenin Suite". We know there are many others around the world who were likewise recipients of your unassuming but very genuine caring nature. Thank you Matt. Rest in peace.

March 17, 2011

Dear Matt: We will never be the same since we lost you 4 weeks ago. We are completely devastated!

love, Mom, Dad, and Marc

Diane Frankle

March 13, 2011

I had the honor of knowing Matt as my partner for many years and he was always kind and respectful of others, with a great heart, as well as brilliant and energetic. I loved talking with him - he was passionate about acting in his client's best interests, and doing the right thing. I will miss you, Matt, and my heart goes out to Jennifer, Jake and Zoe. Love, Diane

March 11, 2011

Our deepest condolences on the passing of Matt, a very special son, brother, husband, father and friend. Our thoughts and prayers are with you cousins Phyllis, Gary, Marc, Jenn, Jake and Zoe. With all our love,
cousins, Mark and Sandy Itkowitz

Sharon and Steve Weinstein

March 6, 2011

Matt was an amazing young man with a wonderful future. Born to loving parents, he was a shining star - in the legal world and to his family. Our deepest sympathies to Jenn, Jake and Zoe, to Phyl, Gary, and Marc, and to all whose lives he touched. We will miss you Matt...and we will remember you. Love, Sharon and Steve, Heidi, Ricky, Jason, Steph, Alex, Noah, Marla, Kurt and Justin.

Nicole Pressman

March 2, 2011

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and continued prayers are with Phyllis, Gary, and the family.

Jeff Coopersmith

March 1, 2011

I'll never forget Matt. In the legal profession, with the ever-present crush of work, deadlines, demands, and commitments, it is a rare thing to find a professional colleague that can truly be called a friend. I am proud to say that Matt was my good friend. We had so many good times and laughs together over the 5 years I knew him, and he eventually forgave me for forgetting my passport and having to turn the car around when we were practically at the Canadian border. Matt was as curious about my criminal defense practice as I was about his corporate practice. But Matt was so much more than just another corporate lawyer. He was one of the very few people I have ever met who actually had the intellect, technical ability, and sophistication to handle deals and other complex corporate legal work in as difficult and foreign an environment as China. I will always remember Matt's great gifts, his priceless sense of humor, and his loyalty. Jenn, Jake, and Zoe, you can always take great pride and hopefully comfort in the knowledge that Matt was a remarkable person in so many ways. We are all better for having known him.
-Jeff Coopersmith

Mollie Haukap

March 1, 2011

Being Matt's secretary was an honor and a privilege which allowed me to work with him every day on challenging and interesting projects. He often expected the impossible and I wanted nothing less than to deliver. I loved working with Matt. Matt was my friend and I will truly miss him.

Chris Holland

March 1, 2011

To Matt’s family, Jenn, Jake and Zoe,

I met Matt at Clifford Chance in 2000. He was my first real mentor and a very good friend. I can't think of someone who took more time to develop me as a lawyer and help me advance my career. He was also a loyal and generous friend and, among many memories, I remember playing basketball with him on the playgrounds of HK (we almost always lost) and taking a few golf trips, not to mention evenings out in Hong Kong where, as much as anything, Matt would talk about the love of his life Jenn.

Although I had lost touch with Matt the last few years, I know he was tremendously proud of his family. He spoke often about what a positive force marriage and having a family was in his life.

I will miss Matt terribly and am so sorry for your loss.

Jen Huang

March 1, 2011

It has been unbearingly sobering to feel Matt’s absence in the office.

I first met Matt in November 2006 in my third year of law school. Matt was looking for someone who could assist him with his China-based clients from Seattle, so he offered me a job. In winter 2006, I went back to China for winter break and met the attorneys whom Matt had worked with at the Beijing office. Matt was legendary at that office. He was admired and awed by many. In summer 2007, Vivian Wang, Matt’s associate in Beijing (first at Clifford Chance then at DLA Piper) came to Seattle for visit. Matt invited all of us to his house for dinner. He was vibrant and engaging. His wife, Jenn Stuber, was obviously an intellectual peer of his. Their son, Jake, who had just started walking, amused everyone by calling his mom Jenn and passing around napkins and utensils for desserts. In fall 2007, I started working at DLA Piper’s Seattle office.

Matt was a perfectionist. He had an ability to notice even the slightest mistakes in a document. His pencil was his weapon and he was never shy about writing down his editorial comments in the margin. He trained me with eternal vigilance towards details. In November 2009, Matt organized the China 2010 Conference with Thompson Reuters. He managed every single detail of that event, literally from venue to menu. He took it as a personal mission and joked about God’s punishment on him for not doing enough for his own wedding.

Matt had a dry sense of humor. Given the time difference with China, occasionally, we would work late at the office into the evenings. He would buy pizza. At the beginning, he would buy pizzas he liked. One day, I gathered my nerve and told him that I would like some mushrooms on my pizza. He really listened – I got a pizza with nothing else but mushrooms.

Matt was a private person. He seldom talked about his private life at work. In rare occasions when he did, his eyes would glow with joy and pride. He was very proud that Jenn is a professor at the University of Washington, that Jake loves painting, and that Zoey is adventurous.

Matt was a passionate person. He cared about women’s advancement in the legal profession. He was one of the two partners who attended the Mother Attorneys Mentoring Association of Seattle fund raising events. Days before his passing, he participated in the “wear red to work” campaign to raise awareness of women’s health.

Matt will be sorely missed, as a mentor and as a friend. My heartfelt condolences to his parents, Jenn, Jake and Zoey.

Michelle Jasper Brody

February 28, 2011

I was very close with Matt in high school and always thought I would talk to him again sometime. I am grateful that I got to experience great times and experiences with him that I carry with me. May Matt's family find comfort at this time of loss.

Dafei Chen

February 28, 2011

Jenn,

My deepest condolence to you, your lovely kids and your family. If there is anything I can help, please do not hesitate to let me know. Take care!

Matt was simply a great man. He taught me how to be a good lawyer when I worked with him at Clifford Chance. He could be demanding sometimes, but that was because he genuinely cared about development of young lawyers. I'm forever indebted to Matt's mentoring.

May Matt be at peace.

Li Fred

February 28, 2011

Matt struck me as a very considerate and gentle lawyer.

The first time I came to DLA from CC, a partner came by and said "Hello, Fred". I was new and did not know many people. This lawyer seemed a nice guy. Later, it learned that he was Matt, who left CC and established DLA Beijing Office. Wow, when I went to CC, he was a legend that people talked about. I heard so much about him. He was a "big partner". Now, on my first day at the office, he called my name even though I had no idea who he was at that moment!

In sharp contract to the impression that many lawyers give to people, Matt always had an aurora of serenity. I have never seen him raising his voice to any one. He always walked by with such peacefulness and politness that you woule feel at easy in his presence.

As we say in China, hao ren you hao bao (nice people will be treated nicely in the next life). Matt will have a great afterlife.

Sue Lockett John

February 27, 2011

I am so sorry that I never got the chance to know Matt, but I am so grateful for all I learned about him yesterday. Thank you, Jenn, Gary and everyone else who shared from your hearts. May the prayers, tears and continuing presence of your friends, family and colleagues bring bring some small measure of comfort.

Beth Hammonds

February 27, 2011

There are no words anyone can say , My heart, and my thoughts and my strenghts is yours to share Jen. ANything I can do to help you or your family. Matt be at peace.

Jodi Cohen

February 27, 2011

I just met Matt, Jen, Jake and Zoe on a recent trip to Maui. He was so great with the kids and so alive. It breaks my heart to hear of his passing. Jen -- Please let me know if there is anything I can do for you!

Eileen Chu

February 26, 2011

To Matt, the best US lawyer that I have ever met

Vivian Wang

February 26, 2011

I used to work closely with Matt when I was at Clifford Chance and DLA Piper. He was my boss, but he meant much more to me than just a boss. We worked as a team; he trained me and helped me grow into a competent and confident lawyer in three years. The mentorship he provided to me has had a great impact on my career development.

For those who have not worked as a lawyer in China, you might not understand the challenge and difficulties of working in a completely different country with huge cultural and linguistic barriers. I admire Matt’s courage for not only taking that challenge, but succeeding so well. His intelligence, competence and his persistence, among many other qualities, helped him succeed. He was a trustworthy counsel for clients and performed his work artistically.

He is the best boss I have ever worked with. Although his professionalism frightened me in the beginning, it did not take long before I realized how kind and generous he is when he offers support to his associates. He once gave me a book “The Style of Writing” from his personal collection because he wanted me to improve my writing skills. He was available to review my draft documents and discuss legal issues any time no matter how busy he was. He fought fiercely for his associates’ welfare. Because of his support and advocacy, I was able to take leave from work and sit for the bar exam in the US. When he heard that I passed the bar exam, he said he was so excited when he saw my news he almost had a car accident. No one has invested in me professionally the way Matt did. I am so sad that I will never be able to repay him.

Matt loves his family so much. I was happy for him when Matt relocated to Seattle to be with his family. He often spoke of his family with affection and when I saw Matt’s family photo after Zoe was born, I was so happy to see his fulfilling family life.

Matt, I will not forget days and nights of hard working with you, I will not forget all the training and comments from you, I will not forget your singing of “Moon Represents My Heart” in your farewell party in Beijing at a Karaoke. I will not forget what a sincere and loyal friend and colleague you are.

My deepest condolence to Matt’s parents, Jen, Jake and Zoe. I don’t know what to say to ease your pain; I want you to know that my thoughts are with you.

Steve Cannon

February 26, 2011

I am in total shock! I can't express how much I genuinely admired Matt. He is one of those rare special people that you seldom cross paths with in life, but when you do, you always remember!

Sadly, I have not spoken with Matt for several months. Incredibly, today (2/26/11) at 3pm I randomly thought of Matt and desired to connect. I began searching him on the web, and to my shock, I discovered his passing, and that his funeral had JUST begun an hour ago! I am truly shaken! I can only imagine that he is in heaven now sending us all a message.

I will never forget Matt's intelligence, kind demeanor and most of all his smile that showed he understood & cared!

Former client, but more importantly a friend,
Steve Cannon

Lee Jarm

February 26, 2011

Our heartfelt condolences to the Adler family. From Bonnie, Lee, Charles, and Samantha Jarm

Steven Cohen

February 26, 2011

Matthew was my cousin. We played as children at family gatherings and I loved him, his brother Mark, his sweet parents and was priveledged to get to meet his lovely wife Jen whom he loved. My and my families deepest love go out to his wife, Jen and children and all their family and friends. Steven & Susie Cohen (Boynton Beach, FL)

Joel Chusid

February 25, 2011

I was very shocked and very saddened by Matt's passing. He was a first class gentleman and I will miss him at the Washington China Relations Council. My deepest sympathy to his family.

Christina Chang, Michael Braner, Dylan & Skylar

February 25, 2011

Matt had a kind heart, a quick mind, a gentle spirit, and a generous nature. He left us all too soon and he will be very missed. Jenn, Jake & Zoe: We are so sorry for your loss. We hope that you find peace knowing that Matt's legacy thrives in the very best in each of you. You are in our hearts and thoughts and we love you very much.

Joanna Xue

February 25, 2011

Condolences to Matt's family and colleagues. I was really impressed by the professionalism and help to our fund even during the illness. God bless you.

Michael Rawding

February 25, 2011

I am very shocked and saddened to learn of Matt's passing. I worked very briefly but closely with Matt in the Spring, Summer and early Fall of 2010. My best wishes to his family. Michael Rawding - Seattle

Gary & Marion Cohen

February 25, 2011

Matthew was the son of our cousins, Gary & Phyllis Adler, and the young man whom we admired the most. He was handsome, brilliant, witty, exciting, caring, and always thoughtful and gracious. We loved being with him, be it in Philadelphia and Tennessee when he was young, and in New York and Seattle when he was the brilliant lawyer in Columbia Tower or the gracious host, with Jenn at home. We commit him to our Lord, and send our love to Jennifer, Jake, Zoe, Phyllis, Gary, and Marc.

Gary & Marion Cohen

February 25, 2011

Matthew was the young man whom we admired most. Brilliant, kind, witty, thoughtful, pleasant, handsome, caring, and more. We enjoyed and loved him and whenever we were with him--in Philadelphia, New York, Seattle--we were happy and delighted, he made you feel that way. May his children forever know that they had a very wonderful father. Our love to Jennifer, Jake, Zoe, Phyllis, Gary, and Marc. We commit him to our Lord. ~ Gary & Marion Cohen

David Reitz

February 25, 2011

I was sorry to hear of Matt's recent death. I worked with Matt for a few years at DLA Piper and always stood in complete awe. We had a few laughs.

February 25, 2011

I will greatly miss a most gracious person, Matt Adler, and friend whom I had the pleasure of working with on the Executive Committee of the Washignton State China Relations Council. My sympathy to Matt's faimly and friends.
Don Vollmer

Joe Borich

February 25, 2011

My deepest condolences to Matt's family and colleagues. China was Matt's and my connection and shared passion. His work at the Washington State China Relations Council to help bring the benefits of engagement with China to the state of Washington was exemplary. His vision of friendship and cooperation between the U.S. and China as the key to world peace and prosperity will live on in our work.

Tim & Virginia Reardon

February 25, 2011

Condolences to Gary and Phyllis and Jennifer and hugs to Jake and Zoe. May you find strength in God, Many Blessings to heal and comfort you, Love Timothy and Virginia

February 24, 2011

"Matt, we met when we were babies, played,and shared holidays. You and your family have always been my "family". I will always hold our childhood memories in my heart." Ann Marie Cocci (Havertown, PA)

Ann Marie Cocci

February 24, 2011

Matt, we met when we were babies, played together,and shared holidays. You and your family have always been my "family". I will always remember you and hold you in the memories of my heart.

Dina Suhie Hutchinson

February 24, 2011

I was very sadden to hear this news. Condolences to the family. Although I have not spoken to Matt in 20 years, I have very fond memories of him. Matt will always have a special place in my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Similar fellows with similar minds for family

Christopher Vaughn

February 23, 2011

To Matt’s parents, Jennifer, Jake and Zoe,

My deepest condolences for the loss of your loving son, husband and father. I never had the pleasure of knowing you personally, but I’ve been a good friend of Matt’s for about 10 years now. Matt always spoke highly about each of you. He was particularly jubilant about Jake and Zoe.

I first became friends with Matt in Hong Kong at the turn of the millennium at an odd-chance meeting of a Democrats Abroad group where he was a young hot-shot associate with Clifford Chance and I was a poor lowly US law student at Hong Kong University. He was a terrific friend and mentor throughout that year in Hong Kong and has been for the 10+ years since. We kept in touch over the years and in July of 2006, we met again in Beijing. Now I was the young associate in China and Matt was the more seasoned partner at DLA. He warned me about the challenges of transitioning a Chinese legal practice back to the US, particularly with a family. His newest sources of pride were Jake, Jennifer’s new teaching post at the University of Washington and the prospect of a rooted family life in Seattle. A year later in 2007, he played an instrumental role in landing me a job with him at DLA. In October of 2009, a few months after Zoe’s birth, I flew to San Francisco to support Matt as chair of the Thomson Reuter’s China Deal 2010 Conference. He'd not only met the challenge of the transition home; he was thriving in it.

Matt was a rarity – a loving fellow with a terrific mind and a consummate gentlemanly way, who in a sharply competitive professional world, never re-directed those good qualities towards more unbecoming traits, either professionally or personally. Whether he was rowing dragon boats in laughter as a young fellow in Hong Kong, introspectfully sifting family and professional nuances over jiaozi in Beijing or serving as a mature US-China legal guidepost for us at that conference in San Francisco – Matt made time for it all, embraced it all and brought a sense of goodwill and kindness with him. I will miss him for that and for all of the good things that he gave to me as my friend and mentor.

During your darkest hours when you’re looking inward, may you find Matt there. Peace and God’s speed to my friend and to each of you.

harry marder

February 23, 2011

The marder family will miss you
Carol harry shari elyse wendy travis josh and chris

Cheryl Lee

February 23, 2011

Jennifer, Jake, Zoe and your families have lost a bright spot. Matt's shining star will now forever rest in heaven and in your hearts. May you find strength during these difficult times. Love, Cheryl (TONH Tax Office)

Andrew Ledbetter

February 23, 2011

Matt,
In the past few years, you pushed me to grow as a lawyer and a person. Thanks for sharing your talents, advice, trust and time. I am grateful for the chance to have worked with you, learned from you, and called you a friend.

Daniel Goldman

February 22, 2011

Matt, we shared so many memories my brain can't hold them all. You and your family were a huge part of my childhood and nothing can take that away. I will remember you as a witty, humble, confident, smart and caring friend. You and your family will always be in my prayers.

Bonnie Weisburd-Waldes

February 22, 2011

Matthew, it was an honor to teach you when you were a little boy! I know you gave joy to those who knew you! R.I.P. May God hold you in the palm of His hand!!!

Happy Childhood Memories, 1978

Sharon Hanson

February 22, 2011

David, a man who knew the heart of God, bared his soul before the LORD, "You have taken account of my wanderings; Put my tears in Your bottle. Are they not in Your book?" (Psalm 56:8) God knows each of our paths through life and He knows our heartaches, teardrop by teardrop. May God give you peace as He tenderly lifts you in His eternal arms of comfort.

Joel Weisberg

February 22, 2011

May his memory be for a blessing.

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