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Claire Gilligan Tremblay
November 3, 2025
I met Michele when I moved to Arlington, MA my sophomore year of high school. We quickly became good friends and confidantes. We spent much time together working on the yearbook, in the Civil Rights Club, and just as friends. I visited Michele once at Bryn Mawr and saw that she still stood out in this intellectually elite group.
I lost touch with Michele these last 10 years, but her passing is still a major loss.
She, and her family are in my heart.
Tom Spengler
October 16, 2025
Michele and I sat next to each other in Spanish class at Arlington high school (MA). Our senses of humors matched well and the teacher gave me much better grades that I deserved simply because I was friend with the star student in the class.
I haven´t seen her in 55 years but I still remember her as one of the special persons I have met in my life.
Toby Lerner
June 3, 2025
Wickedly smart, faithful friend. Her incandescent self will be sorely missed.
Claire Kirch
February 3, 2025
I was a paralegal, 1986-1988, at Toll Ebby & Gough which became Toll Ebby & Langer and I adored Michele and always wished I could be as elegant as she was. She was smart and classy and fun. I remember she did not hire me, but the woman she hired turned it down, and she called me to say I was her second choice and when could I start, and I was like "Monday morning" because I hated the job I had at the time so much. It was so wonderful to work with other Bryn Mawr alumnae (Michele and Teresa Wallace). I felt enveloped in a cocoon of safety. Michele told me when she hired me that I was to work there for two years and then I was to move on to law school or grad school -- even though, she added, she thought I'd be happiest in book publishing. 35 years later... and I've worked in publishing since 1995 after ditching grad school ... she was right. Rest in peace, Michele, I will always love you for being one of the best, if not THE best, bosses I've ever had.
Vic Bass
December 16, 2024
Michelle was a friend during law school and I followed her career through other friends. Not just really smart, but a really nice person. This is sad news indeed!
steven Fisher
December 11, 2024
I was fortunate enough to attend law school at U of C with Michele. She was a wonderful conversationalist and had a sparkling personality. She is missed. Steven Fisher
Thomas Tarantino
November 27, 2024
Dear Alan and Lara,
I remember holding Michele's hand so tight while the Jury announced the Verdict in the Stainton
Lawsuit. My whole life was on the line and she was there for me.
And I remember her screaming with laughter as she showed me a photo of Lara having - or pretending
to have - her tongue stuck on a frozen parking meter pole.
You lost her so many years ago and I could not bear to visit...I didn't want to lose her, too.
Love, Tom Tarantino
Caterina Borgna Pignatti, Verona
November 26, 2024
Michele was a wonderful person and knowing that she´s passed away makes me very sad. When I think of her (and I think of her often) I see her laughing with enthusiasm about many many things. And smiling with disdain about many others. The obituary describes her so well, her intelligence, her charm, her insatiable curiosity. She liked Italy, Italian fashion, and the Italian language and in the past years, before her cruel disease took over her, we frequently wrote to each other, she correcting my English and I her Italian (which didn´t need much correction because even in this field she was skilled and proficient). She was my counsellor in the choice of books and her explanations of English sayings were precious. One of the best presents I have ever received was the subscription to the New Yorker that she made for me many years in a row. In addition to our views of the world, we shared recipes, traveling ideas, and, sadly, made projects for the future of our two couples together. I hope that her wonderful loving husband, her daughter, and sister will find peace after many difficult years, relishing in the memories of the special woman that Michele has been in their life and in the lives of all of us who had the privilege of being her friends.
Jamal Miller
November 26, 2024
She was always so nice to my sister and I. My mother worked at the firm as a secretary and we honestly grew up there. I´m so sad to hear about her passing. May God grant comfort and serenity to her loved ones.
Carol Linden
November 25, 2024
I was a college dorm-mate of Miche´s, and we were part of a small, tight group of friends. I will never forget her sharp intelligence, fiendish sense of humor, and her signature blazing auburn hair. She freely shared information about her background and circumstances, and it always seemed so amazing that she had the internal resources to surmount them. I remember every year around the end of year holiday sales, she would make a tactical strike on the high end department stores, like Saks, and treat herself to deeply discounted fashion. Michele was one of a kind. My deepest sympathies to her family, colleagues, and friends.
Rich Gorelick
November 24, 2024
Michele represented my company on a series of matters a few decades ago. She was a wonderful lawyer, with the ability to see the big picture, get quickly to the heart of the matter and speak effectively to management about the realities of the cases. She did a great job for us. Even more significantly, she was an amazing person - well-rounded, kind and fascinating to talk with. The world lost someone who set high standards, made the people around her better and made her communities better places.
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