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Patricia Stroud Gorely, 69, of Raleigh, NC passed away peacefully on November 16, 2015, surrounded by her loving family and friends.
Born in Quantico, VA, the daughter of a U.S. Marine, Pat grew up in many locations including Cuba, Hawaii, California, and North Carolina. She graduated from White Oak High School in Jacksonville, NC and received her business degree from Hardbarger Business College in Raleigh. For many years, she worked at Howard/Merrell Advertising before retiring. Pat was a world traveler with her husband John E. Gorely and they shared a particular fondness for the American Southwest.
Pat was known and admired for her many creative passions. Whether it was her green thumb in her backyard secret garden, her masterful culinary skills in the kitchen or performing with Sassy Classic Dance Troupe, Pat was boundlessly creative. She started her own jewelry company, Divas & Dragonflies, and her uniquely crafted jewelry was showcased in many galleries and art shows.
More than anything else, Pat will be remembered as a generous spirit to all she knew. Pat was loved by so many, including her FBI circle of friends and best friend of over 50 years, Susan Collins Dail.
Pat is preceded in death by her parents, Luther Phillip Stroud Sr. and Florence Maguire Stroud. She is survived by her husband of 19 years, John E. Gorely; her brother, Phillip Stroud Jr. and his wife Lisa; her sister, Penny Stroud; her step-daughters, Jen Bauldree and Amy Gorely; her sons-in-law, Mike Bauldree and John Bemis; her grandchildren, Caroline, Matthew, and Rose; and many beloved nieces, nephews, grand-nieces, and grand-nephews.
A service will be held at 2 p.m. on Friday, November 20 at Renaissance Funeral Home in Raleigh, with a time of visitation following the service. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Transitions Life Care of Raleigh (250 Hospice Circle, Raleigh NC 27607) or Carolina Poodle Rescue (6705 Union Highway, Pacolet, SC 29372).
Condolences can be sent to RFHR.com.
The family extends a heartfelt thank you to the staff at Transitions Life Care for their loving care.
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Penny, you now have a special Guardian Angel looking över you. So sorry för your loss Penny and family. Love from your family from the Senior Center, Norma, Charlotte, Relena, Gracie, Diane, Carol, Mary and Pat. You are in our thoughts Penny.
Carol Moore
November 19, 2015
I pray for peace and blessings for her family and friends and those who were fortunate enough to know her. I pray that your memories of her are filled with blessings and sweet times spent with her...May her legacy filter down to many generations, and may the mention of her name and the memories of her fill your hearts with joy in the months and years to come...
Nick Marica
November 19, 2015
Dear Family,
We are so very sorry for your loss. Pat was a very special person to me as my former step-mom and helped raise me for many years. She was a great encourager as well as a great listener. She took a great interest in the lives of others.
We will continue to pray that the Lord will comfort and guide you as only Jesus Christ can.
In Christ's Love and Service,
Pastor Bob Page and Family
Concord, N.C.
Pastor Bob Page
November 18, 2015
So sorry to hear about Pat. She was a beautiful and talented woman in so many ways. My thoughts and prayers are with John and her family.
Deb Bryant
November 18, 2015
Amy, John, Rosie, Jen, John, and all the rest of Pat's loved ones - she sounds like a remarkable woman. I know she will be missed. Thinking of you all.
Jenn Weaver
November 18, 2015
Pat was a lovely person. All of the beautifully creative products she made will hold extra poignancy now and continue to bear witness to her spark.
Margaret Henderson
November 18, 2015
Pat will be missed by many people, she was a great lady and friend. I was so sad to hear the news and feel terrible that I hadn't seen her in a long time. We used to work together at Howard, Merrell & Partners and remained friends after all these years. She would light up the room when she came in and made everyone feel welcome and appreciated! Love you Pat
Laura Gross
November 18, 2015
We shared so many wonderful memories but spending time in Pats secret garden outdoor room was like being in another world. I love you Pat!
Gail Uzzell
November 18, 2015
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