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Brian Patterson Obituary

Brian A. Patterson, 68, of South Windsor, beloved husband and father, died Monday, July 27, at home surrounded by family, after a long and courageous battle with ill health.

He was born Nov. 6, 1951, in Buffalo, New York, son of the late Shirley A. and Ralph G. Patterson. He graduated from Brandywine High School in Wilmington, Delaware, then from Alfred University in 1974 with a B.A. in physics and a B.S. in chemistry. He also held an M.S .in molecular genetics from the University of Connecticut. He authored research papers in both neuropharmacology and materials science. Brian retired due to ill health in 2009, having last been employed by Computer Sciences Corporation in East Hartford as an IT security consultant.

Brian is survived by his beloved wife Janet S. Patterson; daughter Sarah, 9, both of South Windsor; his son Ted (Edward) Cantin Jr. and wife, Chelsea Chasse, both of Rochester New Hampshire, and daughter Ariana, 20. He also leaves his uncle Roger Ransom; and cousin Ellen Cochren and Ellen's children Drew and Amy, all in Ontario, Canada; brother-in-law David Harrison of Portsmouth, New Hampshire; sister-in-law Leslie Harrison of Baltimore Maryland; and many friends and extended family who enjoyed his intelligence, curiosity, and passion for justice.

Brian devoted many hours to volunteer work, including the Strawbridge Condominium community, Habitat for Humanity, the Shared Parenting Council of CT, and many other worthy causes. Before his health declined, Brian was an avid skier who also enjoyed hiking and nature, and who took his wife-to-be on a first date at a butterfly sanctuary. The family enjoyed restaurants and cultural activities in the greater Hartford area, including special occasions and date nights at Mill on the River. An avid reader and deep thinker, Brian enjoyed conversation and debate with friends and acquaintances. He had a never-extinguished thirst for knowledge and understanding of nature and science, and was a fan of the Rachel Maddow show.

In accordance with Brian's wishes, a memorial and celebration of life will be held at a later date.

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests memorial donations to Alfred University, attention Amy Jacobson at [email protected] in his memory.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal Inquirer from Aug. 15 to Aug. 19, 2020.

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Bev and Jim

August 21, 2020

We are so sorry to hear about Brian’s passing. Jim and I will always remember his kindness, his intelligence, and his devotion to his family and all his children.

Karen Carlson

August 20, 2020

Brian was a dear friend, my best friend in high school. He was full of ideas and unconventional thinking that was delightful and inspiring. He was smart and introspective, but most of all he was a person with good values and a kind heart. He will always be with me in my heart.

Ian Conroy

August 17, 2020

What a wonderful and touching person. literally. couldn’t keep his hands off them kids. Jared Fogle would b proud

John M Clapp

August 17, 2020

He was dedicated to the shared parenting movement for many years. His wise professional advice was much appreciated.

Katy Ihde

August 15, 2020

Played with him on Gravers Lane! I am very sorry to hear of his passing. He was a very nice person!

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