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James Farrell Obituary
He was a devoted man of faith and head over heels in love with his wife of 41 years, Margaret. He touched so many lives through his selfless example. Born and raised on Long Island, Jim attended Canisius College in Buffalo, New York, and later earned his Master's degree in education at Adelphi University. Jim became a teacher at St. Thomas the Apostle School, in West Hempstead, New York, where he later met his wife. They married in 1976, and started a wonderful life together. Jim eventually took a job with Aetna (now Travelers), transferred his growing family to Connecticut, and remained there, beloved by his co-workers, for the rest of his career.
Everyone who knew Jim loved him. His family meant everything to him, his love and support for his children was unwavering, and as a Pop Pop, he could always be found playing and being silly with his grandkids. He spent countless hours volunteering and participating at St. Bernard's Parish. He was a lector, youth group leader, school board member, altar server, and SCC member, to name some. He also loved sports and coached both soccer and little league baseball in Rockville for many years. Jim loved to play, watch, and talk about golf and was known for remembering every single course he ever played. Throughout his life, he never gave up on the New York Mets and Jets, found a kinship with the music of Billy Joel, and his sarcastic wit would bring a smile to anyone's face.
He is survived by his wife, Margaret; his daughter, Meg and her husband, Kevin; his son, Mark and his wife, Sarah; his grandchildren, Jacob, Fisher, and Charlie; his brothers and sisters; his nieces and nephews; his grand-nieces and nephews; and hundreds of other people whose lives he touched immeasurably. His legacy will live on forever.
His family will receive friends today, Monday, April 9, from 4 to 8 p.m. at Ladd-Turkington & Carmon Funeral Home, 551 Talcottville Road, Vernon.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at St. Bernard Church in Rockville Tuesday, April 10, at 11 a.m. Friends are invited to go directly to the church. Burial will follow in St. Bernard Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Pancreatic Cancer Action Network or the Cornerstone Foundation in Rockville.
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Memories and Condolences
for James Farrell
Linda DeYoung
March 31, 2025
Margaret, I am sending positive thoughts and memories to you today. The hard day comes every year (and every day). Jim was a wonderful person. You were blessed to find each other!! Love, Linda
linda deyoung
March 31, 2023
Margaret, my thoughts are with you today. I'm sending a hug to your and your family. We move forward but We never forget, do we? Love, Linda
Jay Kopp
August 3, 2018
I came to know Jim as an agent for Travelers working with him for a number of years. He was great to work with! . I always remember being his guest at the Travelers Championship. Always a heart felt kind word with a great big smile. I just learned of his passing. Jim, You will be missed. I hope all the tears will turn to smiles when you think of him.
Jay Kopp
Barb Reid
April 16, 2018
While working with Margaret I had the opportunity to see Jim and Margaret at various school functions and as he constantly would help her in setting up her room at the beginning of each school year. They always enjoyed being together no matter what they were doing, which is a true gift in a relationship. I remember shopping at Christopher & Banks one day and in comes Jim shopping for Margaret. He didn't know I was in the store but it was wonderful watching him with the clerk finding just the "perfect" outfit for a gift for Margaret. You had a very "special" bond and you were truly blessed to have found such a great partner. May your memories make this very sad time a little easier. Peace Margaret.
Jackie
April 9, 2018
My deepest sympathies to your family. I knew Mr. Farrell as a youth group leader 24 years ago & he was such a sweet and funny guy. Many prayers sent your way.
Bridget Thurston
April 9, 2018
Dear Margaret,
I am so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Although I knew him for a short time, he certainly touched my heart. A man of wonderful courage and great faith. Please know you and your family are immersed in my prayers. I'm confident that Jim had a straight path to heaven.
with love and great sympathy,
Bridget
Barbara Farrell-Chilmonik
April 9, 2018
Farrell Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Sending prayers and hugs your way.
Brian McAndrew
April 8, 2018
To Margaret and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Farrell family during this difficult time. Jim was a dear friend and co-worker for many years. As a young professional just beginning a career at the Aetna, Jim became a trusted friend and guiding mentor for me for over thirty years. During that time, I will forever remember Jim's love for his family, sympathetic ear, positive thoughts, and enduring personality. My fondest memories of Jim will be of our countless rounds of golf which were more of a celebration of our love for the game and an opportunity for him to share stories of his family, in particular of Mark's latest quest for par, than our own attempt at mastering the game. Jim's faith and quick wit will be a lasting memory of a friend taken from us too soon. God bless you Jim, rest in peace.
Elly Swan
April 8, 2018
My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. God Bless!
April 8, 2018
Margaret and Family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Although I only knew Jim from our moving/construction at St Bridget School, he was the most helpful, considerate and warming person I knew.
Bill Curtis
St Bridget School Board
Linda DeYoung
April 8, 2018
Margaret and Family,
We were so sad to hear this morning of Jim's passing. It seems like a short time ago that Jim was beaming about his milestone pin and sharing his positive thoughts about going through difficult times and coming out victorious on the other side. Well, he has done that!! Victorious in the Lord! We will miss him. God Bless!! xoxoxo
Kathy Kalos
April 8, 2018
So long neighbor. We will miss you. Rest easy my friend.
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