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Jason Bates Obituary
Jason was raised in Bolton, and was a graduate of Bolton High School, Class of 1997. After graduating high school he attended Florida Southern College on a baseball scholarship. He received his bachelor of science in marketing and finance from Eastern Connecticut State University. Jason was an avid sports fan and played baseball throughout his life. He played for Bolton High School, Manchester Legion, South Windsor, and East Hartford. He also played on softball leagues in Bolton, Tolland, and Hartford. Jason was a diehard New York Mets and New York Giants fan. He also had a passion for poker, camping, and music, especially Pearl Jam and Country. Jason graduated from the Hartford Police Academy in October 2007. He loved his job and each and every fellow officer that he served with. He truly enjoyed police work and the camaraderie of the Hartford Police Department.
Jason appreciated the love and support he received from the Hartford Police Department throughout his battle with cancer. His commitment to protect and serve carried into his family and friends.
He is survived by, sadly missed, and will forever be in the hearts of mother, Donna Bradford; stepfather, Lane Bradford; brother, Ed Bates; sister-in-law, Debbie Bates; brother, Lane Bradford; father, Edward Bates; and half brother, James Bates. He is also survived by: grandparents, Rudy and Trudy Schuster "Grammy and Opa," Mildred Shinault "Nana," and Edward Bates. He also leaves behind many loving aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends.
The family extends its sincere gratitude to the staff at Hartford Hospital oncology, Dana Farber, Brigham and Women's transplant and MICU teams, and the Hartford Police Department.
Friends may call at the Ahern Funeral Home, 180 Farmington Ave., Hartford, on Monday, Aug. 23, from 3 to 7 p.m.
Funeral procession from the Ahern Funeral Home will be Tuesday, Aug. 24, at 9 a.m., followed by a Mass of Christian Burial in the Cathedral of St. Joseph, Hartford, at 10 a.m. Burial will be in Bolton Center Cemetery, 32 Hebron Road, Bolton.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Officer Bates' name may be made to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, Donor Services, P.O. Box 4072, Pittsfield, MA 01202 (LLS.com), or Hartford Police Benevolent Association, c/o the Hartford Police Department, 50 Jennings Road, Hartford, CT 06120.
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Memories and Condolences
for Jason Bates
Dad
August 19, 2012
Always in our hearts and thoughts.
Erica Williams
August 21, 2011
I <3 U J
Shawn Lucco
February 13, 2011
Jason was a fine man and follow officer. I'm sorry to hear of his passing.
karen
September 21, 2010
May you know that Jason is now an angel in heaven watching over you. When you see a twinkling star, it is he, smiling from afar! May God Bless You, and help you through this tough time.
September 1, 2010
Dear Donna and Family: I just found this guest book on line: what wonderful memories everyone has of Jason--he truly did touch so many people in such a meaningful way. Our sympathy to everyone--family and friends.
Love,
Cousin Bertha and Joe from Ma.
Monica Van Tassel
August 29, 2010
I was a friend of Jason's at Florida Southern. I was shocked and saddened by the news. I pray your family finds solace in God's peace during this time of despair and sadness.
Josh Atchley
August 28, 2010
Just this week my five year old son asked about the fraternity paddle that my little brother gave me. Now today I find out he has passed on. This world just lost a whole lot of heart. To my little brother, through the blood, sweat, and now the tears, we love you brother. Phi Phi
Luke Webb
August 26, 2010
Our love and condolaences go to Jason's family and thoughts will always be with him. He was an incredible brother and someone that we can all aspire to be like. Long-live the life and memory of Readbeard.
Frances Hirschkowitz
August 26, 2010
Today I learned of your passing from your mom, and my heart aches with sadness. Your family has an inner strength and wonderful memories to help them go on. We will miss you! The Hirschkowitz family
Jaclyn Witmer
August 26, 2010
I'm so sorry to learn of this loss. Jason was a great guy and a wonderful friend. My thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Sal Paone
August 25, 2010
"Redbeard", you'll be missed. A great guy who was taken way too soon. My prayers are with your family during this sad time.
Igor Pietersz
August 25, 2010
My sincere condolences to Jason's famly and loved ones. I remember Redbeard as a great frat brother, loyal to a fault and there for you regardless of the time, place, or situation. Jason...may you rest in peace....in phi phi k a
Chad Bickford
August 25, 2010
Rest in Peace Jason, My heart goes out to your family. PhiPhiKA Chad
Cindy Cerrigione
August 24, 2010
Cancer is such a horrible illness, even when a person has lived a full, complete life; to lose someone so young, with their whole adult life in front of them...it is such a terrible thing! Jason's family and friends continue to be in my prayers. I pray for peace for all of you.
August 24, 2010
RIP Jason "Red Beard" Bates from your brothers of Pi Kappa Alpha and FSC
Greg "Woody" Novak
August 24, 2010
Redbeard. I don't know what to say. I am in Shock. I guess it is good that the only things I can think of right now are all the fun times / Horrible times we had together as pledges. Brother, you will be missed.
Phi Phi K A out.
Woody
Cathy Goodrow Hartley
August 24, 2010
I am so sorry for the loss of Jason. I did not know him, but in addition to my brother (Tom Goodrow) being a Hartford policeman for many years, I know how hard this has been on my best friend (Ava) and her daughter, Christina. May Jason enjoy rest in God's loving arms, eternally, and may you all feel the peace of love that everyone is pouring out to you now.
August 24, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to the Bates family. You are in our thoughts and prayers during these difficult days. Thank you for including Sara into your family during Jason's illness. Jason's memories will live on through his family, friends and co-workers.
The Tefft-Judson family, Groton CT
August 24, 2010
RIP Redbeard.. Keep watch over your FSC brothers, family & friends.
August 24, 2010
Donna,
Your son will always be remembered in everyones heart he touched. You and your family are in our thoughts.
Love,
Sandy & Paul Smith
Carlos Montanez
August 24, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the Bates family and friends during this time of grief . My prayers will be with you during this difficult time. Just know that Jason is in a better place and will be watching over us. Jason will truly be missed at H.P.D he was a great co-worker and wonderful officer. Rest In Peace Jason you will truly be missed.
August 24, 2010
A White feather,a smooth gray stone, a sprig of dried lavender...sweet reminders to give wings to your dreams,to remain calm and quiet during storms, to believe nothing beautiful ever dies but only changes the way it exists.
August 24, 2010
Jay, I was glad to know you. You made a positive impact on my life and many others.
August 24, 2010
today your journey will be complete. may your heavy hearts begin to heal with cherished memories. rest in peace jason. rock the heavens 2010
Amy McMullin
August 23, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with Jason's family. He was a great friend and will be deeply missed. Love to you Jason. We will laugh together again one day.
Sarah Scott
August 23, 2010
Wow...I am in shock!! I went to FSC with Jason and what a great guy he was! You are all in my prayers and he will be missed! God bless you!
Celia & George McAuley
August 23, 2010
Our deepest sympathy to Jason's family and friends. May your memories of times of love and laughter with Jason help you through the difficult times and soon bring you comfort. He meant a great deal to Sara in the short time they knew each other. Thank you for making her feel a part of your family these past few months. Our prayers are with you.
Jason, may you rest in peace.
August 23, 2010
My deepest sympathies to the Bates family. God bless you, Jason, and may God carry you on your journey home. You will be missed by the friends and family who loved you. You were a wonderful person, who will never ever be forgotten. You have impacted so many people...that kind of light within a person, never can be extinguished. Rest in peace
Erin Sanford
August 23, 2010
My heart goes out to the many friends and family members Jason leaves behind. My prayers are with you at this time- God Bless.
ed stawecki
August 23, 2010
To all of Jason's family,
As a retired officer 30 years ago ,I still feel the pain of a brother leaving us , and going up to Jesus in heaven. May the whole family find peace in knowing Jason is now with Jesus.
August 23, 2010
Donna and family,
Our prayers are with you and your family at such a difficult time.
The Dougans
August 23, 2010
Donna and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time of deep sadness.
The Dougans
August 23, 2010
Donna,
Bob, Andrew, Jessica & I were so saddened to hear of Jason's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
The Lewis family
August 23, 2010
Sending warm thoughts and heartfelt prayers out to the family and friends of Jason, especially our girl Sara. May he rest in peace until you all meet again.
To the men and women of the HPD- Please know that your constant support was admired and appreciated, even from afar, even by those not directly affected. Amazing.
August 23, 2010
My thoughts and prayers are with your family during your time of sorrow. Rest in peace Jason.
rebecca ortiz
August 23, 2010
We are so sorry to hear of Jason passing away, I met him a few times . He Worked with my husband in the Hartford Police Department & didn't take long for them to become very close friends. My depest heartfelt sympathies to everyone in your family at this time !
Alice & Ken Gallipo
August 23, 2010
Eddie, Debbie, Donna and Family,
Remembering you and Jason in our minds and in our hearts. Sending you thoughts of peace and courage.
Alice & Ken Gallipo
August 23, 2010
I am greatly saddened to hear of your loss. May God Bless and keep you all during this very difficult time.
Christina D'Errico
Tachkia Bethune
August 23, 2010
So sorry for your lost, my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Christine Cunningham
August 23, 2010
Donna,
May you find comfort in the treasured memories you hold closest to your heart. May you find peace and comfort in knowing that you are thought about and loved. My deepest heartfelt sympathies to your entire family.
Shantay Canada
August 23, 2010
Jason, you were a wonderful person to know. Love Shantay
Uconn Game
Kelly Caneen
August 23, 2010
Eric McVeigh
August 23, 2010
We had many good times growing up in the same neighborhood. Many home run derby's at Indian Notch. Many great times together and many great memories. Rest In Peace Jason, you will always be remembered.
Kara Santini
August 23, 2010
Donna and family:
I am so very sorry to hear of Jasons passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Stay strong and keep all the happy memories close to your heart.
Tony Orsini
August 23, 2010
My heart sunk when I learned of your loss. Jason will never be forgotten. My sincere sympathy to his family & friends.
Damien Bilotto
August 23, 2010
Jason it was truly an honor to have known you. There are no words to express the sadness that we all now share. May you Rest In Peace.
August 23, 2010
Rest in Peace,our prayers are with you and your family.
Pete Matarangas
Ret. Hartford Police Department
August 22, 2010
Jason, you are a true hero - and now your pain is gone. You are at peace.
Otto Dowd
August 22, 2010
Jason will be truly missed by his fellow officers of the Hartford Police Department. It was my honor to have know him, and to have worked with him. Sleep well my friend, until we meet again.
Trilla Sue Bradford Rehder
August 22, 2010
Tom, Donna, Lane, Eddie & Debbie;
My heart breaks for you. Please know that you and Jason are in my thoughts and prayers. Love to all until I see you.
Joe D
August 22, 2010
Thank you for your time spent trying to keep the streets of our capital safe. I'm sure you will always stay in the hearts of those currently doing the job you loved. RiP Jason, sad to see you go at such a young age.....
Gigi Chalou
August 22, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Trevor Quail
August 22, 2010
My condolences to the entire family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Hpd Psdc dispatcher xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
August 22, 2010
woooooooorahhhhhhhhh H74 come in, H74 officer bates come in..... Jason, it was a pleasure working with you. May you enjoy the heavens and keep all around you safe. H74 OFFICER JASON BATES your OFFLINE GOODNIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Rest In Peace
August 22, 2010
Mr.& Mrs.Bradford and Lane,
We are so sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Bob and Cathy McKeown
Forever in my heart
Kelly Caneen
August 22, 2010
I will always remember the times we shared together Jason. You always lightened up my days just by being my friend. You will forever be in my heart. Donna, Eddie and family. I am so sorry for your loss. Jason was a wonderful friend and we will never forget him.
Sarah Kuszek
August 22, 2010
Jason was blessed to have such a dedicated, loving and compassionate family surrounding him at all times. From all the stories you shared with us, it sounds like Jason was an amazing person, loved by all, and will surely be missed. Myself, and many of the other nurses from Brigham and Women's Hospital, offer our condolences to your family.
Barbara Janice
August 22, 2010
Donna, Ed, Eddie, Debbie, Lane and Brad, I am so sorry you all have to go through this. Jason has touched so many people and will always hold a special place in my heart. Love and Prayers to you all.
Barb Janice
Stephanie & Matt Bates
August 22, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with Jason's family and friends and fellow officers. He was a wonderful young man and will be greatly missed by all who knew him.
All our love and prayers...
August 22, 2010
To Jay, may you rest in eternal peace.
To Jay's family, many thoughts and prayers are with you. He will never be forgotten.
cindy caneen
August 22, 2010
Jason, I only hung out with you a few times, but had a blast everytime, It makes me sad that someone so young has to leave this world before their time. I will always remember you.
Forever in my heart
Kelly Caneen
August 22, 2010
I will always remember the good times with Jason. I am so sorry for your loss Donna, Eddie, and family. He is going to make angels smile now...because he was always so good at bringing a smile to our faces. He will truely be missed.
Vicky Cerrigione Marinak
August 22, 2010
Donna, Brad, Eddie, Debbie, and Lane,
There are no words to express how my heart aches for your sadness. Jason was such an important part of my life, and I know he touched the lives of countless others. He will never be forgotten, and he will always be loved. You are in my prayers always.
sarrah paternostro
August 22, 2010
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
james campbell
August 22, 2010
so sad jason was a great guy
Denise Maraio
August 22, 2010
Jason, you will be missed by many! I truly enjoyed our talks about the Giants, and baseball (even though you were a Mets fan) haha... I hope the little teddy bear I gave you some peace and solace when you were alone. May God bless you above and watch over you family. You are now a Angel at peace...All my love, Denise Maraio xox
Jennifer Smyth
August 22, 2010
My deepest sympathy to the entire family. My thoughts & prayers are with you during this time.
Cicero Paul
August 22, 2010
H74 going offline on Tuesday for the last time. Miss you, buddy.
Daniel Akho
August 22, 2010
May He Rest In Peace.May God welcome him warmly and cheerfully in His Kingdom. Amen.
Nancy & Greg Shanahan
August 22, 2010
Eddie and Debbie and family,
I am so sorry about Jason. Please let me know if I can do anything. Jason was very lucky to have such a wonderful family.
Nancy Palumbo
August 22, 2010
To Jason's family - we are so sorry to hear about Jason. He was friends with our daughters since high school in Bolton. Jason, God Bless You.
Shannon & Bob Ouellette
August 22, 2010
Jason, a new star shining bright above us. Rest in peace, to your family and friends cherish the warmth of the good times. Sorry for your loss. Rock the heavens Jason!!!
Donna Rodriguez
August 22, 2010
Our deepest sympathies to Jason's family. He will be missed terribly by all of us who had the chance to particiate in his care while at The Helen & Harry Gray Cancer Center in Hartford Hospital.
August 22, 2010
To all of Jay's family:
Words can not express the sadness we feel at the loss of Jay. He was a great guy! Even if only for a short time, we were honored to have him as part of our family. Our prayers are with you at this time.
Mike and Maureen Brodeur & family
Cynthia Watts
August 22, 2010
Eddie and Debbie,
I am sorry to hear of the loss of Jason. The support and love you gave him throughout his illness helped make his journey peaceful. I am sorry I cannot be there for you during this time but my thought and prayers will be.
Dan Gasparino
August 22, 2010
Sending thoughts and prayers to Sara and the Bates/Bradford family.
August 22, 2010
I didn't know Jason, but reading this has broken my heart this morning. He sounds like such a wonderful guy with his whole life ahead of him. I'm so, so sorry for your loss. I lost a dear friend to leukemia in high school 16-years ago and you just can't understand it. Thank you for Jason's service in the Hartford Police Department. I'm so sorry.
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