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Lewis B. Rome

1933 - 2015

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1933

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2015

Lewis Rome Obituary

Lewis B. Rome, attorney, former mayor of Bloomfield, state senate leader, gubernatorial candidate, and chairman of the University of Connecticut Board of Trustees during an exceptional period of UConn's growth, died July 1, 2015, at the age of 81, after a long illness.

Rome's wife Kristine (Payne) Rome predeceased him in 2011. He is survived by his brother, Nathan Rome, better known as Scott and sister-in-law Judith, of Bloomfield; and by sisters-in-law Helga Rome of Bloomfield and Nancy Rome of Shaker Heights, Ohio; and Kris's family, Annie, Heidi, Lloyd, and cousin George. He is also survived by his former wife, Ann Nicolle Rome, of Bloomfield; and their four children, David and wife, Stacy of West Hartford, Deborah Szabo and husband, Ronald of West Hartford; Richard and wife, Joanne of Potomac, Maryland, Thomas of New York and Hartford; daughters-in-law, Florence Rome and Sadani Rome; and his step-daughter, Meghan and husband, Chad Hill of Osterville, Massachusetts. He was predeceased by his siblings; Shirley, George, Merrill, Leonard, Janice (Shayni), and Ilene; and by a granddaughter, Samantha. A generous family man with a lifelong penchant for wit and humor, Rome is also survived by 13 grandchildren; and an extended family of cousins, nieces, nephews and all of their children and grandchildren, too numerous to list here, but who have all known him closely and grown up with his encouragement and teasing. He will always be "Pop" to grandchildren Daniel and Carrie Szabo, Mohamed Seck, Rachel Trapp, Channell and Edgar Hannibal, Karim Rome, John, Sam, and Max Rome, Isabelle Rome, and Colt and Haven Hill.

Rome's tireless devotion to people, causes and institutions that he cared deeply about and was always looking to help brought many other loved and cherished ones into the category of friends and family, including so many colleagues at Rome McGuigan, P.C., including his goddaughter, Meghan Sweeney, and at earlier legal partnerships and at the government relations firm he founded and built with other former legislators, Robert Frankel, James Kennelly and Peter Smith, now Rome, Smith and Lutz. Spanning more than five decades, Rome's career in law, government, and public service began when he returned to his hometown of Bloomfield after UConn Law School and soon formed his own general practice and the firm Rome and Case. He was inspired to go into politics by Connecticut General Life Insurance Chairman Frazar Wilde's national and international work, but he decided to run himself, when he was denied permission to open a local gym for evening basketball. He was first elected to the Bloomfield Town Council in 1970.

Born Sept. 12, 1933, in Hartford, the seventh of eight children, and the fifth son, of Albert and Celia (Sabol) Rome, he attended Frank A. Brackett Northeast School in Hartford and later Blue Hills School in Bloomfield and Bloomfield High School, graduating in the Class of 1950. He had originally intended to join the Navy after high school, and his decision to enroll at UConn was last minute. He earned his B.A. from UConn in 1954 and his L.L.B. in 1957. Rome's leadership as Bloomfield's mayor in the turbulent environment of 1965-1969 anchored that community's achievements as a model for racial harmony. The town was honored as an All-America City in 1970. As Bloomfield's mayor he was also instrumental in the development of the Capital Region Council of Governments (CRCOG), an organization started around his dining room table, with a regional approach to government solutions and collaboration across town lines. Elected to the Connecticut State Senate in 1970, he served as legislative liaison to Gov. Thomas J. Meskill as a freshman Senator, and was elected Senate Majority Leader by his peers in only his second term. He went on to serve as the Senate Minority Leader in his third and fourth Senate terms and in increasing executive leadership roles nationally with the National Conference of State Legislatures. In 1978, Gov. Ella Grasso heeded Rome's suggestion that the state of Connecticut give greater backing to Connecticut Public Radio and Connecticut Public Television, launching an entirely new dimension for those organizations. Voted by his legislative peers - in a 1978 Connecticut Magazine poll - as "first in integrity," his insistence on open government - including public access to party caucuses - earned Rome national recognition while creating a sharply new image of the way Connecticut's legislature conducted its business. Though he fell shy of winning the governorship in 1982 as the Republican candidate, Rome's spirited campaign against Democratic incumbent William A. O'Neill earned him the editorial endorsement of 59 of Connecticut's top 65 newspapers, and The New York Times, which cited his "vitality and intellect" in its own Oct. 28, 1982, endorsement paired with an endorsement of Mario Cuomo in the New York gubernatorial race. For Rome, there was no political aisle when it came to friends or community needs, and Rome has been a friend, mentor and colleague to many Connecticut attorneys and judges, and to lawmakers on both sides of the political aisle, including Sens. Lieberman, Dodd, and Blumenthal and Congresswoman Nancy L. Johnson, and a number of Connecticut citizens who went on to public service careers in Washington, including high-ranking U.S. Chamber of Commerce official Thomas J. Collamore and others. Following his retirement from electoral politics, Rome applied his energies with no less fervor to the public's business as an extraordinarily committed UConn trustee, and, ultimately, as the UConn Board of Trustees chairman from 1992-1997. As a legislator, Rome had spearheaded the founding of UConn's medical school and later the expansion of the UConn Health Center in Farmington, and he served as chairman of John Dempsey Hospital throughout his years as UConn Board of Trustees chairman. But as fellow UConn trustee William R. Berkley once remarked, the university's main Storrs campus was "Lew Rome's Giverny." It had pride of place in his heart and was at once his emotional refuge and a canvas for the realization of his vision for UConn's future.

In 1995, the trustees, under Rome's guidance and legislative advocacy, unveiled UConn 2000, an ambitious plan for investment in the university's infrastructure. Alongside unprecedented physical growth during Rome's tenure as Board of Trustees chairman, the university posted unassailable gains as a research institution, in the arts, as a national basketball power in both the men's and women's game (to say nothing of the leaps forward in other UConn athletic programs), and, increasingly, it became a first choice for undergraduate study of more and more of the state's most talented homegrown scholars, thanks in part to a Nutmeg Scholarship program that was Rome's brainchild.

Never relinquishing his private legal practice, Rome was longtime counsel to the Mohegan people. Kevin P. Brown, chairman of the Mohegan Tribe, said of Rome's passing, "Lew was a cherished friend and counsel to the Mohegan people. He advised and guided Chief Sturges and the Mohegan Tribal Council through federal recognition, re-establishment of the Tribe's homeland, and development of Mohegan Sun."

The family would like to thank his wonderful caregivers; Becca, Marty, Olivia, Katherine, Bailey, and Ross Hollander who was like a brother to him. He will be missed by his dog Lola and her faithful friends, Margot and Carol.

The family will be holding a private burial service on Sunday, July 5, and a public memorial celebration of Lew Rome's life on Thursday, Aug. 20, at 2 p.m. at the Lewis B. Rome Commons Ballroom, South Campus Complex, at UConn., 626 Gilbert Road Ext. Storrs. Shiva will be observed at 16 High Hill Road, Bloomfield, on Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday at sundown.

The Hebrew Funeral Association of Hartford has charge of arrangements: (860) 224-2337,

hebrewfuneral.com

The family requests that in lieu of flowers donations may be made to the "Samantha Rome Nutmeg Scholarship Fund" at The University of Connecticut, mailing address, UConn. Foundation, 2390 Alumni Drive Unit 3206, Storrs, CT, 06329-3206.

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Published by Journal Inquirer from Jul. 4 to Jul. 8, 2015.

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Richard J Breault

December 23, 2024

Honorable Mr. Lewis Rome
I will forever,be thankful,for your success,in securing my Mother's widow Benefits,from the Government.
When Russel Colton,died,..
Clara H Colton,( now Clara H.Breault),..was never told of available widow benefits.
You SIR reminded,the VA/Gov.,of this oversight,..many years later.
I ,her now only surviving,youngest child.
Thank you.
You corrected,the forgotten Single mother of (5) her due.
Benefits.
I praise your memory Sir !!!
- Mr Richard J Breault
Hartford, Connecticut
Washington,Dc

David Odegard

August 20, 2015

Lew was an effective, principled, and kind man. I was privileged to first know him as a fellow freshman Republican State Senator in 1970. He is prominent in memory as a great and good man - unforgettable when thinking of such.

Denise Merrill

August 20, 2015

I will never forget Lew, the first Chairman of the UConn Board of Trustees who helped me as a new legislator advocate for UConn 2000 and higher education. He was a rather diminutive (short) man with a soft voice who was able to get things accomplished that were nothing short of miraculous. We of the UConn community will all miss him terribly.
Denise Merrill, Secretary of the State

Bruny Lopez

July 18, 2015

Lew was generous, loving and kind and I was blessed and privileged to have known him. He left an indelible mark in my heart forever more.

Caitlin Sweeney

July 8, 2015

Thinking of your family during this difficult time. Lew was an incredible man and friend to our family. He will be remembered forever.

Colleen Junta

July 7, 2015

Dearest Rick: So sorry, again, for your loss. Alex shared a lovely article about your Dad. I can see that the apple did not fall from the tree in your Family. Continue to celebrate the totality of his life, and not just your loss. In Love and Sympathy, Colleen

Lynn Malerba

July 7, 2015

Lew Rome was first and foremost a kind and loving man to everyone who had the good fortune to come into contact with him. He truly has left a mark on this earth and deserves his well earned rest.

Judy Grabowicz

July 7, 2015

It was my privilege to know and work with Lew Rome. When you were with him, he gave you his complete attention and respect. Although he obviously had many demands on his time, he blessed me with his friendship and acts of kindness again and again. The world is so much richer because of his presence. I am so grateful to have know him. Judy Grabowicz

Alexandra deVilliers

July 7, 2015

Rick, Joanne, Jack, Sam, and Max,
Sending our thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. Lew was such an amazing man and it is clear he had an incredible impact on so many, especially his children and grand children. His legacy will live on through all of you and what a beautiful legacy it will be. Sending our love.
With deepest sympathy,
Alex and Jack deVilliers

Sonny & Bob Googins

July 6, 2015

Bob and I have fond memories of working with Lou in University, state government and professional and political matters over the years. A man of principle to be emulated today! Friends and colleagues formerly from Glastonbury CT.

Donna Fillmore Hubbs

July 6, 2015

To the Rome family: As a 15 year old growing up in Bloomfield, I learned that Mayor Rome (Town of Bloomfield)was a kind, caring man. I was in a San Francisco airport back in 1969 flying home by myself. Mayor Rome and his nephew were on the same flight. We had bad thunderstorms during that flight and he asked the flight attendant to find me and bring me forward to first class with them because he was worried about me. I was grateful and amazed. How different CT would be today if he had been elected as governor in 1982. My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you mourn his loss.

Dashefsky Jeff

July 6, 2015

Condolences to the Rome family. Lew was very special and represented all the good in the 06002 and beyond.

July 6, 2015

He was one of the finest individuals I had the privilege to know. He always made you feel important and special, never small, all encouraging. He has s special place in our hearts. May you find comfort with all the love people are sending.

Bruce Collins

July 6, 2015

I was with Lewis Rome only a few times, each time with his family. He was the joyful patriarch, clearly loved and respected by those around him. I knew only vaguely about his professional accomplishments back then. My impression of him was formed solely by seeing him interact with his children and their friends, of which I am one. He was gracious, dignified, slyly humorous, inviting and fun. Later, when I learned of his political career, I was impressed to have met a successful political person without guile. His political legacy in on the public record, but his personal legacy is his children and their lives. His son Rick's commitment to social justice is admirable on its own, but it springs from the life lived by Lewis Rome.

To my friends Rick and Joanne Rome and their children, please accept my condolences upon the death of your father, father-n-law and grandfather.

July 6, 2015

To the Rome Family ,David so sorry for your loss. Lew was a wonderful man. Our family thought the world of him.
Our love and prayers to all.
Ken and Ellen Christiansen

Carol Costello

July 5, 2015

To Tommy Rome and family, My sincerest condolences to you and your family for your loss. Your Dad was an honorable man and an exemplary human being, dedicated and devoted to his family, his town, his state and his profession. Through his relentless sense of committment and tireless efforts he made a difference and left his mark, touching the lives of many people, on a very personal level. I know he will sorely be missed.

Steven Wilson

July 5, 2015

A second father to me, Lew was a man all too rare in our world. Anything he was even remotely involved with became better.....and what he was very involved with improved tremendously: state government, Bloomfield, UCONN, my life and career, and his wonderful family. It was a fantastic blessing to have him part of my life for over 50 years. I trust his spirit is finally again with Kris and they are at peace.

July 5, 2015

Both Jean and I extend our sympathy to the entire Rome family, and will never forget his counsel and concern in a difficult time.
Jean and J John. Simsbury, CT

Judy Simons

July 5, 2015

To the Rome Family,

So sorry for our loss. He was such a wonderful man. May he rest in peace.

Stephen Haynes

July 5, 2015

Thinking of you, Thomas, and of your father.

Elliott & Elissa Donn

July 5, 2015

To all the Rome Family,

Our deepest condolences to you all on the passing of Lew. May his memory be for a blessing, and may he rest in peace.

Jacqui parker

July 5, 2015

To Rick Rome
We are thinking of you and your family at this time of sorrow and loss. We did not know Mr Rome but we do have the privilege of calling one of his greatest legacies our friend. His good and kind hearted son Rick Rome. Our prayers are with you all.
Mr .and Mrs. Garland L Parker Jr.

Linda Silpe

July 4, 2015

Lou was a powerful presence, in a quiet, humble wrapping. He was kind and wise and his friendship was most treasured. Condolences to those whom he loved and those who loved him.
Donald and Linda Silpe

Kip Janes

July 4, 2015

Lew gave me focus which has carried me throughout my life.

Peter Curry

July 4, 2015

My condolences to the Rome family. I am surely among what must be a legion of people who find themselves in sorrow at Lew's passing but in solemn gratitude for the many, many contributions that he rendered to Connecticut in his illustrious life. But I wish to add a special, personal note of appreciation for my association with him in the 1960's. For, from 1963 through 1969, I had the great good fortune of serving as assistant to Bud King, then the fine Town Manager of Bloomfield, during which time Lew was a member of the Town Council and, for four of those years, Mayor. This was my introduction to local government management and Lew's model of wise and principled service and the confidence he kindly showed in me significantly encouraged me to continue in what became a fifty year career in public service. Moreover, his example of conduct in elective office was a cornerstone of my faith in representative government that endured over that half century and continues still. Further, I would be remiss if I were not to express appreciation for Lew's dedication to and leadership of UConn that was so instrumental in creating a fine university. That, too, has a personal angle in that three of my grandchildren are currently students at Storrs.
Pete Curry

Dave DuBosar

July 4, 2015

My condolences to the Rome family.Even though Lou and my Dad where on different sides politically they still remained close friends.He always was there for me when i needed an attorney and i am eternally greatful.He was a great man and will be sorely missed.R.I.P my friend.

Tom Sweeney

July 4, 2015

Lew Rome epitomized what we want from our political figures, government officials, business partners, friends and family. Simply the finest person I have ever known. It was impossible to be in his orbit and not feel his positive force.

Thomas Rome

July 4, 2015

"One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters."

- George Herbert

July 4, 2015

Our condolences to the entire Rome family and extended family for the loss of this wonderful man who has touched the lives of so many with his kindness, love and humor. There will always be a special place in my heart for him. Pauline and Joe Mumford

Thomas Rome

July 4, 2015

"One father is more than a hundred schoolmasters."

- George Herbert

Edward Marth

July 4, 2015

One of the best people I ever knew. An agreement in a handshake was as good as gold. UCONN of today is built on Lew's leadership in rebuilding, always building support among many essential supporters, but the Lew Rome I saw was the quiet but deft prime mover. It was a privilege to know him.

Don Noel

July 4, 2015

In my four decades covering and commenting on Connecticut government and politics, Lew Rome was unique: smart, selfless, gentle but with steel in his spine, dedicated to community. I join in mourning his loss, but also in celebrating the many gifts he shared with us.

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