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Martin Toback Obituary
Born in New York, N.Y., on Nov. 23, 1918, son of the late Charles and Ida (Berman) Toback, he had lived in Newburgh, N.Y., before moving to Vernon in 2004. Dr. Toback received his undergraduate degree from the University of Ohio Northern and his dental degree from the University of Illinois. He practiced dentistry for more than 50 years in Newburgh and was passionate about his profession. He was a member of the Temple Beth Hillel of South Windsor and Temple Beth Jacob in Newburgh, N.Y., and enjoyed golfing, bluegrass and country music, reading, family, and friends. He and his wife wintered in Boca Raton, Fla., and enjoyed time with many dear friends.
In addition to his wife of 64 years, Charlotte, he leaves their children, Marilyn Toback-Reveley, and her husband, William, of South Windsor, Sharon Gardiner of Chelsea, Mass., and Dr. Arnold Toback, and his wife, Dr. Lydia Evans, of Chappaqua, N.Y.; six grandchildren, Dr. Lauren Dudley, and her husband, David Dudley II, of Grantham, N.H., Matthew Reveley of Melrose, Mass., Raleigh Gardiner of Chelsea, Mass., Ariel Toback of Washington, D.C., Isaiah Toback of New York City, N.Y., and Ezra Toback, a student at Dartmouth College, N.H.; a great-grandson, Ethan Dudley; and many nieces, nephews, and caring friends in New York, Florida, and Connecticut. As it became clear that his life was coming to an end, he received visitors with grace, with gratitude, and with good humor. His generosity and wisdom will live on within the hearts of his family and all who knew him.
The funeral will be held Thursday at 1 p.m. at Temple Beth Hillel, 40 Baker Lane, South Windsor. Burial will follow at Beth Hillel Cemetery, South Windsor.
His family will receive friends for services at 5 p.m. at the family's home in Vernon on Thursday, Saturday, and Sunday.
Memorial donations may be made to a charity of the donor's choice or to Temple Beth Hillel, South Windsor, CT 06074.
Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home, South Windsor, has care of arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
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Steve Brechter
January 26, 2012
Charlotte, Marilyn & Family, It was with great sadness that I learned yesterday of Marty's passing. I will forever remember Marty with that big smile on his face, complimenting us after a band set, no matter how good or bad it actually was. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and may the fond memories you have of him help ease the pain you are feeling now. Best, Steve, Christina & Amelia
Samsel & Carmon Funeral Home
January 25, 2012
Our sincere sympathies for your loss.
Marsha & Stan Cohen
January 25, 2012
Sorry to hear of the passing of Marty. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Sorry that we can't be there to comfort you, but know that we are thinking of you and your family.
January 25, 2012
Dear Charlotte and family,as you know we are in Florida.So sorry to hear the passing of Marty.Our prayers are with you see you in May when we return Take care stay healthy Phyllis Saccoccia and Joseph Genova
January 25, 2012
Charlotte, Marilyn and Bill, Arnie and Lydia and Sharon - so very sorry for the passing of Marty. I have some great memories of him through the many years. Thinking of you all during these difficult times. - Marsh D.
Sandy & Shelly Buchansky
January 25, 2012
Aunt Charlotte and family,
My family, Shelly and I send our deepest sympathy for the loss of uncle Marty. I am sure he will be missed dearly. Sorry we did not get to see you both and the family more often. He now is at rest with all of his brothers and sisters and Grandma and Grandpa. Hope we can get to see you and the family soon.
With Love,
Patty Jurgelas
January 25, 2012
Mrs Toback and family,
My deepest sympathy to you and your family in the loss of your
husband. I met the both of you when you were looking at homes.
I have never forgotten you both Please give me a call at 860
4325585 Sincerely Patty Jurgelas
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