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Michael Tocchetti Obituary

Michael Tocchetti, of Dover, Delaware, passed away Wednesday, Sept. 30, 2015, at home. He was 71.

Michael was born Sept. 22, 1944, in Stafford Springs to the late Victor U. Tocchetti and Cecelia Trapp Tocchetti. Michael served in the United States Army during the Vietnam War from 1966 to 1969. He was a licensed funeral director and mortician, and for the next 10 years owned and operated Tocchetti Funeral Home in Stafford Springs with his brother Mark. In 1980, Michael joined the civil service and moved to Frankfurt, Germany, with his family where he worked at Frankfurt mortuary for 13 years, returning to San Antonio, Texas, for a year, and then to the Carson Port Mortuary at the DAFB working as mortuary director during several significant incidents, most notably Flight 77/Pentagon. After his retirement from civil service in 2002, he worked for Torbert Funeral Chapels in Dover.

He was a member of Holy Cross Catholic Church in Dover, Del Vets, USO board member, and the Eagle Creek Golf Club of DAFB. Michael was an avid golfer and enjoyed breakfast with friends at the Hollywood Diner.

He is survived by his loving wife of 45 years, Francine Tocchetti, of Dover; his daughters, Audrey Gaillard, of Dover, and Alison Bergeron, of Stafford Springs; his son, Michael Tocchetti, of Milford, Delaware; his brother Mark Tocchetti of Stafford Springs; and his grandchildren, Tyler and Brooke Gaillard, Emily and Rachel Bergeron, Cory and Greg Tocchetti.

A Mass of Christian burial will be held 10 a.m., Monday, Oct. 5, at Holy Cross Catholic Church, 631 South State St., Dover.

Friends may call from 6 to 8 p.m. Sunday evening, Oct. 4, at Torbert Funeral Chapel South, 1145 E. Lebanon Road (Route 10), Dover. Interment will be in Lakeside Cemetery.

In lieu of flowers the family suggests contributions be made to the Delaware Hospice, 911 S. DuPont Highway, Dover, DE 19901.

Letters of condolences may be sent and guest book signed at

www.torbertfuneral.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Journal Inquirer from Oct. 2 to Oct. 6, 2015.

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Nancy Frassinelli Bilyak

October 3, 2015

Was sorry to hear of Michael's passing - have been praying for him for quite a while - prayers are with the family.

Arlena Coker

October 2, 2015

Was sorry to read of Mr Mike s passing. Met him thur one of my co workers.
He was always smiling and so friendly. Praying for the family
God Bless

Betty Lou Kessler

October 2, 2015

To Michael's family, I am so sorry for your loss. Enjoyed Michael during high school &! Very pleased he made it to our 50 th reunion. Always a nice guy.

October 2, 2015

Fran, Audrey, Alison & Michael
I know it's a sad time in the Tocchetti family you have lost a great guy. The Trapp side of the family has just lost it's 1st cousin which is especially hard for me. Growing up Michael and Mark were always like the big brother I never had. We had such good times growing up. He will always be in my thoughts, gonna miss you Michael. Hope you meet up with your Dad and mine and get to play some golf. Gary

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