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Rebecca Bell Obituary
Services: 2 p.m. today, Metcalf Funeral Home Chapel. Visitation: 8 a.m. until services today. Memorials: ALS "Lou Gehrig's Disease" or fund for grandchildren. Condolences or personal reflections may be left at www.metcalffh.com.
Memories and Condolences
for Rebecca Bell
Derek Aspegren
March 26, 2006
To Becky's family and friends, and all who loved her -
I just wanted to let you know how grateful I was that God allowed my life to cross paths with Becky's. She was such a great person, and I don't think that there is anybody that could possibly say anything negative about her, and even if she did have someone that didn't like her, she could change their mind by talking to them. She was a true friend to many people. I will never forget her. She made me feel like I was apart of her family, even though I wasn't. I knew Becky for about 3 years and 8 months, but it seemed as if I knew her my whole life. She always seemed to be the type of person that could pick you up and make you feel better if you were having a bad day. She also had such a heartwarming laugh that I will always remember, and you could tell it was her, even if you were in another room and couldn't see her, you always knew where she was. I feel as though the world would be such a better place if there were more Beckys around. Unfortunately for those of us that were close to her, God's plan was for her to be by his side to look after her loved ones from above. I hope that Becky will look down on me, and share the highlights of my life, and also to help me through the tough times as well to give me guidance. I want to be able to live a long and fulfilling life, and then when my time comes, we will be re-united up in Heaven. I would have to say my fondest memory of Becky was at the AAA Christmas party from 2003 or 2004, I cant remember which year it was for sure, but she was having such a good time and she waved at some us across the room with your hand on your forehead. Let's just say you were having a good time, and being social like you always were. That still brings a smile to my face when I think of that day.
I will miss you very much Becky, and I know that you will never be far away, as you will be in my memories for as long as I shall live.
Mandy Bell
March 20, 2006
Well Aunt Beck, I never thought I would be doing this; signing your guest book. I know death is part of life, and that we all will go eventually, but you're someone who we thought would always be around. I remember being little and I would spend the night at your house all the time. Even as a teenager and an adult we always had a special bond that was unbreakable; that even death couldn't break, even though it feels like it sometimes. I always think about our long phone conversations, our family gatherings, the quick "smoke breaks" when you were at work, and the birthday cards you never forgot to send. You were and still are my favorite aunt, my second mother and best friend. Although your not here to talk to anymore, I know your still listening. I too still pick up the phone to call you, but am quickly reminded. Hearts will never be practical, until they can be made unbreakable; and you will always have a part of mine with you. I miss you terribly, and I love you more than words could ever say. Christmas, Thanksgiving, Birthdays, and all the days in between will never be the same without you, but I know your there in spirit; laughing and having a good time with us like always. Watch over us and be with us always, and take care of Thaniel until we all meet again.
Linda Van Tassel
March 19, 2006
Kelly -- I remember your Mom when you and Lyle got married. She was so happy -- running around and making sure everything was done right. She was so energetic and happy on that day. I only got to see her a couple of times, but I will always remember her on that day. I'm sure she is proud of you, Kelly, and happy for you and Lyle!
Keri Lazure
March 12, 2006
Matt and Kelley,
We are thinking of you and express our sympathy for the loss of your mother. May you find peace with God at this time. Love always,
Joe, Keri, Caleb, and Aleah Lazure
How you can show support
Always had a smile on!!
March 10, 2006
Rhiannon Scott & Mathew Casmier
March 9, 2006
Mathew and I would like to extend our sympathy to the family. Our thoughts are with the are with you.
Kelly (Nosal) & Lyle Hansen
March 8, 2006
Hi Mom,
I do not even know where to begin. I have tried to write in this guest book every day since you passed away, but I could not come up with the courage to do it. I keep thinking that I am going to wake up from a horrible dream. I keep reaching for the phone to call you, but realize… Well that’s just it I realize the impossible.. I never imagined that I would be in this position. For some reason I knew that I was getting older each year, but imagined that you were still the same age as when I was growing up. I planned on you always being here, to help me through one or more of my traumas, or illnesses. How am I going to be able to do this stuff on my own? Who is gonna help me when I have kids? I just always expected that you were going to be the one there to help me through everything. I’ve been so angry lately. I keep going over everything, over and over again. I keep thinking that if I had been at home in Nebraska, this would have never happened. But I know that I can’t live with what if’s. I know that I need to be strong and carry on your name. To let everyone know what a wonderful mother you were. You always stuck by my side through thick and thin. You were a courageous, beautiful and strong woman. You always gave a helping hand to everyone, even strangers. Even though most of my friends through the years have not met you, they knew all about you. How you would always open your home to everyone, especially during the holidays. I will make sure to carry on your Thanksgiving and Christmas traditions no matter where I am living. I will tell my children what an awesome mom you where and a great grandmother. I will make sure that they will know who you were and what you stood for. I can’t promise you that I will stop crying over you or that I will stop reaching for the phone. But I do promise you that I will take care of myself and will eventually have those grandchildren for you. I know that you are looking down from heaven and watching all of us. You’re finally home with your parents, but yet you brought so many people down here back together to celebrate the life you had. I keep coming back to your guest book everyday, to read all of the wonderful things everyone has said about you. You are truly admired, loved and most of all missed. I think of you 24-7 and cherish the life you gave me. I love you Mom!!
(Every day for last week, I have been pouring 2 separate cups of coffee. One for you mom and one for me!)
Clark Besch
March 7, 2006
Becky was always very kind to us and funny as well. I did not know her well, but when we went in to AAA to sign up last year, she went way above in helping us with our vacation plans and her help paid off well! Becky left us too soon and will be missed by all. Clark Besch
Stephanie Mason
March 3, 2006
Hey Aunt Beck-
I don't know why I'm writing in this. I know you already know what I'm going to say. I can't believe you're gone. I feel like another part of my heart is gone. I've been telling myself you had to go take care of Thaniel. I'm not sure who I'm going to talk to anymore. You always listened to me, were always there for me. We talked for hours and hours and hours. We shared secrets that couldn't be shared with anyone else. We had a special bond, you and I. You always told me I was like your own daughter. We were as close as mother and daughter. I know, in the emergency room, when the doctor called your name and you looked directly into my eyes, you were still there. Our last connection. The last connection you had with anyone here before they took you to surgery and didn't come back to us. I am truly blessed to have had that. Thank you. I have wanted to call you so many times to "discuss" everything that has happened since you died, and sometimes even pick up the phone! I got the biggest complement from your cousin John B. He told me that I was "the Becky" of this generation. I miss you so much. Please take care of Thaniel. Give Jim a kiss for me. And look out for us down here. We will be alright. But we could use the extra help from your end! I love you, Aunt Beck. Always.
Steph
Jamie Hudson
February 25, 2006
Becky, where do I even begin. When Amy called and told me what had happened, I was in shock. I didnt believe it, or want to believe it. All I could think about was our last conversation. You were so happy, and so full of life. You had a sparkle in your eye because you were in a position at AAA that you loved and you were respected. Those nine months in our "cage" had to be some of the best times in my life. From the day I met you in Marilyns office, I knew that we would be good friends. We never really had any bad times in there. I had to get my email out that you sent to me the day I left AAA. It was such a sad day. In my goodbye I told you that you were just like a second mom to me. But, I wanted you to know, that you were more of a mom to me in those nine months then my real mom has been to me in 25 years. In your goodbye you told me that you consider me your surrogate daughter. That is truly and honor. I will cherish the memories that we have shared for all of time. We truly lost a genuine person when we lost you. My thoughts and prayers are with your family and Kevin. I miss you Beck!
Jamie
Larry & Linda Essink (Reger)
February 25, 2006
Larry and I would like to extend our DEEPEST SYMPATHY to Becky's family. It's been years since I've seen Becky, but I also remember her sweet smile and her cute giggle. I know she will be missed dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Rhonda Ross
February 24, 2006
I will always remember Beckys laugh and smile while I worked with her at AAA. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Becky, I will never forget you.
Love, Rhonda
Amy Ward
February 24, 2006
We have had our ups and downs these past 8 years. I just wanted you to know how much your friendship has meant to me. I didn't have a chance to tell you my good news, but I'm sure you know it now. I hope you will be there with me when I walk down the aisle. I love you Beck!
Amos
Patricia Koranda
February 24, 2006
Becky was a wonderful and caring person and I am so glad that I was able to be a friend in her life. We will miss her dearly and I will always remember her laugh. Blessings and God's love to the family memebers and Kevin, who have lost a "Special Person" in their lives.
Janelle Bestor
February 24, 2006
I have memories of a very kind and loving Becky when I was growing up. My thoughts, prayers, and deepest sympathy go out to all of the family at this difficult time.
Jonathan Travis (cousin)
February 23, 2006
Beckey I wish I would of told you part of this before you decided to leave. But, When the the LORD brought you to us all, we would never of thought that he would put so much love in such a little package and spread it around like you did and touch so many people. Being apart of your life for 54 years has inrich mine greatly and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for that. I will miss you deeply.but all I will have to do is drive around lincoln. like oh say 16th st, 19th and j st, 21st, peach st. and of corase 21st b st ( coachmen's practing pad ) to see you and to see the woman you have be come, or I can run over to your brothers house's and just look in there faces and see you again just wish they had your laugh (lol) cause your laugh was just one of a kind and it was given to only you. some thing else that set you apart from other's. So you may have left this earth , BUT BECK YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE MY HEART AND MY MINE. the lord has bless me dearly having you in my life. Thank you for your LOVE the FUN and the LAUGHTER. Your reward for touching so many people the way you did for 54 years is SITTING ON THE RIGHT HAND OF GOD THE FATHER you now have what we all strive for PEACE
see you when I get there
jonnie
Sue Eisenbarth
February 23, 2006
Even though we have not been in touch in the recent years, I will always remember how much you made me laugh and smile. You will be forever missed. Love, Suz
linda lindner
February 23, 2006
Becky was a great co-worker and will be deeply missed here at AAA. My heart goes out to her family, and my thoughts and prayers are with them as well. I will never forget her great laugh.
Velma Lassen
February 23, 2006
I have worked with Becky for over 10 years....she brought a smile and a sparkle to us on a daily basis. It seems impossible that she is gone. Becky, go with God in peace...your friend.....Velma
Jaclyn Reeder
February 23, 2006
Becky was always there when I needed a friend to talk to. She was very good at giving support and giving good advise. I will miss her very much. We Love You Becky and we miss you so much.
Janice Meints
February 23, 2006
I will miss the talks we had, and the strentgh we shared during a time of grief for both of us, I will allways remember Becky fondly, My prayers are with the family and those lifes she has touched
Julissa Lara
February 23, 2006
I knew Becky for a very short time but instantly when I met her I knew she would be a great co-worker and friend. The impact she has made will be with me always. Only faith and knowing she is in a better place will help ease the pain. My prayers are with all her family and friends.
Judy Bestor
February 23, 2006
My very deepest sympathy to all of Becky's family. I have some very good memories of time spent with Becky from trips to Lincoln long ago when I was younger and part of the family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Brad Rowan
February 23, 2006
My deepest sympathy to your family. I know you have had your share of greef over the years. Hang in there, there must be a reason for all of this.
Jennifer Travis
February 23, 2006
My dear sweet Becky. Even though I am not there with you, my heart is. I don't want to come and remember you this way. I want to remember you the way I do the last time we were together, having a great time and full of life. We had some pretty awesome times together. Growing up we gave your Mom fits with our sleepovers, but we had a blast. Then our get togethers to watch the Coachmen, still creating havoc, but we had fun. Then as we got older and kids came along and then grandchildren...we still had fun. We had a special bond and I will never ever forget it. I will miss you so much. I love you with my very heart and soul. Please say hi to everyone up there for me. You finally got your family reunion sweetheart. I love you. Jenny.
Betty Bell
February 23, 2006
you are in my prayers.
Brenda and Steve Bell
February 23, 2006
Your cousin's from NC express their sympathy for Becky's family. You are in our prayers.
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