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Ashleigh Love Obituary

Love, Ashleigh Went into the arms of Jesus Tuesday, October 6, 2009, at the age of 19. Most beloved daughter of Joe and Tammy. Cherished sister of Anthony, Alexander and the late baby Angel. Treasured granddaughter of Gerald and Theresa Brockman and Lillian and the late Robert Love. Precious God-daughter of Annie (Tim) Brockman and Jerry (Kristin) Brockman. Loved niece of Trish Love, Willie (Jim) Winter, Richard (Ellen) Love, Darlene (Bodie) Anderson, Georgia (John) Reszel, Beth (Rich) Gundermann and John (Kristie) Love. She will be further missed by many cousins, family, friends and her Arby's family. Visitation at ST. BERNADETTE CHURCH, 8200 W. Denver Ave., on Monday, October 19, 2009, 10:00-11:45 AM. Funeral Mass 12 noon. Interment Highland Memorial. In lieu of flowers, memorials appreciated to the family for Anthony and Alexander's education. Ashleigh will be remembered for loving her family, her friends and especially her family at Arby's. She loved music, movies, books, computers, playing croquette, pool, basketball and softball. She lived life to its fullest. Rest in Peace Ash, we'll be with you some day. INFORMED CHOICE Funeral & Cremation Alternatives 414-327-2500

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Oct. 15, 2009.

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Nadine

September 14, 2018

I work across the street from where Ashleigh rests and walk there often on my lunch hour. Your shining displays of love caught my eye one day. Then googled her name because it sounded familiar. I pray you find justice for sweet Ashleigh in this lifetime. No family, no parents should have to go through this. Love, light, hugs, prayers.

Anna Fultz

September 17, 2015

Thoughts are with you today...
May God grant you a peaceful day full of only happy memories.

Dana S.

November 9, 2014

I saw the Letters to Ashleigh documentary recently. I am sorry for your loss. You and your family are shining examples of strength and fortitude. I wish you all good health and happiness to make the most out of your time here on this Earth and celebrate Ashleigh's legacy and vibrant spirit. Thank you for raising such a great daughter.

Carol Pescitani

October 10, 2013

Dear Tammy and family - I've read as much as I can find about your wonderful Ashleigh. I know the pain and sadness you have from her loss. Tammy, thank you for being a FB friend. I hope our stories help each other and I pray for a resolution for you and your family. As you so beautifully said,"perhaps my Ashleigh and your Jessica have met up above, I bet they have and are wearing their wings with pride....I can so picture them in the wind as it blows the branches of the trees all around us, their spirit remains in the hearts and souls of so many...." I could not say it better. Prayers to all of you.

A New Friend

November 6, 2010

Dear Love family,
When you look up at the stars know that perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy.

Jenn Cain

October 20, 2010

I was watching a movie several weeks ago and one of the closing lines made me think of Ash right away. It said, "We never lose the fingerprints of the people who touch our lives." She certainly did and continues to touch so many people.

Lee Waltenberry

October 7, 2010

To the Love family. My name is Lee Waltenberry and I have been contacted by Kelly Geiger about making quilts for the family in lieu of losing your daughter and sister in such a tragic way. I cannot imagine losing a child, it has to be the hardest thing to face in anyones lifetime. I have been corresponding with Kelly on a regular basis about the memory quilts; I am in the process of making three (3), one for both mom and dad and one each for the brothers and am in hopes that they will get to you before Christmas. You have my deepest sympathies for this terrible loss and my prayers go out to you and your family. She sounds like a wonderful young lady and will sadly be missed for a long time to come.
Faithfully Yours,
Lee

Anna

September 17, 2010

To the Love family,
I stumbled onto this memorial website and am a total stranger. I began reading the Journal entries and the pain that your words convey and my heart goes out to all of you. I know this will be a difficult day and my prayers are with you all. I pray that God will help you find strength and peace.
Anna-a friend

Nicolasa Alamilla

July 7, 2010

My name is Nicolasa Alamilla and I was a freshman when Ashleigh was a Senior at Pius.
Yeah, who liked freshman? They were new to Pius and very young and unexpirenced, they weren't "cool" just yet.
When I was freshman at Pius in the first few months at school I didn't have very many friends, only a few. I was in the lunch line and started talking to Ashley, I had told her I was a freshman and didn't have anyone to sit by, she did not want me to sit alone so she said I could sit with her and her senior friends.
What a caring girl. She changed my perspective on everything. On how if your a senior or not, freshman don't need to be by themselfs at the lunch table.
I continued to sit by her for one semester, she told me stories and she sort of drifted away, but she always smiled at me in the halls and I would say "Hi Ashleigh!" and she'd always smile back. I sometimes close my eyes and us passing eachother in the 4th floor hallway.


Ashleigh has taught me that freshman are only human and you should treat others how you want to be treated.
I hope that when I am a senior I will be just like Ashleigh.

Thank you so much and I had to share this story.

Jenn Cain

April 28, 2010

This candle is for Ashleigh, not only does it light the darkness that now rests in our hearts down to our souls, it also let's her light shine forever and always in all of us.

Steve Willis

December 27, 2009

Please accept my condolences on the loss of your beautiful daughter. R.I.P. ASHLEIGH. God Bless You Ashley. May God Bless her family. Ashley will always be in my prayers.

Greg, Monika Rakovszky

December 8, 2009

. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Ashleigh. I did'nt know her, but threw the pictures I've seen, she was always smiling. We want to name are daughter Ashley, But we are going to spell it Ashleigh.

Karen Jenkins

December 4, 2009

May God bless and comfort you. I
am so sorry that you have lost your
precious Angel Ashleigh. My sympathy
and condolences to you.

Colleen Hosler

December 4, 2009

Tammy,

I am deeply sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter Ashleigh. I have enjoyed getting to know a little about her through this website. The road of grief is long and hard but remember that Ashleigh is always close in your hearts.
Colleen- Mom of Chris, 2-1-08 My heart died that day.

Lon Abresch

December 1, 2009

I have known Ashleigh for almost a year and a half, and that time will keep growing. I feel like I have known her my whole life, and though she is not physically with us, she has never left us. There isn't a day that goes by that I do not remember her or think about her. Work is not just Arby's anymore, it is time with Ash. Everything I know I learned from her. She used to tell me, "You are turning into me!". That was always the best compliment anyone could get at work. Turning into Ash meant you might as well be the next employee of the month! Ashleigh is not gone. At least not to me. I still expect to see her walk up onto frontline one day, or see her laying on the floor of the freezer laughing because she just fell. She was the start of a new chapter in my life, and looking back, it is almost impossible to remember a time in my life without her. She had a great impact on everyone like that.

We miss you Ash!
You will never be forgotten! EVER!

Brittany Contresceri

December 1, 2009

Tammy, Joe, Anthony, & Alex,

I remember when I was asked by Joe to take over Mayfair. All I could think was how excited I was to work with your daughter. I knew by how wonderful you all were that Ashleigh was going to be just as wonderful! I didn't get to work with her but a couple of months, but in those couple of months she definitley touched my heart with her enthusiasm about everything! She will be missed by so many. Please remember, even though like you said Tammy sometimes it feels like one step forward, two steps backward, as long as you can walk in faith the Lord will take care of you. Words cannot express any emotion that is involved, but please know my prayers are with all of you.

Heather Watson

December 1, 2009

Dear Love Family,
I just want to let you know that there isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of Ash. It's because of her, that I changed the way I look at my schooling. I am now pulling B's, because I know that when she found out last year that I wasn't doing so well in school she yelled at me. and told me she knew I could do better. There are the little things that remind me of her that make me laugh because I know she would be laughing at the stupid things I do.
The memories I have with her will never be forgotten. I don't think I ever laughed as much as I did with her. If there is anything I can do please let me know.
Watson

Marie Howe

November 25, 2009

To the whole Love Family;
Our heats are broken. Nothing can be said that will help ease your pain. Just know that Ash was loved by so many, she will always be in our hearts. I remember her when she was the shy little 8 year old, and watching he grow up into a confident young woman who loved to have fun and just enjoy life. She will be missed by everyone who knew her. They say that time heals all wounds, how much time is not said. We all heal in our own time and we all morn in our own way. Do what feels right fo you, she will never leave our hearts and never be far from our thoughts. Please let us know if we can do anything. We all cared for Ashleigh. Your all in our thoughts,
The Howes

Jennifer Allen

October 30, 2009

Tammy, Joe and the Love family,

I just heard about Ashleigh and my heart has been sad since. My whole family is just stunned. I am so very sorry for your loss! I can't imagine what you are all going through. I am sorry that you have to go through it! Ashleigh was and always will be beautiful!!! There are no words I can say to any of you that will make it better, but know this you are all in our prayers and shall remain there as long as you need them! Tammy, I will write to you and give you my new address and phone number as well. Take Care and Love,
Tom, Jenny(Worzalla), Jessica and Paige Allen

Kristin Brockman

October 29, 2009

Dear Joe, Tammy, Anthony & Alexander It sure is wonderful to read all these
heartfelt words from all these people.
It's comforting for us to read these messages and know how many family and friends are keeping you all in their prayers. And to know how many were touched by Ashleigh's wonderful spirit. You should be so proud of the family you have raised. We hope you can
find comfort in knowing how much Ash was liked, loved and respected. We are proud of our niece and our nephews. It still hurts so bad to read any if this about our niece & Goddaughter. Today was the first time for me, (Kristin) and I can barely see through my tears.
We love you guys so much. I sure hope all the prayers and love from everyone helps all of us get through this. Ashleigh will FOREVER be in ALL our hearts. We love you guys, Jerry, Kristin, Sam & Jon

October 25, 2009

TO THE LOVE FAMILY,
I AM HURT AND SORRY FOR THE LOSS OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER. HER SMILE TOUCHED MANY PEOPLE AND SHE WILL ALWAYS BE REMEMBERED AS A CARING AND LOVING PERSON INSIDE & OUT.OUR PRAYERS WILL ALWAYS BE WITH ALL OF YOU.
KRIS & SHERYL MEIER

Kim Kass (Rosenberger)

October 22, 2009

For the Love Family. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Ashleigh. Just wanted to let you know I am thinking about you and that my thought and prayers are with you and your family.

Julie (Nelson) Doering

October 21, 2009

Tammy, Joe and family,

I'm so sad to hear of your loss. I can only imagine that losing a child is the hardest thing one could experience in life. I pray that God will bless your family now and always and guide you down life's path. May you find comfort in the love and support of family and friends.

Much love,

Pam Kraemer (Brown)

October 21, 2009

Tammy, I can see your smile in her face...our prayers go out to you and all your family. We are so sorry for your loss.

Wegesser

October 20, 2009

Joe, Tammy, Anthony, and Alexander
The Love Family that we love so DEAR!!! Our Prayers are with you every day. We are always here for you. Tammy, you were always there for me and I will always be here for you too.

All Our Love,
Hans, Laura, Shannon, & Hannah

October 19, 2009

To the Love family, No words can express the sorrow I feel for your terrible loss. Just know that you are in my prayers as well as many other's prayers. Linda Levandowski

Karl,Sandyand Kyle Smith

October 19, 2009

Hi Joe, Tammy, Anthony, and Alexander
Sorry about your lose with Ashleigh Knew her for a long time.Our prayers are with your family. Give me a call sometime so we can get together sometime. Karl, Sandy, and Kyle Smith

Sue Whitman

October 17, 2009

The Love Family,

Words can not exspress the pain and sorrow we are feeling for your family of this tragic loss. We only met Ashleigh a couple of times but know you well and know that all of your children are children of God. Please know that Ashleigh is now your Angle and will be watching over you. If there is anything you need please let us know.

One Day at A Time
Help me believe
in what I could be
and all that I am.
Show me the stairway
I have to climb,
Lord, for my sake,
teach me to take
One Day At A Time.


Our Deepest Sympathy,
The Whitman Family
Darrell,Sue,Steele,Amanda and Rob

John, Kristie, Tony, & Jenny Love

October 17, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

October 16, 2009

Dear Joe, Tammy, Anthony and Alexander,

Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are. We are heartbroken over the loss of your precious child. Please know that you are in our thoughts and our prayers. There are hundreds of helping hands here for you if you are in need of anything. Ashleigh has left her legacy with all the lives she has touched and she will truly be missed.

Linda Pups

October 16, 2009

Joe, Tammy, Anthony & Alexander,

Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. There are no words to express how saddened we are of your loss. We know that Ashleigh will always be with you. Many memories will bring shine to your eyes and smiles, and we hope that those memories will be kept going forever. You are a beautiful family, and I am sure Ashleigh is looking down over all of you, smiling because she is in God's arms and sharing all of her beautiful love with the angels above. God Bless you all.

Love The Arndt's
Jim, Sue, Stephanie, and Brittany

October 15, 2009

To the Love Family-

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. My son Isaiah is Alex's classmate (and basketball teammate). He was also very upset to hear about your loss. Although I did not know her, I remember Ashleigh as being a supportive sister attending Alex's basketball games for the last few years. We're very saddend by your loss.

Jaimee Bongard and Isaiah West

Whitney Shaw

October 15, 2009

Ashleigh you will be missed by all who knew you. I remember you as an very nice young lady. Whitney will miss you and the times you had playing basketball. RIP Asleigh god will always be with you.

Whitney Shaw and Family

Scott Switalski

October 15, 2009

Ashleigh was was the nicest co-worker in my Arby's family.Like a true family member, she saved my butt many times by being there when I needed her.The shift always ran a lot better when Ashleigh was punched in! She was an Angel. Joe, Tammy and Boys, my thoughts are with you.

Mary Nelson

October 15, 2009

Joe, Tammy and boys, My heart is so saddened by this tragic loss to your beautiful family. I know Ashliegh will live in all your hearts forever, and I will remember her in mine as well.

Mary Bennett

October 15, 2009

My deepest sympathy for the loss of Ashleigh.
Lancaster Schhol/Speech Teacher

October 15, 2009

I'm so very sorry for your loss. My heart aches for all of you.
Barbara Davis - Oak Creek

October 15, 2009

To the Love Family. I am deeply saddened by the loss of Ashleigh, she was not only a beautiful young lady, but also someone, that touched so many. I was honored not only to work with you (Joe and Tammy) but also to work with Ash. I will always remember her smile and the way she would bounce so her hair would sway along. I believe that many of us and without a doubt you as a family must still be in shock. Just know that Ashleigh was loved by many as is your family.

Sue Koceja

October 15, 2009

Tammy, Joe and boys:

Words cannot express how sad we were to hear about Ashleigh. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers. Stay strong during this difficult time, Anthony and Alexander are going to need you now more than ever.

With our deepest sympathy
The Keesler Family
Rick, Cheryl, Zach,
Ryan and Kaitlyn

Brandi Walton

October 15, 2009

Ashleigh was a positive sweet girl & a good co-worker...this is still a shock to me. She comes from a good solid family and will be truly missed. My prayers are with the Love family. Rest in Peace Ashleigh. ~GONE BUT NEVER FORGOTTEN~

James & Danielle Klinger

October 15, 2009

Joe and Tammy,

We were so sorry to hear about your loss. Ashleigh was taken from you much to soon. Always remember the good times you shared with her.

Mick,Jewel & Kyle Olson

October 15, 2009

Tammy, Joe, Anthony & Alex,
The four of you, along with Grandma & Grandpa Brockman, as well as so many others who were blessed to call Ashleigh part of your family, will forever & always hold a tender place in our hearts.

Our tears are words our hearts cannot say.

Rest Peacefully, Ashleigh...you are safe now.

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