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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Mar. 13, 2005.

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Wow. The last time I saw Bart was 27 years ago. He was just a wee little kid, funny and active. I remember him always being around his sisters...Tara and Gina...and can still picture his cute little face. The internet is a weird place. I was listening to an old serman this Sabbath morning...February 9th 2018...and doing research on the minister who was preaching and the second search result brought up this tragedy. I know this page is very old...but I had to give my condolences regardless. My only hope is in Jesus and His return! My only wish is for a pure and loving Kingdom where we all are whole and perfect...and never a hopeless thought exists. I look forward to seeing Bart raised perfect again and with his family and friends.

Shawn Lyneis

February 10, 2018

Bart... Its been years since you passed and I haven't wrote on here. I didn't make it to your funeral and we hadn't talked for months before the tragedy that took you away... but I grew up with you.. and we were good friends and I still think about you quite often. I want you to know that I regret not staying in touch and that I will never forget the last time I saw you on the bus and we smiled at each other but didn't say a word. I miss you. Please know that I mourned your loss and will always remember your smiling, happy face! With love,

Amanda Berrelez

June 24, 2011

still thinking of you bart.
i miss you.
i love you.
love karen

karen floan

March 11, 2009

To the family of Bart Oliver, im so sorry for your loss i always think about the times i saw him during school my friend told me about this horrible insadent, i was in shock and i always remembered his big brown eyes and his smile. I just want you to know that you are in my prayers and always will be.

Liz Rambo

July 6, 2005

Dear Ron and Loni,

My thoughts are with you as I read about Bart. It is a gift for me to meet him through the articles I have found on the web. You raised a shining light. My prayers,

Betsey

Betsey Krause

July 1, 2005

We were calling him "our little Maitre D". He was only 13 when other patrons at a fine restaurant mistook him for the maitre D.

We met our lunch buddies on tues. when we were leaving, Joyce said "wait a minute, I have something for you." She handed me a folder with 19 pages of copies of visitor's entries. I shed many tears reading them all. I would give anything in this world if only I had been sitting in the chair where Bart was sitting that Sat. 3/12/05. I would give my life in a minute for anyone of my grandchildren. They are all so precious to us grandparents. We never know when our family members leave in the morning if we'll ever see them again. I didn't get a chance to hold Bart and comfort him. This family has shed so many tears! I never saw grandpa cry before, also our grown sons Tom and Hal. It will take years of grieving. I have started a butterfly garden and collection with orange flowers for you Bart.

The grand ballroom with the huge chandelier was so appropriate for your grand farewell. "Auntie Em" sang like I've never heard her sing before! She could have been singing our national anthem "The Star Spangled Banner". She put her whole heart and soul into it!

Our life is so empty!

Sadly, Grandma & Grandpa, Al & Esther Geiger, Tomahawk, WI

And, thankyou kindly to all who took the time to jot down some encouraging words, love and bits of humor for the love of Bart. We have to be thankful for the 15 years we had to enjoy him.

Al and Esther Geiger

May 3, 2005

Dear Oliver and Geiger family

I learned with heartfelt grief of Bart's tragic death. It is not our ability to understand such a terrible deed.

My sympathy and condolences go to you in this time of grief and sadness.

With my deepest sincerity

Jobst Stumm

April 12, 2005

hey bart man,..I cant believe this happened. Especially to you.

It feels like just yesterday we were hanging out! i know we didnt hang out much but when we did it was fun. You were so awesome n cared about everyone. love ya man cya

Aidan Anderson

April 9, 2005

Bart Oliver was a very dear freind to me and he has significantly changed my life forever. I remember well, the only year I was in school with him, in 7th grade, he signed my yearbook "to a new friend: I know we've only known each other for a year but I know we will be friends for many years to come. Love always, Bart." It still brings tears to my eyes to think that he's gone, I miss him so much. I never thought i could miss one person this much and the pain I feel inside and for all the people that loved him is tremedous. My sympathies to all other loved ones, I loved him very much.

Anna Nelson

April 6, 2005

Dear Ron, Loni, Mark and Nick,



You are always in our thoughts and prayers.



Brethren - South Africa

April 3, 2005

To the Oliver family,

I met Bart when he came to preteen camp a couple of years ago, and I remember thinking when I met him that he's so much like his brothers. :) His sense of humor will always be something I remember about him- when he signed my memory book from camp in 2002, he wrote that I was funny & weird, but in a good way. :) He also reminded me that when we went swimming, he dunked me "like 20 times". I got to see him at the Wisconsin Dells weekend this past February, and I, like others, remember thinking that he'd "grown up" since those days at preteen camp. He'll always be one of my favorite "campers". Prayers of comfort & guidance are with your family. I look forward to when we see Bart again. Thank you.

Love,

Ann Rankin

Ann Rankin

March 28, 2005

So very sorry to hear of this tragedy. God Bless

Jim Oliver

March 23, 2005

Even though I did not know these victims personally, I am so sad to know all that has happened and realize the effects. Thousands of churches and scattered brethren, as well as millions in the world, are now very aware of this very horrific event, with countless prayers for the surviving loved ones daily, along with heartfelt announcements about this in so many different church groups all over the world. Hopefully we will not think that these wholesome God-fearing people died in vain. Not a sparrow falls to the ground without our Creator knowing, so we need to keep our trust in Him and know that He has greater purposes for allowing anything involving His people, no matter how hard it is for us to see at the time. Hopefully we can all draw closer to our Creator and one another through all this mourning, instead of fall apart or lose the Faith. Ecclesiastes 7 explains why the house of mourning can be better than the house of feasting. Nevertheless, my deepest sympathy, regards, and prayers are for all who are suffering such a great loss, of these unique loved ones who were put to sleep so tragically. Sincerely and respectfully,

Russ Smith

March 23, 2005

RON,LONI,MARK,AND NICK

I JUST WANTED TO SAY YOU ARE IN MY HEART AND PRAYERS.If you ever need anything i am here to offer my help.We will always remember bart ,he will live on in our hearts and memories.I love all of you,you are my family.May god bless you.

love jessica fell

JESSICA FELL

March 23, 2005

Dear Oliver and Geiger Family.

I am very sad to hear of your loss. i don't know if you remember me, but i attended with my mom (Marcia) before i moved to Arizona. My continuous thoughts and prayers are with you all. I miss you and love you all dearly. God Bless and Take Care. all my love, Sarah

Sarah Gunderson

March 22, 2005

Dear Oliver Family:



I am deeply sorry for your loss. I knew Bart in 7th grade. He was a really cool guy, very funny and a just a nice guy to be around. When I heard what happened to him I didnt want to believe it and I still wont. I cant stop thinking about it. I must cry about it everytime I think of Bart. and everytime I think about him I cant find a good enough reason why this had to happened to him. Its not fair. This should have never happened, not to him. I wish I stayed in touch with him and I shall live in regret from that forever. I pray for your family to be strong, and pray for Bart that he is happy where he is and that just I miss him so much. I just want you to know that your in my thoughts and prayers and expecially Bart.

Natalie Tonkovitz

March 21, 2005

Oliver Family,

HEllo my name is Billy lanphear and I live right around the corner from you guys. I went to heyer and to horning with bart. I remember standing at the bus stop with bart wating for the bus. He was so kind and wouldnt hurt a thing. I think he had to be the nicest person that anyone could meet. He would tell us jokes and we would always laugh he was so kind harted. yes I attended the funeral and it was so sad. He looked so peaceful but he shouldnt have been taking away from all of us. I guess the saying is true. that people end up at the wrong place at the wrong time. Me and a friend melissa made the posterboard by his cross. Just to show our sympothy. It was a very emotional time. Bart will be missed by TONS and god bless the oliver family.

GOD BLESS ALL

Billy Lanphear

R.I.P Bart Oliver

Billy Lanphear

March 21, 2005

May God provide you all comfort and peace.

B. wilson

March 21, 2005

We are so sorry to hear of your loss and family tragedy. We had the pleasure of having lunch with Bart on several occasions when he was visiting his Grandfather and Grandmother, Al and Esther, in the Northwoods. Our sincere condolences to all of Bart's family.

Keith & Joyce Marden

March 21, 2005

i am so sorry for your loss of bart i remember him a little from my short time in heyer he was a good kid i enjoyed hanging out with bart. i couldn't belive what i saw i was shocked, sorry it took me awile to write but i will pray for you bart in my prayers



your friend robert murach

robert murach

March 21, 2005

To the Oliver Family,

I was so saddened to hear of Bart's tragic death. When I heard of the shootings I wondered if my daughter(who teaches in Brookfied) would know any of the victims, never imagining that the student shot would have been one of mine. Bart was in my 1st grade class and I remember him as a happy, friendly little boy. My heart goes out to you all and I will keep you in my prayers.

Kris Batchelet

Kris Batchelet

March 21, 2005

My heart aches to hear of such a terrible tragedy. I pray for your family and may God bring peace to all he knew.

Jade Turano

March 21, 2005

Ron, Loni, Mark and Nick,



Our thoughts and prayers are with you all, we are so very sorry for your loss. Bart's service was a beautiful tribute to a cousin I wish I had known better. As you attempt to begin the healing process please know that we are here for you. Our love to you all.

Paul, Mona, & Tucker Schuerman

March 21, 2005

May God Bless Your Soul Im sure he was a good kid.

Eric Johnson

March 21, 2005

Dearest Oliver and Geiger Family,

Words cannot express the sadness we feel since we found out about the horrible tragedy that has changed your lives. We offer our deep condolences, and will continue to pray for God's loving hand to sustain you. We pray that God will grant you healing and comfort, and an extra measure of his spirit. I will keep in touch Marla. I know Bart would have been proud to see you be able to sing for him. You are not alone in this time of deep sorrow and pain. I know so many are praying for you and all those who have been profoundly affected by this heartbreaking incident. God bless and keep you. Loving thoughts,

John&Lori Bryant

March 20, 2005

Dear Oliver Family,



My deepest sympathy, thoughts and heartfelt prayers go out to you at this time. May you find the strength in God to make it from day to day. I pray that God will be with all of us, because the body of Christ is suffering now along with your family.



Your family in Jesus Christ

Muriel Guess & family

LCGKC

Muriel Guess

March 20, 2005

To the entire Oliver (and Geiger) Families:

You all are in my thoughts and prayers. My heart sank when I heard the news last week. We were on a family vacation; when I called my mom to let her know that we had arrived safely, she told me the news. I had a very hard time sleeping, thinking of all of you and what horror you must have gone through. I also thought about the good memories I have from many years ago involving your families! I have been truly blessed to have had the time with your families that I had. I'm sorry that we have lost touch. I feel badly for what you families have gone through, but I know that your faith and support will help in the healing process. I pray that God's spirit will be with all of you.

Robyn (Graham) Braun

March 20, 2005

Dear Loni

We send you our heartfelt sympathies and condolences at the tragic death of your dear son Bart.

In this moment of sadness our thougths are with you.

Yours in sorrow

Margrit and Klaus Oehmchen

and many of your family members in Switzerland ( sorry they don`t speak any english!!)

Margrit and Klaus OEHMCHEN

March 20, 2005

It is with great regret that I learn from the tragedy of Barts death. I wish the Oliver familiy all the best and my thoughts are with you.

Katharina Stumm

March 20, 2005

We are praying for your family here in Pensacola LCG.

Chris Smith

March 19, 2005

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Oliver,

i'm soo sorry and saddened about what happened to Bart. I didn't know him that long but he was still a friend to me. The first time i saw him was when my friend introduced us when i took the same bus in middle school. When i heard about it and who it was i didn't remember but when i looked in the 7th grade yearbook and saw him my heart sank, and when i saw it on the news and they showed his picture my heart ached and i was about to cry. but even though we all want him back here God wanted him with him away from this warrful world. But every night i will pray for u and Bart and keep u all in my heart and mind. Take Care~

~*~*~*~*~*~*~

Michelle Melendez

March 19, 2005

Mr. & Mrs. Oliver:



My heart aches for you and your family in this time of loss and sorrow. You are continually in my thoughts and prayers. May God show his presence in your lives at this time of need, I pray that he will comfort and heal your sorrows. I have been struggling to try and understand the good that must come from all tragedy. God allows some things to happen so that some thing else can come from it.



I have told my children many times that if this tragedy opens our eyes and cause us to take stock in our live and really change and prepare for God’s Kingdom then this tragedy as sorrowful as it is can still bring about good. If the youth in God’s truth recognize how fast life can change and they are not invincible. Then they must strengthen their bonds with God and his truth. Maybe that will be the good that comes from tragedy.



Your son truly touched lives around the world. My children knew him from camp as so many others did. I never had the blessing of meeting him, but my daughter Jennifer was truly touched by your sons zest for life. Jenny has told me so much about the letters they wrote to each other and the times they spent together. He was a blessing to so many people I am sure your loss is great. Being in the church we know that we will have the opportunity to experience the blessing of Bart in God’s kingdom.



In Christian Love

Brenda Scarborough

Brenda Scarborough

March 19, 2005

Ron, Loni, Mark, and Nick



We justed wanted to let you know that you are all in our prayers and that we are thinking of you. We will never forget our cousin Bart and we know his memory will live on forever with us. We are comforted in knowing he is with God in heaven, and that one day we will all be reunited. We love you all and are here if you need us.



Love,



Justin and Kristal Widmar

Justin Widmar

March 19, 2005

Lonnie. It,s been years since I have talked with you and your brother. I,ve been watching the events unfold through the new and the internet. Can,t believe something like this could happen.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time.

An old freind Bill Liberty.

Bill Liberty

March 19, 2005

To the Oliver Family.



God only knows why this had to happen. There will be good that can come out of this tradedy. Search for the positive and remember the great times that you had with Bart. I know he was very special to you.



God Bless you.

Curt Bach

March 19, 2005

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Oliver, Mark and Nick,



I just wanted all of you to know that you are constantly in my thoughts and prayers since this happened. It still feels unreal, like a bad dream, I'm still in shock. 2 days before this tragedy, Tiffany was telling me about how Bart had changed a lot since I last saw him. How tall he had grown up to be, and how he was this sweet young man who hugged everyone, and about his wonderful sense of humor. I look forward to the coming resurrection when we can all be reunited in God's kingdom and there will be no more sorrow, no more weeping, no more pain, just happiness.

Celeste Salvadori

March 19, 2005

I use to attended the former Worldwide Church of God. (1964-1988). But I had to go back to my roots that I heard preaching both night and day in my younger days.



I am so torn up over this tragedy. My sympathy, condolences, heartfelt prayers, sense of lost and grief goes out to the family of the deceased Bart Oliver, and to the families of the deceased, the injured, the families of the injured, and to the LIVING CHURCH

OF GOD. This senseless tragedy could have happened to any of God's church's scattered fellow

groups and scattered organizations. If this tragedy happened to one group of the church of God, it happened to all of us of the common and like faith. I mourn, with THE LIVING CHURCH OF GOD, with the injured, and with the families of the deceased and injured this lost and tragedy.



I Corinthians 12:26. And whether one member suffer, all the members

suffer with it; or one member be honoured, all the members rejoice with it.



Luke 9:49. And John answered and said, Master, we saw one casting out devils in thy name; and we forbad him, because he followeth not with us. 50. And Jesus said unto him, Forbid him not: for he that is not against us is for us.



Matthew 24:48. But and if that evil servant shall say in his heart, My lord delayeth his coming;

49. And shall begin to smite his fellowservants, and to eat and drink with the drunken ...



Revelation 2:13. I know thy works ... and thou holdest fast my name, and hast not denied

my faith ... wherein Antipas was my faithful martyr, who was slain among you ....



I now attend the Intercontinental Church of God.



Love you.

Thomas C. Johnson

March 19, 2005

To the Olivers, my husband, children & I just wanted to take the time to let you know that you are in our thoughts,& in our prayers. With our deepest sincerity & love.

Cecil & Teri Burkes & children

March 18, 2005

We are just numb! What a loss of a precious life. Thoughts and prayers go out for you.

Steve & Judy Benton

March 18, 2005

We are part of Bart's extended family (Rick Oliver's In-laws). We are so sorry for all those who cherished their relationship with Bart. He was beloved by so many people.

We are sorry for your loss.

Tom and Cathy Schattke

March 18, 2005

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Oliver, Nick and Mark,

We are so extremely sorry at the tragic events that took place. One day soon, you will be reunited with Bart and share his love and joy forever. Please hold onto your faith in God, and you will be rewarded with the most wonderful life you can ever imagine with Bart and your family.

With our love,

Scott, Steven, Mark and Laura Bashus

March 17, 2005

i had met bart a couple of times, and he was such a nice guy, i cant belive this could happen to him. im so sorry for what happened, and your family is in my prayers.

Bridget Moran

March 17, 2005

Dear Oliver family,



Our hearts go out to you at this time. We are all suffering with you and trying to understand how something so senseless could happen. We ask God to give you the comfort and strength that you will be needing in the coming months.



In Christian love,



Michael, Shana and Hannah Jewsbury

March 17, 2005

TO THE OLIVERS

i am SO sorry for your loss. I met bart at pre-teen camp a few years ago he was always happy and he always made me laugh we werent that close then we became really close the year he went to teen camp everybody loved him he was such a great person he always made people laugh i have so many good memories of him never a bad one when i heard the news i couldnt believe it i didnt wanna believe it still doesnt seem real im gonna miss him So much. i j/ talked to him not that long ago he sounded so happy he j/ gotta job and he was so happy for his brother and he was telling me and my cousin jenny about his mouse that he had j/ got. bart was cared for by so many people. he was so funny he had a great sense of humor. He's definatly gonna be missed by so many people. Bart.. i love you and i cant wait to see you again.

your in my prayers



tija gibson

tija gibson

March 17, 2005

I feel your pain, I feel your anger, I feel your rage, I feel your despair, what I need to feel is forgiveniess, without that, we cannot move forward.Forgiviness comes in time this I know. W.D.

Wolf Diablo

March 17, 2005

I am very saddened by the loss of you and the others. I am a grandmothe/greatgrandmother and all children are special. I wish I had been close to you. You are close in my heart. May God give your loving family the strength and courage that they need as the days go by. Your friend from UCG.

Florence MacConnell

March 17, 2005

Dear Oliver Family,

I can't even begin to explain how I feel about this terrible tragedy. I went to Heyer Elementary and Horning Middle school with Bart. I really never new Bart that well as a friend, but from how I do know him, he seemed like a really great person. I really wished I could have known him better. Right now he is in a better and safer place in heaven. I want you to know that Bart and your family are in my thoughts and prayers forever.



My Sincere sympathy,

Nikki

Nikki McGavock

March 17, 2005

Mr.and Mrs.Oliver,

Even though I was only friends with Bart in 7th grade, he made an impact on me and people I knew, he was a very funny person and made me laugh all the time. I was very shocked to hear that he died in the shooting, I never knew something so horrible could happen to someone so young, or anyone for that matter. I know Bart is up in Heaven now watching over you and everyone who loved him. I'm very sorry for your loss, and my prayers to your family.

~*Devan*~

Devan O'Neill

March 17, 2005

I can't even begin to understand the pain that you are feeling but I hope that you will take comfort in knowing that youa re not alone. Everyone in this country is praying for your family right now. I hope also that there is comfort in knowing that Bart is at peace with his Heavenly Father. Nothing can replace a child but with all of our help in prayer we hope that you can get through this.

In Christ,

Jen Hunt

Jen Hunt

March 17, 2005

dear Olivers,



there is nothing i can say to express how i feel. i know saying sorry wont make what happened right and also saying i know how u feel wont make things better because no one does know. i cant say things will get easier because they wont but i hope u find peace in the fact that he was a good person and everyone will always have him in thier hearts. Bart was a great friend. Although i didnt know him for very long i knew that he was a great man. Your family raised him to be caring, loving, and someone that can help you through everything. the only thing that i know will help is if u keep him in your heart and remember the good times. Also Remember that god loves you and does everything for a reason. god will guide you through your hard times without him and may god bless you. my condolences...i love you bart..ill miss you.



please feel free to contact me if you are in need of a friend



Love,

Dioselina Pace

Dioselina Pace

March 17, 2005

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Oliver,

I am deeple sooory for the death of Bart. I had only been friends with him since 7th grade. Bart was a really nice person that u could have talked to about anything. His Donald Duck voices will be missed along with his kindness.Bart, please take care of Kim from wherever u are.

Ana

Ana Diaz

March 17, 2005

Ron and Loni,

We are truly sorry for your loss. You will be in our prayers.

Lonny And Tracy Domzil

March 17, 2005

Dear Oliver Family,

We can only imagine the deep loss you are feeling. We are praying for you as you cope with this trial. Our loving Father and Elder Brother will give you their peace and strength.

Dave & Pam Myers

March 17, 2005

WE LOVE YOU BART!!! and we know that you are resting in peace and looking down on us each day.. until we meet again..

Melissa

March 17, 2005

I met Bart a few years ago. He was a pleasure to be around. We grieve together.



Your friend from your La Crescenta LCG family,

Chris Lane

March 16, 2005

Ron and Lonnie and family,

It's been years since I've seen you,

I didn't know about your children, it seems like yesterday when you were married. Now you have lost one of the most precious things in life, Bart, your loving child.

He will be remembered for the kind of young man he was, which from all I have read he was a very wonderful person. I am very sorry for your loss, it has made me reach out for my own children even more than before, you just never know what might happen five minutes from now.

My prayers are with your family, may God bless and keep you in His arms. Norma (Render) Bowers

Norma Bowers

March 16, 2005

Dear Loni and Ron;

I've been struggling for days to try to make sense of this, and the only conclusion I can reach is that it's completely senseless. Nothing I can say will make this any better for you, but please know that Mom, Mickey and I share your grief, and that we're always thinking of you, Nick, Mark, and the rest of the family. Please give my love to Uncle Al and Aunt Esther, to Tom and Marla, Hal and Scarlett and all the kids. We'll see you Friday.

Love, Teresa

Teresa Thiede

March 16, 2005

To The Oliver Family:



We are sorry for your loss. Our prayers are with you. If you need to email us to talk you may.



Love,



Duane, Stephanie, and Jeremy Temple

Stephanie Temple

March 16, 2005

I have known Bart since the 7th grade. Bart always knew how to make someone smile, he was just always there for you. Myself and some of my friends that knew Bart have started a memorial at my school for him. Lots of his friends that love him have signed it. We will be bringing it to the funeral Friday. For the Oliver family- You raised your son to be a great and loving person... dont forget that. I am also greatfully sorry for your loss. Bart- Your in our thoughts today... but always in our hearts. May god bless you. I love you so much Bart. Till next time, and Bart... please watch over Kim for me. I know how much you loved her. It really showed. May you rest in peace. Love you. Vanessa Gamez

Vanessa Gamez

March 16, 2005

dear mr and mrs oliver,

i am deaply sorry about your son. i went to elementry school with him. he was honestly the nicest kid i have ever met.this horrific tragedy has affected me in a way that nothing has effected me before. it has made me realize that someone that you care about so much can be gone for good and you might not be able to say bye or i love you. and to anyone who is reading this guestbook should embrace everything that is around you and care about one another. although bart and i werebt really good friends i still conversed with him and he conversed with me and that is something that i embrace now, and since then i thank god everyday that i met him because in my eyes hes a hero. god bless and you are in my prayers.

Gabe Higbee

March 16, 2005

we all miss bart soo much....especially me...we were great friends we hung out all the time...even though i only knew him since 7th grade we've gotten a ,lot closer this year...hes a great guy ~ you raised him well

love u bart

Kim Schubert

March 16, 2005

dear OLivers,

i am deeply sorry for your loss. me and bart haven't been friends that long, only since middle school, but i felt like we have known each other forever.alot of people are here to support you and i am sure alot of them will make or even rty to attend the funeral.

MAY GOD BE WITH YOU!!!!

~Amanda Krause~

Amanda Krause

March 16, 2005

Bart your a good friend and i will miss you

mandy Nuchell

March 16, 2005

To the family of my beloved friend Bart Oliver. I went to Heyer Elementary school with Bart ever since kindergarten and we were very good friends. He was one of my best friends and will always be in my heart forever and always. No one will ever take his place. He was the funniest person I have ever met in my life. He could make the most unhappiest person smile on the rainiest day, that is how funny I thought he was. If I may share a memory of him it would be the one of him in 5th grade. One time during class when the teacher was right in the middle of saying something Bart looked up and pointed out the window and shouted "oh my gosh, look it's mustache mary". He later claimed it was from a book he was reading. In this time of great saddness I give you my greatest sympathy and love. I wish nothing but the best for you all. Bart was a wonderful person and it was simply a gift just to know him.

With love from Karen Floan

Karen Floan

March 16, 2005

bart i will miss you 4ever it seems it was just yesterday when we were hangin out in school...i wish we were still in elementary school so i could see you again :( you died so young 4 a stupid cause...im sure you are in gods hands in heaven lookin down on us...once again ill miss you 4eva! i hope 2 see u in another life but until then youll be in my thoughts

i cried and criend when i found out what had happened

ill miss u!

bye

~brittany~

Brittany schiefelbein

March 16, 2005

Loni and Ron,

and to Uncle Al, Aunt Esther, Tom, Marla, Hal, Scarlett, and all the children...it is so hard to comrehend a tragedy like this. I've been reading the guest book entries, and see how loved Bart was by so many people. I know how lucky he was to have such a wonderful family as all of you.

I will see you all at the funeral, and am sending you a hug, especially to you, Loni.

Love, Dorinda

Dorinda Paizis

March 16, 2005

We are praying for God to give you the strength and comfort you need for each day. Our hearts ache with you and yearn for the day when God will wipe away all tears from our eyes.

Jim and Beverly Butler

March 16, 2005

To the Oliver family.



You have our deepest sympathies as we share your grief. For a family who has always been there for others, we pray that the God of Comfort will be with you in the hours and days ahead. Only He has the power to do what we would like to do. May He grant you healing and peace.

George and Karen Meeker

March 16, 2005

I first heard about this terrible incident from my sister-in-law. Bart was her sister's nephew. I was very saddened that something like this could happen during a church service. My prayers are with your families.

Alma Reyes

March 16, 2005

My thoughts and prayers are for you and your family.

Carol

Carol Plotner

March 16, 2005

Ron, Loni, Nick, Mark and Tom, Marla, Thomas, Amanda and Robert, We are all sure that Bart is now with our Lord Jesus Christ. In these very difficult days for all of you, please keep your own faith strong in that knowledge, so you will all be with Bart once again in heaven with our Lord. I know the grief you feel is great, for I too lost 3 of my children, but the Lord will give you strength and ease your pain with his love and the love he will pour out to you, from all believers around you. I have come to realize that althought the pain will never disappear, it will be cushioned with His promise of our Life Eternal with Him, Bart, my daughters, and all those who have gone before us. May God's Love comfort you.

(Bob Phillips' Sister)

Janis Krause

March 16, 2005

Bart was just like a son to me. He spent so much time with us. He brought so much joy to our lives. He was flamboyant and had the greatest sense of humor. He always made me laugh. He gave me the name "Aunty Em" about a year ago. He and my son Robert were like brothers. He was so looking forward to getting his drivers license and standing up in his brother Nick's wedding. He loved Marlyn Monroe and Catwoman. He also had a mouse called Tweeters. He had just gotten him a little while ago. We will never forget him and our hearts have a deep hole which will never be filled.

Aunt Marla Geiger

March 16, 2005

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Oliver,



Hello. My name is Michael-David. When I heard about the church shootings, I felt never before so saddened. And when my parents told me that your your son had died and I saw the picture, I could not hold in my tears. I knew Bart and I thought and still think that he was a wonderful young man. He loved my little brother, Benjamin, and would constantly ask Benjamin for a hug. Benjamin would accept and on came a BIG hug! I remember at the fun-show he waved to Benjamin and told him something like: "I'll see you tomorrow!". It really pains me to think of Bart being gone now. But when Jesus Christ returns, he WILL resurect ALL PEOPLE. I look forward to that now, and I yearn to see your son and all people again! In the meantime, you will be in our prayers and may God bless and comfort you!



Your Brother in Christ,

Michael-David Medici

March 16, 2005

To Bart Oliver's Family and Friends,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this very tragic time. We are sorry for your loss.

Dan, Karen, and Jonathon Rechek

March 16, 2005

As parents, we can only imagine what you are going through at the loss of your son Bart. We are so sorry for your loss. May God comfort you and hold you in His arms. Our prayers are with you.

Family Stefanin

March 16, 2005

I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.

GOD BLESS EVERYONE.!!

BONNIE BOLLES

March 16, 2005

Our hearts go out to everyone who suffered the loss of family members from this horrible event. May God grant you much peace and comfort and hold you tightly in His arms during your deepest and darkest hours of grief. Our prayers go up for you all.



Rom. 8:18 - "For I reckon that the sufferings of this present time are not worthy to be compared with the glory which shall be revealed in us."



With Sympathy,

The Senay Family

March 16, 2005

Dear family

I'm at a loss for words to what has happened, I think about it everyday, I can't even begin to express my sorrow or imagine your pain. I've never really met Bart, but I have worked with Nick and I knew Mark. I always thought I would work with him one day. You still are a great family, may god bless you all.

Rodney Thom

March 15, 2005

Dear Ron and Loni,



It has been a long time since I’ve seen you (over 26 years) and I have thought often of all the great times we all had together but now I know you are going through a tremendous amount of pain and suffering. Words cannot express how terrible I feel about the loss of your son, Bart. I wish I could have met him. I know you will miss him deeply. It’s such a terrible tragedy. I will continue to pray for God to give you strength and comfort to make it through this very difficult time. My heart goes out to you all. With love…Joy

Joy (Olson) Cryer

March 15, 2005

Dear Oliver Family,

I am so sorry for you loss and i am constantly praying for all of thoes in greaf of the shooting that happened. I knew Bart and I also knew more people that were their when this shooting too place. I can't begin to emagine what everyone is going through and you will always be in my prayers.

Sarah Welch

March 15, 2005

We were sorry to hear about the tradgedy that had taken so many lives. We realize that you are hurting, and you have our deepset sympathies.

Douglas and Margie Mckee

March 15, 2005

Dear bart,

I remember like it was yesterday when i met you at travis's birthday party. We had a great time together and i will never forget about those two days we spent together. I wish i could go back to those days and see you again. I am very sad that i didn't get to spend more time with and i hope to one day meet you again in heaven. Bart i hope that you remember me and have a good one.

Until we meet again,

Ande Macpherson

March 15, 2005

To the Oliver Family, My prayers are with you during your terrible loss. May God be with you and give you his loving care and unendeding grace.

Sincerely, Karen Meyer

Karen Meyer

March 15, 2005

Dear Oliver Family,

I had to oppertunity to meet Bart at LYC teen camp in 2003, I had him in my brother dorm and had the honor of going to Final banquet with him. He was very sweet and always ready to cheer everyone up. His death is a horrible tradgy, he will be sorely missed, and I looked forward to the day I get to see him again.

God bless you all

Lindsey Crockett

March 15, 2005

to the family of bart,

we met bart in 1st grade and knew him until 6th when we moved, he was a wise kid, who stood up for what was right always. this like everyone else came to us as a shock, again we are truly sorry, and our prayers will be with you and your loved ones.

sam and sean litza

March 15, 2005

Please accept my most sincere and heartfelt condolences on your loss.

Jim Knight

March 15, 2005

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We used to live near you and Bart would often come play during the summer in our yard with our kids and cousins. They had fun playing with him and he was always nice to them even though they were younger than him. Our prayers are with all of you in this time of grief.

Pitchford family

March 15, 2005

Bart and I have been best friends ever since we were born. We have always been there for each other and have always gotten in trouble together. I love him with all my heart and I will be in touch with his family all the time. Bart has been the biggest blessing from God yet. Nevermind that, he's been the Greatest Blessing ever from God. He will always be in my heart. And here is a song we used to do. "I'm Larry the Scary Rex. I'm a scary dinosaur. But don't be scared of my sharp, sharp teeth, and my mighty, mighty roar. I love kids and kids love me. Even though my toes are green!" This was our favorite song ever. May Bart Oliver rest in peace.



-Travy Wavy Woo

Travis "Travy Wavy Woo" Vrba

March 15, 2005

Dear Oliver family,

I am so sorry to hear about Bart. He went to Heyer Elementary and Horning middle school with me and I always remembered him as a very caring person, it's so sad that a terrible event like this happened. He is in a better place now and I know will be missed. May god bless you.

Lauren Janes

March 15, 2005

To Loni and Ron -



I followed with much saddness the tragic events of last Saturday. I am so terribly sorry of the loss of your son, Bart.



As I have reflected over the past, I fondly remember the times that I shared with you and Margaret and Roy and Eva and Glenn as well as Vicki. I will always hold those memories dear.



This tragedy has touched me. No words that I type here can ever return your son to you, but please know that you have my sincere sympathy at his loss.



May God grant you the strength to carry on and the courage to endure during this time of sorrow.



You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.



With my sincere sympathy -



Peggy DaValt (WWCG)

Peggy DaValt

March 15, 2005

Dear Bart and Family,

I was truly saddened to hear about what happened to Bart. I knew him from Horning, but wasn't really that close with him. From what I did know about him, he was a wonderful person. He was sweet, lovable, caring, and was without a doubt one of the nicest people. I am very sorry about what happened and I know it is hard, but I know how you feel. Everything happens for a reason so there must have been some important reason. Bart is FOREVER in my prayers and he had touched many. I LOVE YOU BART AND YOU WILL BE MISSED DEARLY BY MANY.....all my love,

Caitlin

Caitlin Etten

March 15, 2005

Dear Loni,Ron,Mark,and Nick

wow what can i say. well i'll start with me and Bart were great friends since kindergarten. we loved hanging out in the summer with other friends like pat, Becca, etc. He was a great person and i always enjoyed his company. when i found out what happened i couldn't believe it. how could something so horrible happen to Bart? a fun, loving kind of guy. But i guess we have to realize that everything happens for a reason and God wanted Bart to be with him. I will pray for Bart and your family. Just know everyone is here for you in your time of grief.

may God bless you all.

Samantha Haynes

March 15, 2005

Dear Oliver family, I am so deeply saddened for your loss. I cannot even comprehend what this must be like for your family. I am Tara's sister-in-law. I am trying to understand why this has happened to you and your church family. Your family is constantly in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that you will find peace and comfort in this difficult time.

Sheri and Basil Quartullo

March 15, 2005

To The Oliver Family,

Our prayers and thoughts are with you during this very painful time. It's been many years since I've seen your family but you've never been forgotten.

May God be with you and strenthen you during this trial.

Mary Cutler Heide

March 15, 2005

To Bart's Family and Friends,

I was incredibly saddened to realize this tradgedy had occurred to your family. I taught Bart in 6th grade art at Heyer. Even then he was a decent and kind student. Learning a former student of mine has passed on has made me realize how precious each minute we have really is. I am a better teacher and person for having known Bart.

My Deepest Sympathy,

Sarah Fashun

Sarah Fashun

March 15, 2005

May god bless you all.

Ron Phillips

March 15, 2005

Ron and Lonnie,



So sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your son. Our deepest condolences are with you as well as our thoughts and prayers. With love, Paul, Cheryl, Jennifer and Sarah

Paul & Cheryl Graham

March 15, 2005

he was a good person. he will be greatly missed.

Nadja Johnson

March 15, 2005

Dear Loni and Ron,



I am deeply saddened that you have to deal with such a tragic event in your lives. I wanted you to know that I have had you in my thoughts and prayers daily since hearing about this aweful tragedy. Hang in there... you're not alone in your grief. I grieve with you.



With much love...



Your friend Leone Burns

Leone Burns

March 15, 2005

Dear Family members -

We have been reading about your church's tradegy and have been saddened by your loss. We went to college with Randy and Marjean. We were moved after reading the story of Bart and his cousin. Know Bart will be missed by many. We will be praying for you and extend our deepest sympathy to your family. With love -- your brothers in Christ,

David and Jolinda Schreiber

March 15, 2005

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