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Benjamin Derfel Obituary

Derfel, Benjamin "Big Ben" Passed away peacefully on June 7, 2019 at the age of 44. Beloved son of Suzanne and the late Stephen Derfel. Loving brother of Ruth Weill and uncle of Bradley Page. Dear nephew of Ken (the late Phyllis) Tragash. Also survived by cousins, Brian (Orit) Tragash and their son, Elliot. Further survived by other dear relatives and friends. Ben loved baseball, telling jokes, old cars and his cats. Funeral services, Tues., June 11 at 11:00 AM AT THE FUNERAL HOME. Burial to follow at Spring Hill Cemetery, 166 S. Hawley Ct., Milw. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions to the American Diabetes Association, MADACC or charity of your choice appreciated.



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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Jun. 9, 2019.

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June 13, 2019

So sorry to hear of the loss of your love one. May your prayers bring the comfort you need in this difficult time. Be confident that God is moved with compassion and understands your grief.
May Psalm 121 also bring you comfort.

June 11, 2019

Dear Sue and Ruth - May your memories comfort you and may the Lord give you peace.

Cheryl A. Holley

June 10, 2019

My deepest condolences and words of comfort to the Derfel family.

Adrienne Bebow

June 9, 2019

Sending my condolences to Ben's family and friends.
Ben and I had a couple of classes together at Nicolet.
I am sorry to hear of his passing.

Daley Katie/Maripat

June 9, 2019

Dear Sue & Ruth,
Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. Mom wishes she could be there with you. but she is only a call away. Ben is at peace and watching over you now.

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Maripat Daley

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Yvonnd Stephan

June 9, 2019

My dear Sue & family-
Deepest sympathy on the loss of "Big Ben" - so young and way too soon gone.
My heart is with you at this very sad time.

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Memorial Events
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Jun

11

Celebration of Life

Bar Centro

804 E. Center Street, Milwaukee, WI

Jun

11

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

Goodman-Bensman Funeral Home

4750 N. Santa Monica Blvd., Whitefish Bay, WI 53211

Jun

11

Shiva

Congregation Beth Israel Ner Tamid

6880 N. Green Bay Avenue, Glendale, WI

Jun

12

Shiva

6:30 p.m. - 8:30 p.m.

Home of Sue Derfel

4130 W. Hawthorne Trace Road,, 101 Brown Deer, WI

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4750 N. Santa Monica Blvd., Whitefish Bay, WI 53211

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