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Frank Pucci Obituary

Pucci, Frank Anthony Born to Eternal Life, Wed., April 25, 2007, age 78 years. Preceded in death by his wife, Marilyn Jean (nee Zancanaro), son, Patrick, father, Antonio, mother Nellie (nee Nesta), and brother, Dominic. Survived by his children Marynell (Carl) Christenson, Mary Jo (David) Coleman, Peter, Philip (Soozie), Mary Kay (the late Jim) Stainback and Mary Lee (Jon) LeGath. Grandfather of Michael, Heather, Carrie-Anne, Christopher, Maggie, Michelle and Jonathan. Great - grandfather of Jada. Brother of Peter (Honey) and Betty Ann Pucci. Also survived by beloved neices, nephews and other relatives and friends. Memorial Service 5PM Friday, May 4, with Visitation from 2PM at the: ZWASKA FUNERAL HOME 4900 W. Bradley Rd. 414-354-5330 www.zwaskafuneral.com Interment Holy Cross Cemetery. Frank was a retired postal clerk after 34 years and had recently moved to Georgia from Grafton, WI.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Apr. 27 to Apr. 29, 2007.

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Like you, I am one of a multitude touched by Frank's love and kindness. In person, and even on the telephone, he always made me feel uniquely important. His concerns for my well-being, and the well-being of others (frequently accompanied by tangible, and earnest, acts of generosity) makes him a legend in my book.

I have always loved, and will continue to enjoy, his vast collection of stories. Of course, we all know just how much he enjoyed them, too! In his later years, as his memory began to falter, it became apparent that this impairment had no effect on long-term memory. His stories were just as sharp as if they had occurred yesterday. Like the old adage of clouds and silver linings, his short-term memory loss had at least one positive aspect. Since he would often forget that he had already shared a particular story, he would tell it again! In lesser hands, this might prove to be annoying. For me, it came as a blessing. It demonstrated to me just how much it depends on the qualities of the stories and the skillfulness – and panache! -- of the storyteller.

As I now reflect upon his countless tales of wonder, the tales that immediately come to mind (and probably the most entertaining of all) are those stories where he pokes fun at himself. I now realize just how much I have secretly admired Frank’s rare (and precious) ability to make fun of himself. It springs, no doubt, from the self-assured strength developed over his lifetime, and not just any lifetime, but from a life well lived.

The very core of his life, of course, was his family. How could anyone fully measure the depth of love he held for his wife and children? I guess I will never know how hard it must have been for Frank to lose his cherished bride just as their youngest of seven children approached adulthood. On the other hand, it was abundantly obvious just how proud he was of his kids. I cannot recall a time where he didn’t share at least one vignette of his sons and daughters, their families, and even their pets! He would positively beam as he related how this one was doing this important thing over here, and how that one was doing this other important thing over there.

As his health began to decline, Frank would often relate to me that he accepted his situation. As he put it, “I’ve had a good life. I’ve had a good family. I’ve enjoyed my many friends.” and the like. Since he was grappling with a growing awareness of his waning prognosis, I thought he was simply putting on a brave front. Not long after, I became aware that he was saying these things for my benefit. This was just like Frank. He knew was dying but his principal concern was to make me feel better. Then, over the next few months, I began to sense something more. With an emerging sense of inner peace, Frank calmly -- even amiably -- shared these same sentiments. They were the same phrases as before but his words now carried a deeper, and much grander, meaning.

I celebrate his life. I cherish all of my many fond memories of Frank. I will always treasure the unique world he created for himself. A world that, quite generously, he could not help but share with those he loved.

Kathleen (Flaherty) Burns

May 7, 2007

To the family: You all remain in my prayers as you grieve the loss of a dear man. My parents have been friends with your family since the 1950's (along with the Horvatins & Garces). I have many loving memories of times being around "Mr. Pucci" & fondly think of him to this day as "the King of Puns." Although I moved out of Wisconsin in 1980, I was blessed over the years to see this wonderful man on a number of occasions where our family gathered (along with the Horvatins and Garces) to mark special events. I also remember your mother dearly from times spent with the Pucci family when I was young. May our Lord & Savior provide you with the comfort promised through His Holy Spirit as you grieve your loss. With condolences, Kathleen (Flaherty) Burns

Jim Carpenter

May 6, 2007

My memories of Frank go back to the Fruit Ranch on 76th and Bluemound Rd in 1957. He always had a warm hello for this teenager and his mother, Delores. A warmer smile I have never seen. That smile was passed to his children who I had the pleasure of teaching at Brown Deer High School. My condolences go out Frank's family from my family.

Susan Franceschi Russell

May 1, 2007

My childhood memories are full of times that our families spent together. I was honored to have your mom as my Confirmation sponsor.
Your dad was such a great friend to many, but especially to my mother who always shared "Frank updates" with us. You were certainly blessed with wonderful parents. We will keep you in our prayers

Cora Franceschi Quinn

May 1, 2007

To the Pucci family: Your dad was a very good friend to our mom and dad and to all of us. His gentle nature and smiling eyes come to mind when we think of him. Our childhood memories are of your mom and dad and all of you. Please know that he will be dearly remembered by us all.

Winky and Max Parker

April 30, 2007

We will miss this "Honorary Bulldog"...and that twinkle in his eyes. What great times we shared on trips out west...no one could do Vegas better. So glad to know this man and call him friend.

Jeanine Bauer

April 28, 2007

Frank was very special to all of our family. We always had a good time when he was around. I will miss seeing him on my annual trip to Oostburg and Grafton. You are all in our prayers. We love you. Jeanine and Jerry Bauer

Mary Kay Stainback

April 27, 2007

To our family and friends: your prayers and kind words are helping us greatly. We can't thank you enough for your thoughtfulness during this difficult time. Our Dad was a special man and a very loyal friend to many. He will be greatly missed.

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