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James Benka Obituary

Benka, James "Jim" Found deserved peace January 14, 2015. Preceded in death by his parents Peter and Lillian Benka and brother Jerry Benka. Survived by his wife of 51 years, Stefani (nee Ratz); daughters Christine (Tony) Gutowski; Kathy (Mark) Meyers; proud grandfather to Mackenzie and Julia Meyers and Jacek and Gerik Gutowski; sister-in-law, brothers-in-law, nieces, nephews, and many cousins and friends. Cudahy native and high school quarterback, tennis player and basketball star; Marquette Warrior basketball player; USTA Western doubles tennis champion; Oak Creek High School educator and coach for 38 years. "You are at peace and once again whole; swinging a racket and shooting a fade away jumper. You will be missed by many." Services January 19 with visitation 9-11:30 AM at Divine Mercy Parish, 800 E Marquette Ave., So. Milwaukee with mass to follow. Private Burial. In lieu of flowers, donations to the National Parkinson Foundation appreciated.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Jan. 18, 2015.

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Dan Hyatt

January 22, 2015

Amazing memories due to Mr. Benka...coach and friend.

Peggy Pieffle

January 21, 2015

Sorry for your loss. He was an amazing teacher and coach. Class of 1985 student. He will be missed.
Peggy Pieffle (Starks)

Darlene (DeWitt) & Wally Steinke

January 19, 2015

Oh Stef..... so sorry for the loss of Jim. I have very fond memories of both of you as friends. We send our sympathies and prayers for you and the girls.

Don Tellefsen

January 19, 2015

I want to extend my condolences to Stefani and her family. Jim was and will continue to be a great mentor to me not only as an educator and tennis coach but also as a kind and gentle human being. In the face of this disease he showed courage and a spirit that should be an example to all who encounter difficulties in their life He will be missed but revered forever.
Don Tellefsen OCHS Tennis

January 18, 2015

I join with so many friends and family who knew Jim in offering our deepest sympathy on his passing. There are no words to describe the grief that I feel right now, and I cannot possibly imagine the shock and sorrow that has been thrusts on the family as well. Everyone will miss him dearly.
May you and your family find peace and comfort in knowing that his loss is felt by all who knew and loved him. Always remember when someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure. I send you thoughts of peace and courage. Your family is in my prayers. Peace, Prayers and Blessings. Our great-grandmothers were sisters.
Carlton Mlodzik

Paul Bramel and Family

January 18, 2015

Dear Stephani, and girls... My deep sympathy to you all! You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Jim, and Paul were childhood friends, and Jim stood up as our Best man at our wedding. Rest in peace Jim... Until we all meet again.

Jan Birmingham

January 18, 2015

Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.

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9:00 a.m. - 11:30 a.m.

Divine Mercy Parish

800 E Marquette Ave., South Milwaukee, WI

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19

Funeral Mass

11:30 a.m.

Divine Mercy Parish

800 E Marquette Ave., South Milwaukee, WI

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