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Joseph Aaron Obituary

Aaron, Joseph June 7, 2013, age 93 years, of Glendale. Preceded in death by the love of his life and best friend wife Shirley, with whom he shared 65 years of music and life, parents Louis and Sarah Aaron, and siblings Abe (Audrey) Aaron, Dorothy (Issac) Kianovsky, Rose (Aaron) Goldsmith, Lily (Harry) Stein, and Annette (Sid) Cohen. Survived by children; Marlene (Dr. Marvin) Lauwasser, Rick Aaron; sister-in-law Ethel Atinsky; grandchildren, Dr. Melissa (John Yopps) Chudnow, Jenni Chudnow, Marissa and Andrew Aaron, Michael, Aaron, Kelly and Andy Lauwasser; and five great-grandchildren, Sydney, Elena, Zachary, and Benjamin Yopps, and Max, Calvin, and Camryn Lauwasser. Joe was a musical icon and legend throughout the Milwaukee area. He touched the lives of so many with his music, passion, humor, and love of his students and people. Funeral services 1 PM Monday, June 10, 2013 at Congregation Sinai, 8223 N. Port Washington Rd., Fox Point. Interment Second Home Cemetery, 3705 S. 43 St., Milwaukee. Memorials to Milwaukee Jewish Federation, 1360 N. Prospect Ave., Milwaukee, 53202, Joe Aaron Scholarship Fund, 3271 N. Lake Drive, Milwaukee, Wisconsin 53211.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Jun. 9 to Jun. 10, 2013.

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Christopher Glapa

December 6, 2020

Very simply stated Joes philosophy was not a little behind the beat, not a little ahead of the beat, but on the beat!

leone rosmait/bohlmann

July 3, 2013

I was just another average student at Juneau who enjoyed Mr Aaron's humor, love of music and joy of teaching ... Wish there were more like him ... Play on Mr Aaron, play on...

Judy and Bob (Abuya)Vanderboom

July 3, 2013

Wonderful man who lived a wonderful life. Everyone who knew him adored him.
I dont think there was a student who didnt like and respect him.

Christ & Lambia Alexopoulos & Family

June 25, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to all of you. Our whole family has fond memories of being friends and neighbors.

Ms. Burks

June 23, 2013

So sorry to hear of your lost. Reading Joseph story was touching expecially his love for music and seeing how many loved ones he had. I am from a big family as well, losing a loved one to death is very hard to over come but the Bible gives us hope to see our loved ones again in the near future.

Christine Felton

June 20, 2013

My great condolences on the loss of your dear father. He was a man rich in all the best ways one can be rich - love of family, people, and a musical passion that was infectious. We recently lost our mom, Grace, who along with my father, Bill Felton, were long time jazz supporters. My sister, Billie, and I went to Juneau too, so the connections to your family are many. I have a wonderful memory of taking my mom to Joe's 80th birthday concert/party. What a musician and what a gentleman! I was privileged to have known him and been transported by his music. With a smile in my heart,

Pat (Krueger) Mills

June 18, 2013

Being in class with Mr. Aaron was a "hoot". He always brought a smile to our faces. A lovely, wonderful man in all respects.

Dr. Chuck Kass

June 18, 2013

What a wonderful man! We will miss seeing him and listening to his hysterical jokes. We don't ever remember Mr. Aaron saying anything negative about anyone. His long life has touched many people and made their day just a little better each time they had the pleasure of seeing him.

Judy Zarzynski (Luedtke)

June 17, 2013

Mr. Aaron was NOT just a teacher at Juneau, he was an icon. You learned from him how to be a person of integrity and honor. You learned to be respectful of others even if you didn't always agree with them, they were entitled to their own opinion. I have had the pleasure of hearing him play in many venues. I also was a student at Juneau. When he walked the halls, he commanded respect not because he was a teacher, but because of the person he was. He loved us all as if we were his own children. He treated us with respect. He is the type of teacher we were all priviledged to know and love. He will be missed. I pray that God will wrap His loving arms around your family,and give you the strength and comfort you need to get through this difficult time. Mr. Aaron is playing with the heavenly hosts, and some of the best musicians and song writers that ever lived. God bless you Joe, and thanks for the memories.

Lori S.

June 17, 2013

I remember Mr. Aaron from my days as a student at Juneau High School. He was not only an exceptional musician, but an outstanding person, teacher, and role model. His was a life well-lived.

Andrea

June 15, 2013

My deepest condolences to the family of Joe Aaron. What a great mensch and talent! He played clarinet on Bi Mir Bistu Schoen and And The Angels Sing at our Milwaukee Jewish Community Chorale concert a few years ago. I also loved when he was part of Torahpalooza at Emanu El.
It was a great pleasure to have him be with us!

Donna Tess

June 15, 2013

Rick and Family, I had your Dad for clarinet lessons for many years back in the 50's and 60's. He was an awesome man and I learned a lot. He made learning music fun. I will always remember him and his wit and teaching. I admired him.

Donna (Barth) Tess

Garren Ruggaber MD

June 15, 2013

So sorry to hear of your Father's passing. I took private alto sax lessons from him for a number of years in the mid 1960's. He was an exceptional musician and instructor. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. He will be greatly missed!

Mary Hoard

June 14, 2013

RICK- So sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Mikaela loved the clarinet lessons at Maple Dale...What a very sweet man. God Bless,

Rick + Barby Boxer

June 14, 2013

Rick and Marlene: Your Dad was so special to generations of music lovers or simply lovers. He was unique. He lives in all who knew him. Our sincere condolences

JoAnn Petaschnick

June 13, 2013

Joe Aaron was my wonderful Algebra teacher when I was a student at Juneau High. I had the pleasure of hearing him play at Caroline's in recent years. He has always had a special place in my heart.

Eva (Platais) Amrhein

June 13, 2013

I remember Mr. Aaron from Juneau HS (I graduated in 1966). He talked to us about playing his sax way back then. How wonderful that he lived his life in the love of his music. He was a special man.

Laura Carter

June 13, 2013

I remember Joe jammin' at Torahpalooza a few years ago. My condolences to his loved ones. His memory is a blessing.

Lionel and Marsha Lambert

June 12, 2013

We were so happy to hear Joe's music. The last time on New Year's Eve when after listening to the entertainment at Laurel Oaks, he went and got his clarinet and out played the musicians for another hour.
We were sorry to be out of town for the funeral, but our thoughts are with you. Regards,the Lamberts

June 12, 2013

Dearest Rick and Marlene --

Joe was the last of the great Milwaukee musicians. You know that I grew up with Joe when he would play with my Dad's band! He was and always will be a legend in this city! And, now he's telling jokes to my Dad in their eternal home!

Steve Swedish

Dorothy Quartullo

June 12, 2013

Joe taught my son back in 1974 and he will not be forgotten. A wonderful man and a terrific teacher with a good sense of humor. We spoke of him often through the yrs. and will continue to in the future. A true artist!

June 12, 2013

Rick: We are very sorry to hear about your Dad. Sam always enjoyed playing and talking to him. He had such a good sense of humor. Sam and Fern Kidd

Greg Sell

June 12, 2013

Rick,
Very sorry to hear about your Dad. I first met him when I began saxophone lessons in grade school. He was a very special person and an outstanding example of how to live life to its fullest.

May 2011

Carol Orlandi

June 12, 2013

We learned so much from him - music and life.

Denise Mclaren Hoernke

June 11, 2013

Dear Aaron Family,
Your Dad was my favorite teacher both Math and Epic at Juneau High School. Mr Aaron always showed kindness, strength & love of life to all of us.I will always carry a special place in my heart for him.

Anthe Selaides

June 11, 2013

Despite his full and colorful life, I was heartbroken to hear of your dear father's passing. I am sure that he was aware of the love that surrounded him by family in the past weeks and months, and that you are comforted by the memories you have, and ones shared here. I think of your father so often, and fondly, as he and my father, George Selaiden, played several shows together for over more than 30 years. His attendance at my father's 50th birthday party cheered him greatly, as did their friendship during that time. He so respected your father's natural talent and cultivated proficiency throughout their lives, always marveling at his energy. Joe Aaron was part of a unique time in history, when jazz changed the face of contemporary music. I so loved to hear him play his clarinet when I was growing up. It made that time all the more magical. And I feel his presence every time I'm in the old neighborhood where my grandparents also lived for many years. Your father will forever remind me of the special part of my youth when his intelligence, keen humor and kind heart touched us all. May his spirit be eternal.

Larry Lange

June 11, 2013

Rick,
Please accept my sympathy. I had the good fortune to study saxophone with Joe during my high school years. Joe was THE sax teacher in Milwaukee.Even with his passing, he is still an inspiration to me.

Larry Lange

Faith Dukor-Chaplick

June 11, 2013

Joe was a beacon - a smile that was lit from within and shone through his face, particularly his eyes. A beacon of light, music, love. How many lives did he enrich? Incalculable. My deepest sympathies to his family and my beloved friend Rick.

Harriette Topitzes

June 11, 2013

Peace and Brotherhood
This is the message that Joe Aaron taught and personified.
May his memory be eternal.

Harriette Topitzes

June 11, 2013

Peace and Brotherhood.
That is the message Joe Aaron taught with kindness, humor and learning. I was an Orchestra student at Juneau for four years and he was never unkind. I looked forward for many years at State Fair seeing him on the music wagon and I could wave to him from our Stand.
A great teacher and a great human being.
May his memory be eternal.

June 11, 2013

Peace and Brotherhood.
That is the message Mr. Aaron taught
His is the brightest light that shone while I was at Juneau. I looked forward to seeing him at State Fair every day and every year while the music van rode by and I could wave to him .
May his memory be eternal.
Harriette Topitzes

Howie Goodman

June 10, 2013

Rick and Marlene,
what fond memories of your father. I remember Cherry St and Walnut Street, the friendship of our parents, going to the Dells, and taking saxophone lessons. Wish we could be with you. Love, Suzanne and Howie Goodmsn Caseria, Israel.

Lauren Woppert

June 10, 2013

I wanted to express my deepest condolences for your loss. Mr Aaron was both my mother's music teacher when she was younger and my music teacher. He taught me how to play the clarinet and sax. Mr Aaron even came to my school in third grade to play with me in the talent show. He was such an amazing inspiration to me and so many others. I will forever cherish the time I was able to spend with him.

Karen Onarheim-Nordstrom

June 10, 2013

Mr Aaron was our orchestra director for a couple years in the mid-50's and was asked to give up the orchestra directorship due to high blood pressure or some health problem. We were lucky to be assigned to his homeroom for the duration of our years at Juneau. What a lucky bunch we were! Squirt guns were popular in those days and we had a good time in homeroom keeping Mr A. busy chasing us. One day I stole one out of his desk drawer and he shouted to me "Miss Onarheim, stay out of my drawers!" He realized what he had said and immediately slapped his hand over his mouth. What a funny man he was and always so good to all of us. Stayed in touch with him until just a couple years ago. I live in Bloomington, Mn, have had a great life and remember him as having a very great influence on my life. Karen Onarheim Nordstrom

John P Huss

June 10, 2013

I enjoyed Joe's incredible Clarinet
playing. My mother Lynne Loebel Huss
was one of his students in 50's. Never forget his playing at Organ Piper.
RIP Joe. You were a true gentlemen.
Best Regards,
John P Huss

Roger Dobrick

June 10, 2013

I hope your grief will be tempered by the memories and his musical legacy, which he generously shared with the world. I feel privileged to have known him and heard him perform.

Patricia Czarnecki

June 10, 2013

To the Aaron family - my sincerest condolences on your loss.

I was teaching privately at Walker Music some years ago, as was Joe. I got the chance to spend some time talking with him and heard quite a few good stories. He not only impressed me with his knowledge,artistry, and humor but his great patience and kind understanding. He was a wonderful gentleman and great musician - we are lucky God shared him with us as long as He did.

Ellen Kozak

June 10, 2013

Marlene and Rick--
My condolences on your loss.

Elise Melrood

June 10, 2013

Ricky and Marlene,
I will miss your father. Losing him is like losing a member of our family. My parents knew him since grade school, some eighty odd years... Please accept our deepest sympathy for your loss. You have so many beautiful memories of his life and his music.

montine pauers

June 10, 2013

Joe will always be remembered! amazing service....Glad I had an opportunity to be in his light!
This quote reminds me of how Joe looked at his music and embracing others in their journey of learning...
Don't only practice your art, but force your way into its secrets, for it and knowledge can raise men to the divine. -Beethoven
Peace Joe

Laurie Melrood

June 10, 2013

Dear Rick, Marlene and Family,

I will always remember your dad and mother as good friends of our family and Joe as a co-master story teller with my dad. The music of Joe and Rick has been legion for so many decades, part of the greatness of Milwaukee's music scene, as I observed it from a distance. Now when I hear Stardust played, I'll remember Joe Aaron.

Wishing you strength for your loss, brachot rabbot, many blessings to you.

Christie Orthodoxou

June 10, 2013

Hi Rick (Mr. Aaron),

My condolences to you and your family. You might not remember me but you were my flute teacher in middle school at USM and my mom & family (Eleni Alexopoulos) grew up on the same block as you and your family. I will always remember those lessons and I am so sorry to hear about your dad.

David Teske

June 10, 2013

Met Joe, many years back at Northridge Shopping Center where I worked and Joe was a "mall walker". From there would follow Joe and his musical group to venue's in Elm Grove and other parts of the city and eventually to the Milwaukee Public Museum where I ended up working after Northridge. Was always great seeing and hearing Joe play and now his beautiful sounds will be ringing through the heavens. My thoughts and prayers to his family. It was my absolute pleasure to have known Joe and a blessing to have had the opportunity to experience the music and the man. RIP Joe.

Mickey Dolgin

June 10, 2013

Rick, Marlene and family Joe will always be remembered not only for his clarinet playing and his jokes but I will always remember the lessons he gave me to make me love the clarinet as I do. I also loved the way he and your mom both smiled as I saw them together.

Marlene Karp

June 10, 2013

Rick, Marlene and Family; My sincere condolences on the passing of your Dad. Your fond memories of him will always keep him close to you.

Suzie Pikofsky

June 10, 2013

Marlene and family:
Sincere condolences on the loss of Joe. He brought much joy to all.

Bob Erlien

June 10, 2013

I was so sorry to hear. The world has lost a very very special person. The loss is only felt more deeply because of how wonderful Joe was. My sympathies to all.

Donna Roback

June 10, 2013

Marlene and Ricky, your dad will always be remembered not only for his beautiful music but also for his one of a kind sense of humor. I am still telling "Joe " jokes.
My love and thoughts are with you,
Donna Roback

Sue Russell

June 10, 2013

Rick My sympathy and prayers are with you and your family. Your dad was an amazing man and role model to many. He will be missed

June 10, 2013

Marlene and Rick

We are sorry to learn about Joe's passing.What a Impactful, passionate, and honest man. Having Joe play at my wedding was a quite a blessing.

Jeffrey, Justin, and Jessie Weil

June 10, 2013

We are in Boulder visiting our daughter and her family and received notification of Joe's death from our son Ari who played in several groups with Joen since Ari's teenage years. Joe and Rick performed at most of our children's simchas which made them even more memorable. He was a great musician with a wonderful sense of humor and a man of great warmth.

Joel and Liliana Rosenthal

June 10, 2013

Rick and Cindy,

I am so very deeply sorry for your loss. I feel very priviledged to have seen you and your father perform in the recent past. I hold fond memories and Joe was also my math teacher at Juneau.

Ms Patti Stetson

Jose & Helen Sectzer

June 10, 2013

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Art Larson

June 10, 2013

Rick, our thoughts are with you and your family.

Marilyn Lane

June 9, 2013

My sympathy to Rick & Marlene. Your Dad was a very special person. It was my good fortune to have known him for more than 60 years—I was first introduced to him & your Mom when I was the "coat check girl" at annual New Year's Day parties at the home of my uncle, Elias, who was the principal of Juneau when Joe taught there.

Over the years I enjoyed your Dad's music as did everyone else who knew him. His gentle and kind ways will always be a special memory for me.

Dennis Najoom

June 9, 2013

Joe was love of family, love of life, love of music, love of friends. He made us all better. He even let me sit in. What a man. We will miss you.

Carol Kramer

June 9, 2013

Joe was not only my saxophone teacher, but one of my favorite people in the world. Legend indeed...and loved by all his students, tho I always felt he loved me best (I'm sure we all felt that way)! What a dear man who will be missed by us all. Heartfelt condolences to his family.

Jeff & Jennifer Christensen

June 9, 2013

Marlene & Rick,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our condolences,

Deanna Lubus

June 9, 2013

It it a special person that makes a difference in a student's life and that's what Mr. Aaron did for so many. He truely cared about people and taught so much more than the school curriculum he taught kindness and giving back. I'll remember him always.

Sharon Schmidt

June 9, 2013

My deepest condolences to the family. I will miss Joe's ever present warm smile!

Harold Lerner

June 9, 2013

Marlene & Rick
My sympathy on the passing of your Dad.

Liz Both

June 9, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. Mr. Aaron was one of my favorite teachers at Juneau. He took me under his wing and help me find confidence. He was a a wonderful person.

Ivy and Greg

June 9, 2013

We send our sympathies and strength to you and your family, Rick. We know how much you loved it and he had a great life.

Angela Valigurskiy

June 9, 2013

I love you all so dearly, as do Max and Calvin. Joe was so important to us. I am so glad Max and Calvin had the opportunity to know Joe as a Great Grandpa!

Donovan Koeberl

June 9, 2013

Joe taught me how to play saxophone, Geometry & EPIC. He never yelled at a student since everyone that had him respected him. A wonderful man who had a wonderful life. I thank his family for sharing him.

Dick & Don Eliot

June 9, 2013

My heart felt prayers, and condolences to the family.
We were all blessed to have known dear Joe, and to have
played music with him.

Vince Picciolo

June 9, 2013

Deepest sympathy to the entire Aaron family. Joe will be missed not only for his music but his humor. Joe had a story for every occasion and delivered it in a way only Joe could.

June 9, 2013

Our deepest sympathy to you Marlene and Rick and family for your loss.
Stephanie, Natalie and Rich Pasyak

Jeanne Angelos

June 9, 2013

My heartfelt sympathy for all of the Aaron family and for the many friends whose lives Joe touched so deeply with his love and music.

Bob/Cathie Van Domelen

June 9, 2013

He was a remarkable musician and an inspiration to us, especially as we age.
Thanks for sharing him with us. He was a mentor for our son.
Bob and Cathie Van Domelen

Leonhard Rose

June 9, 2013

Colleen and I wish the Aaron family our very best at Joe's passing. We remember him well as a fine fellow teacher, a superb musician and a great story teller. Len Rose

Maryle (Bloedorn) Peterson

June 9, 2013

To the family of Joe Aaron,
My heart goes out to each of you. I am so sorry for your loss. We wish people like Joe (always Mr. Aaron to me)could live on forever. I know Mr. Aaaron will live on in my heart as long as I am alive.

He has never been forgotten since way back in the 1950's when I was fortunate to be able to take private clarinet and sax lessons from him for most of the 50s. My family knew he was the best in Milwaukee. Yes, he was an Icon & Legend but so much more. Not only his wonderful musical talent, but his patience, encouragement, examples and guidelines as a teacher that helped shape my future, that I have always been so grateful for.

Even though we have not lived in Wisconsin for many years we do visit the area and had the wonderful opportunity in July of last year, to meet with Mr. Aaron and his musical group when they had a jam session. It was so very special! His talent in playing his clarinet was an experience to behold, giving not only him joy but all those listening and watching him. We had an opportunity to visit and relive those student/teacher days together and was thrilled that he even remembered being invited to my wedding in 1960.

I not only have the Youtube videos to watch him playing on, but also took videos of him playing with his group that wonderful very special day last summer.

I know he will be missed, but knowing that he has touched so many lives in so many wonderful ways, I hope will give you comfort. When I say his name or think of him, it puts a huge smile on my face. And as I told him last summer, no one can play that licorice stick like he can. Rest in peace dear friend, you will never be forgotten.

DONALD PINSKER

June 9, 2013

CONDOLENCES TO THE FAMILY OF JOE AARON ON HIS PASSING. JOE WAS, THE "MUSICAL MENCH OF MILWAUKEE", WHO ALWAYS ALLOWED ME TO SIT IN WITH HIS GROUP, AS A VOCALIST, WHEN I ATTENDED EVENTS THAT HE PLAYED AT. JOE, WAS A MUSICAL INSTITUTION IN MILWAUKEE, AND ALTHOUGH, I WAS TRAINED TO PLAY A BARITONE HORN AND TROMBONE, I HAD BEEN SINGING THE STANDARDS OF SINATRA & BENNETT, SINCE THE EARLY 50'S, AT THE DRIFTWOOD LOUNGE, ACROSS FROM WTMJ-TV, THE HOME OF (DECEASED) GRANT KRUEGER, ANOTHER MILWAUKEE MUSIC "MAVEN", WHO PASSED AWAY SEVERAL YEARS AGO. I REMEMBER, AT AGE 12, PERFORMING MY FIRST PROFESSIONAL WEDDING VOCALS AT BETH ISRAEL ON TEUTONIA & MEINECKE. PLAYING THE TROMBONE IN THE ARMY, MILWAUKEE POLICE BAND AND OTHER DANCE BANDS WHILE IN HIGH SCHOOL WAS GREAT, BUT BEING THE SINGER, "OUT FRONT", WAS THE REAL "KICK". JOE, WAS ALWAYS KIND ENOUGH, TO ALLOW ME TO SING SEVERAL SONGS. ALTHOUGH, I MOVED FROM MILWAUKEE IN 1980 TO PURSUE MY CAREER IN BROADCASTING, IN LOS ANGELES,(NO SNOW) I'M STILL SINGING THE STANDARDS, BUT NOW RETIRED IN LAS VEGAS.

DONALD H. PINSKER,
MILWAUKEE POLICE OFFICER, 1962-1980,
CBS TELEVISION NETWORK, BROADCAST ENGINEER, LOS ANGELES, RETIRED, 1982-2005.
[email protected]

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