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SHERI
November 15, 2023
Remembering Mark from one of my classes back in 1985 at UWM. He was such a good looking guy. He died way too young.
So sorry to see this sad news.
Betty Fahy
June 19, 2011
Mark, a year has almost passed since you left us but we still feel you in our hearts and know you're with us. Please continue to shine down on us. Love,
Uncle Tom & Aunt Betty
Alice Torres
July 21, 2010
Margaret, We are sorry to hear the loss of mark.Our thoughts and deepest condolences to you and your family. Mark was a kind and friendly person. God bless You and your family.
Joe and Alice Torres and family.
Holly Weissenberger
July 20, 2010
Words cannot express how deeply saddened we are hearing of Mark.
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It looks as if God is speaking to my Noel, I call this..."His Eye is on the Sparrow"
Shannon Smikowski
July 15, 2010
We were shocked and deeply saddened to hear about Mark's passing. We can’t even begin to imagine what your family has been going thru.
We have been keeping you in prayer. Not only for you, Margaret - but- for your children as well, the rest of the Stoiber family, for the business and employees as well. Mark was a wonderful and generous person-he was a visionary. He will be greatly missed!
With our sincerest condolences,
Kirk and Shannon (Jakab) Smikowski and family
Robert Pamenter
July 14, 2010
My sincere condolences. I have always admired Mark and the outstanding way he kept the best interests of the patients foremost, even while we commiserated about medicare and insurance companies. Mark Pingolt,. Terry Malloy and I picqued Mark's interest in sleep when he was an EKG tech at St. Mary's. He had so many great ideas on how to help patients. My prayers go out for him and his family.
Tom & Betty Fahy & Family
July 14, 2010
Margaret, Maddie, Sam, Kate, Pat, Kurt, Todd
(this message seemed right)
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2010
Debra Walloch Hoffman
July 12, 2010
Although I had not seen Mark since our 1980 high school graduation days, I'm not surprised that he grew into such a well loved and respected man. My sincerest condolences to his family.
Doug and Lori (Meronk) Johnston and family
July 12, 2010
Dear Kurt, Todd, Margaret and family,
We are so terribly sorry to hear about your loss. Mark was such a wonderful person. Please know that you are in our prayers. May God bless you during this time of need.
Anne Fiebiger
July 12, 2010
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Chris MacDonald Winders
July 11, 2010
Margaret, I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Mark. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Robert Molthen
July 11, 2010
So sorry to hear about the loss of Mark. His life was much too short, but in the time he was with us, there is no doubt he made a very meaningful impact on the lives of many people. We extend or deepest sympathy to all of his family and pray for their peace and understanding.
Patty Kostrzewa
July 10, 2010
Margaret, Maddie, Sam, and Kate: I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Mark. You are in our prayers in this difficult time. Patty, Paul, Mitchell and Rachel Kostrzewa
Emma Oleniczak
July 10, 2010
Coach Mark was a great basketball coach.
Mrs. Stoiber, Maddie, Sam, and Kate I am so sorry for your loss.
Darren McKay
July 9, 2010
When my brothers and I were growing up as kids we always looked forward to getting together with our cousins Mark, Kurt and Todd, as well as, the rest of the family. It was always a blast. I'm sorry I couldn't make it to the funeral, but my thoughts are with the family. I hit a home run at my softball game and dedicated it to Mark. In the next life Mark.
Michele Lusis
July 9, 2010
Margaret, Maddie, Sam and Kate: Words can not express how sorry I am for your loss. Mark was a great example of what a father, husband, coach and friend should be. He had a wonderful life and loved you all so much, you could see that in his smile when he was around you all. Please know that we are a phone call away whenever you need us. We consider you all a part of our family. We have so many good memories of him and share in your grief.
All of our love,
Karl, Michele, Maya and Dagen
July 9, 2010
All of us at the Wisconsin Better Business Bureau would like to extend our sympathies to the family and friends of Mark Stoiber.
James Rasmussen
July 8, 2010
"Mark coached my daughters basketball team and always had the patience of a saint. He taught them to have fun, great sportsmenship, and always had a smile on his face. My thoughts and prayers are with his entire family." The Rasmussens
July 8, 2010
Mark's ability and gift to think outside the box is what amazed me about him. I regret not being able to golf more with him and pick his brain. He will always have a place in my heart and in my head. His smile and kind-mannered way was contagious. My sincere sympathy in this difficult time to you Margaret. He will be missed. -Doc Herrle
July 8, 2010
Margaret, Maddie, Sam and Kate you are in our hearts and prayers! Amy, Sophia and Savannah.
Paul Dengel
July 8, 2010
Dear Margret and Family;
We are so very sorry for your loss. Mark was such a wonderful man full of life and dedicated to helping others. His work here on earth has had such a positive impact on the lives of so many.
We will keep you in our prayers. May God Bless and keep all of you.
Paul, Kristi, Sarah, Andrew, and Michael Dengel
Connie and Larry Ha milton
July 8, 2010
Our prayers are with you and the children. What a wonderful man.He will be missed very much. God Bless his entire family.
connie and Larry Hamilton {Ron's Mom and Dad}
Michelle Meronk-Hiteman
July 8, 2010
I grew up with Mark and the Stoiber brothers in Muskego. Then, I was extremely fortunate to spend my college days with our tight group of friends. We have so many fond memories about living together on Cramer Street. Today, I was reminding Tom Gauthier just how fortunate we all were to live on that street together and the many moments we laughed and did such silly things together. Tom and Mark were quite the pranksters and always kept us laughing and joyful. We could always count on each other to care for each other without reservation. I have never experienced a friendship quite like this again. It was such a very important time in our lives and I feel so blessed that we had each other during these instrumental years. We all went off into the world and did fine things that we can be proud of. I attribute this to close relationships. When Mark met Margaret we knew Mark was in love for the rest of his life. Mark was a fine friend, father and man. I have always felt honored that I felt a member of the Stoiber family. Mark has lived a good life and I know so many of us feel blessed that we got to be a part of this wonderful man's life. He is a true friend.
With love,
Michelle Meronk-Hiteman
Kirsten P
July 7, 2010
Dear Margaret, Kids, Todd and family...I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you many happy, warm, loving memories to comfort you. Many people have been touched by Mark and are certainly better for it.
Diane ( Barutha) Green
July 7, 2010
So sorry to hear about Mark. I have GREAT memories of the Stoiber Boys On Indiana Ave, growing up... we were the 4 girls across the steet... Remember??? Todd and Kurt , we will always love you guys and I know that you all have a special bond as BROTHERS as we do as SISTERS... May the Lord give you Peace in knowing that Mark is in a better place, Diane ( Barutha) Green
July 7, 2010
Dear Margaret, Maddie, Sam and Kate,
We are so very sorry about the loss of Mark. May God's abundant love embrace all of you at this difficult time. Mark's smiling face will be deeply missed in the neighborhood. Please know that the Rivard family is holding you all in prayer at this time.
Ed and Donna Rivard & family, New Berlin
Michael Stoiber
July 7, 2010
Our deepest sympathy and thoughts are with you. He will be missed.
Donna Kubel Basterash
July 7, 2010
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Stoiber family. I have many fond memories of ice skating in Cudahy Park with the "Stoiber" boys. God Bless.
Donna (Kubel) Basterash
Crystal Roecker
July 7, 2010
Dear Kurt and Todd, and Mark's family,
I am so sorry for your loss!!
I have great memories of Mark and your
entire family through high school.
You are in my prayers
Love and God's Peace,
Crystal (Gaura) Roecker
Angela Schneider
July 7, 2010
I never knew Mark on a personal level, but he had a gentleness and kindness about him. I wish fond memories to those close to his heart. I'm sure he gave his family and friends many wonderful memories.
Very Sincerely,
Angela Schneider (Anderson) Former High School Classmate
Emily Dethloff
July 7, 2010
Your family is in my thoughts and prayers! Emily Dethloff (Maddie's teacher)
Jean Pedek
July 7, 2010
I am the grandmother of Taylor Deckert. I was at everyone of her soccer games. It was such a joy to watch Mark with the girls. He really enjoyed being a coach. We are going to really miss him. My prayers are with you during this difficult time. Jean Pedek
Tim Lausier
July 7, 2010
May God Bless you at this great loss to your family. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Your former Cudahy neighbor
The Semenak Family
July 7, 2010
Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May God's grace, along with your cherished memories, bring you comfort in the days to come.

Tricia Lehman
July 7, 2010
Oh Mark...what a life you have lived in your short 47 years! Your drive and passion for your work took you far and will live on. I know that you gave blood, sweat, and tears to get things to where they are now. You were able to see things outside of the box, so imaginative and creative. What a legacy you have left behind. Your love and devotion to Margaret, Maddie, Sam, and Kate was always evident. It would be impossible to know you and not know how much your family meant to you. Your marriage was envy worthy...the real deal...like a storybook love. I ALWAYS knew you had my sister's back. You and Margaret gave me hope that it is possible to "have it all." You have set the bar high, Mark, for a lot of people in a lot of ways. I will miss your sense of humor, honesty, and the encouragement to do better that I felt whenever you were around. Jake and Luke loved you, Uncle Mark... I will miss the wonderful example you were to them. You are still an inspiration to me. I will help Margaret and the kids as much as I can. Mark, I hope that you will give your family signs along the way that you are still with them. It's only been 5 days but it feels sooo much longer. We love you Mark! Tricia, Jake, and Luke Lehman
July 7, 2010
Margaret, there are no words. His passing is a huge loss to so many. What an incredible husband, father and friend. I love you. Ellie Ewens
Lori Schubring (Thiede)
July 7, 2010
To Mark's whole family,
Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear of your loss of Mark. Although no words can help to ease the loss you bear, please know that you are very close in every thought and prayer.
Lori Schubring (Thiede) - Mel and Betty Thiede's daughter
Ann Konopka
July 7, 2010
Margaret & Family,
I've had the privilege of meeting Mark. He was as kind and sweet as you are. He will be greatly missed.
Our hearts, thoughts, and many prayers go out to you and your family.
Don't hesitate to call if you need anything.
Sincerely,
Ann, Group Fitness, & all of SW YMCA.
Jodi Sowinski
July 7, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. May the love of friends and family help you through this difficult time.
Mark,Jodi,Darrin & Cheyenne Sowinski
Margaret Pfaff (Gwiazdowski)
July 7, 2010
To the Stoiber family and all of Mark's friends and co-workers,
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
An old co-coworker from Children's Hospital.
July 7, 2010
Kurt,
I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. We are thinking of you.
Traci & Ed Strand
Diane Stoiber
July 7, 2010
Mark was always so good to our family. He was an incredible uncle to Andy and Sadie. He was always a good friend to me. We will miss him terribly. We have great memories. We will keep him in our hearts. We pray for all of the Stoiber family.
July 7, 2010
I would like to express our heartfelt condolences to the entire Stoiber family.
Alberta Bitter
Denise, Nick and Danyell Chupp
July 7, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help at this time. With love and concern.....
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