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Michael Barclay Obituary

Barclay, Michael J. Age 50, of Honeoye Falls, NY, formerly of Brown Deer, WI, and Ridgewood, NJ, died suddenly on August 16, 2007. Mike was a graduate of Ridgewood High School ('75), Colgate University ('79), and Stanford University ('86). He was a professor at The Simon School of Business at the University of Rochester for the past 22 years. He found a true passion when he fulfilled a lifelong dream of becoming a private pilot. His other interests included scuba diving, tennis and flying his seaplane to remote fishing spots with his buddies. He is survived by his wife, Laura Thurner; mother, Noreen Barclay of Pewaukee WI; siblings Dave (Debbie) of Winfield, IL, Kay (Jeff) Kreiter of Slinger, WI, Janet (Les) Guilfoyle of Rockaway, NJ, and Rich (Lindsey) Barclay of Ridgewood, NJ; his 4 dogs, many nephews and nieces, and Laura's family also survive him. He was predeceased by his father, Frank D. Barclay. Visitation on Thursday, August 23, 2-4PM and 6-9PM at Millers Funeral Home, Rochester, NY. A memorial service will be held Sunday, August 26, 2007, at 2PM, at the University of Rochester. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to the Michael Barclay Memorial Fund at The University of Rochester, Carol Simon Hall, Rochester, NY 14627 or Bright Star German Sheperd Rescue, 30 Wheatstone Circle, Fairport, NY 14450, or The Shamrock Club of Wisconsin Scholarship Fund, 2133 West Wisconsin Ave., Milwaukee, WI 53233, in his memory.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Aug. 22, 2007.

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David Long

August 28, 2007

We are very saddened by the loss of our newly found friends. I am very grateful to have met Mike at Crescent Beach in May. My son Darrin will forever remember his first water take-off and landing thanks to Mike letting him have the stick. I also will never forget my wonderful ride and the great photos I took that were placed on our DVD to the pilots. God bless all of you and we will always remember the great time!
Dave and Darrin Long

Larry Bering

August 27, 2007

Laura-
I am very sorry to hear about your loss of Michael. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Barbara Howard

August 27, 2007

Laura...we just got word. We'll always remember how supportive you were, dropping everything to be here in Boston in September of 1995. We are here for you now. Jonathan, the kids and I are so sorry...

Jill Nilles

August 25, 2007

LAURA,Just wanted to let you know that you have been in my thoughts and prayers since hearing of your husbands death. It is so hard to lose someone you love. The memories you have will last forever. Fondly, Jill (Scott) Nilles

Lynne (Jones) Caljouw

August 23, 2007

Dear Laura and Jean,

Please know that my thoughts are with you both. I will never forget what a caring and generous man Mike was - he taught me many things over the brief few days a year I was blessed to spend with you at Colgate Camp. Mike's passion for his friends and family were always present in his communication and actions. He will remain in my memory forever.

Angela&Raino Fluegge

August 22, 2007

Laura, in this sad time our thoughts reach out to comfort you. We hope you get along with this difficult time with help from friends and family.

Martha Berry

August 22, 2007

Laura,
You have been in my thoughts and prayers constantly. My heart goes out to you in this time of sorrow. Mike was a wonderful guy and I am honored to have had the privilege of knowing him. I hope we can talk when you are ready - please know that we are all here for you.
Love always,
Martha

Sharon Bacheller Partridge

August 22, 2007

Sorry to hear about your lose..no words can take away the pain that you are feeling....take comfort in the love and prayers that are being sent our way, they will sustain you through this time of grief.

Jane Schumacher Purden

August 22, 2007

Dear Laura,
I wish you peace in this time of sorrow. Mike was a kind, thoughtful man and truly touched the lives of many people. It was an honor to have traveled with you together, and I am so very sorry for your loss. Know that you are held in my thoughts and prayers.
Love, Jane

Todd Meinerding

August 21, 2007

Noreen, Frank & Family:

We are very sorry for your loss.

Todd Meinerding & Family

cheryl zonneville

August 21, 2007

Laura im sorry for your loss my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Lisa Harry(Dunham)

August 21, 2007

Laura,
I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. I cannot imagine what you are going through, but I send all my thoughts and prayers your way.

Pam Campon Shaul

August 20, 2007

Laura - I was so very sorry to hear of your loss. If you ever want to talk please get in touch.

Vicki (Harris) Griffin

August 20, 2007

Dear Laura,
I am so sorry for your loss, you are in my thoughts and prayers. May God be with you and your family.

Donald and Wanda Warren Berry

August 20, 2007

Laura, Jean, and John-- We here in Hamilton are terribly sorry for your devastating loss. This is a loss for Colgate also, since Michael was an alum of which the college was very proud-- and all of the Thurners are treasured here. Clearly Michael touched the future through his many admiring students and the love he shared with family, friends, and even his pets. Our thoughts are with you.

Leslie Reynolds Sautter

August 20, 2007

Dear Laura,
Wow, I just can't even imagine what you are going through and I am thinking of you constantly and want to talk with you as soon as you feel you can. I am so very very sad at Mike's death and your terrible loss. He was such a wonderful man and i know you shared many wonderful years together. I will get your phone number from mom and call you mid-week, if that's okay. If you want to call to talk, I'm here, thinking of you. 843-709-2665.
Wishing you and your Mom strength - it has been such a terrible two years for you both.
Love, Les (Snoop)

Mary Deidre Castronovo

August 19, 2007

Dear Laura and Family I heard of your about your loss. I am so sorry our thoughts and prayers are with you and you're family. DeidreCastronovo

Mark Upton

August 19, 2007

I was saddened to hear of your loss. Please know that your in our prayers.

Linda Gorton

August 19, 2007

Laura (and family),
A simple note to let you know that you are being thought of at this most difficult time.

Betsey Collins

August 19, 2007

I was so sorry to hear of your loss. Please let me know if there is anything I can do to help at this time.

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