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Paul Moy Wong

1946 - 2019

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Paul Wong Obituary

Wong, Paul Moy was born January 10, 1946, in Ohio, died February 27, 2019 in Milwaukee with family at his side. The first child of Vincent Moy and Mary Moy Johnson, he was preceded in death by his grandfather Joe Wong, his parents, and brother James Moy. He is survived by siblings Mary (Don) Van Hoy, Miriam (John) Sermersheim, Rebecca (Randy) Falkenberg, and Thomas Moy; friend and former wife Margaret Jones; children Joseph, Elizabeth (Andrew) Williamson, Andrew, Timothy, and Rebecca; grandchildren Avery and Lucy Williamson; dozens of nieces and nephews; treasured siblings-in-law; and countless friends. Paul came to Milwaukee at age 5 and forged a deep bond with his grandfather and primary role model Joe Wong, a leader of Milwaukee's then burgeoning Chinese community. He lived with his extended family attending Milwaukee public schools before going to high school at St. John's Northwestern Military Academy. He graduated college from The University of Wisconsin-Madison and began his career in hospitality as a manager at Hilton Hawaiian Village, Waikiki Beach. In 1974, Paul married Margaret "Peggie" Jones. The couple began their life together in Enderis Park, opposite a baseball diamond, growing close there as softball teammates. Eventually they moved to Wauwatosa where they raised their five children and remained together for 32 years. Paul was an incredibly involved and affectionate father. He served as a Cub Scout leader, little league coach, and chaperone. Despite his ambitious career, he prioritized his children above all else. Paul co-founded the groundbreaking restaurant chain Wong's Wok, introducing Wisconsin to Chinese fast food. He operated his grandfather's restaurant, La Joy, and eventually acquired the historic downtown Milwaukee fixture, Toys Chinatown Restaurant. In 1998, Paul divested himself of those ventures and in 2000 opened Long Wong's, the world's first Chinese-American sports bar. His proximity to County Stadium and later Miller Park allowed him to pursue his quixotic love affair with The Milwaukee Brewers. A respected leader in the business community, Paul was a member of the Wauwatosa Chamber of Commerce, a board member of The Zoological Society of Milwaukee, and president of The Milwaukee Brewers Gold Club. In 2010, Paul suffered a debilitating stroke that cost him his autonomy and livelihood. Despite this setback, he bravely lived the remainder of his life with dignity. Paul will be remembered for his gentle demeanor, exceptional kindness, and extraordinary generosity. Visitation will be held Sunday, March 3, 2019 from 10:00 am until the 12:30 pm Memorial Service at Becker Ritter Funeral Home, 14075 W. North Avenue, Brookfield. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to: Zoological Society of Milwaukee, Wong Memorial, 10005 West Bluemound Road, Milwaukee, WI 53226

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Mar. 1, 2019.

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Renato Clemente

March 4, 2019

Paul Wong & Ed Chin opened the 1st Wong's Wok on 76th & Good Hope Rd and I'm one of the first to work in that place as a cook.
Eternal Rest Grant him O Lord & Let Perpetual Light Shine Upon him. RIP.

Renato C. Clemente

March 4, 2019

Renato C. Clemente

March 4, 2019

Colleen Mikolajczak

March 3, 2019

Paul was my boss, mentor, and friend. He was such a kind, generous and decent man. I feel so very blessed to have known him.
Prayers of comfort being said over his family, friends and all of the many hearts he touched.
See you in Heaven, Paul.

Tom Thiede

March 2, 2019

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Bob #80 and Joan Long

March 2, 2019

Paul was one of the kindest men we know. His journey was a tough one and we hold him in the greatest respect. Rest In Peace our dear friend.

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Janet Wink

March 1, 2019

I worked for Paul at Long Wong's. We had some great laughs, and he was always so kind and gentle. I remember when he tried to help surprise my dad when my sister flew in from Maryland. Of course, we met at Long Wong's!
So long Paul. Thanks for everything you did for the Wink family. God's blessings to your family.

March 1, 2019

My deepest condolences for your loss. May memories of joyful times together and the comforting promises found in God's Word bring you strength, hope and peace 2Thessalonians 2:16, 17.

Patti Lynn Sanfilippo

March 1, 2019

Paul Wong was the best father, family man, Brewer's supporter, businessman, and friend a person could ever have! He loved his patrons and was a very generous individual! His Legend will live on in Family and in Milwaukee Forever! Rest now in peace Paul you were the BEST !

March 1, 2019

RIP Brother Paul.
A very long road.

Tom Jones

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