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R. Grellinger Obituary

Grellinger, Fr. R. Michael Of Hartland, was born to Eternal Life January 8, 2014, at the age of 77. Graduate of St. Anne Grade School and Marquette H.S. He was ordained on May 26, 1962. He began his priestly ministry on July 12, 1962 as an assistant at St. Anne Parish. He served as associate pastor at numerous parishes in the Milwaukee area and on July 1, 1985 was appointed to his first pastorate at St. Charles Parish in Hartland. He was pastor at St. Peter and Paul Parish and Queen of Apostles Parish, Pewaukee until his retirement from active ministry on June 30, 2006. Father was active as the associate director for the Archdiocese's CYO and chaplain for the Boy Scouts. He was a former softball and volleyball umpire and thoroughly enjoyed his time as an EMT serving on the Hartland Fire Dept. and as chaplain for the ATF and Pewaukee Police Dept. Father was an avid Marquette Basketball and Packer fan and will be remembered warmly for his dry sense of humor. Survived by his siblings Susan Arisman, Cecile Cunningham, John (Dona) and Mary Ruth Koch; many nieces, nephews, great-nieces, nephews and dear friends. Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 7 PM on Thursday, Jan. 16 at St. Charles Parish 313 Circle Dr., Hartland. Visitation at Church from 3 PM until the time of the Mass. Final rest will be in Holy Cross Cemetery. If desired memorials may be made to St. Vincent DePaul or the American Cancer Society.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel from Jan. 12 to Jan. 15, 2014.

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Anne Moses

January 6, 2022

I remember Father's Mike so well.... he was my cousin and he was a part of the lives of the Swedish family for many years. I regret I cannot attend his celebration of life, as I am in AZ now... Blessings Father Mike

January 20, 2014

Father Mike,
You were pure inspiration and made religion fun! Who else teaches the gospels and let's the kids stand on their chairs?! Thank you for always being there for me, for all the kids at St. Charles and for all the hugs!

Love, Leah (Class of 1999)

Beth

January 18, 2014

My condolences to the family. I remember my first Retreat in High School with Fr. Mike. I still remember him saying to me "You have an hourglass figure. With all the sand at the bottom!" LOL - always a dry sense of humor. Thanks for taking care and guiding us teenagers through those years! God Bless you!

John and Yvonne Werra

January 16, 2014

We want to send our thoughts and prayers to the Grellinger family. The world was a better place because of Mike. We have so many good memories from the Marquette High School days and over the years. Mike always had a smile on his face and made you feel happy when you were with him. He will be missed. God Bless you good friend
John and Yvonne Werra

Mary Jane (Yakel) Schwenkner

January 16, 2014

Fr. Grellinger was one of those parish priests (St. Joseph, St.Alphonsus) that you always, always remember as being a part of your memmories, especially if it involved CYO. I've long since lost track of him as life moves a person through it's inevitable changes How wonderful to hear that he's kept his passions (CYO, children, Packers, Christ)all his life. Rest in peace, Fr. Mike.

Sr. Lourdette Van Driel

January 15, 2014

Father was an excellent priest with youth. He was well liked as chaplain at St. Mary's Academy. May he rest in peace.

Joel Gramling

January 15, 2014

Mike was a year ahead of me at HUHS and a neighbor in St Jude's parish. A true and very warm friend. May he rest in peace good and faithful servent.

Trudy (Pfannerstill) Wagner

January 15, 2014

I remember the many CYO retreats I shared with him and have lots of good memories. He was a part of many of our family events. May God bless you and your family. He will be missed. I am sorry that I am not able to be there.

January 15, 2014

I remember Michael Tom Stell class of 1953.

Judy Steinike

January 15, 2014

Thanks for saying Mass for us on weekday mornings. I will miss seeing you and the twinkle in your eye. My sympathy to your family.

January 15, 2014

Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family Cile. Barb & Chet

julia lobotzke

January 14, 2014

The song I will always remember during my retreats with Fr.Mike at OLS is make me an instrument of your peace. I graduated from OLS in 1974 and I will never forget the impact he had on my life. Come good home. You served, worshipped the Lord and loved everyone you encountered. May you reap all the rewards Heaven and God gives you.

Virginia Serwin

January 13, 2014

Fr Mike was a great man. Always kind loving and thoughtful. He's home with Aunt Ruth, my mom and dad and brother and sister and so many others that he loved and loved him. I'm sure they are all laughing, telling jokes and having a fantastic party right now in heaven.

Libby Price

January 13, 2014

Oh John & Dona, Was just checking the obits today and we are so sorry for the loss of such a wonderful man. God will help you all get through this as he welcomes Father Mike in heaven. Libby & Dennis Price

Judy Jeffery-Griffin

January 13, 2014

Father Mike was our family Priest through marriage, baptism, vow renewable, as well as one of the EMT's at the scene of a car crash. We have had the pleasure and honor of his guidance and sense of humor for over 25 years. Thank You Father Mike. Our condolences to his family and friends.

Tom Stoddart

January 13, 2014

I graduated with Mike in 1954. I lost contact with him over the years, but what I do remember is him being a really nice guy.
Another thing I remember him being ribbed about showing up at some sports events with a car full of girls. Looking back I realize these girls didn't have dates, but he made sure they were not left out. Pretty claasy!!

Marge Gajkowski

January 13, 2014

Goodbye my dear friend of 47 years. Until we meet again....
Marge (Plevak) Gajkowski
P.S. Say hi to all the Plevak's for me!

Paula Magliocco

January 13, 2014

Thank you, Fr. Mike, for giving your life to Christ and to his church! We appreciate every sacrifice and joy you experienced. May God generously reward you with eternal life! Our love,

GREG BRAUCH

January 13, 2014

1962 - 1966 ST.ANNE GRADE SCHOOL 36TH &WRIGHT MILWAUKEE,WI. FR. MIKE WAS OUR ASSOCIATE PRIEST AND SPORTS CHAPLAIN,& CYO. LEADER. WILL BE MISSED.

Pat and Lee Blavat

January 12, 2014

Our condolences to the family. Our children went to st Charles school and we knew fr mike for many years. We will miss him.

Dave Foran

January 12, 2014

To all in the Grellinger family, I offer my condolences, thoughts and prayers. Father Mike was a friend for many years, dating to Marquette High days and for many years after. I will miss him. May he rest in peace.

January 12, 2014

Fr Mike helped me thru so many trials and tribulations in life...he always helped me thru my pain and was always there for me...he was my friend, my priest and my coworker with the Hartland Fire Dept....we had a great group there of fire fighters, emt's for a long time...we were all friends and professionals with Fr Mike's spiritual support.

Hanna Peterson (Koch)

January 12, 2014

Come home good Uncle Mike.

Margie Renner Hegner

January 12, 2014

I knew Father Michael through his sister, Ceil. He was a wonderful man and will be missed by so many!

Anne Moses

January 12, 2014

I have very fond memories of Father Mike. He was my mother's cousin. All of the Grellinger family was dear to my family. I remember Aunt Ruth so well and John, who was such an athlete. These are always sad times, but happy as well, as we remember so fondly our pasts and the dear people who were kind to us as we grew up. Rest well Father Mike... Anne Swedish Moses (daughter of Mary Rose Reichard Swedish)...
Surprise, AZ

January 12, 2014

We will always remember that Fr. Mike made it a point to leave everyone with a smile on their faces after Mass. It was so important to him that his congregation be happy when they came together to pray and when they left to go home. He knew how to build a parish culture of harmony, friendly cooperation and joy in its mission.
Len and Dot Birner, Queen of Apostles parishioners

Rob Elliott

January 12, 2014

RIP Fr. Mike. I have known him for many years and appreciate what he has done to help so many. To the family my condolences and also my thanks for sharing your Brother with so many of us through the years. He will be missed!

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3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

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Mass of Christian Burial

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St. Charles Parish

313 Circle Dr., Hartland, WI 53029

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