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Robert James "Bob" Struck

Robert Struck Obituary

Struck, Robert James "Bob" Passed away May 20, 2008, at the age of 69, at home in Hemet, CA. Formerly of Milwaukee, WI. He is survived by his loving wife of 49 years, Kathryn "Kathy" "Kay" (nee Haley); daughters, Patricia Wessell, Barbara (Robert) Ash, Jeanene (Sean) Dakin; sons, David(Andrea) and Jeffrey Struck; 10 grandchildren, 5 brothers and their spouses, 2 sisters and their spouses, and many nieces, nephews, and good friends. In Life we Loved You Dearly, and in Death We do the Same.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on May 24, 2008.

Memories and Condolences
for Robert Struck

90 Entries

patty Wessell

July 16, 2008

Dad,

Through falling tears I too write my final good-bye to you before I put this book to print. Which will be on July 18th. Two days before the second month of you being gone. Dad, you and Mom have given so much to all of us and I feel there will never ever be enough to ever give back. Your examples have shown us all what is expected of us on earth and to get to go to Heaven. I could never measure up to what you were on earth and I will try my hardest to make it to Heaven. If love was enough I'd already be there! Dad your strenght is my personal example of what I need to deal with my own health issues. To be half as brave and to have half the courage and to have half the positive outlook you had, no matter what i'm dealt I will remember that I am your daughter and these qualities are somewhere in me. Im scared but I know you will keep close in case I call out to you. All I can say is Thank you for my life and being the best Dad one could ever hope for. I will always be remembering everything about you and always wish you were here. My thoughts and love will reach you no matter how far away you are! Rest in Peace my sweet loving Father. I Love You!

DAVID STRUCK

July 16, 2008

WELL DAD THIS IS IT, LAST DAY TO SAY GOODBY IN PRINT, SO I SAY IT LOUDLY SO YOU CAN HERE, I MISS YOU SO MUCH AND THINK OF YOU SO OFTEN AND KNOW THAT YOU ARE BY MY (OUR) SIDE EVERY DAY . I LOOK AT YOUR PICTURES BEHIND MY CHAIR AND THINK OF ALL THE THINGS YOU DID FOR ME IN MY LIFE TO MAKE ME THE WAY I AM TODAY, THANK YOU AND I HOPE I CAN BE A FRACTION OF THE MAN YOU WERE, THAN I KNOW MY LIFE IS WORTH SOMETHING. TALK TO YOU AGAIN IN MY DREAMS AND WHEN IM ALONE

Barbara

July 15, 2008

Dad,

One last thing....I found this poem and found it most hopeful as to what you are trying to tell us...

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through.
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again, you were missed while you were gone. As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you...in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is over.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain.
then you can say to God at night..."My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented...that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go...from that body to be free,
remember you're not going...you're coming here to me.

(Ruth Ann Mahaffey, author)

July 15, 2008

Dad,

It's still so hard not having you here, it makes it more difficult to have challenges come my way without being able to pick up the phone and ask for your help and advise or just getting a positive word of wisdom from you.
I have a deep regret in me not telling you I'll be ok, I know you were worried about me but I felt if I did that you would go that much faster and I couldn't be the one to let that happen. When you would reach for my hand in those final days asking for help I never wanted to let you go, I just wanted to hold on to you forever and make your pain go away...I'm sorry I couldn't.
Saturday was a hard day and while sitting on my driveway it was about 2:30 in the morning and I looked up and saw you in the clouds..It was absolutely amazing, it was only your face but you were looking straight at me not with a smile on your face more so like a solemn expression watching me trying to give me comfort and sending your love...believe me the message was received! There are many things I wish I could do over again, so many more things I feel left unsaid to you but our last conversation I know we both said what was the most important feelings on our mind and heart at that time and they will always be remembered and cherished and I thank you for that. Thank you for your concerns I promise I'll be ok especially knowing you're in those clouds watching over me. Earth has become much harder to deal with now that your gone but heaven will be that much more wonderful with you there waiting with open arms.
Love and missing you,
Barbara

Brittany Struck

July 15, 2008

Papa,
i know that i have wrote in this a few times to say my final words but everytime i come to this page it seems to be open just a little bit longer. now i know im not the only one that can not stand the fact of this site no longer being open! there is this one song that i listened to everyday when you past and of course i had to change a few lyrics but it made me feel like i was singing to you! it from Mariah Carey the song name is Bye, Bye... when i heard it for the first time i started to cry because i knew that you were not going to be here much longer and the words felt so right at the time! i keep reading these entries and i realize how many people loved you and your personality! i hope that you are enjoying watching over us! You great Granddaughter is getting so big, my sister is finally starting to show and in November she is going to be welcomed into this goofy family with goofy tricks. Please watch over this family and especially my sister through her pregnancy! we all love you and miss you very much! hope that god is enjoying you as much as we all did!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo

david struck

July 13, 2008

when jesus came down to robert that day, he was baptized in the usual way, when he was done god blessed his sole now he sends us his love, on the wings of a dove, on the wings of a snow white dove he will send his pure sweet love, a sign from above on the the wings of a dove. to you dad i sing this song every day and every time i see a dove it reminds me of you and your pure love for everyone you knew and cared about . your love and kindness is missed by everyone you knew . holding your hand in your final days and being by your side will always live in my heart as our best days because our love the the purest i ever felt in my life. thank you for your love and leadership inmy life and i will kiss your great grand daughter and tell her of you and the happiness you brought to us love and kisses your son

Robert Shine

July 13, 2008

Howdy my friend! Not sure how long before I actually see you again or if I will ever be worthy of being sent to that same place. I recall first meeting you at the Norco Lions Club about the time that I was president there. At that time, you seemed too mellow to be true. Shortly thereafter, you attended a Lions State Convention and we began to hang out. WOW how much we had in common- except you may never have lost your temper. Your were an inspiration to our entire club and your attitude propelled many to assess themselves in a brighter and more progressive way.

Interestingly, you always had the same answer to any small trouble. You called it "Moose Turd Pie". Weird, yeah; but the story was great. Basically, if you complained about the food the cook could serve you the above mentioned pie. Moral: things can always get worse but a person does not need to help it along. Deal with the good things, good people, good causes and let the problems go by.

Some day a person may ask "Who was this guy"? If your kids have adopted your ways the question will never need to be asked by anyone. Two of your kids are my freinds and I know that they represent you well and with a little luck they can pass the "Moose Turd Pie" story on theirs and others too.

In the face of lingering misfortune in your time on earth you bore witness to God's goodness which is expressed in faith. Faith in God, mankind, and family.

Even though I know that you are with all of us (who loved you in one way or another) all the time, your clear presence will always be missed!

Bill Faubion

July 11, 2008

I remember the day that Bob and I first met. It turned out to be one of the greatest days of our lives. We bonded immediately, as though we had known each other for all of our lives-we were inseperable. We shared our joys and sorrows and eventually became a part of each other. Not many people will ever experience this kind of bonding friendship in a lifetime, but Bob and I were blessed. We were always there for one another and we both knew that. Two links of our chain are gone, but not forgotten. My wife Barbara, and now Bob. Even so, we will always be together in our hearts. For now, I can't say "goodby", but will only say "so long, wntil we meet again". I lost not just a friend but a brother as well.

nicole struck

July 11, 2008

papa i miss you so much i miss your magic tricks and the way your thumb goes away, i hope when you got to heaven that my 2 kittens smokey and rose where there to meet you. i love you papa

david struck

July 11, 2008

dear dad I am writing this to you 2 months after you left and i find myself crying as hard as the day you left. MY heart is so empty without you i have no one to tell my problems too. the thing i miss more are the talks we used to have about what was going on in my life and the problems i was having and all you would say is (what do you think you should do about that). you never tried to fix my problems you wanted me to figure it out and thats what made our talks so special. i find myself in need of one of those talks right now. I talk to you when im alon and i here you telling me to hang in there things will get better. I miss you so much and i promise like we talked about, to take care of mom and the family as best i can . please dad stay with me and guide me in the right direction i can still here and feel you in my heart. i love you and miss you so much.

/ROBERT FAUBION

July 11, 2008

I remember the day we met, where we met and how we met. It turned out to be one of the greatest days of our lives. We bonded immediately, as tho we had known each other for all of our lives-we were inseperable. We shared our joys and sorrows with each other and eventually became a part of one another. Not many people are lucky enough to experience this bond of friendship in a lifetime, but Bob and I were blessed. We were always there for one another and we both knew it. Two liks of our chain are gone-Barbara, my wife and now Bob-but they will never be forgotten. We will always be together in our hearts. One day we will meet again. For now, I won't say "good-by", only "so long, until we meet again." I lost not just a friend, but a brother.

Leah Faubion

July 11, 2008

Kathy & Family
the loss of "Bob" is realy hard on us"The Faubion Family".Thank you for all the wonderful laughter and joy that you and family have brought to our home and hearts.Like the bowling days,those long all night playing cards and your crazy days of taking off to Las Vegas in the middle of the night???? I saw the joy and laughter on my mom & dad faces when ever the Strucks were around. As for you Bob, you are a wonderful man who gave so much and never take alot. Thank you. I Love You All. and just call if you need anything.

P.S.

Bob,
now that your in heaven,please give my mom lots of huggs and kisses for us.tell her we love her.and she may need to touch up on her bowling (: we love you and will miss you very much.

Lyle and Angela Faubion

July 10, 2008

I had only met Bob and Kathy a couple of times but I still knew what an important part they played in the Faubion house hold. Lyle always speaks of you guys with such love and remembers all those nights at the bowling alley. He loves you guys so much and would go to the ends of the earth to be there for you guys! I am so sorry for your loss Kathy and if there is any thing any of us can do for you or the family please don't hesitate to ask.

Marigrace & Mike Giffin

July 8, 2008

Kathy,
Time passes so very quickly. It seems such a short time ago we were all togerther at the ball field or visiting you, Bob and the kids. We have such great memories of much laughter, even more kidding and good-natured banter, and the love shared by all of you and your family. Bob was a fighter and I suspect his sense of humor and ability to put things into their proper perspective had a great deal to do with his successul if difficult struggle for health. I know he was proud of his family and the many, many friends you have. How fantastic that he was able to enjoy the kids growing into such great adults and their families. He was loved and respected by so many. He will be missed terribly. We pray you will find strength and peace in knowing how loved he was and in the wonderful memories we all share of him. Marigrace and Mike Giffin

Bob McFadden

July 7, 2008

Hey, Bob...wouldn't you just have loved it....your friend and, yes, another attorney, wrote glowing remarks about you, the family and what a difference you made in many lives while cruising around in this ever so temporary world....my heart and soul, my wordsmith commentary...everything, Bob...I wrote with sincerity and fondness for you.....AND THEY LOST IT!!!!

You, of all people, know how hard it is for a lawyer to remember what the heck he or she just said!!!...and your daughter, Barbara, of course, told me the good news...I've got to do it all over again!!!!...yikes, the things she doesn't get all of us to do.....

Quite frankly, I don't believe I could say with any more sincerity or conviction the most beautiful words that have been written to you, about you and for you from family, friends and acquaintances....you touched all of our lives in your own special way...we all have memories of the fun times, the gloom, the uplifting, the parties at DISNEYWORLD, CORONA, and the yuks and special moments that were shared.....You were always in the middle...not the spotlight, just in the middle, being you.....and that my friend, was a blessing that each and every one of us shared....
I told the crowd at your service that the measure of a Father is to view his grandchildren and then determine whether he and his wife had done a decent job as parents....You and Kathy did!!!!...the nice part is that you had the benefit of enjoying 10 grandchildren and giving them part of your unique humor, well earned wisdom and your love.....what richness can they ever want that equals your gift to them...to all of us....

I always thought we should have these functions BEFORE we cross over...that way we can see who likes us, who gets cut from the party list and who are real friends were....I am pleased to report that you had more than a few hundred that spoke lovingly and admirably about you (I took names!!)....You made a difference in MANY lives....I think you know it and are smiling that ever so infectious smile that garnered attention and mischief, on occasion.
You are a special man, a hero to many and a great Father, Husband, Papa, and friend to all that came to visit you on that special day...I am pleased to say that Karin, Tanya and I consider ourselves to be part of that family......til we meet again, my Friend....Bob, Karin and Tanya Mcfadden

Jessica Ash

July 6, 2008

Papa,
Everyday I come into this guest book, and I read all of the wonderful things that people have to say about you, and these are the wonderful things that I miss so dearly. I can’t express in words or tears, the pain that I have because you are no longer here. I’ve said it so many times, and I’ll say it again; I miss you so much. I miss your amazing personality, your kind and
helpful words, and, most of all, your simple presence. You always had this charisma about you that simply lit up people’s lives. This is a charisma that I wish I could have. What hurts the most is that you couldn’t be here to witness me do all the things that I promised you that I would do, for instance, graduating high school, graduating from college, becoming a veterinarian, etc. I also wish that you could have been here to see me get married and have children somewhere down the line. I wish that you could have been an influence in my children’s lives as you were in mine. However, I take comfort in the fact that you are always watching over us
and that you are always near, but it’s not the same. I miss you so much, and I hope that I make you proud because nothing would make me happier. Thank you so
much for all you have done for me. I love you so much, and think of you
always. Your spirit will forever remain in my heart. Never stop watching. Rest in peace.

Patty (Struck) Wessell

July 6, 2008

Dad.

I can't tell you how much this is going to affect me, not having this book to come to everyday (many times a day). I think of you so much and my tears still fall every night. The pain of you being gone is one that will be with me for a very long time. And this guest book has been a place to go to, where you are remembered by so many.
Mom has gotten two new puppies (they look more like Gremlins than dogs but then hey they still are adorable) One is named popi (for papa) and the other is named Shadow (named after the very first dog you and mom had before you even started your family!) Popi is the cuddler, so loving and stays with you. under you or beside you. Shadow on the other hand, is the adventurous one and she makes you laugh at the funny things she finds interesting! We all love the new additions to our family. They could never replace what we all have lost (KD, DD and you) but we welcome them with open arms. Dad this isn't good bye. I still have my DVDs and your teddy bear to hold on to. And all the hundreds of thousand memories this family has shared. God I miss my Dad! Please take him, Jokes and all into your kingdom. I can guarantee my dad will keep you in stitches! I love you Dad with all my being and I too look forward to the day that we are together again (Death doesnt seem so scary now that I know you are there) R.I.P Dad and enjoy watching us as much as I will enjoy living on for you.

Thomas Struck

July 6, 2008

Uncle Bobby,
The world lost a good guy, the family lost a wonderful man. Although I was able to spend as much time with you as some of the rest of the Struck's, I truly enjoyed what time we did have together.
Some fond memories include you and Aunt Kathy visiting us here in Florida and the time we spent at the beach. I still laugh at your saying that there is money to be found on the beach and then pretending you picked up a quarter. Really thought you could fool me, huh? I also want to thank you for the good time visiting NYC. That was the most time I spent being a tourist while I lived there.

Uncle Bob, you are missed and you are loved,
Thomas

Shirley Varner

July 3, 2008

Kathy and kids,

Some of my fondest memories of Bob, you and the "kids" are of the little league years, playing pinocle for hours, or how about 'ol fang' at the Orange Julius (what a gas that place was).

As time went on and Bob started Tru-Way he would come to Y.L. to repair something or when in the area just stop by with his infamous wit. Often, later, he would bring you, David. Barbara, you always do a great job on the phone I enjoy talking with you when I call.

Then off to Norco I go, and more repairs and the best of all the humor.

Through years of struggeling with his health, growing families and life in general, he kept his great humor and his depth of family.
You all are as lucky to have had him, as he was to have had you.

The great love that you, Kathy, and BOB had was envied by many.

Love to all,
Shirley Varner
D.... where's the spell check ?

Brittany

July 1, 2008

PAPA i just wanted to tell you that this guest book has been very helpful dealing with the fact that you are gone. now it is closing and i cannot express my feelings i wish that it could stay open forever but i dont think that would be good for the family. i am still not able to say goodbye and i dont think i ever will be for the fact i know i will see you again someday. i love you and miss you so much. rest in peace papa and i hope that this family makes you proud.

XOXOXOXO

Patty (Struck) Wessell

July 1, 2008

Dad.

I can't tell you how much this is going to affect me, not having this book to come to everyday (many times a day). I think of you so much and my tears still fall every night. The pain of you being gone is one that will be with me for a very long time. And this guest book has been a place to go to, where you are remembered by so many.
Mom has gotten two new puppies (they look more like Gremlins than dogs but then hey they still are adorable) One is named popi (for papa) and the other is named Jenny after the Elephant you and mom rode on one of the many adventures you two shared. Popi is the cuddler, so loving and stays with you. under you or beside you. Jenny on the other hand is the adventurous one and she makes you laugh at the funny things she finds interesting! We all love the new additions to our family. They could never replace what we all have lost (KD, DD and you) but we welcome them with open arms. Dad this isn't good bye. I still have my DVDs and your teddy bear to hold on to. And all the hundreds of thousand memories this family has shared. God I miss my Dad! Please take him Jokes and all into your kingdom. I can guarantee my dad will keep you in stitches! I love you Dad with all my being and I too look forward to the day that we are together again (Death doesnt seem so scary now that I know you are there) R.I.P Dad and enjoy watching us as much as I will enjoy living on for you.

Barbara Ash

June 30, 2008

Dad,

This is the last day to sign in your guest book and I feel like I'm saying goodbye all over again. I have been coming in here for 37 days reading all the wonderful things everybody felt about you and how our world will never be the same without you in it, you really had a big effect on all I hope you realized that. You always talked about yourself as just another ordinary Joe but that is so far from the truth, you really made a positive impact and caused us all to live life to the fullest and I thank you for that!
I know you're up there preparing for us to arrive one by one and it's a day I look forward to now knowing I'll be with you again. Also knowing you're watching over Jessica and Jason gives me comfort with their future and that you'll be a part of it.
I have you recorded on my phone at home leaving me a message "trying to get a hold of you, give me a call" and I listen to it everyday feeling you are still reaching out to me, hearing your voice everyday just tells me your there! I love you so much and I'm trying to reflect on happy times we've shared but I still hurt so much with losing you, I know you already know it, but you were my everything!!!!!
Always in my heart and thoughts!

Love,
Barbara

Kathy Struck

June 30, 2008

MY TRIBUTE READ TO ALL AT BOB'S FUNERAL ON JUNE 8, 2008...

"On the top of my list of things to do is to welcome all of you here to remember my wonderful husband, Bob. Friday June 6th would have been our 49th anniversary. I wish I could go back and do them all over again. Bob was so special, loving husband, father of 5, grandfather or as we called him "Papa" of 10 precious grandchildren and in a few months our first Great-Grandchild will arrive.
I want to tell you just a little bit about us. We met when I went to work for a company in Milwaukee, WI. I worked in the office and Bob was a truck driver for Tru-Way Building Service. We used to talk to each other but that was about it...just co-workers. One day the owner of the company called us into his office and told Bob and I "there was no "fratranizing" allowed between
employee's. Bob and I just looked at each other like..."what the heck!!"..That night as I waited on the corner to catch the bus to go home guess who pulled up and offered me a ride home?...and the rest, as you say, is history! So Mr. Phil Coleman...on behalf of my children, grandchildren, and 1 in the oven great grandchild (it's a girl)..THANK YOU!
Bob and I were married June 6, 1959 and like all young couples life was a struggle but somehow we managed to get by. Then in July 1963 we got the devastating news that Bob had Hodgkins Disease. We were told that Bob had 6 months to 2 years to live. Of course this is the same doctor who told Bob that because of all the chemo and radiation that he was probably sterile...I would I'd like to all to meet our youngest daughter Barbara! The cleanest baby ever born! Well on to our new doctor! Bob entered into a fight for his life and he fought with more heart, more courage, and with a determination to beat this terrible illness, and in 1976 Bob was told by his doctor that in fact the Hodgkins was in remission. But the damage done to his lungs and so many organs from the Radiation and Chemotherapy that it turned out that the cure was the cause of his death.
Bob lived a wonderful life. He had more courage and a will to live than I can possibly express. His children and grandchildren can be very, very proud of their loving and giving Dad & Papa. He was also a loyal and true friend to many...always there to help when he was needed and never expected anything in return. I would like you all to know that even after Bob is gone he continues to help people. Although Bob never thought he could be a donor, it turns out he was accepted as a tissue and bone donor. I was shocked but happy as I know Bob would be of his donation. I was told it would help between 50-100 people. When I talked to the lady at the lab that collects the tissue I had to answer a lot of questions and give my permission for certain things. One question was, "would I object to any of Bob's skin tissue being used for cosmetic procedures?" I hesitated for a minute running those words through my mind and finally said.."My God...Bob has been through years and years of radiation, chemo, skin cancers, edema, and now he's going to end up in some woman's boob job...the answer to every man's prayer!!!
I cannot forget to mention all of Bob's family and my family who so wanted to be here. Bob is from a large and wonderful family, 5 brothers and 2 sisters, plus wives and husbands, nephews, nieces, cousins, aunts, uncles, etc, etc. He loved them all very much and our memories of both families are many and special. Our last trip together was to see my brother Ken in Arkansas before he passed away. We were so happy we could be there for him and his wife, Mary Ann and their daughter and son-in-law Diane and Bob. God Bless you all and thanks for the memories.
So to all my family and all of our wonderful friends, I thank you all from the bottom of my heart for all the cards, and masses for Bob, the phone calls and all the support you have given to me and my family.
To Joan Luppold and all of the great people who helped put together this wonderful "celebration of life" Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!
To the Norco Lions Club, where Bob was very proud to be a member and to do the newsletter which he truly loved to do...A special thanks for coming today and bringing all the wonderful food for all of us. You are super people. God Bless you all!
And last but not least...our great shuffleboard club. Bob loved to play and being on our team gave him so much pleasure he was proof as was Gene Dexpinski, who was in a wheelchair, that anyone can play the game, be with great people, and most of all have fun! THANK YOU ALL! And now we would like you to see a wonderful, wonderful DVD put together by our oldest daughter Jeanene, with some help searching for pictures and music from her brothers and sisters...Thank you again! and to Vern for running the DVD and Mary for the pictures she put together for the collage. If I missed anyone, I'm sorry it has been so overwhelming and I tried to get it all. Thank you!

Love
Kathy
(Bob's wife)

Dawn Haynes

June 30, 2008

Uncle Bobby:(as grandma called you)
There is nothing more I can say than what has already been written.
I can't tell you how much I will miss your emails everyday, they always brought a smile to my face.
I remember back to our visit before last when I thought I had food poisoning and all of you were planning a baby shower for me, how did you know. I am so glad my food poisoning has met her Uncle Bob and Aunt Kathy. Kallie was a surprise in disguise at that. Kallie and Jake are our blessings and we are so comforted in knowing you are up in heaven watching over them, (if you can keep an extra dove over Russ and I while we're patrolling the streets we would appreciate it).
It won't be the same without you here but remember our family will one by one come together again. Say "hi" to Grandma & Grandpa for me. Miss you bunches!
Love,
Dawn (Struck), Russ, Jake & Kallie
Haynes

Helen K Ash

June 27, 2008

I always enjoyed the many chats that Bob and I had. We reminisced about how alike the times were in Milwaukee and Detroit during our childhoods. I'm really going to miss you Bob.

Sean Dakin

June 27, 2008

I have never met a more genuine, honest and caring man than Bob, It was a true honor having Bob in my life. I am blessed because his amazing qualities were passed on to his daughter Jean, and grandchildren Connor and Cory. I know that he was and will always be proud of us all. God Bless and most importantly....Thank You...

Dennis Struck

June 27, 2008

Bob,

To a brother that will be greatly missed. When I was out there that one summer I had so much fun and wish there had been more! You know I'm not good at this type of stuff and I know you don't expect much from me but I want you to know, YOU WILL BE MISSED!!!

Love,
Dennis

Jeffrey John Struck

June 25, 2008

To my beloved father, Whom I always referred to as a miracle of God's.
You are proof positive that there is a living God, to whom I put all my faith in. Thank you Lord for blessing me with a Dad like no other. One whom I am proud to call Dad. You gave so much through the years, and even though I never measured up to you, I certainly attribute what good qualities I do have to you. You are a special loving, giving , patient, understanding, gentle and very humorous man. I can honestly say i've never heard a single person in my life ever say a bad thing about you. Can you imagine if every person in the world was like my dad? Then this would truely be Heaven on earth. I can't thank you enough for all the opportunities you gave me and for taking me under your wing and educating me until I was ready to do things on my own. Even when I failed you were always there to show me and to help me. My biggest regret is that I didn't heed on your instructions, corrections, and discipline. I am so honored to call you my father and I hold my head up high when you are talked about. You have never failed me. I will miss you so much. I have agape love for you. Many tears have been shed for you since you've been gone, But tears of joy come KNOWING you are with God. Until we meet again at the pearly gates (which we talked about) please know that no one could have done it better. I love you xoxoxo

Robert Ash

June 25, 2008

I feel fortunate in life to know someone on the caliper of Bob. On the surface just an ordinary Jo but once you take a look you begin to see a a deep and compassionate man.
Always ready to make a joke or find humor in a hopeless situation. Energetic and tireless he rarly thought of himself. I feel lucky to have known him for all these years. Its odd that you don't really appreciate an institution until its gone.
Thanks Bob for all these good years.

Dorothea kalatschan

June 24, 2008

Dear Bob,
You are truly missed in our industry and in the hearts of us old fogies here at OCAP. I never thought Shane, Tommy, Vicki & I would be the oldsters!!! I remember when I started at OCAP in 89. You were always such a good listener. It was difficult being the boss's daughter and the only female besides Lorrie. Thank you for your encouraging kindness to me, especially at a time when I wondered if I could make it at OCAP. Thank you for your loyal business, even when we didn't always get it right! Love,
Dorothea

Judy Ash

June 23, 2008

Bob,
You will truly be missed.
Judy

Kristina Struck

June 22, 2008

What can I really say about the most most important man in my life. There really are no wards to express the way I feel about you. I always knew growing up that wished you could do more for everyone. You never realized just how much you had already done. Matt and I were lucky to have lived with you and grandma for so many years. You were more of a father to me than any other man in my life. With every passing day I remember fondly all the places we saw together- and just how many imfamous "papa shortcuts" we took getting to those places. Although the trips and vacations were great, having you there for the everyday, run of the mill growing up stuff. You taught me how to parallel park (in an empty parking lot of course) when I first got my license, or my first job (which was of course Tru-Way) and getting to work side-by-side with you. You were also there for the scary moments like when my hampster bit me (and well we know what happened to the hampster after it bit me) and I had to go get a tetanus shot and I was so tense that the needle got stuck in my arm and you were there to calm me down. There was the time I had to be rushed to the ER to have my appendix removed and you held my hand until they told you that you could not go any farther with me. I count myself very fortunate to call you my papa. I know I did not always say it, but I always feel it, and I hope you always knew it, "I Love You Papa!"

Jessica Ash

June 20, 2008

"Good-bye"

As time passes by
I remember through the tears
Those wonderful days
When you were still here
The times we had
The laughs we shared
The smiles you brought
The way you cared
The jokes you had
The corny stories you told
The magic tricks you did
The amount of love you could hold
But now you are gone
Our hearts left empty
And now this sad song
Is our symphony
What hurts the most
Is that you are not here
But the memories we have
Will never disappear
Forever in our hearts
Your spirit remains
And the times I remember
Will take away these pains
Rest in peace
Your pain has come to an end
You can go now
Good-bye my friend

Good-bye my sweet Papa
Love,
Your Granddaughter,
Jessica

Matthew

June 18, 2008

This has to be one of the hardest times i have gone through in my life time. All I can do is look back and remember all the great times that you and I have shared together. All the magic tricks, funny jokes, and the PAPA raisins. Not to mention everything that I have learned and experienced. You and grandma are amazing individuals, and if it wasnt for you two, who knows where i would be. I have to admit that after you passed it opened my eyes, That I shared U with 9 other grandchildren, 5 children, and a wonderful wife. A wife that i hope i am lucky enough to find and have in my life time. I am sure that u already know that your great grand child is a girl. I found that out when i was at Daves house for fathers day. I am a fortunate person to have a men like U, Dave, Rob, Sean, Jeff, and Steve to pick up the slack of my father. So... Thank U. I hope i make an impact on people the way u did. It is easy to Believe all the wonderful things u have done through the years. And how amazing of a person u really were. Knowing how much pain u went through in your life, shows me how strong of a person u really were. The qualities U portray is exactly what i am striving to be. I am going to make u and the family proud. I just ask that when i face danger that u are the one to look over and protect me. U are heavily missed in my heart and I LOVE U very very much. On that note I have aquired some things to remember u by, but believe me, u will never be forgotten.

Patty Wessell (Struck)

June 16, 2008

Dad, Yesterday was Father's Day and I spent the whole day watching home movies that you and mom put to DVD. Remembering all the thousands of happy occasions we have all spent together as a family, and shared with so many friends thru the years. Including your 25th year anniversary. (my god we were skinny!) all of us kids got up to say something to you both and I know that I still wouldn't change a word! No poem, song or words can tell you how much I miss you. And no memory can ever replace you not being here. I love you so much. We all miss you. I know you are still watching over us, you have given us so many undenialable signs. Keep them coming Dad. I love you - Patty

Barbara Ash

June 15, 2008

Today is Father's Day what used to be a fun time to celebrate having you over for your infamous chicken fetuccini with lots of butter. Today has been so hard to get through without you here, even our celebratin for Rob was nil because the pain makes it so hard to cope.
Your memorial was amazing, the people you touched, the tributes spoken about you were wonderful, hope you heard every word. Dad you were really a major factor on this Earth I hope you realized that, my life will never be the same without you. Several times issues have come up and I catch myself ready to pick up the phone to ask for your infamous advise only to realize again your not there, but I still ask to heaven and wait for a sign on what to do. Keep those signs coming!
Well Happy Fathers day we love you and miss you very much.
Barbara, Rob
Jessica & Jason

Vickie and Tyler Clendenning

June 15, 2008

Aunt Kathy and family, Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this time of grieving. In Uncle Bob we have lost a very important person in our lives. A loving husband, a devoted father, a brother, uncle and friend. We all have our special memories of him, some more recent and some not so recent, but those memories will keep him alive in our hearts forever. If there is one thing we have all learned from this great man, is that there is always enough love in our hearts to give unselfishly ,we should never give up hope.......live each day to its fullest and have no regrets. Thank you Uncle Bob for your courage, strength, love, and words of encouragement, you were and always will be a positive influence in my life.

Jeanene Dakin

June 14, 2008

Tomorrow is Father's Day. Connor and I are leaving for his 8th grade graduation trip to Washington and New York. Cory won a big award at his 5th grade graduation. Oh how I miss calling you and sharing all that goes on in our lives with you. The loss of you in our lives is undescribable. I watch your video every night. Connor says it's not "good for me" to do that but I feel like you are still here when I watch it. I hope you loved your memorial. Mom was great with her speech. The Lion's Club was wonderful. Your friends at the park were, without dispute, your friends! What a tremendous help to mom. It's been almost a month, but the pain is like the very minute I heard you were gone. I regret every missed moment with you, but cherish every one we had. I love you beyond words. Keep us in your prayers as we do you. Happy Father's Day! Say "Hi" to Grandpa.

Judy and Dick Struck

June 13, 2008

Kathy and family, our thoughts and prayers will be with all of you now and forever in the loss of a loving husband and a devoted father. Bob was the best there is...a brother anyone can be proud of. He will be deeply missed. Love to all of you.

Kathy "Kay" Struck

June 12, 2008

A Heart Felt Thank-You.....
It is hard to bare the loss of our beloved husband, father, Grandfather (papa) and great grandfather..Robert James Struck.
Your cards, emails, phone calls and letters were a great comfort.
The kind efforts of our relatives, friends and neighbors are gratefully appreciated.
Thank you - Thank you -Thank you
We love you all very much

Kathy "Kay" Struck
and family

MARK, SCOTT, DEAN CLARK

June 11, 2008

We will miss you uncle BOB

Tom and Darlene crawford

June 11, 2008

Kathy and kids, we all had a great time in our family. We love each and everyone of you. May god bless you at this time in your life.
Bob, we always have great time with you and your family, i am proud to be your sister and will love you forever. Give mom and dad a hugh for us. We are praying for you. Gald that tyler and vanessa got to meet you, they really loved you all.

Kathryn Struck

June 9, 2008

Here we all are as a family all feeling the deep loss and the emptiness without my husband of 49 years, your special Dad, our wonderful, precious, funny Papa, and to some of you "A Special Friend.

I wish I knew the right words to say to all of you to make it easier but they're just impossible to find. Right now we are all focused on our loss. Dad and I so hope that soon we can celebrate his wonderful life. He went through so much so he could be with all of us. God was so good to our family by letting dad go on 45 years after the doctors said he would be gone. Bob never gave-up and he would want nothing more than for all of us to be a close and happy family. He was proud of his children and his grandchildren. He loved us all. As much as we loved him!!

I would like to close by remembering all of Bob's family in Wisconsin, Florida and Missouri...Please remember he loved you all and that includes all the nephews, nieces, cousins, etc, etc....

To my family that knew Bob, he thought you were all the greatest! He loved you all too. He loved every family reunion on both sides of our family. Thank God we have all the DVD's to remember it all over and over again.

I love you Bob and when we heard this song ("Through the Years" by the Osmond Family) we were in the car and we reached out and touched hands. It will always be so special to me. I love you with all my heart and miss you so very much, until we're together again.

Love
Kathy

Wayne Rogge

June 8, 2008

I would never have known Bob had I not made the decision to move closer to my parents. They live in the same community as Bob did. As it turned out, I have been a tenant of Bob and Kathy's for over a year. Although from the outset it was apparent Bob was quite ill, he never conveyed the demeanor of a person with serious health issues. I was not able to be around him often. However, he was someone I would have liked to know better. His health challenges inspired me to keep my life in proper perspective . His kindness and joy were constantly apparent to me. I see his passing as a lost opportunity to have gotten to known him better.

john and jodi struck

June 5, 2008

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Cindy & Dean Moran and Family

June 4, 2008

Aunt Kathy & Family,

In times like these, words seem so inadequate. I am thankful that I was able to see Uncle Bob when Dean and I were there in April.
Our sympathy goes out to all of you, and may the memories you hold in your heart comfort you during this difficult time and the days ahead.

Bonnie Eichenberger

June 2, 2008

I really looked forward to all the family get togethers and you made them special. you will be missed.

Dennis Wiley

June 1, 2008

I do not believe there is much I can add to the ALL the entries I have just read. After 30 years of good times and bad I felt very much as part of the family. After all my dog fathered the suprise litter ! Now I know who painted my lawn. Ask Kathy about her dirt bike ride with Bob. Just to name a few of my flashbacks.
I must admit the neighborhood was not the same after Bob,Kathy and Ken and Betty left. I just wish I had made more visits to Hemet. I will miss all the E-Jokes Bob sent to me, and his favorites, (he would repeat frequently).
I wish to send condolences to the family, have strenght and keep on going, like Bob would have expected.

Connor Dakin

May 31, 2008

Papa was the best grandpa anyone could ask for. He never complained, just smiled and told the best jokes. Some of the best memories I have is the trip across the U.S.. He had taught me how to hook up a R.V. and about the states we visited with some help from Grandma. And most of the trip he had his leg infection, and we had no clue till it was over. I hope that someday, I will be as strong as him. I look back at the times we had, and I hope that I made him proud. I hope when i'm a grandpa, that I will be as funny, strong and kind as he was. When I get to heven, the first thing i'm going to do is tell him that I missed him. When iI get up there, were going to sit with DD and KD and see the Packeres win every Supper Bowl to come. I'll miss him alot, And hope to see him up there, the same funny, loveable papa we all remember,but no suffering.

Cory Dakin

May 31, 2008

I wish that Papa was still here to see what we will all become. Some people think that we have lost him, but, he's with us in the name of God. Like God, he is always looking over us. We have all loved him so much. If I could see him one last time I would say this to him, "I love you Papa, and thanks for the memories."

Lisa Ferguson

May 30, 2008

Although I had only one opportunity to meet you I had gotten to know you through many stories that Jean has shared with me. In many ways you were very much like my dad who I lost 22 years ago and continue to miss daily.

I hope you left knowing that Jean thought the world of you. You were an absolutely wonderful father to her and I hope you recognize and are proud of how special you are!

In my 7 year old's way of trying to comfort Jean in her sorrow she told her "at least he is with Shaggy," her beloved pet rat who recently passed away.

So, Bob, enjoy seeing all those who journeyed to Heaven before you and keep an eye out for all who are missing you now - especially Jean.

Nancy Ash

May 30, 2008

I remember all of the laughing, the joking and the teasing (to say nothing of the thousands of card games we all played) while we all sat around the table during holidays of the past 20 or so years. Bob, you were always sitting in the chair at the window (in Rob and Barb's kitchen). That chair will now seem strangely empty (no matter who is sitting there). Bob, we will all miss you. I know that you are now in Heaven with our Lord. I'll see you again one day. God Bless you.

Erik Jurs

May 30, 2008

Thank you Bob for all you wisdom and guidance. You had that magnetic personality that made everyone wanted to be around you. The room always seemed a little brighter and happier when you were there. There was just this way about you that make each and every one of us a better person. We will all miss you Bob.

Candice Struck

May 29, 2008

PAPA, WOW I don't even know where to begin, there are so many wonderful memories that i have with you from the time i was born all the way till now. I will never forget the times we traveled to Hawaii and learned to line dance, or the time we went back to Arkansas and you helped us with the props to the whole in the bucket play, or the time in Florida when we went to bush gardens and Walt Disney world. I cant thank you enough for all those wonderful trips they mean a lot to me. You have made my life so much more enjoyable by just being you. I thank god everyday for all the time I did have with you I just wish you didn't have to go through so much pain and suffering to be here with us this long. I'm really going to miss all those holidays with you, and all your silly lil jokes and stunt you would play on us, like when we played hide and seek and we hid for hours and you never came to look for us. (ha ha) I only wish my baby would be able to experience how great of a grandpa you always were. I know you will be watching us from up above making sure we are doing okay.

I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND WILL MISS YOU SO SO MUCH.
AND I KNOW WE WILL MEET AGAIN SOME DAY. <3<3<3 XOXOXOX

Jean Dakin

May 28, 2008

Dad... where do I begin? You are the most amazing, wonderful, unselfish, humble, funny, forgiving and loving person I have ever known in my life. You were the always the first person I called, whether it be a funny Connor or Cory story, what was happening in the news (remember 911, you and I sat on the phone for the longest time), or just to see how you were doing (those were always the shortest conversations because you were always okay). I never told you, and I don't think I realized it until now, but you were by best friend. Even the day I spillled water all over you, you made sure that I didn't feel bad about it (even though we had to move you out of bed and change the sheets!). I can't begin to even put into words the gratitude in my heart of your fight to give us a better life. Your struggles were insurmountable, yet you never never complained. I am most grateful that my kids got to know you. We have been sharing nonstop "Papa" stories. As many as there are, I wish there were more. Lord, dear precious God, thank you for giving us the time to say our goodbyes. I will try not to sound selfish when I wish I had one more day. I will try not to dwell in grief, but rejoice in every day that He gave us to be with you.

My all time favorite "Dad" story:[Scene] Me, 13 years old, 7th grade, getting ready for school, 5 minutes to go, suddenly remember that I need a permission slip for some school trip (or something). [Scene] Dad... sitting at the kitchen table, reading his newspaper, enjoying his coffee, me, running 60 miles an hour towards him, waving something in the air (he can't quite make it out because it was moving 100 miles per hour), screaming "sign it, I'm late". [Scene] Me, sitting in second period class when, over the loud speaker "Will Jean Struck please come to the Principal's Office." Me, mortified as the whole class is "whooaaaa", as I walked out with my head hanging low and my heart beating 1000 miles a minute. I walk into the Principal's office. Sat down, her piercing eyes looking at me. She throws this piece of paper across the table at me (yes, with that fling of the wrist and everything) and says "WHAT IS THE MEANING OF THIS". As my eyes start to focus I see, barely, that it's that permission slip that I, too, threw at Dad that morning! I soon (and very quickly) realize that the Principal thought that I thought myself to be rather funny. For the paper was not signed "Robert Struck" but, rather, signed "Jean's Dad." I didn't know then, how much that would mean to me now. Thank you, thank you, thank you, for being my dad. I love and will miss you beyond words.

John & Judy Gamble

May 28, 2008

We enjoyed knowing Bob and visiting with him at all of Dave and Andrea's family get togethers. He was always pleasant with a good word to say about everyone. A good man who will not be forgotten by those who knew him. Our love, sympathy and prayers go out to all of the family.

MICHELLE FAUBION

May 28, 2008

Its been hard for me to deal with this one....I have'nt found the strength enough to contact Kathy. Hearing about this loss is like losing a part of my family. For as long as I can remember it was always "Bob & Kathy, Bob & Barbara, Ken & Betty -THE MIXED NUTS". The stories daddy would tell after returning from the Vegas trips they would venture on would make us laugh, wich is something that was rare for daddy... So I would like to say "Thanks for the laughter brought to our home from Bob & Kathy." It made a world of difference, for us. Kathy, If you get a chance to read this, I want to say Ilove you and if there is anything I can do for you, I will!

Rick & Lois Emerton

May 28, 2008

I had just a few visits with Bob and Kathy, during the holidays and birthdays but, you learn to know a good MAN when you meet one, no matter how brief. He was a good MAN and will be missed by all.

Fred & Diane Link

May 28, 2008

Friend and neighbor--We didn't see you for too long a time.

Ken Tilley

May 27, 2008

Rest in peace my friend Bob, but I know that isn't what you'll be doing. You'll be thinking of some kind of stunt to pull on somebody. I've got so many great memories I couldn't begin to list them all. Like the time we painted the horseshoes, put them in a fancy carrying case with white gloves and all. Then broke them out when we were chanllenged to a match at Huerta's pit BBQ. Or the time we were going to spray paint Wiley's grass green after he had given his yard the full treatment in an attempt to make HIS yard the best one on Nob Hill. Thanks for all those rides to the Northwoods in the white Caddy. Thanks for not telling me to slow down on the Road To Hanna. Thanks for being a great neighbor. Thanks for the numerous times you repaired our washer, dryer, disposal, etc. And thanks for being a great santa clause to our family and allowing me to be santa to yours. You weren't a bad bowler either. Keep things running in your new home. I know you're smiling as you read this and other lines of wit. Always Your friends and neighbors. Ken & Betty

Brittany Struck

May 27, 2008

Papa,
Wow I cannot believe that you have past. I Hope that when you got into heaven that KD and DD jumped into your lap and smothered you in kisses. I want to tell you thank you for everything you have done for us kids. You have taught us so many things. Thank you for being the greatest grandpa anyone could ever have. I love you with all my heart and I will never forget the tricks and jokes you have taught us over the years. I will be sure to keep the feather ball alive!! I will miss you with all of my heart. Please watch over us papa!!

RIP Robert (papa) Struck

Until we meet again

Dennis Eichenberger

May 27, 2008

I will miss my email buddy. The few years I knew Bob, he always had a good word and smile for you. Even though he had many medical problems, he never once brought it up in our conversations. He was always more interested in things you had to say. He will be missed.

Dan Haley

May 27, 2008

Uncle Bob, I Love you and will miss you. I appreciate the memories of summer vacations in Wisconsin with you. I had great times with the family at the house in Garden Grove. The world has lost a man with a good heart. Heaven has gained an Angel.

Diane (Haley) and Bob Schmoker

May 27, 2008

Our lives are a summation of words and deeds. In his life, Uncle Bob kept himself in touch with what really mattered...thinking of others. It would have been understandable for him to become overwhelmed with the hand he was dealt. Instead he focused on helping others to keep life in perspective. A good example would be his pioneering efforts and contributions to the research and treatments of cancer. That's just one of the many examples of his selfless manner. Life doesn't have to be easy to be wonderful. He would be happy to know how many think of him and smile. With love and the fondest memories, Diane

Mary Ann Haley

May 27, 2008

As we reminisce and share memories of loved ones, Bob will always be remembered as a happy, helpful person. He had the gift to make us smile and have a good time. Through the 50+ years we have known him, he has always been there for the family. He has touched our lives in a special way and I am sure that Ken and Bob are together again. With love, Mary Ann Haley

Nicole struck

May 26, 2008

To papa I love you and i miss you very much. I love you more than bananas, I love you more than pizza.
love Nicole

Jason Ash

May 26, 2008

Papa
I miss you very much and I love you. Wish you were still here. Mom is very sad!
Love Jason

susan stenberg

May 26, 2008

Oh dear Uncle Bob, It hurt soo to say good bye, I know you are in a better place and at peace...You brought so much joy to every person you came in touch with and I guess that is why it is so hard to say "Goodbye" Better yet lets say "see you again". Please say Hi to Gramma and Grampa ..Give Gramma a hug for me! Miss you 4-ever!!!! Love always Susan

Gerald Struck

May 26, 2008

We have had so much fun in our lives; Big cedar lake, Hawaii,California,Florinda, and Wisconsin.The Christmas's at mom and dad Struck's...and the house parties..so many!..Memories to live on in your family and ours!! We will miss you! Love Gerald and Dorothy

kyle webb

May 26, 2008

we will all miss you so very much you have always been a great grandfather to me and i will always miss your quarter and card tricks you used to show us all and i will treasure all the memories we have had

Cassidy Riggs

May 26, 2008

bob"mr.struck" i wish u would have never left any of us but i understand that is was ur time to go and i know ur in a better place right know! I cant believe its time to say goodbye and i cant believe that the people i care about most keep leaving me! Im going to miss the time we would always come over and see u and hug u all the time and talk to u (i can still do that in my prayers)! I just dont want to say good bye. My heart crys every night know that u and my grandpa's are gone. Well i know that i will always have u by our side, anywhere and everywhere we "all" go! I MISS u badly!I love u and i will see u later! Now that its time to go i really dont want to go. Well have fun! P.S. Have fun, i know u will be hangin with my grandpa! :)

Andrea Webb

May 26, 2008

I am so glad i got to know you. you always made me smile with your thumb trick i loved to watch you do that with the kids over the years. I am sad that you are no longer going to send me e-mails i so looked forward to getting them and sending you stuff. I wll miss that. I love you very much.

david struck

May 26, 2008

what do you say about a man that gave so much and took so little. Dad the days of my life were filled with ups and downs but you never gave up on me and for that i will never forget. you are a great father and a great grandfather , i say are because we will never forget you or the things you taught me in my life. my heart weeps while again it goes on with the love i have for you. We will miss your stupid magic tricks and your dumb jokes but most of all we will miss you.All our love and kisses and eternal peace be with you.

Summer Bland ;)

May 26, 2008

Dear Mr. struck,i cant belive your gone and i miss you so much. I love you and love your tricks. You always made me laugh. And i knew you my whole life, and now your gone and i wish you were still here. Say hi to grandpa for me I love you so much.

Melinda,Shorty & Shirley Bland & Holstein

May 26, 2008

Bob(Mr. Struck) was a wonderful man, he had a great sense of humor, and a kind heart.We will dearly miss you.Thankyou for being a part of our lives and amusing my kids with your jokes, they adored you, we all did!!! This place will not be the same without you here. RIP BOB

May 25, 2008

To my Dad
I'm wondering why? Why did life go the way it did for you, why you were you the one chosen for a life full of fighting and not living. I miss you so much, I can't tell you how hard it was to watch you fight so hard in the end and seeing your eyes looking at me wandering if you were seeing me telling you "I love you", I'll miss you", and "thank you for being my dad". I couldn't ask for a better father than you. You showed me the right way to live and to always do my best, I know you were proud of me and Jessica and Jason. I promise all of us will keep making you proud, I know you are still watching over us.
How I miss the past, I look at pictures and just want to crawl into them in the good ole days, Bowling in ABT together, traveling, playing pinnocle, or just talking we always had a great time and they will be memories I will cherish forever.
Jessica and Jason will grow and have a great future because of a grandfather like you, because you taught them of how important life is and you only have one chance at it,
as you use to say "do it right the first time and you don't have to do it again".
That night you called out "Grandpa" and I take solice that you saw family on the way up waiting for a reunion, I hope your at peace now and breathing at ease.
I love you and miss you so much. Holding your pillow is just not the same as holding you, but I'll always hold you in my heart and I'll never let you go!!!!

p.s. I hope God had that butter
you were asking for!

Love, Barbara

Ursula,Larry and Thomas Struck

May 25, 2008

Bob we will miss you. we will always share yor memories. Give our love and and a hug to Mom and Dad. We love you. Ursula, Larry and Thomas
Struck

Barbara Ash

May 25, 2008

Dad
All your life you fought illness and you could have given up at any time, but you fought for us! You always seem to beat the odds and because of that I never thought you would go. Watching you in those final days were so unfair you didn't deserve that, I just hope you saw me looking into your eyes telling you how much I loved you when you were leaving me. Some say I was lucky in being there and spending that last final moment with you and I know I was I only wish I could have taken that pain away. You called out "Grandpa" so I take in comfort that someone was meeting you on your way to heaven and giving you that final peace you have always deserved.

Thank you for being my Daddy and showing me the rights and wrongs of life and giving me the love that you did I will always carry that with me. I sleep with your pillow every nite smelling you and missing you so and remembering all of our times together, I will never forget!

I have two wonderful children because of you and what you taught me in life and I want to thank you for that!!

I love you and miss you so much I wish we could go back to how it was, bowling together, traveling, playing pinnocle,etc we really had some fun times and I'll cherish them forever. Rest in peace and I hope you're breathing easier now.

With all my love

Barbara

p.s. I hope God has butter for you!!!

michael struck

May 24, 2008

We will all miss you uncle Bob!

Jessica Ash

May 24, 2008

My goodness, I can't believe that you are finally gone. Words cannot express the joy that you have brought to my life as both a grandfather and a friend. You always knew how to make me laugh, and how to make me smile. I couldn't imagine my life without you in it. You have always been there, and I feel that you will always be watching over me and the rest of this family. Please, don't leave our side. R.I.P. Papa. We love you very much, and you will always be in our hearts.

Gloria Gestl

May 24, 2008

Bob will always have a special place in my heart. I will miss all the special times and coversations. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Stephanie Igo

May 24, 2008

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I have many fond memories of spending time with the whole family and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

lisa kapitan

May 24, 2008

My thoughts are with The Struck family and the loss of their father, husband and friend.
I share my tears with Patty, as she has become a good friend to me.
I send my condolences to all of you
from Canada.

David and Myrna Kwiatkowski

May 24, 2008

Myrna and I have many happy memories of Bob. From seeing that BIG 5th wheel in front of our house in Milwaukee to getting together in Florida. In addition, I will miss all of his e-mails. Our condolences and love to the family.

May 24, 2008

Bob was a true gentleman and a gentle man, along with a subtle marvelous wit. All the family will miss him.-Jack and Judy Rae

Patty Wessell (Struck)

May 24, 2008

Nothing can express the sorrow in our hearts, We all loved you very much and will miss you terribly. The memories and thank you's we all share will live on far past the time we spent on earth. I love you Dad and will never forget everything you were, a loving father, provider, advisor, supporter, and so giving, and a humor that everyone enjoyed! I will miss you with all my heart.

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