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for Sophia Gokey
Matt Hillman
June 30, 2019
Hi Sophia its Dannys friend preschool Matt Hillman thank you for coming to see me and Danny on American idol seasons 5 -6-7 to watch us perform and our finale in season 7
Diane
September 23, 2017
It's now 2017. I never met Sophia but I have seen Danny in concert 4 times. He never fails to speak of Sophia and how special she was and how strong her faith was. It's such a touching tribute and makes you feel in some wsy you did know her. It has been a few years since her passing but my heart still goes out to all her family and friends. God Bless.
Daniel Gokey
August 9, 2008
HI baby!!! Its me your Husband. Words just cant begin to express the huge fingerprint that you left in and on my life. I cant help but to still shed many tears because I miss you sooooo much. As a matter of fact tears are beginning to stream down my face as I write. I still love you and and Im in love with you. I wanted to thank you for being so strong during your battle with this condition. You fought hard and never gave up on believing in God. Even after your first surgery the last words we exchanged was when I told you to say "Im strong" and with everything inside of you said it twice. Your body was weak in the natural but you spoke it by faith!!!! The circumstance proved your faith and what you believed. You kept the faith till the very end. Many people give up on God because they are led by what they see and not by the truth. No matter what happened I have learned to say LORD YOU ARE GOOD AND YOUR MERCY ENDURES FOREVER!
It was and honor and privilege to be chosen as your husband and helpmate.
How did I get to be so blessed. I know that God is with me I feel like he reminds me that he has a great future for me and that the best is yet to come! Your legacy is becoming great and will only become greater. I feel its my job to spread your story around the world. Several hundred people already got saved and re-dedicated their lives to Christ because of you. This is only the beginning. Mami you are so precious to me and there is nobody like you. Thanks for everything. I miss you dearly but I am sooooo excited for our reunion.....can we please live together in our mansion or at least next to each other??? I Love you!!
Noelle Heffner
August 7, 2008
It's been really hard for me this passed month to think that I will never see Sophie in the pew, hear her laugh and tell me girl get your stuff together. She changed my life in so many ways. The loss just showed me that life is short and you really do need to live it to the fullest. I'm going to miss her so much. I'm so sorry for your loss. I know through this hard time for you all. God will show you his plan even though it doesn’t make sense now. Sophie didn’t die in vain.
Evelis Negron
August 5, 2008
My heart and prayers are and always will be with you, Sophia, and all of those affected by not being able to physically be with you anymore. I want to say that we as a family are sooooo blessed to have had such a wonderful human being in our lives.
I always looked forward to seeing you and all of my other beautiful cousins (1st, 2nd, 3rd....) and their families. One of my great memomries was at Juni's wedding when Sophie and Dan conquered the competition in how well you guys knew eachother. Although I'm sure no relationship was perfect, from what I saw of Dan and Sophie, they were very close.
I couldn't thank Sophie and Dan enough for helping out with Leia's wedding and eventhough she was physically drained it never stopped her from enjoying herself.
God Bless everyone who is grieving, may we be granted the strength to go on, here on earth, until we are reunited in heaven.
Selena Negron
August 4, 2008
Sophia,
Even though i did not know you as well as others you still meant something to me. I will miss your beautiful smile and how nice you were to everyone. I'll never forget when i went to your wedding how beautiful you looked and how happy you were. I'll always have you in my heart and I'll never forget you. God Bless
Judy Croft
July 30, 2008
Anny & Johnny: I was shocked to hear of your loss. I am so sorry. God will give you the strength to get through this, I truly believe that.
Timera and Noah Garcia
July 27, 2008
Danny,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My husband and I are struggling through a loss of our own, searching for answers and guidance through this test of faith. I will pray for you often.
Ana Martinez-Guse
July 26, 2008
Today is my day, free of all other duties. A day to be in the presence of the Lord; to contemplate on the life of my niece Sophia; to cry and grieve in the privacy of my own home. Thank you Lord for this opportunity.
I praise the Lord for giving Sophia to us. For placing her in my family line. A blessing of joy which will be cherished for ever.
Sophie, I vividly remember when you and Mari chose my living room to hold a ping-pong competition on the coffee table.
And when you were screaming "no" holding on for dear life onto your mother's arm, when I told you it was time you went home with me because she you were my little girl.
I can see your smile and hear your laughter, a laugh like no other. you're unique. Your presence will be missed. But I thank God that he gave you fantastic parents and sisters, and a mighty man of God for a husband with whom you shared that special love between man and woman. Thank you Lord.
I praise God for sharing His love to others through the many gifts you were graced with. For you impacted many during your assignment here, and ultimately in your going home.
My heart is so full. Yes, I feel sorrow, but yet have joy, for the joy of the Lord is my strength. Thank you Lord.
I pray I can complete my race with a job well done as you. For I will continue to fight the good fight. For our faith is not in vain. Therefore, I decree and declare that our whole family (on all sides) shall be saved and will be in glory with you in the presence of the Lord. So I praise the name of Jesus, in whom every knee shall bow, that it will come to pass, Amen. Alleluya!!
So until later Sophie, I love you very much.
Your Titi,
Ana Guse
Christie Larscheidt
July 25, 2008
Dan and family,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have thought of you all during this time. Sophie was such a great person, friend, and Christian. I can only imagine the loss that you are feeling right now, but we can be looking forward to the day when we will see her again! She was an amazing person and we can all feel very blessed to have known her. You are in my prayers.
Love,
Christie (Mirenda) Larscheidt
Tiffany Owensby
July 23, 2008
I went to high school with sophie, she was of the happiest, loving person I have ever met. I just want to let the family know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I just buried my mother, so I know the void your family must feel. Just know she is in a better place, and GOD will see you through this rough time.
Leia and Angelo Flores
July 22, 2008
I want to share a little story with everyone about what kind of person Sophy was to me. I am sure everyone has been touched by her in similar ways to this, but it's that loving and giving personality that she is remembered by. Sophy helped me plan my wedding for June 7, 2008. I was in the middle of going crazy and I heard from other family that she is good with planning and decorating. I said "Thank GOD!" She came right on time. She listened to all my problems I was having and all my frustration. She asked me what can she do for me. So for the 3 months prier to the wedding we would talk about ideas and progress. She really pulled me together. One day, I called her and left a message on her phone just to update her again, she didn't get back to me. The next day, she still didn't get back to me. She called me the following day, and this is what I mean about her. I knew she was getting work done and was in and out of the Doctor, but she said that she is sorry for not getting back to me because she had appointments to go to. I told her, why would you apologize for something like that. I told her don't ever worry about anything else unless you are healthy. I said I need you there on my wedding day. Even though her health was at risk she still apologizes for not calling me. It really shows how loving, kind, dedicated, and giving she really is. The day of the wedding she was in the back trying to calm everything down and organize it all. She was there giving the signal to go. It was her that was there talking to me before the doors opened and I walked down the isle. She was there for me, she helped my special day become perfect. I Love her so much for that. After the wedding we were doing thank you cards for everyone, and I asked Angelo if he could put Dan and Sophy's to the side because I wanted to right a long and special thank you to them both. We thank Dan for singing, he knows he can sing, and I wanted Sophy to know how thankful I was for all that she did, she really took the weight off my shoulder's. Thank GOD for Sophy. Everyone will always remember her for the way she cared and helped others, and went out of her way for people. She is an amazing person with an amazing story. We pray for the Martinez family and Danny that God help them through this hard time and that they find comfort in each other and all those around them. You will always be in our hearts. We Love everyone God bless.
Theresa Blue
July 22, 2008
Dan and The Martinez Family,
I was sorry to hear the news about Sophia. I will continuously keep you all in my prayers. May the Lord give you comfort and peace of mind during this time.
Rosa Negron-Diaz
July 21, 2008
Sophie,
You are such an inspiration. You and Dan such a great example of a good Christian marriage, for all couples -- young, old and new -- to follow. Sophie, I remember your thoughtfullness, patience and considerate ways and how much love and warmth you have spread. Without your help my first daughter's wedding would not have been so beautiful. You with your great coordinating skills and Dan with his wonderful voice. I especially miss that great big smile of yours.
Love you always.
Dan, Ana & Johnny and families,
No words or actions will completely take the grief you feel. Only God and time will ease it. Your incredible faith has kept you strong and will carry you on. Know that I'll be there for you if the need ever arises.
Love you all.
Elvira De Marko
July 20, 2008
Sophie,
I miss you girl! it has been hard knowing that you are no longer here with us; but I know you are in a much better place. Heaven. I can't wait to meet you there and get an exclusive tour by you! Sophia; fire ball, you are greatly missed.
Everytime I see a child I think of you. You were very natural with them! thank you for the tips on how to handle them and care for them while I was part of the Children's Ministry. Now that you re in Heaven, you can take care of my brother's baby boy.
I love you and I'll see you when I get there. Make sure to say to me
AY MI MADRE!
Venessa Sanders
July 20, 2008
Soph,
It’s hard to believe the facts that present themselves today. I still find myself waking up going right into prayer for you repeating over and over “I believe.” I still do believe Soph. I’ve never believed for anything so much in my life as I did for your healing and then ultimately your resurrection. I know some may think its crazy, but there were many who knew it as well as we knew our own names. You have risen, Soph, and are walking in complete healing! I praise God and have His peace because I know you are happy and whole.
I told your husband it was an honor fighting this tremendous fight of faith with him. I know you know how amazing he was and is and how not for one second did he ever let go. It’s because of his faith that my faith and the faith of so many others has risen to such a level we have no choice but to be FOREVER changed. Your parents and sisters also remained steadfast and fought to the very end, not willing to settle for anything other than what the Word of God tells us we can have. I know you are proud!
I do miss you so much already and look forward to the day when I will see you again. I just laugh to myself all the time thinking of you and all the wonderful memories that we made. You are my cousin, yet close enough to be a sister and always there as my friend.
I do wonder who will crack jokes with me now during service (before and after, that is…never while Pastor is preaching! wink, wink). We never did get that duplex and live upstairs and downstairs from each other, do laundry together while our husbands fixed the cars and the kids were outside playing. That’s ok. We’ll have an eternity to stay up talking, write poems and letters, laugh and crack jokes, either at my mansion or yours. I can’t wait! I love you and I miss you! xoxo
Laura Wernette
July 19, 2008
To Dan and the Martinez Family,
My prayers are with you that you would be graced with God's perfect peace through this difficult time. Sophie lived a life to be celebrated and I'm sure the celebration continues as she is singing and dancing before the King of kings. Please know that if there is anything me or my family can do, we are always here for you.
Sophie,
God gave me a beautiful vision of you in heaven loving on all the babies and children that are there... they were of all different colors and ethnicities and you were just doing what God created you to do - loving each one as if they were the most precious one of all :) My new baby girl, Amelie, will always know you lived an abundant life and how much you meant to me and how much you loved her, even before she was here! She is beautiful, Sophie... just how you said she would be. Although I will miss you immensely, I will treasure all of my memories of you and our crazy, silly, encouraging, uplifting talks we always had. You have forever left an imprint in my heart. Love you, girl. I will see you again!
Tanisha Evans
July 19, 2008
Sophie~
I just want to say thank you for being the example of a Godly, virtuous woman. You will be greatly missed. You have left not just memories, but you have left a legacy. You've touched many and are loved by many. Can't wait to see you again. Love you Sophie.
Evelyn Diaz
July 18, 2008
FAM. MARTINEZ TORRES Y DANIEL GOKEY:
NADA TE TURBE, NADA TE ESPANTE; TODO SE PASA, DIOS NO SE MUDA; LA PACIENCIA TODO LO ALCANZA. QUIEN A DIOS TIENE, NADA LE FALTA. SOLO DIOS BASTA. ELEVA EL PENSAMIENTO, AL CIELO SUBE, POR NADA TE ACONGOJES. NADA TE TURBE; A JESUCRISTO SIGUE CON PECHO GRANDE, Y VENGA LO QUE VENGA NADA TE ESPANTE. ¿VES LA GLORIA DEL MUNDO...? ES GLORIA VANA, NADIE TIENE DE ESTABLE, TODO SE PASA. ASPIRA A LO CELESTE QUE SIEMPRE DURA; FIEL Y RICO EN PROMESAS.
MIS CONDOLENCIA A LA FAMILIA QUE DIOS LOS BENDIGA SIEMPRE TUS PRIMA EVELYN DIAZ Y FAMILIA
Evelyn Diaz
July 18, 2008
Familia Martínez Torres y Daniel Gokey:
Nada te turbe, nada te espante: todo se pasa, Dios no se muda: la paciencia todo lo alcanza. Quien a Dios tiene, nada le falta. Solo Dios basta.
Mis mas sentidos pesame. Dios los bendiga con mucho amor Evelyn Díaz y Familia.
CLARISSA MONT
July 18, 2008
Sophie,
MY BESTFRIEND! I miss U so much. I miss our daily calls, I miss U crackin jokes & putting a smile on my face, I miss our date nights & our Barnes & Noble intimate talks about God, personal issues, goals & desires that no one else knew about, I miss planning our trips, I miss U playin with my kids & lovin them as ur own, I miss us watchin girly movies with a big cheesy smile in "fantasy land" & our husbands makin fun of us, I miss going 2 church & U being the 1st one I look 4 & I'll miss so much more BUT because I know ur in the best place U could ever B & happier than we can imagine, I have God's peace to fill that special place in my heart till I c U again! It'll b soon!
I remember clearly the 1st moment we met. We have the same favorite color, interest, occupation, height, husbands that were 2 similar:) & we'd stay on the phone 4 hours(at the beginning, like a boy/girlfriend relationship) It was an instant divine connection from God! A relationship some don't find in a lifetime.
You've touched my life in so many ways. I'll never b the same & U will always b my bestfriend! There will never b no 1 like U. I could tell U anything & know U wouldn't condemn or judge me but always help, cry, pray & laugh with me. U always brang out the best in me, made me laugh & made me feel special. U always thought of others before urself, U were humble yet confident in who U r in Christ, U r compassionate & always willing 2 help. U r strong, beautiful & GIRL U could do anything(from doing hair to floral design, wedding coordinator, teacher, decorator & wanting to write a children's book!) Work It Girl! I wonder what ur all doing in Heaven:)
U R A GREAT, STRONG WOMAN OF GOD! I'm so honored God put U in my life & U chose me 2 b ur bestfriend! Because of U, so many people's lives have been changed. Because of our love 4 U, we have entered a higher level of love, faith, endurance & love 4 God. I know U r SO pleased with ur AWESOME husband, as well as our heavenly Father is with him, cause he was our example we saw with our own eyes. Girl, he's a true warrior & Man of God. He's encouraged & inspired Anivad & I in many ways. I know "We can do all things through Christ which strengthens us" but seeing with my own eyes how God's presence & strength was ALL OVER Dan has amazed me! I'll never stop fighting 4 anything because of that. Anivad & I love him so deeply like never before. We'll b here 4 him always.
And lastly, I love ur parents & sisters. U have a great family. Girl, U brang the biggest crowd I've ever seen. But why was I surprised?...U R wonderful! I love U sooo much & will c u soon muchacha!
LOVE, UR BESTFRIEND, CLARISSA
Jose-Luis Flores
July 18, 2008
Sophie,
Word's can't express how much I miss you right now. Even though you weren't a big part of my life, you were part of it. I'm just so glad these last couple weeks we got to get closer and have some good times. Remember when we made up "Wash Your Stains" that day you had to wait for Dan to finish practice? Twas a long wait. lol. We had so much fun that night. I remember the first camp I went to five years ago I thought you were a youth, and me and Nacho just ribbed Dan for coming in our room and trynna calm it down.....sorry Dan. Sophie, Dan and the whole family, all of you have made such a great impact on my life in this past month. I am no longer who I used to be and I have your faith and the fruit which it produced to thank for that. I'm going to miss you so much. I told Jazz it's like a really close relative moving far far away, they're not gone and you know you'll see them again but it just sucks not having them in arms reach. Once again Sophie thank you for being you, one of the smallest people I've ever known with probably the biggest heart!!! Praise God now you got the a perfect heart. Until the day we met again all I can say is I love you and I miss you. Thank you for every word you've ever said to me and every second you've ever walked by my side. It's people like you who make life worth living.
To the tune of Fall Like Rain: "Wash you stains, wash your stains, You need to wash your stains, wash your stai-ains!!!"(Praise God)
Love you Mija!!!
LOL
Lori Danforth - Susie's Sister.
July 17, 2008
Dear Martinez and Gokey families,
I was so sad when I heard about Sophia. I'm sorry for your loss. She is in the wonderful hands of the Lord and in the beautiful Heaven's above. She's with my niece Tasha. She was a beautiful young lady. God has picked another rose for his gardens.
Cynthia Maldonado
July 17, 2008
Sophia, you are going to be greatly missed! You have blessed so many lives and are continuing to bless even more lives! We spent important teenage years together and they are unforgettable! Your family has been a blessing to my family since the first day we visited Central. I will always remember our cheesy "modeling" pictures we loved taking together! :) Love you Sophia and we will see you soon!
Martinez and Gokey family our prayers are with your family!
Margarita Orlik
July 17, 2008
Dear Dan and Family,
I really havent had the chance to sit down and get to know Sister Sophia but just looking at her wonderful spirit made me smile. I know as well as everyone else does she is in a better place dancing and celebrating with the angels. God Bless. The Joy of the Lord is our Strength.
Lisa Rodriguez
July 17, 2008
To the Martinez/Gokey Families:
My prayers are with you during this time. I am Camellie's mom and I just wanted to say that it was a privilege getting to know Sophie during the preparation of Camellie's wedding. Thank God we are not people without hope! Those in heaven are more alive than we are. I have experienced much loss over the years but in my loss I knew that my loved ones had the Lord in their hearts! Because of this,it has only made me long for heaven even more! What an awesome place it will be now that Sophie has joined the Victorious ones - the ones that have run the race. The ones covered in the blood of Jesus. Sophie is experiencing life so abundantly and is standing in the midst of Praise and Worship. I can't wait to join all of the Warriors gone before me. O Death where is thy sting? O Grave where is thy victory? To live is Christ but to die is gain. Thank you Jesus, for watching over Sophie's race as she ran into your loving arms. My prayer is that you will now watch over us and her family as we continue the race that she has finished!
Tarisha Salas
July 16, 2008
Sophie,
I am so glad we are cousins, I know your prayers helped in the past and brought me back to christ. You changed me and touched my heart. I believe my faith and life is so far beyound anything I thought I could do because of you being part of it. I know I didn't get a moment to say goodbye, and even if I could I don't think I would of because I know that we will see each other very soon. Until then I love you!!!
Dan,
You are my hero, you are one of the strongest people I know. God's annoiting is all over you and I know this one thing is going to turn out to be bigger then what we can imagine. I know this was a tool God is going to use for things to come. I love you so much...And I am glad you are a part of the family. The many talks has brought my faith to another level and I am so thankful for it. Your strong will has kept me going and I thank you...
Kathy Figueroa
July 16, 2008
Dear Gokey & Martinez Families,
Thank you for the lesson in faith. I will NEVER be the same. What the enemy has set out to destroy has only been made stronger. May God bless your lives for what you've sewn into others. Sophia lives on in the faith that she has instilled and strengthened in so many people. I will never forget her or you.
Bart Wagner
July 16, 2008
To the Martinez and Gokey Families,
I was deeply saddened and moved upon hearing of your loss. Sophie left an imprint upon me and those who knew her as someone always smiling and loving fully those around her. Hold fast to God and those around you as you go through this together.
With Sympathy,
Bart and Amy Wagner
Ndidi Musa
July 16, 2008
Dan,
Even though it was a short time interacting with Sophia and you. The greatest miracle of all is that she has a new heart in heaven no more pain and suffering.
Dan my prayers are with you and Sophia's family, may you find comfort in the Word of the Lord.
He is the resurrection and the life.
Monica Parkes
July 16, 2008
We will miss Sophia greatly. She was my daughter's Teacher at Kindercare, and our Friend. She is such a loving and caring woman; we are glad we had the chance to know her and have her a part of our lives.
With sympathy, the Parkes family
Shantel Hendricks
July 16, 2008
Just wanted you to know that I'm praying for your continued strength and peace(that ONLY God can give)...I'm sure that best comfort you have now is KNOWING that she IS with the Lord!..I thank God for the time, love, memories that you shared together(that's something that will always be) God bless & keep you
Carmen Ferra
July 16, 2008
I didn't mean to make you cry.
I didn't mean to say goodbye.
All I want is to see you laugh,
and remember the good times we had.
You know I wish I could have stayed,
But it wasn't for me to say.
For only God can grant us the time we stay ,
to live, to work, to laugh and play.
So please don't shed for me more tears,
I had to go. My time was here.
When you think of me please don't get sad.
For I will take with me the best we had.
This is how I wish to remember you Sophie, with a smile...
Miss Valerie J Yelk
July 16, 2008
Dear Martinez/Gokey Families,
I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. Thank you for allowing me to come and partake in prayers for her and be a part of her life. You are in my prayers always. "Blessed are those that mourn, for they shall be comforted." Matthew 5:4
Dear Damaris, Margarita, and Venessa,
Thank you for sharing your sister and cousin with me. She was a huge blessing in my life. You are also in my prayers. I love you! "He heals the broken heartened, binding up their wounds." Psalm 147:3
Dearest Sophia,
When I think of you, I think of woman of many talents. I have many fond memories of you. I remember when you were at the Style Women's Conference in Lake Geneva helping "deliver those babies" from Naomi Sanders. That was a riot as well as your other characters for Style (ie asian beautician). :) I remember you helping me with my 80's prom queen hair for an X8 Costume Party. I remember serving under you when you were director of the Nursery and you helping with the shrink song with Laurana. In addition, I remember you having a love for flowers and decorating, children, style, and life. Whatever you did you did it with passion and to 210%. I remember you and Laura belly dancing to a song that was at Style. Most of all, I also remember you loving Laurana and I like Jesus does.
Thank you for living your life as an example of what a beautiful woman of God is. You taught me to love people unconditionally, serve God passionately, live life to the fullest, to never leg go of the child inside of you, to love children unconditionally, to walk humbly, be a awesome and stylish woman, be humble and teachable, and to be a Proverbs 31 woman as well as wife.
I know I'll recognize you in heaven when I see a lot of beautiful diamonds and jewels, you wearing your beautiful dress, lots of children, decorating heaven, making Jesus laugh as well as the children, and you dancing and worshipping at His feet.
See you soon!
Mike & Carol McGuire
July 16, 2008
Dear Martinez Family & Dan:
Thank you for letting us be a part of your family. Just knowing Sophie & her sisters we can tell what a wonderful job you did as parents. The love Sophie showed to & for the children in "Children's Church" was amazing. She was one of my favorite teachers to share with. Her compassion was unending. We will miss her spunk & sweet smile. We can see her with Jesus - giggling. God will strengthen you all with His joy in knowing we will all be home in our "Heavenly Home" with Sophie one day. Dan, thank God Sophie had a chance to be your wife. You really completed her dream of having a wonderful & caring husband.
Jim & Sandy Delarosa
July 16, 2008
Dan and Sophia's family,
Our deepest sympathies to all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time. Hang onto Jesus-He will be your strength through all of this. We love you Dan.
Jazzy Gonzalez
July 16, 2008
Sophie!
your one heart has touched so many... i'm so proud of you & so thankful that i have the privelege of being your cousin... I just want to thank you for being YOU... and throughout all of this bringing about so much positivity & unity within the church & the family. i know you've truely made all of heaven smile! Just know that you've made such a huge impact on my life, in more ways than one... i mean, you're beautiful, smart, a wonderful daughter & wife, and you have such a heart for the Lord... i admire you so much! never will i forget all of the memories we've shared while i was growing up... and, i'm not done growing yet- so, i want you to know that my hearts desire is to be like YOU when i grow up... :) i love you so, SO much Sophie! but, it's not over yet... i can't wait to see you again!
Blanca Aviles
July 16, 2008
Johnny and Ana, My heart goes out to you, Dan and your family. I love your girls like my own Joanne. They spend many many days together. I have so many fun and funny memories of the girls together, specially with Sofi and Joanne they were inseparable, often dressing alike and sharing their childhood secrets. My prayer is that you find peace in God during this difficult time. With much love...Blanca (Diaz) Aviles
Blanca Aviles
July 16, 2008
Johnny and Ana, My heart goes out to you, Dan and your family. I love your girls like my own Joanne. They spend many many days together. I have so many fun and funny memories of the girls together, specially with Sofi, and Joanne they were inseparable, often dressing alike and sharing their childhood secrets. My prayer is that you find peace in God during this difficult time.With much love...Blanca (Diaz) Aviles
Destiny Chambers
July 16, 2008
Sophie-
There are so many little things about my interactions with you that are small and minor but they are blazing images in my mind. Like the first time that I remember being told about you going into the hospital for a few days. The choir came together to pray for you and when you returned to church a week or so later, I remember my heart leaping with joy. I stood on the choir platform full of excitement, and when I got to my seat I couldn’t wait for service to be over just so I could run up and give you a hug. We hadn’t even been especially close at the time, but your presence alone had done so much for me. I leaned over and told Yari how I couldn’t wait to tell you how happy I was to see you. So right when service closed I rushed over to your seat, waited anxiously for you to finish talking to someone and finally you turned to me (with the cutest smile) and I immediately spat out everything I was thinking. I was like, “Hey Sophie, I’m Destiny. I know we don’t talk to each other that much (I don’t even think I said “that much”), but I’m so happy to see you!” and then I laughed and hugged you. (You probably thought I was crazy, and I’m almost 100% sure you knew who I was already through social association, but whatever, I wanted to say hi) So yeah, you thanked me pleasantly, I stood there awkwardly hovering you and then Yari says “Yeah, she told me during service she couldn’t wait to say hi to you.” (Now you probably REALLY thought I was crazy) I gave a nervous laugh and responded, “yeah”, with a head shake of acknowledgement and we parted ways. Thus began our friendship. =)
Friendly conversation in passing and sharing jokes here and there made the bulk of our relationship, a hug and a kiss on the cheek sustained it, and virtually everything you did made me love who you are even more. From the way you play around with Jelly and Mia during choir rehearsal on Sundays, to the light and pretty tone of your singing voice when the music ceases and they call for only the voices and I can hear you from behind me. Harmonizing perfectly (You’re how I find my pitch) Even though you usually harmonize with Dan so it sounds more like a solo with just the 2 of you accompanied by front line. I sometimes wondered if it was rehearsed. Like, if Dan sat around the house with you and made you perfectly harmonize with all of his solos. I don’t know. And then there’s the day we were in the bathroom trying to fix our hair. You kept trying to do that one style where you have the 3 twists in the back that kind of sprouted out at the top and you let two pieces of your bangs hang on the sides. Yeah, you redid that style like 3 times and each time it was essentially perfect! Then you finally took it all down and left it. Which still looked fine to me and you were like, “I don’t know what’s going on with my hair today. Dan’s probably gonna be like what happened to your head?” I still thought it looked FINE! But I was like “Yeah, I know right?” We talked about how bad our hair was for another 5 minutes, then you walked out with your perfect hair as I struggled to pin back naps. Lol!
You rock my socks off Soph’. We have the same butterfly t-shirt with the thermal sleeves from Target, and that continues to make us flyer than a saucer. Stay Black my love. You are truly a blessing.
Love you,
Destiny
Roseann Ness
July 16, 2008
Johnny, Ana & Family
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter. You will be in my thoughts and prayers, may you find strength in your faith and family to endure this journey.
With deepest sympathy
Roseann Ness (NML)
Yvonne Baines
July 16, 2008
To Dan and the Martinez Family,
My prayers and support go out to ALL of you during this time.
Janet Marshall
July 16, 2008
Dan and Family,
You will never know just how much Sophia has touched our lives. I feel like we just got started. We will miss her smile and the little talks we would have. She touched our life in more ways than anyone can say. Dan thank you for encourging us in our faith and showing us what it is to really trust in the Lord. You have been a inspiration to all of us. Sophia we love you and we will miss you.
Wendy Bautch
July 16, 2008
Dear Dan & Martinez Family,
My most sincere deepest sympathy for your loss.
I had the utmost privilege to have had Sophie as our nanny since my son Blake was 3 months old. Sophie has brought so much love, care and fun to our everyday life. She was always a burst of sunshine whenever she was around us. I will always remember her abundance of energy, her radiant smiles, her contagious laughter, her unconditional love for children and her love for life. She told me she wanted at least 5 children and can’t wait to start her family with Dan. We were so happy to share in their wedding day. I know she will be surrounded by all the special little angels up in Heaven and she will be so happy as she look down upon us. We are so blessed having the wonderful memories of Sophie. I regretfully wished we hadn’t missed seeing each other last Fall when we last spoke. She will be in our hearts and memories forever.
Your families are in our prayers…
Sincerely,
Wendy & Blake Bautch
Catherine Velazquez
July 16, 2008
To Dan and Martinez Family;
I don't even know were to begin but I do want to say that the FAITH you all have is amazing.
Dan...WOW!! I know Sophia is so proud of you. You have walked in another level of FAITH and it's ministerd to the whole church. You are a perfect example of a Warrior.
Margarita...I love you and your family dearly. I strongly believe that your family is the RIGHT family, Sophia would be the RIGHT person and this would be the RIGHT time for a resurrection miracle but I know I can't lean unto my own understanding. I will continue to press and trust in our Lord.
To Sophia...OMG you are an awesome woman of God. Your smile, your style, your marriage, your personality and your love for children touched so many. Especially Deana in so many ways. She mentioned your Word from God, thru Prophet Glenn Miller, the other day. She said "Mom, Sophia has her new heart and she has been crowned a Queen, in the Kingdom of Heaven". I'm so excited...I can picture you being Fabulous in Heaven. Sophia, Thank you for being you because through your love so many different types of resurrections have tooken place. It'll never be the same again.
We love you and will see you later hun!
Deina Escalera
July 16, 2008
Sophie,
I am so glad you are a part of my life. I remember when I was going through the hardest time of my life and you encouraged me to stay strong and keep fighting. We talked for hours in your car..:) I am honored with the privilege to have you as a friend. And getting to know you better this past year has filled me with joy. We sure can talk for hours on the phone:) LOL I remember you holding Marcelino on the Wednesday before you went into surgery. He smiled and laughed the whole time you held him. I share my son with you....my Marcelino is your Marcelino too. I will always love you. Thank you for being such a good friend to me. See you later, girl.
One of your many friends at NM, Sue Valenti
July 16, 2008
Johnny - I am so sad to hear about the passing of your beautiful daughter Sophia. My deapest thoughts and prayers are with you and your family that the faith in god will guide you through this difficult time.
Lisa Ortiz (Velez-Butler)
July 16, 2008
Johnny, Ana, Lissette, Damaris, Margarita & Dan,
I want you to know that my prayers are with you all during this time...I remember Sophia when I use to babysit her...what a joy it was!
If you guys need ANYTHING, I am just a phone call away!
Elizabeth Rodriguez
July 15, 2008
To Dan and the Martinez family,
I wanted to say that I am so sorry for your lost. I had the pleasure to work with Sophia this year at our school and she is a wonderful person. We had many moments were we talked and laughed. We even spoke about our favorite music. You could see her outside my door listening to my spanish music moving slightly while putting up the children drawing up on the wall. She knew I enjoyed butterflies so she hung them up in front of my door were they will remain. God blessed you with a wonderful wife, daughter, sister. God bless you Dan and the Martinez family and just know she is in a better place with our heavenly father. You will all be in my prayers.
Elizabeth(Lisa)Rodriguez Santiago
Rex and Marel Nelson
July 15, 2008
Sophia,
You were very encouraging to me whenever we would have those little heart to heart conversations about marriage,decorating and let's not forget our latest thoughts on what new we were going to do with our hair. I will miss calling you that "Foxy Lady", strutting around church in your heels. And you telling me, I have to wear the heels, to be able to see eye to eye with you. And Yes my heart was broken to know I would not see your spunky self at church again, but my heart is also feeled with joy knowing this is not the end , but I will see you again, so be ready with your heels and hairspray so we can strut our stuff. Love ya lots sista!!!
Marel
Dan,
God has opened our heart to a love we have never felt before, and it brings us soo much joy to bring this love your way. Like pastor said "You better watch out, lol". I hope you did'nt mind inheriting a fun/crazy/all about love, brotha and sista. We are here for you always and forever. Lots of hugs and love
Rex and Marel
The Martinez Family,
We thank you for sharing your daughter with all of us, and we enjoyed getting to know all of you on a more personal level. We love you all and pray for your continued strength and peace on your journey to a new beginning.
Promised Gourdet-Rogers
July 15, 2008
Sophia,
In a world where women of valor and integrity are few and far between, you epitomized both.... You blessed myself and my daughter in a mighty way with your servants heart and dedication to loving and nuturing children.... My heart mourns the loss of you, as it celebrates the life you lead... Always by example.. Thank you Sophia for teaching us to protect our virtue and stand up as women of God...
I love you..
Dan, my brother... I am praying for your strength in enduring.. We love you and your family. This is celebration of a wonderfully beautiful soul..
Wendy Isenberg
July 15, 2008
To the Martinez/Gokey families:
Your family's love and faith has touched my life. My prayers and love are with you and may God’s strength and peace be with you also.
Sophia:
"Every time we think of you, we thank God for you. Day and night you're in our prayers as we call to mind your work of faith, your labor of love, and your patience of hope in following our Master, Jesus Christ, before God our Father." (1 Thess. 1:3 MSG)
You will be in my heart forever! Your smile that lights up a room, your laugh that makes others laugh upon hearing it and your love for children and others have ministered to me over the years. Your words of encouragement brought hope and your gentle (yet mighty) spirit reached people in powerful ways. You are loved dearly by all of us who miss you!! We rejoice knowing that you are now walking with the King on streets of gold and worshipping Him in the most beautiful place. I love you lots!!! - til we meet again.
Mildred Colon-Santiago
July 15, 2008
Johnny,Ana and Family
I can remember growing up together and every time that we seen each other we would talk about the blessings that the good Lord gave us "OUR KIDS". They our the greatest gift that God let us borrow until he want them back. So we know that that Sophia is with her great loving grandma, Senora Pachita. Sophia's family and friends will always have the great memories of her 27 years that she left behind for us and no one can takes those away from us. The kindess gesture is that now the world has a speacial ANGEL named SOPHIA. My thoughts and prayer will be with Sophis"s loving family that God will guide though the healing process.
CON MUCHO AMOR SIEMPRE
MILDRED COLON SANTIAGO
Mari Diaz
July 15, 2008
Dan, Johnny, Ana & girls
Our prayers are with you all. I praise God that Sophie knew the Lord and is now in His presence. Take comfort in that. We love you very much. If there is anything we can do for you, just call.
Love Manuel & Mari Diaz
Alma (Mita) Narvaez
July 15, 2008
I'm so sorry for your loss. You are in my prayers....
Tina Smith
July 15, 2008
To my family,
I'm still believing for ressurection! and The greatest testimony yet. My faith has not weaverd and through all this we will really be known as "Faith Builders" In this time of life may we continue to rejoice and be glad in our Lord Jesus Christ for He is great and worthy to be praised. You guys are more than family and I love you all to the fullest! God bless and may he keep on blessing and showing you His many signs and wonders yet to come!
Orlando and Miranda Diaz
July 15, 2008
To Johnnie, Ana, Damaris, Margarita, and the entire extended family and your friends,
The right words are hard to come by in talking about the loss of Sophia. For us, it feels too early, but for God, the time had come for her homecoming.
Sophia, you are immensely loved and you brought so much joy with you everywhere you went. Your bright smile is probably one of the first things anyone thinks of when they think of you. Thank you for helping to make my childhood memories so happy. We love you and look forward to seeing you again.
Jenny Gardana
July 15, 2008
To Johnny and Ana,
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. My deepest thoughts and prayers are with you and all the families who will miss Sofia so much, especially her husband Dan. Remember Jesus's words, "I am the resurrection, and the life: he that believedth in me, though he were dead, yet shall he live!" John 11:25 And I Thessalonians 4:13,14. "But I would not have you to be ignorant, brothers, concerning them which are asleep, that you sorrow not, even as others which have no hope. For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so them also which sleep in Jesus will God bring with him." Comfort yourselves in these words for they are a promise from your heavenly Father!
I love you guys!
Jenny Gardana-Galarza
JoAnne Diaz
July 15, 2008
Sophia has been a close friend to me since childhood..years passed that we lost contact, but when I saw her again, it was a true blessing, We laughed we talked, it was great knowing her..Her family I have loved as my own., I will keep them in my prayers. And to her husband, I am deeply sorry... May God shower you all with His many blessing and give you stength during this diffcult time. We will see her again!.. Love you..
Camellie Zovar
July 15, 2008
Sophie,
I never got a chance to say goodbye, I don't think I would have even if I was given the chance. This is not goodbye, but see you later. Because this is not the end, it is just the beginning.
You took me in as one of your own sisters. I always felt loved when I was around you. You were always such an encouragement to my life. You always pushed me to discover God's best in my life, and I could never thank you enough for that. I have so may wonderful memories with you, I am so sad that we won't have the opportunity to make more.
Thank you for taking me to my first concert, Celebrating with me when I made it to Nationals, talking with me late into the night, you stood beside me in my wedding, bought me my first piece of lingerie, and you took the time to give me valuable marriage advice. I love you for all these things and more.
You were that person who lit up all of our lives from the inside out. My life is better because you were in it. I miss you so much!!
See you later my dear beautiful Sophie!
Love with all of my heart,
Camellie
Theresa Crump
July 15, 2008
To Dan and Martinez Family,
I want you to know that I love you and you are in my prayers. I pray for miracles, continued peace, love and comfort for such a time as this. One of the precious memories I have of Sophia is her beautiful smile.
God Bless,
Kathy and Dave Stankiewicz
July 15, 2008
Johnny, Ana and Family,
We were deeply saddened when we heard of Sophia's passing. Our deepest sympathy to all of you and to Sophia's husband. Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Meli Perez/ Familia Perez
July 15, 2008
I knew Sophia from many many years ago and just recently saw her at the Woman's Confrence. God gave me the privelege to see her one last time to remind me of her kindness and strong faith in God. I got to hug her and kiss her. Now I'll just wait to see her again in heaven!
To her husband and Family:
God will provide the strength and peace you need to move on. Dan you have a huge calling from God. Continue to work for God carrying Sophie in your heart.
Michelle Torres
July 15, 2008
Dearest Sophia,
You have left an indelible mark on me, and my family forever. Your love for life, and your servants heart is what will always stick with me. Mainly your desire to work with the children, my son Dominic always loved going into Jumpstart when you were teaching, you made it so each child experienced the love of Christ on an individual basis. Your testimony has reached many already, and many will come into the kingdom because of the annointed legacy you left behind for us, I know you have a few more jewels in that beautiful crown. I luv you and thank you for teaching all what a difference we can make by serving others.
Jonathan Marko
July 15, 2008
Sophia will always be the 'fireball' to me. Her energy and friendship will be missed greatly by my wife and I.
See you soon Sophie!
Gina Smith
July 15, 2008
To Danny and Family,
I love you guys so much. I am greatful for the time i've known Sophie and I am still believing for your miracle! With God all things are possible! keep your head up Danny! i love you! Y Dios te bendiga siempre!
Manny Escalera
July 15, 2008
Hey im not really good at this stuff cause im to busy making some one laugh by acting a mess.. lol but, I just wanted to say to the family our prayers are with you and thank you for sharing Sophie with us!! I liked making Sophie laugh in the body of a 11 year old she still laughed like one too.. I loved it. Sophie thanks for letting me mess with your hair! I aprove!!( Inside joke) and thanks for being real and a great friend to my wife, I have Ms. Stephanie over a couple weeks ago and we watched and old X8 video with you and Mari being on the "Maury" show.. You were so funny!! I didnt think you being gone would make me so sad cause im happy for you being with The King and walking on streets of gold and living worry free. But we miss you and cant wait to see you there Love you girl!
Mari Rosado
July 15, 2008
Sophia is my cousin, my sister (our parents raised us so close), and my best friend--my children's love for her is beyond measure--My daughter Taliyah calls Dan and Sophia her "Stepparents" hehehe! I went thru a really hard time this past year, and even when I felt like I couldn't do it anymore, she was there to lift me back up, always encouraging!! As I sat here and watched over these last couple of weeks--God showed me how ONE heart has touched SO MANY and brought everyone in UNITY! I love Dan and Sophia with all my heart---Titi Ana and Tio Johnny, Damaris, Mita, and Lisette--Remember that the JOY of the LORD is your STRENGTH!!! About a month ago we were talking about our dogs that passed away whom we loved so dearly--without a shadow of a doubt she is dancing around with MACHO--Sophie can you give KUMBA a huge hug for me too---I will see you later--Love you Honey Bunny!!!
Yolanda Abner
July 15, 2008
May God's peace rest upon your family.
Ms. Danielle Rogers
July 15, 2008
To Dan and Family!
I love you, am praying for you and support you in such a time of transition!
Juan Negron
July 15, 2008
What to say about my little Fofia. I can sum it all up in one word, AWESOME. The influence in my christian life and influence in MANY other people lives is just AWESOME to me. The thing I love about Sophia, no matter what event she was at, be it family or social, she never made you think she was sick or in pain. She always would laugh with you, tell jokes and praise God as if nothing was wrong with her. I am so glad we have grown even closer in the past years and I will surely miss you. No need to Rest In Peace girl. Shout for joy and dance in heaven cause you are healed! I love you PRIMA!!!!
James&Pershona LeBourgeois
July 15, 2008
Dear Dan and Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you all. PSALMS 116:15-"Precious in the sight of the LORD is the death of his saints". we will continue to pray for you.
Joel and Nikki Diaz
July 15, 2008
Dear Gokey and Martinez family,
Our deepest sympathies for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
We will see her again!
-
Stephanie Williams
July 15, 2008
My thoughts and prayers are with her family and closest friends.
Danny,
Thank you for sharing Sophie with us. Your praise, faith and strength is beyond measure. Stay at peace my friend. ?
† Keeping the Faith †
maggie lopez
July 15, 2008
To Dan, the Martinez family and the Gokey family,
We love you all so much! I will miss Sophie's smile, laughter and praising God next to me every service. I thank God that He has put so much faith in you all and that He shows us that we can be strong even during the times we don't want to have the strength.
To my friend Sophia...I love you and will miss more than anyone will know. I know that your heart and spirit were so great that they could not be contained in any physical body. I love you mama...I see you dancing girl!
Marci Hurtado
July 15, 2008
I work with Lissette in Washington, D.C. We are all so sorry to hear about your family's loss. Your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Nick Nicholas
July 15, 2008
Dan,
My name is Nick, and I never got much of a chance to talk with you two, but if there is anything either myself or Christine can do for you, please do not hesitate to ask. I know you may be leaving the duplex, but we are still willing to help in anyway we can. God Bless.
Joe Rivera
July 15, 2008
Sophie!!! I will miss you!! You will always be remembered!! I can still remember clear as yesterday when we use to skip class to eat breakfast at UWM, and to hear you and Mita’s crazy stories such as the time that crazy guy followed you off the bus, etc. Your heart, smile, love, and happiness helped show me a different part of life. You are physically not here but your ever remaining impact and spiciness will remain. To the Martinez and Gokey family, I am sorry to hear about this great loss, a wonderful daughter, sister, wife, and friend. God grant you comfort during this difficult time of adjustment. Know that we will all be together once again. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Heriberto and Eva Diaz
July 14, 2008
To Johnnie, Ana, Dan, Damaris, Margarita, and everyone in the Martinez and Gokey Families,
We were visiting family in Puerto Rico when we received the sad news. Our hearts ache for you. Sophia was truly beautiful - spiritually and physically. We will treasure our memories of her charm and warmth, her smile and her laughter. We pray that you will find comfort in knowing that Sophia is now in God's tender embrace. Our bodies are frail, but love is everlasting. Please know that we are praying for you, and also know that we are here if there is anything we can do to help you in any way.
With our love and prayers,
M. Negron
July 14, 2008
Sophie,
I am sorry I wasn't there to say good-bye. Though there were so many miles between us the love that I have for you has never changed. Girl, I'm gonna miss you. I know that wherever you are, you are pain free and at peace. I love you Sophie.
To Dan, TiTi Ana, Tio Juan, Damaris, Margarita, and Lisette:
I am sorry that I can't be there to support you in your time of pain. Sophia will be greatly missed, but her spirit of love and joy will live on in all our hearts. I love you all, and please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
Linda, Kathy, Tori & Alec Bradshaw
July 14, 2008
To the family of our "Ms Sophia":
We were so so sad and heartbroken to learn of your terrible loss! It was a great blessing to have entrusted our children to her loving care, and we remember best that wonderful wide smile she gave everyone. Please know that we will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers, and always keep Sophia in our warmest memories.
with deepest condolences,
Maria Iwinski (Velez)
July 14, 2008
Johnny, Ana and Families,
I am very so sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter.
My prayers are with you all.
Lynne Wofford
July 14, 2008
I didn't have the pleasure of knowing Sophia, but I work with some of her friends and I heard nothing but great things about her. I was privileged to have prayed for her. My prayers are with her family.
Jacquelin Blackhawk
July 14, 2008
Dear Martinez-Gokey family,
My deepest sympathies for your loss. I was blessed to have had the chance to work with Sofia this past school year. I enjoyed working with her and loved hearing her talk about her family and her dog....especially the new dog. She was so full of energy and love and will be truly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jacquelin Blackhawk (formally Santiago) & family
Dana Pedersen
July 14, 2008
I remember Sophie so fondly. She is an incredibly radiant person, and she made a lasting impression on me as a teenager. I feel privileged to have known her and had her to look up to as an example of strong faith in God. I will always remember her devotion to the Lord, her sense of humor, and her zest for life.
To Daniel:
I can't find the words to express what I feel for you. I am so sorry. Cling to the Lord, my brother. Know that I'm praying for you everyday and I trust that God will look after you all the days of your life.
To the Martinez, Gokey, and Santiago Families:
My deepest condolences. My heart breaks for you. May the God of All Comfort grant you peace and strength and hope for the future.
Thank you God for the freedom and rest you have given Sophie. Help us all to press on until we see her again.
Jacquelin Blackhawk
July 14, 2008
Dear Martinez-Gokey family,
I'm so very sorry to hear about Sofia. I loved working with her. She had such a wonderful spirit about her and so friendly. I will miss her dearly and continue to keep Dan, and your whole family in our prayers & thoughts. I'm very blessed to have had the privileage to know her and work with her.
God Bless,
Jacquelin Blackhawk (formally Santiago) and family
Sonia Gonzalez
July 14, 2008
My dear little Fofi... i remember dearly how you cried at my wedding twenty years ago... thinking i was going away forever... how we hugged with reassurance that i wasn't. i'm glad i didn't... for it truley was a beautiful thing for me to see you and your sisters grow up to such wonderful women of God... i am so proud of you - your strong spirit - your spunkiness - your sweet smile - your laugh. Fofi, i miss you so much already... but i know you are in a better place - feeling like you've never have before - i can only imagine... Congratulations on your promotion! It's not good bye... SEE YOU LATER, Honey! Luv You.
your cuz,
Sonia.
SAMUEL DIAZ
July 14, 2008
Dan, Johnny, Ana and the rest of the Family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
We are all aware of how GOD works. He has brought us out to this world. Not ours, but yet he set us here for a purpose. We work for GOD. Assignments are given to each one of us. Sophia's assignment was just completed sooner than some of us have had. She has done her job and it was done well. Behind all jobs there is a pay and Sophia's pay was to be Happy, Free of hurt. GOD has called her to come home and she can now enjoy the fruits of Peace in Heaven.
GOD BLESS YOU ALL.
LOVE, SAMUEL
Neysha Rivera
July 14, 2008
Sophie was an angel on earth. There was a time I wasn't strong in my walk with the Lord. She never gave up on me. Sophie was like my sister, and she will be missed. I am at peace knowing she is made whole again. I thank God everyday that he put Dan and Sophie in each others lives. I love you and miss you Soph.
Angie Edwards
July 14, 2008
Dear Daniel and the family of Sophia,
Our family received the news of Sophia's "graduation" to heaven with much sadness. Sophia was my daughter’s teacher at Kindercare when Zhana was three. Zhana loved Sophia. We also had the privilege of having Sophia watch Zhana and Stephen occasionally at our home. They always had such a great time when she was around. She genuinely seemed to have so much fun with them. We will all miss her - this little angel of God. I bet all the other angels in heaven are welcoming her with open arms. I remember one of Sophia's sayings "I am off duty now". Yes, God has taken her off duty and she could now rest with Jesus.
Much love from the Edwards family.
Dawn, John & Sofia DeCicco
July 14, 2008
Dearest Mrs. Sophia,
You are a wonderful teacher with a kind heart and loving ways. Our daughter, Sofia, my husband and I will miss you and your warm smile for a long, long time to come. Thank you for all that you have done to help our Sofia grow and may you continue to watch over the children at KinderCare from above. God bless your family and help us all through this great loss.
Sophia, always smiling working with the kids! :)
Kristy Rohde
July 14, 2008
Dear Martinez-Gokey Family,
I can't express to you enough how much Sophie has touched my life in the past years that I've known her, especially this last year working with her daily and seeing her big heart for the children. Everyday, she encouraged me in my faith and challenged her own. She was a warrior and taught me with her real life committment to her faith, no matter what the cost. I'm a better person and my faith is strengthened from being close to her. Thank you for raising such a beautiful daughter and praise God that her heart was fixed when she was a baby so that so many of us could enjoy her 27 years her. I love you all and will miss my dear Sophia deeply.
You will constantly be in my thoughts and prayers!
Love you,
Kristy
A ''Friend''
July 14, 2008
To All:
From the beginning Sophia, was blessed with more time than what was planned...She sought continually what Gods plans for her life were..when all along she was in Gods Hands.
Life, not many get out alive..and few: touch the masses as Sophia has..
And we Praise the lord for that..
Iris Bramel
July 13, 2008
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008
Jason and Angie Cicero
July 13, 2008
Dear Dan, Anna, Johnny and family, We are reminded of the great worth and power of every life as today the world feels like a different place with Sophia not here with us. Her radiant spirit and loving heart enriched our lives. Her love for our children, who she cared for for two years in our home, demonstrated her anointing for working with children and her gift of creativity. Gabe and Bella, and all the children who had the privilege to know Sophia, will carry the love she imparted to them in their hearts forever. Sad as we are, we rejoice that she is with Jesus as we all long to be some day. May yours be the peace of God which passes all understanding. We love you, and Sophia's name will always be spoken in our house with the joy of remembrance . She taught our daughter to sing the song, "Somewhere Over the Rainbow" at the top of her lungs. She taught all of us to smile and look at life with childlike eyes. We will keep singing and living and loving, but will never forget Sophia - her heart, her real heart, was perfect and whole.
Jessica Bzdawka
July 13, 2008
Dan,
You are in our thoughts and in our prayers..I know God will bring you peace through this time of sadness. We love you..take care and be strong for Sophie..?
Aaron, Jennifer, Nikolas and Logan Stamm
July 13, 2008
Dan and Family-
I can only imagine the heartache you're feeling. Sophia was a wonderful friend, always smiling, always laughing and she taught the kids so much! It was a privilege to know her. Thank you for letting her be a part of our lives. She will hold a special place in our hearts.
Lisa Gutierrez
July 13, 2008
My heart goes out to all of Sophie's family and relatives. There are no words to express the void that will be left in the lives of everyone who knew and loved Sophie; including mine.
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