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Thomas Frelka Obituary

Frelka, Thomas E. Age 73, of Bowler, Wisconsin, died Wednesday, September 22, 2010, at Langlade Hospital, Antigo. He was born February 21, 1937, in Milwaukee, the son of the late Erwin and Alice (Jankowski) Frelka. On August 13, 1960, Thomas was united in marriage to Judith Stroh-kirch in Milwaukee. She survives. Thomas was a US Army veteran. He was employed at several banks in Milwaukee as a bank controller, retiring in 2001. Upon retirement, the couple moved to Bowler. Thomas loved being 'Up North' and loved being in the outdoors where he spent much of his time. He also enjoyed gambling and fishing. Survivors include his wife, Judith; two children, Gregory (Robyn) Frelka and Kelly (Glen) Pedersen, all of Milwaukee; four grandchildren, Nathan, Cassidy, Jake and Lindsey; and two brothers, Fred (Diane) Frelka, Mukwonago and Jim (Diane) Frelka, Oregon. A Memorial Mass will be held at 11:00 AM, Saturday, September 25, 2010, at St. Joseph Holy Family Catholic Church, Phlox. Rev. David Barrett will officiate. Visitation will be held from 10:00 AM until the time of service at the church. Schmidt-Schulta Funeral Home, Birnamwood, 715-449-2688, is assisting the family with funeral arrangements. The family guestbook and condolences may be found at schmidtschulta.com.

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Published by Milwaukee Journal Sentinel on Sep. 24, 2010.

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Kim (Bauman) Slusar

September 27, 2010

Kelly and Family,
I am very sorry to hear the news of your dad's passing. Please know your family is close in my heart and prayers.

With Deepest Sympathy,

Angie Schlemm

September 27, 2010

Mrs. Frelka, Kelly, Greg & family, Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Many fond memories as a kid as our families spent so much time together. Our love to all of you in this difficult time.

Ken & Deanna Fetha

September 27, 2010

We want you all to know how much Tom will be missed by us also.We have so many wonderful memories,celebrations,vacations,golfing we shared together and mostly all the laughter. You now will have your own angel guarding you and your family. God's Blessings to all of you and let the great memories bring you all through this sad time. We cherish your friendship. Call me anytime. Love,

Jeff Doty

September 25, 2010

My deepest sympathy to Mrs. Frelka, Greg, Kelly and your families. When They lived in Milwaukee I would periodically drop in unannounced and Mr. and Mrs. Frelka would always welcome me. I'm truly saddened with the news of his passing.

Laura and Dean Franza

September 25, 2010

Our deepest sympathy to you, Judy, and family. We will always remember Tom as a friend through the years in FMS and a great boss at National Savings. I am so sorry we couldn't make it to the service.

Chuck Flagge

September 24, 2010

Tom's Family:
Sorry to hear of the loss of Tom. I was a classmate of Tom at Don Bosco H.S. and have and will always have fond memory of him. "Twinlketoes" gave us many thrills on the basketball court. It seems to me that he always had a big smile -- no matter what.

May God bless you and Tom. I will keep him in my prayers.

Chuck Flagge Don Bosco Class of '55

Tammy & Scott Groshek

September 24, 2010

Glen Kelly and Family,
We are saddened to hear about the unexpected passing of your dad. Its a tough one when a parent/loved one passes. if there is anything we can do, you know we are here for you.

Ken and Linda Braun

September 24, 2010

Judy and Family: Linda and I want to express our deepest sympathy in the loss of Tom...the news saddened us deeply. We will always recall the fun we had together as FMS chronies.
Ken and Linda Braun.

Kathe Garbarek

September 24, 2010

Dear Kelly & Family, Please accept my deepest sympathy's, may God watch over all of you during this time. Kelly your dad will watch over you forever. Love Kathe Garbarek (Barge) xo

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