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Felicia Neldner
March 19, 2021
Years have gone by but your friends and family will never forget your memory that lives in within us all!
March 29, 2012
Many blessings to your family. You are in our hearts and we know you will keep Tom's light shining.
New London,WI
Therese Vicenzi
March 29, 2012
I am so sorry that your family is enduring this pain. I know this pain well
as 30 years ago this April, that same river took my big brother and his fiance. Your loss is great and the suffering hard but in time I promise you the pain will heal and his life will always be remembered on this earth by everyone who loved him. Hold him Dear and celebrate the memories of his life from this day forward. 30 years and I still have people who knew my brother share their stories and fond warm memories as will your Beautiful Thomas. God Bless you Always.
March 28, 2012
Chloe,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Tim & Jan Boknevitz
Greenfield, WI
March 27, 2012
Bob, Shelly, Chloe, my prayers are with you. I believe that Uncle Don, Aunt Frannie, my mom and dad and all the other relatives have received him with open arms. I am so sorry for your loss. May God be with you and may you find comfort from your family and friends. God bless you all.
Love and Peace,
Always.
Annie
Howard Miller
March 27, 2012
Our hearts and thoughts go out to all of the Hecht clan, friends and neighbors who knew and love Tom. May your grief be eased by the warm loving support of everyone around you.
Katie Henry
March 27, 2012
Words cannot express how sad I am for all of you. I am praying that God sends you the strength you need and the peace you are seeking. I will always remember Tommy with that great, big smile of his!
jessica beaudry
March 26, 2012
Just like all of milwaukee my heart broke I prayed for them to find him alive but god wanted a different out come.now we have another angel in heaven.
Nicole Thayer
March 26, 2012
My heart goes out to you and your family. May you find comfort in peace through this all.
Colleen Rook
March 26, 2012
May you all find comfort in the love and support that's been surrounding you during this difficult time. None of us who've followed this story will forget Tom and the way our community banded together to search until he was found.
March 26, 2012
Bob and family, I prayed for you and your family during this most trying of times. May you now find peace in the Lord.
Monica Danley, Milwaukee, WI
Char & Steve Chick
March 26, 2012
our thoughts and prayers are with you. Tom was much loved...we saw all his family and friends on water street searching for him. What love that showed. What a blessing Tom was to all of you.
Claire Rydzik
March 26, 2012
My heart goes out to you in this sad time. I worked with Tom at the Yacht Club, and I will always remember his positive attitude and contagious smile. May he watch over all of us until we meet him again!
John & Shirley Frederick
March 26, 2012
Bob and Shelly, Our thoughts and prayers were with you and your family every step of the way and we will continue to keep you in our hearts as you deal with the difficult times ahead. We wish you peace and healing.
March 26, 2012
We did not know Tom or any of Tom's family or friends, but heard about this awful tragedy from the news. Our hearts are broken in a million pieces for all of you. You are all in our deepest thoughts and prayers.
Lisa Frechette
March 26, 2012
Praying that you find relief and rest in Jesus during this time of grief and sadness. May you feel the healing touch of every thought and prayer that is sent with love and sympathy from friends. May the kindness and compassion of friends comfort you. And may the unfailing love of Jesus bring peace to your heart.
Sherry Bell
March 26, 2012
You have all been in my thoughts + prayers everyday. I wish I could do something to help with the loss.
Susan LeSage
March 26, 2012
Shelly,Bob,and Chloe, Please know that my heart aches for you. You have been in my prayers daily. In our work we have learned that healing can be a bumpy road at times. I hope you will find comfort in the warmth of your memories. Tom is safe now. My deepest sympathy and prayers, Sue LeSage
carolyn Hampton-Burrell
March 26, 2012
You have my deepest sympathy.
Ginny Russell
March 25, 2012
You are in my thoughts and my prayers. May God hold you all in His loving arms and keep you secure during these days to come.
Jan Williams
March 25, 2012
You are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Yvonne Ondrejicka
March 25, 2012
My deepest heartfelt sympathies to Mr.& Mrs. Hecht, Chloe and Ali. Tommy was a good friend of my daughter "Jenny O" and through her, her father and I have been fortunate enough to share some good times with her friends. I remember Tommy from Jenn's going away party just a few weeks ago and he was smiling away. He was a special person and I took part in the search via social media and radio to find Tommy. We were all devastated by the tragic news/outcome. I hope that all your happy memories and times of Tommy will sustain all of you in order to heal you in this time of so much sorrow. He may have had a short life but I believe that he had already lived a full happy life with all of family and friends that loved him.
Christie Larscheidt
March 25, 2012
Dave and I met Tom at Steins when he was a teenager. He was always such a sweet guy and always had a big smile when he would talk with me. I remember him being at our wedding, seeing him at parties with Mike and Tiffany and being apart of the important steps in his friends lives. He was just full of joy! Tom will be greatly missed. My prayers go out to all of you.
Felicia Neldner
March 25, 2012
My heart goes out to Bob, Shelly, Chloe, Ali and the rest of the families along with all of us friends whom all loved and cared for him. Tommy will always live on in each and every one of us. Through are stories, memories and hearts. I am truly sorry for your loss, may time ease the pain.
Lori
March 25, 2012
To the Hecht Family.So Sorry for your tragic loss.You are in my prayers at this difficult.He will live on in spirit, in your heart, and all the wonderful memories you shared with him.He is at peace with God. And one day you will be reunited with him for eternity!!!
Jayne Blasier
March 25, 2012
My heart breaks for all of you. Tommy will be greatly missed.
tammy ebert
March 25, 2012
Our family is praying for everyone who loved Tom. All though you do not know us we have followed and prayed with you as search efforts continued. Our hearts break with you and we will continue to pray. Until you get to see your dear Tom again look up to the "heavens" for your strength, God will give it to you this I promise! Blessing's from the family of Tammy Ebert
tolonda hunt
March 25, 2012
Thoughts and prayers are with you!
Kathe Gaarde
March 25, 2012
I hold a place of prayer for the Hecht family and all involved.
Noell Buelow
March 25, 2012
I met Tom in High School, and no matter how much time had passed between us seeing each other, it was like no time had passed at all, He was always quick with a Hug and that charming smile. I am so sorry for you loss, but thank you for sharing Tom with me. I am honored to have known him...my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Jon & Ellen Pliska
March 25, 2012
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Hecht family.
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