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Carol Aceveda Obituary
She was preceded in death by her grandparents, Billy and Fanny Friday, father Roy Aceveda, brothers David, Manuel, Kenny, Billy and sister Della. She is survived by her mother, Gladys, husband, John Forchemer, brothers Roy (Dinah), Paul (Marcia) & Leon (Rhonda), sisters Deena, Macaria and Bonita (Darren) and numerous cousins, nieces, and nephews. She loved her eight children: Jim Duncan Jr., Desiree, Michelle (Mark), Derek (Tamiko), Jon (Claudine), Marc, Caron, and John Forchemer Jr. She cherished her 13 grandchildren: Hunter, Chelsey Jean, Colton, Chad, Stephan, Ashley, Aaliyah, Kaylah, Riley, Hazel, Madeline, Audrey, Jon Baird Jr. and one great grand-daughter, Adilynn.
Carol attended Sheldon Jackson College in Sitka and graduated from the University of Alaska Southeast with a bachelor's degree in business administration. She was an entrepreneur and the owner of small businesses including the ANAC Cache, an Alaska Native arts gift shop on Franklin Street, and two restaurants, "Duncan's", downtown and in the valley. She was an accomplished grant writer, business consultant, past chairwoman of the Democratic party in Juneau, and proud of her involvement with native organizations including Tlingit & Haida and Goldbelt, Inc.
When Carol was growing up, she was known for her athletic ability and it was not uncommon for her to swim between the islands in Kake. She was a cheerleader, track star and beautiful artist who loved painting with watercolors. She was trained to cook by her father Roy, a chef at the Baranof Hotel for 17 years, and enjoyed making Filipino food and baking breads, cakes, and cookies. She was a devout Christian, had a lovely smile, infectious laugh, and a penchant for shoes and boots from ShoeFly.
A vigil will be held on Friday, May 1st at 5:30 pm at the Cathedral of the Nativity of the Blessed Virgin Mary located at 416 Fifth Street. On Saturday, May 2nd, a Mass of Resurrection will be held at the Cathedral at 10 am which will be followed by a reception at the Filipino Community Hall. Burial will be in Kake on Sunday, May 3rd.
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Memories and Condolences
for Carol Aceveda
Diann
April 23, 2023
Carol will always be the most generous, caring and loving best friend. She has left a legacy of love to everyone that knew her. I think of her so often. But I know she´s in heaven with Jesus in paradise. It´s just that I miss her.
Diann Morrison-Wilson
Woodrow (Woody) Morrison, Jr.
April 23, 2020
I met Carol at Sheldon Jackson School, she and my sister Diann (Morrison) Nelson were close friends. I was attracted to her friendly, out-going nature, also she was a good dancer and I really enjoyed dancing. After High School, she and my sister remained close friends, I saw her only a couple of times after high school but she was still that same out-going friendly, fun-loving person. I think that anyone who knew her was better for having known her. My deepest condolences to her family.
Woodrow (Woody) Morrison
April 23, 2019
I met Carol at Sheldon Jackson Highschool in 1957. I liked her immediately, in fact I had a "crush" on her: she was so outgoing and bubbly, much like my sister Diann. She and Diann became life-long friends. Carol was undoubtedly a most unforgettable character. Upon learning of her "Going Home", I experienced a deep sense of sadness yet another feeling of happiness to have been included in her circle of friends. I offer my deepest condolences to her family at their loss.
May 27, 2015
Aceveda family,
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I hope you find comfort in John 11 : 25 and God's promise that we will see our loved ones again.
Mary Lou Spartz
May 14, 2015
Those of us lucky to be acquainted with Carol can not help but feel sadness at her passing. She was a real treasure to everyone who knew her and a beautiful, loving and smart lady both inside and out. My condolences to her family and friends. We are a little better for having known her.
Doris Coe
May 14, 2015
My deepest sympathy is extended the family of Carol Aceveda. Please read 1 Corinthians 1:3. "May you have undserved kindness and peace from God our Father and the Lord Jesus Christ."
Mary Lou Spartz
May 12, 2015
Those of us fortunate enough to have our lives touched by this Carol can not help but feel sad she is gone from us. She was a beautiful and remarkable person in every way. We are all a little better for having known her.
Woodrow Morrison Jr.
May 9, 2015
The Carol Jean's family. I just learned from my younger sister that Carol Jean went home. I was deeply saddened by the news for I too met Carol at Sheldon Jackson in 1958. She was a Freshman and I was a Junior. She was always so up-beat, smiling and laughing. Whenever I was in her presence she made me feel special. She and I remained friends for nearly 6 Decades. The only way I can describe her: she had a light in her and made everyone within that light feel special.
Misha Plotnick
May 8, 2015
Carol was a lovely woman inclusive and kind, we compared notes on parenting so many years ago. Carol had a way of encouraging that is rare and we spent a lot of time laughing at little things. She was a bright and loving woman and she will be missed.
May 7, 2015
Aceveda Family,
Im sorry for your loss. Death is difficult thing to cope with. "Now may the Lord of peace himself give you peace constantly in every way." (2 Thessalonians 3:16)
May 7, 2015
A very Beautiful and Sweet lady for ever...she will be missed by our community...
So very sorry for your families loss...
Susan
Scott Larson
May 7, 2015
John, sorry for your loss
May 5, 2015
Artists are a gift, they just know how to touch our hearts forever!
My deepest sympathy to the Aceveda family. May God of all comfort, give you strength and peace.
( Psalm 29:11)
~DH, Reynolds
Bernie
May 4, 2015
My condolences to the family of Carol. She was unique in her own way. I meet her a few years ago through my sisters. We would say hi & little by little I got to know her. We would mostly talk about fashion. And her fashion was one of a kind. I found out through time what a nice lady she was. She would take the time to chit chat with you. And always smiling. Even though we weren't close I liked Carol for who she was. My condolences to family I'm truly sorry for your loss. May Carol rest in peace.
Marilyn Friday
May 4, 2015
You will always be remembered for your grace and dignity. You will be missed.
N C
May 4, 2015
I am sorry for the loss of this beautiful individual. She will be greatly missed. May the God of all comfort be with your family during this difficult time. Please take care.
~Sincerely Gwen~
May 3, 2015
Dear Aceveda Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. May you find comfort in God's promise to end all pain, suffering and even death. (1 Cor. 15:26)
1986 Carol dressed in Tlingit regalia
Diann Morrison
May 3, 2015
Little did I know, as a young 13 year old that God was going to give me a gift, a friend for life - Carol Aceveda.We met at Sheldon Jackson our freshman year. This friendship spanned many years. She won the Competent Christian citizenship Award which was the most coveted award the school gave out. When she won it, it had been 15 years since a student received this honor. She never preached Jesus, she didn't have to because she lived like him. She was always kind, considerate and compassionate. She won the Alaskan artist of the year award one year. and She was a genius as far as her artwork went. She was keenly intelligent, yet never made any person feel inferior to her. She made my daughter, Colleen one of the most beautiful wedding gowns you would have ever seen. Colleen still has the dress after more than 25 years. Then she also re-designed my daughter Collette's wedding dress and catered the reception, because Carol's hors d'oeuvres were so superior, it was a very high-classed reception. Our loyalty to each other was unquestionable, she was always my hero. Her children, Jimmy, Desiree, Michelle, Derek, Jon, Marc, Caron, and John Forchemer, Jr. were the most loved of anything in her life and always the focus of her care. Always wanting to be a role-model for them, always preparing them to face life, and be successful and to have the highest integrity, character and concern for the well-being of others. She was my teacher, my confident, my hero! We were very competitive. Especially in high school sports, track especially. Fierce competitors but always glads when either one of us would win the medal. We both love basketball. Especially the Gold Medal Tournament. Me cheering for Hydaburg and her, Kake. We loved to dance and had a lot of fun going out. She was quick-witted and we always had laughter in our friendship! Even when things were despairing we would find something to be grateful for. I never knew anyone with such superior intelligence. I had the highest respect because of her wisdom. I could tell even as a little girl, her wisdom was way beyond her years. Last Sunday during church services, I saw Carol running down the streets of gold in heaven both Carol and Jesus laughing. Yes, my friend, Carol, loved to laugh. I believe Jesus gave me this vision to comfort me, so now, to you, her children, I'm giving it to you, so that it will comfort you, as it did me. I won't say good-bye to my friend, Carol because she's too alive in my memories. I know, my daughters also grieve for they loved her, too. So my beloved friend, Carol, I will see you very soon in my next memory. You are always close to me in my thoughts...Your loving devoted friend, Diann Morrison
MaryAnn Hastings
May 2, 2015
I'm so very sorry for the loss of Carol. She was always a kind lady. Our deepest condolences to the Aceveda/Duncan Family from the Hastings Family.
Teresa Sarabia
May 2, 2015
I was so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
Deanne Antioquia
April 30, 2015
Prayers to the family...Carol was such an elegant lady. I know she will be greatly missed.
April 30, 2015
What a charming lady she was. Condolences to her family.....Darlene M Tyson
April 30, 2015
Hopefully the promise given at Isa 26:19 can comfort your family during a difficult time in your life . There's definitely hope for our future. And for our loved ones who sleep on death. Deepest sympathy
D Zura
April 30, 2015
May God Bless You All
Love the Family
Enjoyed Her company and knowledge
God Bless
Love and Prayers
D Zura
April 30, 2015
Sorry for your loss, may you find comfort in knowing that the Creator has your love one in his memory .Psalm 147:4
Paul and Dorothy Duncan
April 29, 2015
Our heartfelt condolences to the entire family. We have fond memories of Carol. Her lovely smile will always stay with us. With love to you all.
Paul and Dorothy Duncan
Marie
April 29, 2015
My deepest condolence goes out to the family during this difficult time. May God provide you with the strength and comfort you need as you cope with your loss. (Psalms 9:9)
Sandra Borbridge
April 29, 2015
Condolences to the family of Carol Jean Aceveda. I remember her from her days as a Sheldon Jackson student and cheerleader. Dad was teaching and coaching at SJ at that time. She will be missed. From John, Emma and Sandra Borbridge
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