Search by Name

Search by Name

James B. Clark

1926 - 2015

BORN

1926

DIED

2015

FUNERAL HOME

James Clark Obituary

James B. Clark

Chesapeake - Jimmy Clark, 88, passed away peacefully in his sleep in the early morning hours of Friday, January 2, 2015 at his Chesapeake home. James Burks Clark was born September 12, 1926 in Bessemer, Alabama to the town sheriff, William Oscar Clark, and his wife, Minnie Louise Hyfield. Jimmy's family moved to Norfolk, Virginia in 1941 and he became very active in the local sports scene. At 5'6 and 120 pounds soaking wet, Jimmy was a renowned boxer and won several titles and championships. When the call of war came, Jimmy answered and served his country as a U.S. Navy coxswain during WWII, seeing action in the Pacific, where he served on Eniwetok. Once back home, Norfolk Recreation Bureau Director J.T. Shelnutt saw Jimmy playing baseball at Dunn Field and, impressed with the boy, took him under his wing, helping him to get a job with the city. Jimmy had a tryout for the Norfolk Tars (Triple-A Team of the Yankees) but despite a brilliant tryout, he was turned down because of his small stature.

Jimmy was playing shortstop in a Pepsi-Cola fast pitch softball game when he met his sweetheart, Helen Evelyn Fentress. As Helen has asserted ever since, "diamonds really are a girl's best friend" (baseball diamonds, of course). Helen would go with her sister to the games where one day, Jimmy and Helen caught each other's eye. He shyly asked her to hold his jacket for the game. At the next game, he asked her to hold his wallet and invited her to the upcoming Memorial Day party at the Pepsi Pete Room. At the party, he asked her to go to Chic's Beach with him the following day. That afternoon, full of postwar enthusiasm for a new life and new future ahead, Jimmy proposed to Helen on their second date over lunch at Doumar's BBQ. Helen told Jimmy she would have to get to know him better, but before long, she knew this blonde-haired, blue-eyed boy was the only one for her. Jim and Helen were married between basketball and baseball seasons on March 20, 1948 at Burroughs Memorial Baptist Church on 38th Street with J.T. Shelnutt as best man. It was the only weekend of the year when there wasn't a game or practice of some kind. Their wedding made the local sports page.

Jimmy was a real star athlete whether in the boxing ring, on the football field, or on the baseball diamond. When he wasn't playing, he was coaching, mentoring and refereeing. Between working for the Norfolk Recreation League, training other boxers, refereeing Neptune football games, and coaching American Legion baseball (leading his post to win the State Championship in 1953), Jimmy was always very involved in local sports, with Helen as his most devoted cheerleader.

Jimmy was known for his quick wit and dry sense of humor. Once, while Jimmy was refereeing a Maury/Granby game, a famous Maury coach was frustrated with a call and yelled "Jimmy Clark, you stink!" The whistle blew and the flag was thrown. Jimmy marched the ball back 10 yards and quipped, "How do I smell from here?" The coach kicked the water cooler down the sideline.

Jimmy worked for the City of Norfolk for over 25 years as Assistant Real Estate Assessor. Following his retirement in 1971, he worked for Atlantic Permanent Savings and Loan and Virginia Beach Federal. Jimmy went on to start his own appraisal company, traveling all over the country to conduct appraisals. He taught classes at Tidewater Community College and seminars at the University of Virginia. He served as president of the Tidewater Chapter of the Society of Real Estate Appraisers.

A devoted husband of 67 years, anyone who saw Jim with his beloved Helen knows that Mr. and Mrs. Clark grew more in love as each year went by. Jim was a proud father to James M. Clark and his wife Jane (Little Rock, AR), Robert W. Clark, and Cynthia C. Dragas and her husband Greg Dragas. He was a wonderful "Pa" to his three grandchildren M. Gregory Dragas, James G. Dragas, and Annabelle D. Xanthos and her husband the Rev. Deacon Christopher Xanthos (Houston, TX), and to his two step-grandchildren Nicole P. Sanderlin and Gavin T. Sanderlin. Jim is predeceased by his parents, brother William Andrew Clark, and half-sister Violet Clark Knute.

Funeral services will be held Thursday, January 8 at H.D. Oliver Funeral Home, 1416 Cedar Road Chesapeake, VA 23322 at 11:00 am with interment at Forest Lawn Cemetery. The family will receive visitors at the funeral home on Wednesday, January 7 from 6:00 pm to 8:00 pm. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Jimmy's memory to The Alzheimer's Association or Guiding Eyes for the Blind. The family would especially like to thank Marian Cundiff and Mike Swann for their loving care.

In his youth, Jimmy Clark was an all-American boy who lived and breathed local sports. He grew into a man of strong principles, quiet and humble, with a twinkle in his eye and a way of making anyone laugh. He will be dearly missed.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Juneau Empire on Jan. 6, 2015.

Memories and Condolences
for James Clark

Sponsored by the family.

Not sure what to say?





4 Entries

January 8, 2015

Bob and Family.
We are sorry to hear of the passing of Mr. Clark. The few times I saw him he was always warm and compassionate.
May the love of family and friends help you through the days ahead and just remember:
If one should say to you that the soul perishes like the body - answer that the flower withers, but the seed remains.
Fondlay,
Laurie and Cliff Forrest

Tommy Chrislip

January 6, 2015

Sorry to hear about Mr Clark. He was a very special person. Always looked forward to him working our games

Robert Cherry

January 6, 2015

Sorry for your loss your family is in my prayers

January 6, 2015

Bobby Clark and I were schoolmates. I am sending my sincere sympathy on the loss of someone you held so dear. The tribute to Mr. Clark was wonderful and I loved how you shared with us the story of his life. Obviously, he was a special man. God Bless you all.

Showing 1 - 4 of 4 results

Make a Donation
in James Clark's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

Memorial Events
for James Clark

Jan

7

Visitation

6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments, Inc. - Chesapeake Chapel

1416 Cedar Road , Chesapeake, VA 23322

Jan

8

Funeral service

11:00 a.m.

H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments, Inc. - Chesapeake Chapel

1416 Cedar Road , Chesapeake, VA 23322

Jan

8

Interment

Forest Lawn Cemetery

VA

Funeral services provided by:

H.D. Oliver Funeral Apartments, Inc. - Chesapeake Chapel

1416 Cedar Road , Chesapeake, VA 23322

How to support James's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor James Clark's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more