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B.J. Kingdon Obituary

Kingdon, B.J., 87, passed away Sept. 3, 2013. He was born March 24, 1926. He was the co-founder and president of Law-Kingdon Architectural Firm, founded in 1967. He was preceded in death by his first wife, Sue Kingdon. He is survived by wife, Phyllis J. Kingdon; son, Reed Kingdon; daughters, Kristy (Ron) Simpson, Kasey Bell; step-daughter, Penny (Steve) Lawson; step-son, Glen (Stacey) Pearson; and 7 grandchildren and step-grandchildren. A memorial service will be held Friday, Sept. 6, 2013, 1 p.m. at Downing and Lahey East. Memorials have been established in his name with the Salvation Army, Kansas Humane Society, and Harry Hynes Memorial Hospice.

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Sep. 4 to Sep. 5, 2013.

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Debbie Coleman

September 6, 2013

Reed, I'm so sorry for your loss.

Jan Brandom

September 6, 2013

I loved B.J. and will miss him. He always had a smile and words of encouragement for me - my heart goes out to everyone in his family & his friends!

Becky Casmaer-Reyer

September 6, 2013

Reed and Kristy, my thoughts and prayers are with your family. I Have good memories of your dad growing up and being welcomed by your dad in your home. I'm so sorry for your loss and will be thinking of you both.

Kim Dugger Attwater

September 6, 2013

Phyllis, I am so sorry. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

September 6, 2013

Reed, I am so very sorry to hear about your father. He was a Great man that so many people looked up to. His memory will remain in the following years and may Blessings of his life keep you all strong.

Kim (Trout) Hall

September 6, 2013

Oh the memories I have of our families...what wonderful times we had! Sorry, I know that this loss is very hard. Find happiness in remembering the good times... My heart goes out to you...Reed, Kristy and Kasey...and all your families!

September 6, 2013

Kristy, Kasey, Reed. Very sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Your house was my 2nd family growing up and I have alot of good memories of both BJ and your mom Sue. Love you guys, Jayne Kern

Pat Greenway

September 5, 2013

Kristy & Kasey - My heartfelt condolances to both of you and to your family on your loss. Keep your memories close....it does help.

Yolie Seward

September 5, 2013

Dearest Kasey, I am so sorry to hear about the passing your Dad. My prayers and thoughts are you and your family. Yolie

Matthew Terribile

September 5, 2013

Kasey, I'm sorry to hear of your father's passing. I'm inspired reading about him.

Eugene Jacobs

September 5, 2013

Reed and Kingdon family, my deepest condolences for your loss and prayers for strength in this devasting time.

Larry & Brenda Bland

September 5, 2013

Phyllis, Brenda and I are so sorry to learn of B J's passing. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and the family during this time of sorrow.

Mick Thrasher

September 5, 2013

My dear friend Phyllis, B.J. was a person you immidiately liked. He was so friendly and could be very funny. Due to my grandson's wedding, I will be unable to attende the memorial service, but my thoughts will be with you.

Wayne Burns

September 5, 2013

Kasey, I am truly sorry for your loss. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Brea Scott

September 5, 2013

Kasey, So sorry to hear of your family's loss. Sharing the encouragement I once received - to continue telling and retelling the stories of your loved one, to continue sharing his life together.

Connie Armbrust

September 5, 2013

Sending thoughts and prayers for peace and strength to the family.

Sincerely,
Connie Armbrust
(friend and colleague of Kasey)

September 5, 2013

Phyllis, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I know you will miss him greatley. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Susie Mikesell

September 4, 2013

Kasey, Chris, Reed, Keisha, Ron, and Steve. You know how much I loved your dad. I always thought he was the best looking man and looked like John Forsyte. He always kept a sense of humor and kept us laughing. My fondest memory is hearing dice rolling in the early morning hours after a night of fun with Kasey my bestfriend. What the heck is that Kasey--"Oh just my parents playing backgammon". So when we hear thunder we will know what it is, just BJ and Sue playing some Backgammon. Kasey you know my dad and your parents are having a few Bloody Mary's right about now. My family and myself send our deepest sympathy and I will see you Friday. Love you all. Jill,Carky, Kylie, Taylee, and Jaycee

Richard Peters

September 4, 2013

Almost 60 years of best friendship with B.J. and Sue and Phylis..Profesionally we shared so much as well as socially..Our deepest sympathy and love to all the family.I will miss him.

Hans Turner

September 4, 2013

My thoughts are with you and your family today Kasey. Love you dear.

Peggy Fitzhugh

September 4, 2013

Kasey, My deepest sympathy to you and your family. While it is difficult to see beyond the sorrow today the wonderful memories of your father will comfort you tomorrow. Take care my dear friend.

Melissa Stewart

September 4, 2013

Kasey, I just heard the news. My heart goes out to you and your family. Sending you love, a huge hug and my prayers. I am certainly your dad was a wonderful man because he had you.

September 4, 2013

Kris & Ron, my sincere sympathy to you and your family, my thoughts and prayers to you all, Robin Kincannon

Susan Mize - Poulson

September 4, 2013

Kasey, I am so sorry

Melvin Eugene

September 4, 2013

Kasey, My condolences to you and your family. I hope you have a great celebration of his life on Friday. The stories you've shared says a lot about how he celebrated life.

Sue Ohde

September 4, 2013

Kasey, we traveled this path together. Know, as I, what we did as daughters was selfless and a true sacrifice from our heart, for the love of our parent. May the years of memories help sustain you as you say your final good bye. Take good care friend. Hugs

September 4, 2013

Shared many really great years with BJ and Sue.

He took over at ground zero and developed a foundation for continued growth in size and quality.

BJ and his family should be proud.

And, I am proudm of them!

Ed Law

Margaret Volpe

September 4, 2013

Kasey, we will share your pain and your sorrow with you. I am here for you always. He is at peace now. Margaret

Nicole Brown

September 4, 2013

I am sincerely sorry for your loss. Although we never met, I feel like I knew him from all of your wonderful stories. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care. - Nicky

Diane Cline

September 4, 2013

Phyllis, I am so sorry to learn of B J's death. Peace be with you,

Lisa Davis

September 4, 2013

May God's peace comfort you during this time and may you find joy in the memories of your loved one.

Law Kingdon employee

Elaine Harcourt

September 4, 2013

My thoughts & prayers are with Phyliss & the family at this difficult time. We will miss B.J.'s visits to the office & his calls. God bless you.

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