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Becky Kassner Obituary

Kassner, Becky L., 52, former Southwestern Bell customer service representative and Get Lit Candle Store manager, died Monday, April 19, 2010. Rosary/Vigil, 7 p.m., Wednesday, April 21; Funeral Mass, 10 a.m., Thursday, April 22, both at St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Church. Survivors: husband, Buddy; stepdaughter, Candace Allen (Jeff) of Wichita; parents, Joseph J. and Sandy Schermuly of Wichita; sisters, Lori Caylor (Merle) of Kansas City, MO, Nan Laird (Dennis), Julie Kiser (Bob) and Jill Hirschler (Daniel) all of Wichita; brothers, Joseph M. Schermuly (Pat) of Wichita, Andy Schermuly (Carrie) of Glendale, AZ and Chris Schermuly (Teresa) of Henderson, NV; grandchildren, Johnny, Jaycee, Caleb, Chace and Emalee; 5 nephews; 9 nieces; 9 great-nephews; 9 great-nieces; her dogs, Cooper and Sissy. Memorial established with Sedgwick County Zoo, 5555 W. Zoo Blvd., Wichita, KS 67212. Downing & Lahey Mortuary West. Tributes may be sent to the family via www.dlwichita.com

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Published by Wichita Eagle from Apr. 20 to Apr. 21, 2010.

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Patricia M Zaruba

April 14, 2025

Becky, I think of you often. I was playing pigs with my grandkids yesterday and thought of all the fun we had playing this game.

April 22, 2010

May God be with you and your family

April 21, 2010

Buddy, I just heard about Becky .....I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Randy Sullard

Rhonda Appelhans

April 21, 2010

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Our family has known Becky for years. She will be really missed.

Tricia Phillips

April 21, 2010

Thank you for sharing Becky with us, what an honor to care for her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Tricia Phillips RN CHPN Patient Care Manager Hospcie Care of Kansas

Larry Simmons

April 21, 2010

Buddy, May God be with you and yours ALWAYS. I am so sorry for your loss. I will miss her GREATLY

Mike Speer

April 21, 2010

Buddy, I am sorry to hear about your wife. I am praying for you and your family.

Smitty

April 21, 2010

Bud I think I can speak for all the WVDGA and KDGA golfers, "You are in our thoughts and prayers, we are sorry for your loss, God Bless you and your family"

Patsy Zaruba

April 21, 2010

Buddy & family,

Becky was such an inspiration for me and by helping me I am able to help others and her love for others lives on. You and her family made her the great woman she is, thank you for sharing her. Love ya, Patsy Zaruba

April 21, 2010

Very sorry to hear about Becky. She is in a Very special place now. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Austin and Jamie Hawkins (son of Keith and Mary Hawkins)
McCook, NE

April 21, 2010

Buddy, Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Condolences on your loss, Ron Convers and Family

Marline (Eason)Thorpe

April 21, 2010

Buddy,
I am so very sorry. I worked with Becky at SWB and had lots of fun together after hours as well. She was a great person and I feel honored to have known her. May God be with you and your family.

April 20, 2010

Buddy-So, So sorry for your loss. I know you were a caregiver for her. My thoughts are with you.
Janene Schroeder

April 20, 2010

Nan, Jill, Shannon, and family, my thoughts are with all of you. God Bless you all. Shana

April 20, 2010

Buddy,

I am so sorry for your loss. Be strong, my thoughts and prayers are with you.
God Bless.

Agie Schroeder

April 20, 2010

Buddy
I am sorry for your loss, you will be in my thoughts.
Randy mattingly

Joanne Lehr

April 20, 2010

Buddy,

I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband 3 mths ago and feel your pain. You will make it through this time of pain and sorrow. Thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers.

Alicia Ratliff

April 20, 2010

Buddy, Julie, & Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I remember Becky from our softball team playing days with Julie. She was always smiling and fun to be around. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

April 20, 2010

Joe, Sandy, Mark, Pat and family my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am very sorry for your loss. Sherry Striplin

Jackie (Lynn) Smith

April 20, 2010

Buddy,
I am so sorry for your loss. Becky and I sat next to each other in the business office back in the 80's. She was a beautiful person both inside and out. May your thoughts and memories continue to keep Becky in your heart forever. God Bless.

April 20, 2010

I am so very sorry for you loss, Buddy. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Chuck Gile

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